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So I think the conclusion to takeaway here is there are only a few ways you can win: a) tie down a good girl early in her youth and basically take a leading role. Force feed her the D and guide her. Sort of make her dependent on you b) Be a bad boy until 24-25. Then buckle down. Or at least maintain that appearance of being a bad boy
And surprisingly the pre med guy isnt a complete tool. He basically smoked and drank heavily until this/last year. He is incredibly smart and almost on the level of brilliant. Its kinda sad that women only come back to their stable guy once they feel that they have explored enough dicks/options
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: topdog82]
#22392748 - 10/17/15 10:46 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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topdog82 said: So I think the conclusion to takeaway here is there are only a few ways you can win: a) tie down a good girl early in her youth and basically take a leading role. Force feed her the D and guide her. Sort of make her dependent on you b) Be a bad boy until 24-25. Then buckle down. Or at least maintain that appearance of being a bad boy
And surprisingly the pre med guy isnt a complete tool. He basically smoked and drank heavily until this/last year. He is incredibly smart and almost on the level of brilliant. Its kinda sad that women only come back to their stable guy once they feel that they have explored enough dicks/options
you forgot c
call it quits let those bitches manipulate and use some other poor chump
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CHeifM4sterDiezL said: Haha well hope u find ur place in the world. Tell ur girl shit only gets wayyy worse. first semester LOL.
Thanks man, me too. Haha yeah everyone says the second and third years are hell. She's smart though so I'm not really worried about her
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Sorry for derailing your thread homie
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Thats all fine and dandy but Im tryna consistently get my nut. Im tryna have some vagina while not having to deal with the cons of the piece of flesh attached to it
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: topdog82] 1
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that goes back to people never knowing what they want point. Most people are really shallow dull people neway. Does she actually romantically love the guy or does she jus like the things he provides? people are so wrapped up in there own selfsh bullshit most of the time its fucking so dumb and then they wonder why they cant ever make deep connections with people and are constantly on a rollercoster of ups and downs involving relationships its fucking stupid.
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: topdog82]
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topdog82 said: Thats all fine and dandy but Im tryna consistently get my nut. Im tryna have some vagina while not having to deal with the cons of the piece of flesh attached to it
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: topdog82]
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shallow and dull
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topdog82
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CHeifM4sterDiezL said: that goes back to people never knowing what they want point. Most people are really shallow dull people neway. Does she actually romantically love the guy or does she jus like the things he provides? people are so wrapped up in there own selfsh bullshit most of the time its fucking so dumb and then they wonder why they cant ever make deep connections with people and are constantly on a rollercoster of ups and downs involving relationships its fucking stupid.
haha this post basically summed up america hahaha
and ya the love each other and dated 4+ years on and off. but i actually bumped into her last night. She basically said her main dude's life is "Boring". Basically routine. Drinks on the weekends 1-2 nights, but just does homework and works some hospital job on the weekdays. Wakes up at 5-6am works and then studies till about 10pm and sleeps
I dont get it. Honestly, if I were a girl, I would just find a stable and responsible guy. Then i would just lift a lot and focus on my looks and then whore out to that stable male until he settled down. why do women just squander golden men and oppurtunities
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: topdog82]
#22392792 - 10/17/15 10:56 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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topdog82 said: So I think the conclusion to takeaway here is there are only a few ways you can win: a) tie down a good girl early in her youth and basically take a leading role. Force feed her the D and guide her. Sort of make her dependent on you b) Be a bad boy until 24-25. Then buckle down. Or at least maintain that appearance of being a bad boy
And surprisingly the pre med guy isnt a complete tool. He basically smoked and drank heavily until this/last year. He is incredibly smart and almost on the level of brilliant. Its kinda sad that women only come back to their stable guy once they feel that they have explored enough dicks/options
This doesn't always work and is a terrible way to lead a relationship. At that rate you're just playing a role that's borderline incestuous (becoming a sexual father figure).
Eventually, someone will become resentful. Either the man for constantly having to guide a young woman OR the woman for constantly having her dreams/desires dictated and our guided by someone who is supposed to be her partner. Not her father. Unless she has latent issues surrounding a father figure which she is working out on the guy; at which point, should she overcome those issues she is going to leave and it won't be a peaceful "This isn't working out" thing, it will be an emotionally violent shit storm with her blaming the dude for everything she perceives as wrong in her life.
After all...HE was guiding her.
I think people just need to accept that there is no "formula" to it. We no longer live in the age of arranged marriages and social pressure to just "make it work." So it's going to be harder for some people and easier for others to find mates.
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its cuz dewds a cornball. what do you think their dates are like LOL. stable and responsible are like the opposite of spontanious and fun.
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topdog82 said: So I think the conclusion to takeaway here is there are only a few ways you can win: a) tie down a good girl early in her youth and basically take a leading role. Force feed her the D and guide her. Sort of make her dependent on you b) Be a bad boy until 24-25. Then buckle down. Or at least maintain that appearance of being a bad boy
And surprisingly the pre med guy isnt a complete tool. He basically smoked and drank heavily until this/last year. He is incredibly smart and almost on the level of brilliant. Its kinda sad that women only come back to their stable guy once they feel that they have explored enough dicks/options
This doesn't always work and is a terrible way to lead a relationship. At that rate you're just playing a role that's borderline incestuous (becoming a sexual father figure).
Eventually, someone will become resentful. Either the man for constantly having to guide a young woman OR the woman for constantly having her dreams/desires dictated and our guided by someone who is supposed to be her partner. Not her father. Unless she has latent issues surrounding a father figure which she is working out on the guy; at which point, should she overcome those issues she is going to leave and it won't be a peaceful "This isn't working out" thing, it will be an emotionally violent shit storm with her blaming the dude for everything she perceives as wrong in her life.
After all...HE was guiding her.
I think people just need to accept that there is no "formula" to it. We no longer live in the age of arranged marriages and social pressure to just "make it work." So it's going to be harder for some people and easier for others to find mates.
I guess there is no "way" then. Just be urself and hope for the best. Disney channel was right all along "be urself"
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CHeifM4sterDiezL said: its cuz dewds a cornball. what do you think their dates are like LOL. stable and responsible are like the opposite of spontanious and fun.
I lost it at the word "cornball". But I guess thats true to an extent
IMO she should understand that life isn't always exciting. IMO I would just drop a girl if she said this or even implied this. If you are with a serious dude, you should be prepped for a year of seriousness and buckling
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CHeifM4sterDiezL said: that goes back to people never knowing what they want point. Most people are really shallow dull people neway. Does she actually romantically love the guy or does she jus like the things he provides? people are so wrapped up in there own selfsh bullshit most of the time its fucking so dumb and then they wonder why they cant ever make deep connections with people and are constantly on a rollercoster of ups and downs involving relationships its fucking stupid.
I think this is a byproduct of American "happiness" culture. Everything is about happiness and happiness equals novelty and once the novelty wears off the mindset is that you need to get that back; either by instituting date-nights or shagging someone else on the side for the adrenaline rush.
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CHeifM4sterDiezL said: that goes back to people never knowing what they want point. Most people are really shallow dull people neway. Does she actually romantically love the guy or does she jus like the things he provides? people are so wrapped up in there own selfsh bullshit most of the time its fucking so dumb and then they wonder why they cant ever make deep connections with people and are constantly on a rollercoster of ups and downs involving relationships its fucking stupid.
I think this is a byproduct of American "happiness" culture. Everything is about happiness and happiness equals novelty and once the novelty wears off the mindset is that you need to get that back; either by instituting date-nights or shagging someone else on the side for the adrenaline rush.
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: topdog82]
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I think most people have a desire to be happy not just americans. happyness seems to be always elusive to some. Idk how the novelty could ever wear off unless ur dating a cornball. always new shit to do together. most of the time long term relationships are doomed from the start jus two people tryin to hold a bullshit sandwich together but the poop slowly starts to seep out.
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it depends, like other posters said before.
the ones I'd like to attract, would seek a guy that is :
artistic, intelligent, down to earth, doesn't get pushed around, kind, not superficial , sensual
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From what I see, girls want a man they can lay into untill he snaps and hits her so she can use his reaction(though she was physical also), to garner sympathy from his friends.
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I think we live in a throw away culture tho and people need to realize that everyone has flaws and that if u share a life with someone you have to be willing to take them on fully including all their bullshit and if you dont wanna kill them even after that then u go something special there. but most people are too fuckng dull and shallow its fucking dumb.
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CHeifM4sterDiezL said: I think most people have a desire to be happy not just americans. happyness seems to be always elusive to some. Idk how the novelty could ever wear off unless ur dating a cornball. always new shit to do together. most of the time long term relationships are doomed from the start jus two people tryin to hold a bullshit sandwich together but the poop slowly starts to seep out.
Most people have a desire to be happy yes, but the American version of happiness is uniquely tied to "novelty." Generally this is done for consumerist purposes. You'll be happy if you have a big house, or a new car, the latest gadget, etc. It relies on a fleeting version of happiness achieved through purchase or acquisition.
Even in your own statement;
"always new shit to do together"
Implies that novelty is what is required to keep both people in a relationship "happy." Ergo novelty is the forerunner of happiness.
Whereas other cultures may stress things like contentment and simplicity. To many these things are considered boring and in a sense American culture feeds into this mindset.
But the truth is, as people age that start seeking contentment and simplicity when you they realize that novelty doesn't really lead anywhere. You might get some good experiences, fun stories to share with friends and family, but getting back to basics ends up providing the contentment to withstand the emotional push and pull of being in a relationship.If, all things being equal, one is content than the desire for novelty lessens.
I'm not saying couples shouldn't do fun or new things together, but I am saying if that's what's keeping the relationship relevant than as you said; it will eventually fizzle out.
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Re: What kind of man do girls want? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22392906 - 10/17/15 11:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: Pick up a copy of 3% man by Corey Wayne..Absolute best book for men that I've come across. . Women want a MAN, not a bitch boy that acts like her gay male girlfriend/ butler
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