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maui
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Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior.
#22387507 - 10/16/15 09:01 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Im going to try and keep this as short as possible.
About a month after we started dating I introduced my girlfriend to magic mushrooms. She loved them, which is what I expected. We had a great time. Following that first trip she has become more and more eager to do them, which is understandable, I was like that.
However, I think we do them for different reason. I do them for exploration, she seems to do them just for the "fun"... more on that later. She out of nowhere asks me to do them with no solid plan in mind. I guess she just wants to sit in a room the entire time or something, while I want to plan a day to go to the mountains or the lake or somewhere worthwhile. She says she likes to be spontaneous... But ive tripped enough to know im not going to enjoy it under her circumstances. The way she asks is also alarming... she says: " Maui, will you do drugs with me?"... This automatically makes me not want to do them. It makes me feel almost guilty.
So I say, how about we plan a day where we can do them and not have to worry about responsibilities? She frequently asks me to do them on school nights.
She gets mad at me. Saying we arent suited for each other, we aren't meant to be, I care about no one but myself, etc. Its gotten to the point where she will come over, ask me to do drugs with her, I say im not ready, and she storms out the door. Apparently because im inconsiderate of her free time, that if she cant trip with me she would rather be doing something productive. Because just spending time with me isnt enough. Yesterday she actually punched herself in the face because again, I didnt want to do them on a whim on Thursday night. These are my mushrooms. I've grown them, and I dont want to waste them on a trip I wont enjoy. I dont want to subject myself to do that.
I think shes using them as a means of escape. A couple months ago she was on an adderrall binge, then a DXM streak, now shes fixated on this. Shes been raped, abused in her previous relationship... and has a 1.5 year old child (see what this means? shes putting drugs over her child) whose father is someone she cheated on her abuser ex with.
Shes 19.
This is insane, but I care about her. Please give me some advice.
Edited by maui (10/16/15 09:04 AM)
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui] 1
#22387609 - 10/16/15 09:39 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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yea dood... you gotta bail man. When you do though, make it as nice as possible or get rid of all your shrooms and growing shit for a bit of time. Maybe do it while you're still with her so she thinks you're "done". A scorned chick will roll on you, somehow, some way.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: midnightmaraude] 1
#22387890 - 10/16/15 10:58 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Run.....run fast and hard....don't look back. This girl is bad news ...you cannot change her...she will follow this destructive path for who knows how long and will take whoever is by her side along with her. She has addictive personality traits and is only 19...my guess is mushrooms will only be for a little while unless they bitchslap her into taking heed of her life.
I feel for the kid.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: midnightmaraude]
#22387895 - 10/16/15 11:00 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like trouble and like something is gonna give eventually. Gtfo while you can.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: lillFish]
#22388085 - 10/16/15 12:10 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Time to go man. Not only does she not care about your or the well-being about her kid but she is using you for access to shrooms and when you don't oblige she bails and goes elsewhere. This isn't the behavior of a girlfriend its that of an abuser.
Take the advice above and get rid of all of your shit then drop her. Her attitude is all the proof you need to show she will call the cops and report you after the break up so make sure there is nothing to find.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: DocShroom]
#22388123 - 10/16/15 12:24 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I agree with everybody above. She's got the wrong priorities and it's going to get her into worse trouble at some point. Do the nice break up thing, and I hope you haven't told her that you grew those shrooms because she doesn't sound trustworthy. She sounds like she's spoiled and she wants to be indulged. It'll get worse.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui]
#22388245 - 10/16/15 12:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
maui said: Im going to try and keep this as short as possible.
About a month after we started dating I introduced my girlfriend to magic mushrooms. She loved them, which is what I expected. We had a great time. Following that first trip she has become more and more eager to do them, which is understandable, I was like that.
However, I think we do them for different reason. I do them for exploration, she seems to do them just for the "fun"... more on that later. She out of nowhere asks me to do them with no solid plan in mind. I guess she just wants to sit in a room the entire time or something, while I want to plan a day to go to the mountains or the lake or somewhere worthwhile. She says she likes to be spontaneous... But ive tripped enough to know im not going to enjoy it under her circumstances. The way she asks is also alarming... she says: " Maui, will you do drugs with me?"... This automatically makes me not want to do them. It makes me feel almost guilty.
So I say, how about we plan a day where we can do them and not have to worry about responsibilities? She frequently asks me to do them on school nights.
She gets mad at me. Saying we arent suited for each other, we aren't meant to be, I care about no one but myself, etc. Its gotten to the point where she will come over, ask me to do drugs with her, I say im not ready, and she storms out the door. Apparently because im inconsiderate of her free time, that if she cant trip with me she would rather be doing something productive. Because just spending time with me isnt enough. Yesterday she actually punched herself in the face because again, I didnt want to do them on a whim on Thursday night. These are my mushrooms. I've grown them, and I dont want to waste them on a trip I wont enjoy. I dont want to subject myself to do that.
I think shes using them as a means of escape. A couple months ago she was on an adderrall binge, then a DXM streak, now shes fixated on this. Shes been raped, abused in her previous relationship... and has a 1.5 year old child (see what this means? shes putting drugs over her child) whose father is someone she cheated on her abuser ex with.
Shes 19.
This is insane, but I care about her. Please give me some advice.
this girl is a liar she has not been raped or abused she is using that as a blanket statement to deny her true genuine craziness. leave her block her number and NEVER FUCKING LOOK BACK. She is just a warm hole for ur dick you will find a new one
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22389173 - 10/16/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nothing else to add, just another voice to the choir of GTFO!
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: bloodsheen]
#22389335 - 10/16/15 04:51 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Make her tea and dose her with about 8g. Hide sharp things.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui] 2
#22389366 - 10/16/15 04:58 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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LOL!!!!!!!!! SHE PUNCHED HERSELF IN THE FACE THEN STORMED OUT CUZ U DIDN'T WANNA DO SHROOMS? HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA WTF
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: newrook]
#22392634 - 10/17/15 10:20 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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newrook said: Make her tea and dose her with about 8g. Hide sharp things.
Lmfao
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui]
#22400995 - 10/19/15 01:43 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I love these crazy shroomery relationship stories. The number 1 piece of advice is to always get the fuck out of there while you still can. And I agree with that in this case. I know you care about her, and you'd like to help her "recover" from her past, but its not worth it if shes gonna act like that man. Seriously, its not worth your time. There are certain "behaviors" a partner can change in another partner, but this girls got a running past. Good luck and listen to the guy above who said to store your mushrooms and shit when you do break up with her. She sounds impulsive, which could lead to bad news for you
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: OliverJames]
#22410600 - 10/20/15 06:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You both seem to be in different places in terms of what relationships mean and what using mushrooms means. I would bail. Apologize first. Honest to fault.
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Edited by mindfckery (10/21/15 06:35 PM)
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui]
#22412327 - 10/21/15 05:59 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like she's looking for escape, and is upset that you won't provide it for her.
If you really like her, just rabbithole it a bit with her. I too prefer to set up a nice set and setting for my trip, but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy just fucking around high once I get in the flow. Anyway, that + high doses will dissuade her from wanting to do it too often. Shrooms are pretty self-regulating like that, so I'd just use that to you're advantage to shut this down. Maybe you can always be upping the ante with higher doses and she'll back off.
I hope you told her you found those mushrooms at the railroad tracks.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: Machiavelliavore]
#22423254 - 10/23/15 02:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If you're concerned about the child, contact social services. As for the girl, it won't end well but it will end. Best not to postpone the inevitable.
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui]
#22423509 - 10/23/15 03:50 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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why are you even dating her? Clearly get out of that 'relationship' if you wanna call it that. Sucks about the kid I'm not sure how to deal with that aspect. But clearly nothing good can come of this chick
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Re: Girlfriend demonstrating some disturbing behavior. [Re: maui] 1
#22430262 - 10/25/15 01:01 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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maui said: She gets mad at me. Saying we arent suited for each other, we aren't meant to be, I care about no one but myself, etc.
she's right, dump her manipulative ass and find someone new
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