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bloodsheen
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People that date a lot
#22373662 - 10/13/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Live a life I cant seem to imagine. Like I'm talking about those people that never seem to be single.
Like where the fuck are you finding all of these people? When I met my ex she was just getting out of a long relationship and I had no idea. I just hit on her, and by random coincidence she had just left her bf. But its not like I hit on her at a bar, she was a friend of a friend. And my ex herself had very few friends, in fact she had a total of two when I met her. Yet somehow she was single for a total of a year over the seven years since she started dating.
I'm not even talking about those people who jump from relationship to relationship. Like two weeks after getting dumped, this dude hits on the first girl he sees and she say yes. Wtf?
Even some introverts seem to date a ton. I'll meet some nerdy average lookin dude, and in talking to him realize hes had like half a dozen girlfriends or more in his life.
...I guess I'm just complaining. I wonder what it is about these people that they seem to be so lucky. Do they like exude some pheromone? Some body language that says "I'd make a great partner, come talk to me"? I don't think I'm picky about looks, I make people laugh, Ive got a few very good friends who are quite loyal. And I have plenty of women that I am well aware enjoy my company, I'm not hideous. But every single one of them either turns me down or is already in a relationship.
If it is a pheromone it must be genetic, my sister is the exact same way. Shes engaged to a guy who was her first real boyfriend, before him not a single guy ever asked her out. In fact she was the one who asked HIM out, they just happened to hit it off (and she was 18 when they met).
It just seems like probability is stacked against me. I'm hoping moving to colorado will give me an air of mystery to women out there and maybe it'll break my horrible luck.
Anyone share my beef with these lucky assholes?
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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog
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Vsnares.Zappa
bend over


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Re: People that date a lot [Re: bloodsheen]
#22375164 - 10/13/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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fuck everybody else mate
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Vsnares.Zappa
bend over


Registered: 05/04/11
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love yourself , keep growing
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Anonymous #1
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You need to work on your social skills. And pheremones are a big part of it but you only really get to smell and taste someone when you are intimate with them IME so you gotta have made it that far to know their scent.
I have def had some bad scented girls and it was enough to stop me from wanting them. Attraction is weird man. Ever wonder why a girl that seemed soo into you but all of a sudden, nothing... LOL life can be crazy.
But yea like he said, just be you and pursue your goals and passions while working on understanding how attraction really works on the side.
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