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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: DocShroom]
#22370113 - 10/12/15 07:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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DocShroom said: Pay the money ($50-100) for the paternity test and get as far away from your should be Ex and your dead beat father as you can. If the kid turns out to be yours file a paternity action with the court to ensure you get your time with it. If not move on and never look back. Living in a shit hole apartment barely making ends meet would be way more rewarding than even 5 seconds more in your current situation.
Seriously dude get the fuck away from both of them and start over, it is clear that neither of them give a shit about you. It will be hard but you deserve better than living with people who are making you consider suicide...
This!
I wouldnt wish it on anyone to live with people who treat you like shit dragging you down with them
Get out, dont murder your deadbeat dad dont throw away your life. Get away from them! cut them out Also do the dna test, but get away from those 2 scumbags
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22371424 - 10/12/15 11:52 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Either way, you're related to the kid. Love him and respect him like any adult should a child, and of course be a role model. But honestly get the hell out of this situation. Leave it all behind. You can still be a good role model to the child but get out of this for your own sanity and hopefully happiness.
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: decieved]
#22371586 - 10/13/15 01:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Move overseas, start a new life, meet new people, build your own family, or join a new one, start a new career path that'll take you places. Forget your shit, drop everything at the door, walk through and never look back.
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: nuds] 1
#22371679 - 10/13/15 02:13 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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She has cuckholded you. This is a sexual strategy in which the female will fuck one man, and get provisioning from another. Essentially she views you as a tool to get resources for her child. She can only do this because she doesn't view you as a human. She was in fact turned on more by the fact that she was fucking you over and holding a huge amount of power, by having this trump card, more than she was by actually fucking your dad. She never loved you
You have abandonment issues, caused by this guy who knocked up your mom. He's not now nor was he ever yoyr father... you need to recognize that and then leave this situation, and these people. You are not them, they are both sick, and until you address this feeling of inadequatecy you will attract sick people who will use you.
My guess is you're around my age 25, and your not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel if you love this woman, you only love the idea of someone treating you like the garbage you "think" you are because if you weren't how come your own father could abandon and deceive you...
And to top it off everybody in your family has fucked you over huh? You enjoy being fucked over, it's self fulfilling.
Get away learn to love yourself, it sounds like you didn't snap, and honestly that's pretty amazing. Instead of being down about how something like this could happen to you, you should be glad that you're handling it better than most men ever could.
There's standard advice when a man's world crumbles. Rebuild a better one. Fix your underlining mental issues, meditate, eat healthy. Lift weights, move away, build a career, learn new skills, and find good friends, ones who cherish you. They're the people you need. Use this as motivation to become someone great in life because the the deeper you fall the higher you can rise. Good luck man, you deserve good things.
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: decieved] 1
#22374780 - 10/13/15 06:03 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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336 said: Holy shit OP, that's fucking terrible. To be honest if that was me I would probably just leave all of them and move as far away as I could and start a new life somewhere.
Also I would definitely have a hard time keeping myself from killing my father and my fiance if they did that... Though I obviously don't recommend that as it would destroy your life even more so...
So if I were you I'd leave them all and move far far away.
I never got the whole *kill the man who banged my lying bitch* routine
My mothe had this friend in toledo, shitty couple, crazy. Well she divorced him cause he was a sociopathic dude who fought an beat her all the time She finds a new man
He breaks into her home kills her new bf and then shoot himself in the head Broken family
Sick twisted fuck
Reminded me of my family but a tad worse
Dont be that kinda guy OP Just get out an live your own life away from those broken people
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: SunnyD]
#22374791 - 10/13/15 06:06 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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AddyZomeD said: I never got the whole *kill the man who banged my lying bitch* routine
Normally, I don't understand it. Especially if the dude is unaware that the chick is taken.
In this instance however, it's the dude's own father who is banging his chick. Seems a little more understandable. Still not recommendable though.
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: Sheekle]
#22375119 - 10/13/15 07:04 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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AddyZomeD said: I never got the whole *kill the man who banged my lying bitch* routine
Normally, I don't understand it. Especially if the dude is unaware that the chick is taken.
In this instance however, it's the dude's own father who is banging his chick. Seems a little more understandable. Still not recommendable though.
Not at all,
leave them to there own unhappiness and misery of lying and deceit
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: SunnyD]
#22375829 - 10/13/15 09:14 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Akeldama

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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: decieved]
#22376120 - 10/13/15 10:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You seem like a nice guy, decieved. I'm sorry to hear about it, really, I wish you the best. It is understandable to not be able to hold in the niceness, the forgiveness anymore, he obviously deserves much worse and I am sure will receive his karma.
Evil parenting makes me sick to my stomach, if only we could break the cycle of the darkness our own blood bestows on us.
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: decieved]
#22376161 - 10/13/15 10:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If it is his kid, you are free and can walk away. As horrible as it sounds this is the best case scenario.
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Re: my son may very well be my brother.... [Re: sui]
#22391847 - 10/17/15 04:04 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd take a trip to Van Nuys if it were me..
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