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Should I ask girl to hang
#22364873 - 10/11/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Earlier this week I met these two girls through a mutual friend and we smoked in their car at college. I am going back to college right now and was wondering if I should ask her to chill and smoke. Is that weird bc we've only hung out once?
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brokentv

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Its not weird at all ask her to hang.
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TheScientificMethod
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Yeah. Do it. What do you have to lose?
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sudly
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If you honestly just want to hangout and aren't ruminating about rejection then go for it, the best that can happen is you hangout, the worst is that nothing changes from your usual plans.
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: sudly]
#22365029 - 10/11/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well im definitely interested in her but i wanna get to know her better first
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sudly
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Then ask her to hangout..
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Lucis
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ask if she want to smoke a bowl, then while smoking le bowl make talk to get to know her, do this until you guys feel more comfortable around each other, see where this is going?
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: Lucis]
#22365843 - 10/11/15 09:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Forget her.
Focus on your education first. Then later, when you have all your ducks in a row, find an educated, more mature, woman to hang with.
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sudly
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Or don't be a pussy and send her a text if you're genuine, if you aren't then leave it for another day. If I wanted to hang out with a girl i'd say, Hey ____ how are you? If you're not busy tomorrow do you want to hangout at __location_?
Don't jump the gun, don't set a time.
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: sudly]
#22365889 - 10/11/15 10:00 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Invite her and the mutual friend to hang during the week if you have time. OR the weekend, but college chicks always want to go out during the weekend.
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Depends on her personality ^^ everyone's life song is different. Personally I don't even go out on weekends anymore. Instead I just sit around basically. I hang alone. I'm in an accelerated college program with 150 students. I only have like two prospects, which I'm sure don't go out much on weekends (personalities and maturity). At my last college I'd damn near agree with you. If you want a party chick, get one.
I'm after a nerd and a milf. I don't see them being weekend hoes. And I'm pretty sure I have their attention more because I'm a hippy/rebel/hipster to an extent.
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: Atrium]
#22366392 - 10/12/15 12:48 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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'Party girls', girls who only want attention. Party girls can be fun for a night or two but they don't last long if you want any form of commitment.
People looking for attention often get it, that's why If I want a friend or something serious I find the people who aren't looking for attention.
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I should ad that this reminds me exactly of the first time I asked a girl to hang out with me not go out but just hang out. I remember having a million things going through my head but when I finally asked she was into it. We actually ended up hanging out quite a bit that summer.
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: brokentv]
#22366981 - 10/12/15 07:57 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Text her and ask her if she wants to come over and do anal.
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: rewind]
#22377819 - 10/14/15 10:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well we hung and smoked,and the next day she hmu and asked to hang so we did
So i last night i was like fuck it i enjoy spending time with her, so ill ask if she wants to come chill, and she said if i finish my homework then sure. Never texted me back. Should i text her again later on today and ask if she wants to come chill or go grab something to eat, or since she didnt respond last night should i just leave it and let her make the next move?
Im not looking for a chase or any of that bullshit, i just wanna be upfront ya know so if i wanna chill i feel like i should ask her to chill. Worst she could do is say no
What do u guys think
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Text her tonight: "Hey NAME; I hope that homework wasn't too terribly consuming last night. Hit me up if you want to chill this afternoon or maybe this weekend. I'm thinking of [insert interesting thing here] and would love for you to join if you're free--no worries if you're busy though. Just want to send the open invitation. Either way, have an awesome Wednesday."
Edited by TheScientificMethod (10/14/15 10:48 AM)
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Anonymous #3
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Are you sure you aren't in middle school?
I'm not trying to be a dick but do men really think like this? Is it weird if i ask a cool girl 2 hang out?
It seems like most guys on this forum are like this
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: Are you sure you aren't in middle school?
I'm not trying to be a dick but do men really think like this? Is it weird if i ask a cool girl 2 hang out?
It seems like most guys on this forum are like this
Im just always worried about coming off too strong
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Maybe forget about hanging out with her for a few days, and text her again once some of the nervousness has cleared up? If you clear your mind of her, and then later on you find yourself thinking about her spontaneously, then it's probably a good idea to go ahead and text her. Otherwise, texting her every day might be overbearing, especially since you've only hung out twice, one of which times you were with other people.
Or just throw caution out to sea and text her anyways?!
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: Skribe]
#22379875 - 10/14/15 05:36 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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She said she needed to take a nap and study. Im gonna back off for a week and ask again once next week and if she rejects that then I will take the hint
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TheScientificMethod
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Anonymous said: She said she needed to take a nap and study. Im gonna back off for a week and ask again once next week and if she rejects that then I will take the hint
That is correct. She's probably not interested. You probably shouldn't take it personally.
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You always ask a girl to hang. That's how you get them to hang out with you. 
Oh nvm everyone already covered it. If your wanting her just be yourself and obviously yes you have to be around her. I swear so many posts on this site are like women are rocket science. No they're just people ask her out or don't.
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Edited by Enjoywho (10/15/15 02:43 AM)
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Re: Should I ask girl to hang [Re: Enjoywho]
#22381997 - 10/15/15 05:33 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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One of the (few?) nice things about getting older is that you don't care that so much about meeting and sleeping with women. They no longer occupy your thoughts every wakening minute of every day, only every other minute, and strangely enough that makes it much easier to meet and talk with them. You no longer have that "I'm desperate" written all over your forehead. Try to relax and ask the woman out if you want to, after all she can only say no.
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: Are you sure you aren't in middle school?
I'm not trying to be a dick but do men really think like this? Is it weird if i ask a cool girl 2 hang out?
It seems like most guys on this forum are like this
Im just always worried about coming off too strong
My bas for being a bitch. I just see soo many of these threads. So i will u give a woman's opinion, not that it's going 2 be worth much because I'm not an expert on the subject.
Guys come off too strong when they text me constantly without me replying. Don't do that. I've had soo many fucking guys text me obsessively with no response it looks desperate creepy and its annoying. If she doesn't respond she is busy or something.
Also she said she needs to take a nap and study, doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested. But yea i would give it one more shot and then just let it go.
Also if u wana get 2 know a girl invite her out with other people too.
But as long as u aren't texting her 20 times a day or everyday with no response or "I'm busy responses" ur ok.
Also, the fact that she said she was busy studying but didn't offer a day she may be available might be a sign she's not interested.
But yeah don't take it personal. There are tons of reasons that i may not be interested in a guy and 90 percent of them usually have to do with shit im going thru and had nothing to do with them
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Quote:
Still_tripping said: One of the (few?) nice things about getting older is that you don't care that so much about meeting and sleeping with women. They no longer occupy your thoughts every wakening minute of every day, only every other minute, and strangely enough that makes it much easier to meet and talk with them. You no longer have that "I'm desperate" written all over your forehead. Try to relax and ask the woman out if you want to, after all she can only say no.
I've made tons of girl friends that sure I wanted to fuck but circumstances didn't allow. Fuck it I can never have too many friends. And I like talking to pretty girls and they generally know other pretty girls.
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