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OfflineLeningradCowboy
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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Lucis]
    #22363175 - 10/11/15 12:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Fennario said:
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Sheekle said:
go to concerts





might be good, but if someone is already socially awkward I don't see how this is going to work.  Concerts can be a bit overwhelming if you're not social, especially if you're going by yourself.




Sometimes little shock therapy is needed:shrug:
Just go out some night , dose your self, go to show, enjoy...you might even meet some nice people.

Edm and mdma is all so good combination on connecting with people.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: LeningradCowboy]
    #22363227 - 10/11/15 01:02 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm in the same boat as you OP-except it's been like this for about 5 years now. My only remaining friend is someone who I met in second grade but he is in the military so these days we only talk once a month or so and I've only seen him about 4 times in the last ten years. (So take my advice however you want it/for what it's worth) Me personally, I'm done with "friendships" that are based on doing drugs together or meeting through the drug scene. It sounds like you are looking for some true friends. For me, I have never met a true friend or someone who hasn't stabbed me in the back who I've met through "the drug scene". Just my advice but if you're looking for some true friends try to stay away from meeting people who are involved in drugs and/or only want to hang out when it involves doing drugs together. I can't really tell you how to make friends or where to make friends because I don't even know myself but I hope my advice helps you in some way. Take care OP. Good luck.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Bigfeely123]
    #22363272 - 10/11/15 01:13 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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I'm in the same boat as you OP-except it's been like this for about 5 years now. My only remaining friend is someone who I met in second grade but he is in the military so these days we only talk once a month or so and I've only seen him about 4 times in the last ten years. (So take my advice however you want it/for what it's worth) Me personally, I'm done with "friendships" that are based on doing drugs together or meeting through the drug scene. It sounds like you are looking for some true friends. For me, I have never met a true friend or someone who hasn't stabbed me in the back who I've met through "the drug scene". Just my advice but if you're looking for some true friends try to stay away from meeting people who are involved in drugs and/or only want to hang out when it involves doing drugs together. I can't really tell you how to make friends or where to make friends because I don't even know myself but I hope my advice helps you in some way. Take care OP. Good luck.




Ok this is a good post to respond to overall...
I feel you when you talk about the "drug scene" friends. That's what I've been experiencing. I've tripped like 5-6 times since I've been here, smoked every day, RCs, etc. It's not that I haven't tried. Yall believe me when I say I've tried everything. I've gone out, done everything I'm "supposed" to do to get friends. But nada. Now I'm just starting to think that I'm just a lousy person to be around. People just use me and abandon me within a month or two when they finally start to really know me. It's frustrating. Especially when you're being used for your looks/ sex.
I dont know yall. I'm just really desperate. I just needed a place to talk to people, read opinions. I guess it's just a matter of trying much harder. I'm just really tired of not having anyone, being left out, you know. Not easy at all for me, especially because I'm not from the States.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ChameleonTruffle] * 3
    #22363287 - 10/11/15 01:18 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Be careful with pursuing ideals. Contrived relationships are valid types, according to Adler. Just don't make those your only relationships.

I used to avoid relatioships because people weren't up to my standards and found it to be a defense mechanism to further my phobic avoidance. "True" friends, by your ideals probably don't exist. People come and go based on situations and directions of growth.

Stop holding out, life is passing you by! Just take baby steps.

A mod should probably move this to sexuality/relationships, or physical and mental well-being.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ChameleonTruffle] * 2
    #22363296 - 10/11/15 01:21 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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I guess this question sounds really stupid, essentially. Ever since I moved 2 months ago, I just can't seem to find anyone that's interested in me. There's only this one guy but I think I kinda fucked up last night (long story short, I ate some shrooms and it brought out the nasty in me). I don't know, everyone that I've talked to is nice, but I'm just really shy. No one's asked for my phone or anything so I just feel so lonely here. I've just tried so hard :sad: I don't know what it is, if it's what I wear, what I say, or I'm just that shy.
I just feel awful
Any advice anyone have? Would love to hear some at this point, honestly



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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: r00tuuu123]
    #22363343 - 10/11/15 01:33 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm not, sure, I've just been coasting on my existing friend base for like six years.
Hmm. weird.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Ezuma]
    #22363345 - 10/11/15 01:34 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: r00tuuu123] * 1
    #22363418 - 10/11/15 01:51 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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ChameleonTruffle said:
I guess this question sounds really stupid, essentially. Ever since I moved 2 months ago, I just can't seem to find anyone that's interested in me. There's only this one guy but I think I kinda fucked up last night (long story short, I ate some shrooms and it brought out the nasty in me). I don't know, everyone that I've talked to is nice, but I'm just really shy. No one's asked for my phone or anything so I just feel so lonely here. I've just tried so hard :sad: I don't know what it is, if it's what I wear, what I say, or I'm just that shy.
I just feel awful
Any advice anyone have? Would love to hear some at this point, honestly



A 30 pack of beer and 2 fishing rods will solve all your problems. :thatsayes:



Yeah I guess. Maybe it's worth a shot. I'll leave the rod behind and just drink til I pass out. Much needed.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ChameleonTruffle]
    #22363430 - 10/11/15 01:54 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I have to find out ways to text them and hopefully make them interested enough with one text to make them want to go to a edm show with me.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Sheekle]
    #22363433 - 10/11/15 01:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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go to concerts




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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Lucis]
    #22363567 - 10/11/15 02:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Fennario said:
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Sheekle said:
go to concerts





might be good, but if someone is already socially awkward I don't see how this is going to work.  Concerts can be a bit overwhelming if you're not social, especially if you're going by yourself.



I can be pretty socially awkward. I've gone to countless concerts solo and been a wallflower. After a while it becomes easier & easier to shoot the shit with people, and you start to see the same people at different concerts and get to know familiar faces.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Sheekle]
    #22363573 - 10/11/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Drugs.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Distorted Vision]
    #22364968 - 10/11/15 07:02 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: Cowb0yNeal00]
    #22369777 - 10/12/15 06:25 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Try being slightly more outgoing but not intrusive or insertive. Try to let people know you're looking for something to do. Just casually ask people from work/class if they know of anything cool going on during the upcoming weekend.

It gets harder the older you get. It's easier if you work with people around your same age. I have plenty of friends at work but none that I hang out with after work.

Most all of the friends I have now are from high school and college. The only new friends I've met are through my brother and my wife.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ShroomerInTheRye]
    #22369823 - 10/12/15 06:32 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

A few years ago, I joined a volunteer group.  We donated prostate exams to uninsured and under-insured men.  I made lots of friends that way.  2 of the gentlemen in that group are my BFFs now.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ChameleonTruffle] * 2
    #22369852 - 10/12/15 06:38 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I don't try to make friends. It just happens.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ChameleonTruffle]
    #22369936 - 10/12/15 06:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah, just stop trying. Give up. Don't give a shit. You'll have all the friends in the world.


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: jahrastafareye]
    #22370017 - 10/12/15 07:08 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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A few years ago, I joined a volunteer group.  We donated prostate exams to uninsured and under-insured men.  I made lots of friends that way.  2 of the gentlemen in that group are my BFFs now.



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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #22370109 - 10/12/15 07:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I definitely agree that going to concerts is one of the best ways to meet people. I'm in college and this is one of the times in my life where I'm supposed to be making the most friends. Freshmen year I made barely any friends, or any friends like the friends I used to have growing up with at least. However, since I started to go to concerts and festivals last fall (sophomore year) I've really become a lot more social. Yes, the music scene does involve a lot of drugs but that's not what makes everyone friends in the culture.

Converging and listening to music is something humans have been doing for thousands of years. This is why festivals are so awesome to me because it seems like such a primitive thing to be a part of and people may even act a little primitive; no one gives a fuck there. If no one gives a fuck then communication is EASY. I've taken what I've learned socially from these environments and apply it to my life outside of music and it's really helped me a lot.

Another thing unrelated to going to festivals to gain more friends is the idea of loving yourself. If you aren't going to love and appreciate yourself, then not a lot of people are going to want to be around you. This doesn't mean to get all cocky and shit but for most people it isn't fun to be around someone who just self-loathes all the time and tries to make other people feel sorry for them. That's something I've learned from living with one of my roommates..


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Re: What do you guys do to make friends? [Re: ChameleonTruffle]
    #22370239 - 10/12/15 07:54 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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ChameleonTruffle said:
I guess this question sounds really stupid, essentially. Ever since I moved 2 months ago, I just can't seem to find anyone that's interested in me. There's only this one guy but I think I kinda fucked up last night (long story short, I ate some shrooms and it brought out the nasty in me). I don't know, everyone that I've talked to is nice, but I'm just really shy. No one's asked for my phone or anything so I just feel so lonely here. I've just tried so hard :sad: I don't know what it is, if it's what I wear, what I say, or I'm just that shy.
I just feel awful
Any advice anyone have? Would love to hear some at this point, honestly



Concerts is a good suggestion.

Another way is to join some groups or classes in a field/area that interests you.  It brings together a bunch of people with similar interests and at that point you just say hello.

Sometimes I meet people I started talking to on facebook.

Go to local hang out spots for people your age.

Go to the local college and just say hello to people.

Tell yourself you are the (wo)man in the room

I also agree with festivals, see if there are any local ones near you.  Ive met A LOT of friends that way.


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