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Janky Tits

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Bummed right now :/
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I'm really just bummed right now... been this way for 3 days now.
I'm dealing with this situation where a person who I thought I could depend on has let me down. I spent the last few months furnishing this raw emotional attachment to this person and in my mind this person holds the key to a really amazing foreseeable future. In this person lies all the great times and things I wanted to do for the next few years and I sadly and foolishly spent the last few months furnishing this idea of dependency and attachment to this person and now that my relationship with this person is in danger of sinking to the point where I could lose this person for good it has really bummed me the fuck out. All the great things I left in the hands of this person, my desired future is all in danger of never coming to fulfillment.
Uhhh I know it sounds whiny and pathetic but it just bums me the fuck out that things don't turn the way you hoped they would and seeing your dreams crumble like this. It also sucks when you invest so much into someone to the point that you depend on them and then your emotional investment leads to nothing and then you are left feeling empty in the end.
Anyway I just need something to cheer me up. Any thoughts? Drugs and especially weed are out of the question. If I smoke weed I can only expect to end up thinking about the bullshit currently happening to me right now.
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I don't recommend drugs to drown your sorrows with, perhaps you should take some time to look within yourself, see if there's anything you need to change, see how you can grow.
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Dude you should probably stop rolling so much
There will plenty of other girls to fuck. Aren't you only 18?
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22353892 - 10/09/15 09:45 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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you shouldnt depend on someone else for fulfillment and happiness, often thats just a pipe dream. Happiness comes from within. Life is what you make it. You were foolish and now your feeling down. GO run/exercise. Go be social with some friends. Watch a funny movie or tv show, may i suggest broad city or archer.
Stop moping though its not going to do any good.
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Janky Tits

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It's a girl but it's not my girlfriend. It's with this person that I really liked as a friend and who I had planned so much out with and had planned good times with.
I was planning on maybe drinking myself till I'm hammered and can't feel anything or any sorrow. Some booze would be nice right now.
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Lucis
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Don't do that, booze is a depressant, will put you in a negative head space.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
#22353944 - 10/09/15 09:56 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I guess I'll just try to get it off my mind for now.
Like I said my relationship with this person is in danger but not completely over. I'm still trying to figure out a way to see if I can keep things on track with this person.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
#22353951 - 10/09/15 09:57 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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seriously man there will be MANY MANY more girls and more heartache in the future its part of growing up and being an adult. HONESTLY even if things did work with this girl the likelyhood that youd even be with her in 10 years is super slim. Your a different person in your 20s' vs 30's and 40's.
I know its hard an it feels like the end of the world but dude you might as well be a fetus. THE world if you oyster man dont give up because the relationship (which isnt even a relationship more of a fawning/crush if i understand right) didnt work out.
and yeah dont drink.
cry it out and get over it and move on.
Its gonna be ok.
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Janky Tits said: I guess I'll just try to get it off my mind for now.
Like I said my relationship with this person is in danger but not completely over. I'm still trying to figure out a way to see if I can keep things on track with this person.
what did you do?
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22353961 - 10/09/15 09:59 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If she wasn't your significant other in the first place why are you so heartbroken? Move on. There are plenty of other "fish" in the sea man. Keep on truckin'.
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take a 10 strip and have lucy solve your problems for you
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Janky Tits

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Don't really wanna talk about it too much but let's just say a person who I really like and had high hopes for becoming long term friends with pretty much brushed me off and ignored me. This is not a romantic thing at all.
Meeting this person was like finding a gem in a junk pile and it hurts too lose that gem. It's more complicated then it seems. I just had high hopes that I could create a strong bond with this person because I felt so comfortable and amazing around her and I believed that if I could consolidate a friendship with her I could finally find a true friend I can depend on and that I can be myself around. Trust me man, I have so much in common with this person that it sucks so hard losing them like this.
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It sounds like they may not feel the same way about you. And as they say it takes 2 to tango. Im not talking just sexually either that goes for any type of relationship otherwise you just become a leach and an annoyance. Some people just wont feel the same way you do about them. And in that regard you may also not feel the connection someone has for you. No matter how perfect a match THEY may think you guys are.
Dont be a weirdo man.
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Janky Tits

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Yeah, I figured I was pestering her at this point. I'm just not going to text her. I might give it one last crack maybe later this week and see if I can open up to her about the whole situation instead of just letting it die without even trying.
It might seem weird to do that but there is context to the situation that I haven't shared. One last try would be worth it in this case.
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This is about bassfreak, isn't it?
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Janky Tits

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Bassfreak wants me to carry out illegal activities over the internet for him
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Lucis
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then why are you mentioning that here?
no bueno
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Janky Tits

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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
#22354108 - 10/09/15 10:33 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol I'm not gonna do it 
He wants me to send him rolls but I'm not. Bassfreak is my niqqa but I don't have the provisions and stealth required to do such a deed. Plus I'm saving them for if I reunite with this girl.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22354231 - 10/09/15 11:09 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I am assuming this girl was your first or something? Cause if you were not dating her and you care this much to me that is what I assume, but regardless. There are legit 3.5 billion other women in this world seriously countless fucking women, you were with this girl for a few months and even at that not even dating getting over her will be easy. If I were you I would work on yourself go for a run or the gym, pursue a hobby, go to an area where people your age are and hit on all the women like the mall or something. For a short term right now fix I would call up some of your buddies, grab a 36 pack and go have a night on the town just be adventures have fun you know.
As for getting her back, women don't work like that "one last try" don't work. Ignore her until she hits you up. If you were even a little decent to her in 2 weeks she will hit you up. She might be playing a simple game on you and you're failing. Just ignore her and maybe post a picture of you with another woman just hanging out on whatever social media you have her added on and I swear she'll hit you up.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 5
#22354235 - 10/09/15 11:09 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Janky Tits said: I'm really just bummed right now... been this way for 3 days now.
I'm dealing with this situation where Bassfreak who I thought I could depend on has let me down. I spent the last few months furnishing this raw emotional attachment to Bassfreak and in my mind Bassfreak holds the key to a really amazing foreseeable future. In Bassfreak lies all the great times and things I wanted to do for the next few years and I sadly and foolishly spent the last few months furnishing this idea of dependency and attachment to Bassfreak and now that my relationship with Bassfreak is in danger of sinking to the point where I could lose Bassfreak for good it has really bummed me the fuck out. All the great things I left in the hands of Bassfreak, my desired future is all in danger of never coming to fulfillment.
Uhhh I know it sounds whiny and pathetic but it just bums me the fuck out that things don't turn the way you hoped they would and seeing your dreams crumble like this. It also sucks when you invest so much into someone to the point that you depend on them and then your emotional investment leads to nothing and then you are left feeling empty in the end.
Anyway I just need something to cheer me up. Any thoughts? Drugs and especially weed are out of the question. If I smoke weed I can only expect to end up thinking about the bullshit currently happening to me right now.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: koods]
#22354240 - 10/09/15 11:10 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Janky Tits

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Lmafooo
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Sending good vibes your way man
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Keep frying that brain.
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It's just a female. Rise above.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Shiithead]
#22354642 - 10/09/15 01:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Uhhhh
Well alright, I've decided im putting her out of my mind for now. Just gonna keep doing me and maybe I'll contemplate texting her to see what's up later on if I feel that she's still worth my time.
It sucks that this happened to me. Not just the whole thing with this girl but me getting bummed the fuck out like this. This reminds me of me as a young 14 year old freshman getting morbidly depressed when the girl I was crushing on started ignoring me and giving me signals that she disliked me. Hate that I stooped this low again with depression over petty shit like this. I thought I had already out grown that bullshit mentality but it seems I still have some growing up to do
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Get a hobby.
And but enjoy this first.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Shiithead]
#22354706 - 10/09/15 01:48 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Shiithead said: Get a hobby.
And but enjoy this first.
Hell yeah
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22354800 - 10/09/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm bummed too, some guy said he would buy me a supporter if he made even a single post before Dec 1, I gave him permission that same day to make a post in a particular forum, that same day he posted in multiple threads and forums
Never got the supporter, can't trust anyone nowadays
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Bigfeely123
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Buy this man a supporter account already!
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TL;DR
When you love someone truly you only ever want them to be happy.
When someone loves you truly they only ever want you to be happy.
Things always work out my friend i promise, just let them do what they got to do to be happy and love will find a way.
also sorry if this didnt help but i hope it does.
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Oh the fond memories of the MDMA hangover
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Janky Tits

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That is the saddest part of this 
I rolled so hard with this girl. We bonded so much while on Ecstasy and we promised each other we would be rolling/edm buddies.
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Bigfeely123
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Is that what a good relationship is based off of..? Doing drugs together?
Of course you bonded so well on ecstasy. You'd bond well with Hitler if you rolled together.
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Janky Tits said: That is the saddest part of this 
I rolled so hard with this girl. We bonded so much while on Ecstasy and we promised each other we would be rolling/edm buddies.
Take it from me man. Any relationship based off drugs is a bad one.
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Quote:
The Doobie Dude said: Take it from me man. Any relationship based off drugs is a bad one.
You? Relationships? Sure bro...
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: 1234go]
#22355845 - 10/09/15 06:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You bonded on the hug drug? Get the fuck outa here no way! lol sometimes MDMA can cause unhealthy obsessions because of that intense bonding experience you've had with another person. A lot of the times though those feeling aren't reciprocated
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: 1234go]
#22355927 - 10/09/15 07:09 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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1234go said:
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The Doobie Dude said: Take it from me man. Any relationship based off drugs is a bad one.
You? Relationships? Sure bro...
Relationship can mean anything it does not imply a serious one
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1234go
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Prove it, show some evidence.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: 1234go]
#22356372 - 10/09/15 08:42 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Don't be so mean, it's hard being a teenage girl in this crazy, mixed up world.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: DurgaDurg]
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No sarcasm when I say this but that was a really good quote-especially for a show like South Park.
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hey titties.... the one who cares the least has the power.
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What do you mean by 'especially for a show like South Park'? They are one of the most consistent and topical shows out there.
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Janky Tits said: I'm really just bummed right now...
in the UK this means something way different
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Fletcher]
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Perhaps I worded that wrong. Don't get me wrong-I really like South Park. I've watched it on and off for years, although I never really followed each episode one after another.
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The episodes are pretty much non-sequential. You can enjoy each of them for what they are.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
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Fennario said: Don't do that, booze is a depressant, will put you in a negative head space.
Eh?? Doesn't it mean alcohol is a respirotry depressant. It doesn't make me depressed.
By the way OP never talk about being bummed in the UK lol it means you have a gay mans cock up your ass.
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Quote:
Prisoner#1 said:
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Janky Tits said: I'm really just bummed right now...
in the UK this means something way different
You beat me to it
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hey nice1, hows it goin fella?
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Janky Tits said: That is the saddest part of this 
I rolled so hard with this girl. We bonded so much while on Ecstasy and we promised each other we would be rolling/edm buddies.
Ah man when I read your OP I thought how shitty your situation is but if this is what you bonded with over this girl to begin with then there was never any hope dude imo.
I love drugs but all my core friends are built on moments from when we were sober rather then fully fucked up on drugs.
 I mean not to say they don't help you meet new people but to expect them to be long term just because you bonded over the same drug & music type doesn't mean much in the long run. I've met tons of people out partying & bonded over so many things with them & expect to maybe see them again in the future but never hear from them again, but that's life I guess people come & go or change. Especially in the drug/music scene.
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Mad_Larkin said: hey nice1, hows it goin fella?
Alright m8 How are you?
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smashing as ever, nice to see you around again
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Lighten up OP. It's never a good idea to put the keys to your happiness in the hands of others. Hope you feel better
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Dude, the positive contemplation that can come from weed is mind blowing.
Yes, you are correct that weed will make you about your problems more, bit in my experience, the kind of contemplation it offers vs. Alcohol is priceless. If you are going to do anything, smoke a fatty.
Best of luck Janky Tits.
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Janky Tits

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Thanks....
I feel a lot better today then I did yesterday. I'm preparing for this completely failing, there is still a chance I can salvage this but you know I'm preparing for the worst
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Janky Tits said: Thanks....
I feel a lot better today then I did yesterday. I'm preparing for this completely failing, there is still a chance I can salvage this but you know I'm preparing for the worst
LOL. What chance? Dude... The feelings don't sound mutual. Just move on. If you keep nagging her she's going to think your a complete creep-if she doesn't already.
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Restraining order time
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It's hard to explain....
You don't know the full story. I'm not going to keep nagging her. I'm just planning to invite her to an event later on when she is not busy. She was busy this time around so it was just a bad time for me to ask her out
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Bigfeely123
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I see man... That's true. I guess I don't know the whole scoop. Whatever it is-just take it easy bro. If she truly has an interest in you she will get ahold of you first, without you reaching out to her. Take care dude.
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Janky Tits

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Thanks I appreciate it
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blackdust


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fuck that noise fight for em' leave it all out on the table than, if shit still goes south, you know you did al; u could
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Janky Tits

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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: blackdust]
#22360547 - 10/10/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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That's EXACLY what I'm talking about....
I don't want to lay it all out just yet but I will resort to that if I have to before I'm through with it and decide to throw in the towel and accept that it is over and no longer worth trying.
I mean I don't think the situation is that grave were I need to take the cat out of the bag and open up to her about how I really feel but if that is what it will come down to then it's worth a shot I guess. I mean why not? It's not like I'm ever going to see her again if she ends up rejecting me outright after I open up to her completely
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topdog82
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Quote:
Bigfeely123 said: Is that what a good relationship is based off of..? Doing drugs together?
Of course you bonded so well on ecstasy. You'd bond well with Hitler if you rolled together.
I lost it so hard to this hahah
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topdog82
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: topdog82]
#22361078 - 10/10/15 10:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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And dude enjoying drugs with friends is fine. Just using that as the basis of a relationship is bad news. IMO drugs haven't negatively effected me at all. Its just the type of people who do drugs or are drawn to the scene can be fucked up
either way; get a routine going and stop thinking about drugs so much
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