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Janky Tits

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Bummed right now :/
#22353870 - 10/09/15 09:41 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm really just bummed right now... been this way for 3 days now.
I'm dealing with this situation where a person who I thought I could depend on has let me down. I spent the last few months furnishing this raw emotional attachment to this person and in my mind this person holds the key to a really amazing foreseeable future. In this person lies all the great times and things I wanted to do for the next few years and I sadly and foolishly spent the last few months furnishing this idea of dependency and attachment to this person and now that my relationship with this person is in danger of sinking to the point where I could lose this person for good it has really bummed me the fuck out. All the great things I left in the hands of this person, my desired future is all in danger of never coming to fulfillment.
Uhhh I know it sounds whiny and pathetic but it just bums me the fuck out that things don't turn the way you hoped they would and seeing your dreams crumble like this. It also sucks when you invest so much into someone to the point that you depend on them and then your emotional investment leads to nothing and then you are left feeling empty in the end.
Anyway I just need something to cheer me up. Any thoughts? Drugs and especially weed are out of the question. If I smoke weed I can only expect to end up thinking about the bullshit currently happening to me right now.
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Lucis
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I don't recommend drugs to drown your sorrows with, perhaps you should take some time to look within yourself, see if there's anything you need to change, see how you can grow.
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Dude you should probably stop rolling so much
There will plenty of other girls to fuck. Aren't you only 18?
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22353892 - 10/09/15 09:45 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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you shouldnt depend on someone else for fulfillment and happiness, often thats just a pipe dream. Happiness comes from within. Life is what you make it. You were foolish and now your feeling down. GO run/exercise. Go be social with some friends. Watch a funny movie or tv show, may i suggest broad city or archer.
Stop moping though its not going to do any good.
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Janky Tits

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It's a girl but it's not my girlfriend. It's with this person that I really liked as a friend and who I had planned so much out with and had planned good times with.
I was planning on maybe drinking myself till I'm hammered and can't feel anything or any sorrow. Some booze would be nice right now.
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Lucis
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Don't do that, booze is a depressant, will put you in a negative head space.
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Janky Tits

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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
#22353944 - 10/09/15 09:56 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I guess I'll just try to get it off my mind for now.
Like I said my relationship with this person is in danger but not completely over. I'm still trying to figure out a way to see if I can keep things on track with this person.
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Rewindicus
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
#22353951 - 10/09/15 09:57 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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seriously man there will be MANY MANY more girls and more heartache in the future its part of growing up and being an adult. HONESTLY even if things did work with this girl the likelyhood that youd even be with her in 10 years is super slim. Your a different person in your 20s' vs 30's and 40's.
I know its hard an it feels like the end of the world but dude you might as well be a fetus. THE world if you oyster man dont give up because the relationship (which isnt even a relationship more of a fawning/crush if i understand right) didnt work out.
and yeah dont drink.
cry it out and get over it and move on.
Its gonna be ok.
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Rewindicus
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Quote:
Janky Tits said: I guess I'll just try to get it off my mind for now.
Like I said my relationship with this person is in danger but not completely over. I'm still trying to figure out a way to see if I can keep things on track with this person.
what did you do?
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22353961 - 10/09/15 09:59 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If she wasn't your significant other in the first place why are you so heartbroken? Move on. There are plenty of other "fish" in the sea man. Keep on truckin'.
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take a 10 strip and have lucy solve your problems for you
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Janky Tits

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Don't really wanna talk about it too much but let's just say a person who I really like and had high hopes for becoming long term friends with pretty much brushed me off and ignored me. This is not a romantic thing at all.
Meeting this person was like finding a gem in a junk pile and it hurts too lose that gem. It's more complicated then it seems. I just had high hopes that I could create a strong bond with this person because I felt so comfortable and amazing around her and I believed that if I could consolidate a friendship with her I could finally find a true friend I can depend on and that I can be myself around. Trust me man, I have so much in common with this person that it sucks so hard losing them like this.
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Rewindicus
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It sounds like they may not feel the same way about you. And as they say it takes 2 to tango. Im not talking just sexually either that goes for any type of relationship otherwise you just become a leach and an annoyance. Some people just wont feel the same way you do about them. And in that regard you may also not feel the connection someone has for you. No matter how perfect a match THEY may think you guys are.
Dont be a weirdo man.
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Janky Tits

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Yeah, I figured I was pestering her at this point. I'm just not going to text her. I might give it one last crack maybe later this week and see if I can open up to her about the whole situation instead of just letting it die without even trying.
It might seem weird to do that but there is context to the situation that I haven't shared. One last try would be worth it in this case.
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Burke Dennings
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This is about bassfreak, isn't it?
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Janky Tits

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Bassfreak wants me to carry out illegal activities over the internet for him
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Lucis
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then why are you mentioning that here?
no bueno
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Janky Tits

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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Lucis]
#22354108 - 10/09/15 10:33 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol I'm not gonna do it 
He wants me to send him rolls but I'm not. Bassfreak is my niqqa but I don't have the provisions and stealth required to do such a deed. Plus I'm saving them for if I reunite with this girl.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22354231 - 10/09/15 11:09 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I am assuming this girl was your first or something? Cause if you were not dating her and you care this much to me that is what I assume, but regardless. There are legit 3.5 billion other women in this world seriously countless fucking women, you were with this girl for a few months and even at that not even dating getting over her will be easy. If I were you I would work on yourself go for a run or the gym, pursue a hobby, go to an area where people your age are and hit on all the women like the mall or something. For a short term right now fix I would call up some of your buddies, grab a 36 pack and go have a night on the town just be adventures have fun you know.
As for getting her back, women don't work like that "one last try" don't work. Ignore her until she hits you up. If you were even a little decent to her in 2 weeks she will hit you up. She might be playing a simple game on you and you're failing. Just ignore her and maybe post a picture of you with another woman just hanging out on whatever social media you have her added on and I swear she'll hit you up.
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Re: Bummed right now :/ [Re: Janky Tits] 5
#22354235 - 10/09/15 11:09 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Janky Tits said: I'm really just bummed right now... been this way for 3 days now.
I'm dealing with this situation where Bassfreak who I thought I could depend on has let me down. I spent the last few months furnishing this raw emotional attachment to Bassfreak and in my mind Bassfreak holds the key to a really amazing foreseeable future. In Bassfreak lies all the great times and things I wanted to do for the next few years and I sadly and foolishly spent the last few months furnishing this idea of dependency and attachment to Bassfreak and now that my relationship with Bassfreak is in danger of sinking to the point where I could lose Bassfreak for good it has really bummed me the fuck out. All the great things I left in the hands of Bassfreak, my desired future is all in danger of never coming to fulfillment.
Uhhh I know it sounds whiny and pathetic but it just bums me the fuck out that things don't turn the way you hoped they would and seeing your dreams crumble like this. It also sucks when you invest so much into someone to the point that you depend on them and then your emotional investment leads to nothing and then you are left feeling empty in the end.
Anyway I just need something to cheer me up. Any thoughts? Drugs and especially weed are out of the question. If I smoke weed I can only expect to end up thinking about the bullshit currently happening to me right now.
Fixed
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