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Anonymous #1
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Need some advice
#22353674 - 10/09/15 08:44 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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In really trying to be friends with this girl...
I met her 2 months ago at a festival and she gave me her number and I had the most amazing time in the world with her and I desperately need a friend like her in my life.
So I texted her yesterday asking her if she wanted to go to a concert sometime. She texts back 2 hours later that she and her friends are trying to go to this concert. I reply with yeah I'm trying to go to that too! She doesn't text back. I text her again next morning asking her if she is going and she never texts back. I was pretty much distraught that she sort of just brushed me off. I later found out she has plans the following weekend to go to another festival by looking at her tweets so I guess she just isn't able to go the show I invited her to and I guess she doesn't wanna text me back that she can't go. That's totally fine but I hate that she left me hanging like that. It really hurt me that she did that.
But anyway I don't want this potential friendship between us to sink. I want to see if this is still salvageable. I plan on texting her on Sunday and opening up to her about how I feel. I plan on telling her how I very much enjoyed spending time with her the first time and that I would love to do it again. I plan on telling her that we have so much in common and that she is an extremely cool and relatable person and that I need someone like her in my life. I need a friend like her.
I need advice on how to say that without sounding creepy or that desperate. I really want to be friends with her, it is so difficult for me to come across someone EXACLY like her. I believe a friendship with this girl could take me a long way and will be greatly rewarding. I really like her and I need to save this opportunity to be her friend somehow.
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Anonymous #2
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I don't think there's any way to say all that stuff without sounding desperate and creepy. Just get over it and invite her to do something else later since she's clearly busy or not interested at the moment. Oh... And chill the fuck out before you go crazy. You're trying WAY too hard.
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Anonymous #3
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Nice try. This isn't the way you behave with people you want to be friends with. this is the way you behave when you want to date someone but pretend its just about being friends. This chick probably already knows your real motives, but if not, having that serious heart to heart about being friends will clue her in.
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Anonymous #1
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That is actually good advice
Thanks
Anon #3: I have a girlfriend. I don't wanna bang her, I'm 100% serious. I've just been dying to find friends like her. She had this really awesome group of friends. They are all attractive single hippie girls who are into dubstep and festivals and psychedelics and I've been waiting for the chance to find friends like them. Like I said a friendship with her can take me a long way. I have no friends like them and I've been waiting for the chance build a deep friendship with someone like her who has the same interests as me. I want to travel next summer with a group of friends like them and go to shit like Electric Forest and Camp Bisco but I haven't been able too because none of my friends are into those things the way I am and aren't willing to travel and go to festivals that are that far away.
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Anonymous #1
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You know that saying " you need to find new friends..."
Well this is me trying to find and make new friends. My friends suck and it's time I got a new group of friends
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Anonymous #3
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: That is actually good advice
Thanks
Anon #3: I have a girlfriend. I don't wanna bang her, I'm 100% serious. I've just been dying to find friends like her. She had this really awesome group of friends. They are all attractive single hippie girls who are into dubstep and festivals and psychedelics and I've been waiting for the chance to find friends like them. Like I said a friendship with her can take me a long way. I have no friends like them and I've been waiting for the chance build a deep friendship with someone like her who has the same interests as me. I want to travel next summer with a group of friends like them and go to shit like Electric Forest and Camp Bisco but I haven't been able too because none of my friends are into those things the way I am and aren't willing to travel and go to festivals that are that far away.
I don't believe you
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Anonymous #4
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Janky, you're too young to go getting hung up on one chick.
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Anonymous #1
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I know man....
It's just it's so hard letting go of someone who is into everything that I'm into :/
She loved Zeds Dead and is a Basshead like me and we have so much shit in common.
Its going to be really hard finding a cute hippie chick who is the same a her again
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Anonymous #4
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Stop worrying about replacing her. Find something new and different and appreciate her for who she is, not get hung up on who she isn't. I met my wife when I was 14 and was married with a kid by 19. Things generally do not happen like that though. People usually don't start settling down with a single person til their mid 20's. Maybe even later.
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Anonymous #1
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Shroomslip?
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Anonymous #4
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Probably not too many others on the board that would fit that description.
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Anonymous #1
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I don't know why but I can just tell when it's you. Whether it's your Romper Room posts or anywhere else.
When I started reading this thread I immediately started reading it with the same voice I read all your posts with. Shit is so obvious for some reason
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Anonymous #4
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I post a lot, it's easy to build a picture of my general posting style. Everyone can spot me.
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Anonymous #5
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nobody needs someone in ther life that ignores them, a simple reply saying sorry i dont want to see you would suffice. no, u dont need ppl like that in your life
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