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OfflineBabydoll Zamnza
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I miss him, but I shouldn't
    #22343300 - 10/06/15 10:38 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

My ex broke up with me and the past two months have been failed attempt after failed attempt trying to get over him. Ive focused on working out, eating healthy, learning new skills, but it wasnt enough. So I started dating guys; fraternity guys, younger men, older men, guys Ive known since high school, but it didnt work. I have slept with 5 men trying to get over my ex. Nothing is working. I dont want him back, Im just mourning the relationship.

How did you get over an ex??


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22343315 - 10/06/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

You don't

It's been over 2 years and I still think about mine every day

She was so beautiful and I miss her dearly

But alas some things are just not meant to be and you must come to accept that if you truly want to find peace


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #22343410 - 10/06/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

:whathesaid:

I broke up with my ex around a year ago, I still think of her occasionally and even have dreams about her, to be fair I dream about a ton of random stuff.

I am not sad anymore really especially compared to a year ago right as we broke up, now I am more motivated to better myself and find someone more compatible :shrug:

Just try to focus on other things, my mom just broke up with her longtime boyfriend and has been an on and off mess. She already has many emotional issues though from her childhood and past relationships. All we can do is try to focus on the positive and move forward. I tend to distract myself from issues but thinking about them to work over left over emotions is much more healthy. Balance is important as with everything, I hope you manage to find it :peace:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza] * 1
    #22343424 - 10/06/15 11:07 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

So you've dated like 6 different types of guys and fucked like 5 different guys for fun over the course of 2 months?

Sounds like you've been busy. If that much isn't enough to get you over your ex, you're fucked :lol:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #22343458 - 10/06/15 11:16 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

OhMrJohnson said:
You don't

It's been over 2 years and I still think about mine every day

She was so beautiful and I miss her dearly

But alas some things are just not meant to be and you must come to accept that if you truly want to find peace




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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza] * 5
    #22343469 - 10/06/15 11:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman]
    #22343483 - 10/06/15 11:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

qman said:
Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:




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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman] * 2
    #22343485 - 10/06/15 11:27 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

speak for urself :whatyougonnado:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #22343486 - 10/06/15 11:27 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

You need to.take.time. to work on yourself you are jumping in bed with the first guy you see fit because you are trying to fill an empty spot.you now have. You need to stay out.of a.relationship and focus on you and all the good things you have in life without him take this time.to better your life wether it.be spiritually career wis hobby wise anything this is time.for.you to heal and when you do meet someone else that you really think you can see yourself with long term not just a fuck for.two weeks and then dip then you take it slow with this man. But only after you have taken care of yourself because nobody can get you through this but you. Stay strong and you will move on I don't know details but it just sounds like you two were.trying to push something that was not meant to be everything happens for a reason

Make yourself.your first priority stay strong and don't try to make something work that obviously  is.not.going to

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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Uzziel]
    #22343559 - 10/06/15 11:49 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Uzziel said:
So you've dated like 6 different types of guys and fucked like 5 different guys for fun over the course of 2 months?

Sounds like you've been busy. If that much isn't enough to get you over your ex, you're fucked :lol:



Ha ha. Indeed. All it should have taken her is the one right guy to pound all the memories of her ex away.

OP, just work on you


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22343595 - 10/07/15 12:00 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Babydoll Zamnza said:
How did you get over an ex??





time.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22343617 - 10/07/15 12:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

keep doin what you're doin'. the best way to kick a habit is to replace it with other habits and you seem to be doin' that already


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: azur]
    #22343691 - 10/07/15 12:33 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

"Sounds like you've been busy. If that much isn't enough to get you ove
Ha ha. Indeed. All it should have taken her is the one right guy to pound all the memories of her ex away."
I've only slept with two guys ever I can say I just got out of a relationship myself about a month and a half ago and and well I should practice what I preach however you must have hoped in bed with with some.guys that were either selfish in bed or just plain bad

But I am in a new relationship and the sex is GREAT





"OP, just work on you"
Just do it! Lol :hug:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22343700 - 10/07/15 12:35 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Babydoll Zamnza said:

How did you get over an ex??



Usually by going out and getting laid.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: TheMovement]
    #22343709 - 10/07/15 12:40 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Time heals. It's been 10 months since I broke it with my ex of seven years. Some days are good, some days you just cry all day. But the important thing to remember is that life goes on and you'll be fine. Smile about the good times and be aware of the reasons why you broke up as well, and be hopeful that something even better will come your way.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OsculateOfDemise]
    #22343940 - 10/07/15 03:15 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Damn I wish I could get laid that many times in a year :rolleyes: but yea it's all about time. There's really no way to get over someone you loved but with the right amount of time it just gets easier to deal with and you begin to push it to the back of your mind. Don't let someone else run your life, you're in control!


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Rebelutionsssss] * 1
    #22343973 - 10/07/15 03:54 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

It must be strange being incapable of walking around on your own without crying.  You know, the whole 5 guys thing, yeah...5 guys who can't remember your name etc..  but the 'inside' thing...the inability to be alone being so..painful.. that you would subject yourself to that.. like, I get it, companionship but.. that's not what that was.

People are born different.  I understand that mentality where you run yourself through, just because you cant stand being alone in the same room with yourself.  It legitimatly makes me feel, some form, of the sadness people 'live' with on a constant.

I guess some people shoot smack, others eat, some thrillseek, some watch movies, read..some 'companionship'.  Anything to escape being 'locked' in ther own head I suppose..  Thinking about that shit is kind of depressing..

I post on the Shroomery.  I guess everyone has something they're running from..


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
    #22343982 - 10/07/15 04:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I just totally inflected man..  :meatwad:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
    #22343983 - 10/07/15 04:10 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

:hugitout:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #22343989 - 10/07/15 04:15 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

:hug:..so how bout those sports teams...doin' their thing out there and stuff..


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22343996 - 10/07/15 04:20 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Once I got with this really hot polish girl on holiday and became rather depressed knowing i would never see her again when I returned. I then decided to smoke some cannabis which hit me hard as I'd been on a long break, I started thinking about how something 'major' had been affecting me, I remembered what it was and started laughing as the prospect of actually being with her in a relationship was fucking stupid; she could barely speak English much less understand my accent.
Even though you still have feelings for him ignore them, wanting what we can't have is man business - 'Faint heart never won fair maid', and any other applicable out-dated rape themed adage.
If all else fails then, yeah, heroin.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #22344037 - 10/07/15 04:50 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Prisoner#1 said:
Quote:

Babydoll Zamnza said:
How did you get over an ex??





time.



I was about to post the exact same thing.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: koraks]
    #22344092 - 10/07/15 05:47 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Just because a dude has sex with a girl doesn't mean he actually gives a fuck about her

Most guys just wanna get their dick wet, don't be the foolish girl that gives them that opportunity for no reason other than trying to fill a void

I don't say this to be hurtful I say it because it's the truth

Fucking a bunch of dudes who don't truly care about you will not solve any of your emotional problems whatsoever


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #22344099 - 10/07/15 05:50 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

A lot of girls do it sadly.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #22344103 - 10/07/15 05:52 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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OhMrJohnson said: Fucking a bunch of dudes who don't truly care about you will not solve any of your emotional problems whatsoever




Someone should have told that to my first girlfriend... I guess she had fun at the time.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Sketch Turner]
    #22344105 - 10/07/15 05:55 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I never said anything about it not being fun, no doubt it is

But at the end of it when all these dudes want is another piece of ass and they don't even look at her as someone with emotions I have to assume that can't be a good feeling

But what do I know I'm just a guy speculating


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #22344123 - 10/07/15 06:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah I wasn't really being serious, although it did help me get over her.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: mindbodysoul] * 1
    #22344139 - 10/07/15 06:27 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

mindbodysoul said:
Quote:

qman said:
Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:







What exactly does this have to do with the OP?

Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 3
    #22344199 - 10/07/15 07:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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CookieCrumbs said:
Quote:

mindbodysoul said:
Quote:

qman said:
Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:







What exactly does this have to do with the OP?

Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.



Ha ha. Sounds like you're being the defensive one. And no one has pushed any anti-feminism here. Don't be pissed at those guys cause you're probably a slut that can't figure out why you can't get a guy that actually gives a shit about you


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22344278 - 10/07/15 07:55 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Babydoll Zamnza said:
My ex broke up with me and the past two months have been failed attempt after failed attempt trying to get over him. Ive focused on working out, eating healthy, learning new skills, but it wasnt enough. So I started dating guys; fraternity guys, younger men, older men, guys Ive known since high school, but it didnt work. I have slept with 5 men trying to get over my ex. Nothing is working. I dont want him back, Im just mourning the relationship.

How did you get over an ex??




Did the reverse of your order.

Hooked up with a bunch of random chicks -- pity sex after a breakup is quite easy to get.
One of them was on the rebound from a recent breakup of her own.  The pillow talk with her was particularly illuminating.

Ultimately found the random hookups to provide little more than momentary distractions.

Turned all my attention to new hobbies, or hobbies that my ex had never taken interest in.  Spent time becoming more familiar with myself again.
Started dating someone new.  Ended up in a better relationship than my old one.  Realized that somewhere along the line my sense of loss had eased away in the meantime.

It has already been said in this thread, but really nothing is going to help more than time. :shrug:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22344295 - 10/07/15 08:04 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Babydoll Zamnza said:
I have slept with 5 men trying to get over my ex. Nothing is working.

How did you get over an ex??





Try having sex with 5 more maybe?

Don't give up though, you'll be in another dude's bed not thinking about your ex in no time.

Just keep at it.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: 1234go]
    #22344302 - 10/07/15 08:06 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Try having sex with 5 more maybe?





Best advice here
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22344309 - 10/07/15 08:09 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Working out and sex have always cured my relationship blues...


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: RobZombie68]
    #22344325 - 10/07/15 08:21 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Just make it a solid 10 to be safe. There's no problem with being an over achiever


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: CookieCrumbs] * 1
    #22344463 - 10/07/15 09:26 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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CookieCrumbs said:
Quote:

mindbodysoul said:
Quote:

qman said:
Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:







What exactly does this have to do with the OP?

Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.




"What exactly does this have to do with the OP?"

She has the luxury of fucking away her issues from a broken relationship, the large majority don't have that same opportunity.

"Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit"

Sounds like you're getting defensive, I haven't stated anything that's untrue.

Here's the deal, there's a BIG double standard when it comes to the sexes leaving a serious relationship, I've seen it a thousand times.

The man is usually floored and devastated from the breakup, and can't even think of getting involved with other woman for a lengthy period of time. If he does start dating in short order, he's called every dirty name in the book.

A woman can rebound in a matter of days/weeks, I've seen the shock on the ex's face when he's told she's already fucking some other dude. For her, everyone thinks it's great that's she is moving on.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman]
    #22344986 - 10/07/15 11:52 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I mean I don't know what fantasy world you live it but it's equally devastating to find out your ex is fucking someone else. And plenty of other posters over have clearly mentioned that they fucked several women after their breakup. I don't know what kind of double standard you see around your neck of the woods but it goes both ways. Some people are more devastated after a break up and won't get into the game for a while, when others use sex as a way to cope. Regardless of gender. Women can be sluts and so can men.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman]
    #22348143 - 10/07/15 11:36 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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qman said:
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CookieCrumbs said:
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mindbodysoul said:
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Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:







What exactly does this have to do with the OP?

Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.




"What exactly does this have to do with the OP?"

She has the luxury of fucking away her issues from a broken relationship, the large majority don't have that same opportunity.

"Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit"

Sounds like you're getting defensive, I haven't stated anything that's untrue.

Here's the deal, there's a BIG double standard when it comes to the sexes leaving a serious relationship, I've seen it a thousand times.

The man is usually floored and devastated from the breakup, and can't even think of getting involved with other woman for a lengthy period of time. If he does start dating in short order, he's called every dirty name in the book.

A woman can rebound in a matter of days/weeks, I've seen the shock on the ex's face when he's told she's already fucking some other dude. For her, everyone thinks it's great that's she is moving on.



This post is trash.  You're using your jaded views to generalize an entire gender.  Both genders actually.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22348399 - 10/08/15 01:18 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Sometimes intimate relationships fuck you up on a fundemental level. Seeing new people,forgetting the past. Imo that's the only way to conventionally get past an ex. Emotionally they will always be in your memory.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22348405 - 10/08/15 01:23 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

So I guess it's finally been discovered, as well as settled... males, as well as females, depending on the particular person in the spotlight, can all fall into any varying section of the 'lifes options' spectrums...  clearly..

Now...what does that spectum entail..and what are the varying differences that should be kept in mind when viewing our subjects...

For instance, if I were to be specifically looking for a fuck... would I be better off as a man, or a woman........man with money, woman with money...fat?  All variables to consider..

The only constant I see is.. penis vagina.  Looking across that spectrum, of lifes options..I see penis that will drill, without thought..and vagina, that will be drilled, without though..ok..the other end of the spectrum...penis that cant find anything that will let it drill..and vagina that cant find anything to drill it...ok

Seems there is a pretty well spread sectrum of 'life options' depending on who you are within that spectrum.. so

The only 'constant'..would be morals.  What are you willing to do and why.  What do your eyes seek.  What did you come here to do.  We've established that from a generalized perspective, males AND females are as equally fucked up, as they aren't.. so nobody can throw stones..

Op, how have your actions up to this point been a benifit, or a consequence?  Looking at that, what do you think you need to adjust, in order to get where you're trying to be?  Act on it... and then reevaluate, and act upon that.

If your morals are on base, you will be fine.  If your morals are off base, you're fucked.. 

Go and live your jollies as well as your consequences..  after all, we all die alone.  At the end of the day, it's all about which path you chose from that 'lifes spectrum' of options that's going to determine whether you finish 'happy or sad'... or 'content or discontent'...shit like that..


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
    #22348447 - 10/08/15 01:54 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

It's an ex for a reason. Obviously something in the relationship was toxic enough to make it end. Perhaps your afraid to be alone cuz u were in a relationship so long. I was always told the best way to get over one guy,is to get under another... While it sounds "fuckin" great teehee.. The thought of stds just never gave me the desire to really whore it up. I do have whore-ish tendencies at times, I try to avoid them by pursuing more positive outlets like fishing, giving advice to strangers,or putting my desire to love something that's a bit stubborn,needy,picky...like a man, into growing cubes. When all else fails.. There's always masturbation!! Best way to love yourself and be std free.. Yay! Good luck & good vibes  :cheers:


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Imthepoop]
    #22348505 - 10/08/15 02:35 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

So, you're into fishing.. word.  We should hang out sometime, I like fishing..


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
    #22348520 - 10/08/15 02:47 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I think maybe 10-15 more guys and OP should be completely over her ex. Just took a Costco sized box of condoms


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Babydoll Zamnza]
    #22349103 - 10/08/15 08:32 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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How did you get over an ex??




With my next ex, what else?


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
    #22350446 - 10/08/15 02:57 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

More like obsessed with bass fishing. Would love to go pro one day


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    #22350584 - 10/08/15 03:42 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

fishing is the most boring thing ever and getting bit by mosquitoes sucks ass


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Imthepoop]
    #22350745 - 10/08/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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More like obsessed with bass fishing. Would love to go pro one day



Do you have a boat with all the amenities? Sonar, nice trolling motor, 225 Yamaha to get to the hole? Do you like crankbaits or plastics?


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    #22351081 - 10/08/15 05:42 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: azur]
    #22351127 - 10/08/15 05:52 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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qman said:
Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it. 

Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.  :facepalm:







What exactly does this have to do with the OP?

Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.



Ha ha. Sounds like you're being the defensive one. And no one has pushed any anti-feminism here. Don't be pissed at those guys cause you're probably a slut that can't figure out why you can't get a guy that actually gives a shit about you




wow.

Lots of assumptions. I didn't make any assumptions though, and I certainly didn't start trying to throw out blatant insults, qman pushes anti-feminism shit all the time.

Btw, thanks for clearing up what exactly that "how dare you not think we hurt too" statement has to do with the OP.


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    #22351420 - 10/08/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I wasn't aware of qman. I apologize.


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #22353499 - 10/09/15 07:36 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm all about the top waters, I get off on seeing the fish hit. The little rapalla that looks like the most bland boring minnow fucking kills, black back/silver stomach.  I think most baits are just to catch buyers..  I'll usually toss out my catfish rigs and then top water across whereever I'm at.


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    #22353531 - 10/09/15 07:45 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Those bass stopper worms in the 90's always worked. Just a simple rubber worm with a slotted line going down the back. Power bait was great too.
I think you're right about a lot of bait is just to catch buyers


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: azur]
    #22353549 - 10/09/15 07:54 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

This is the one you want for pond fishing.. bass kick each others ass out of the way to get to it..  I've had them fire on it first cast as soon as it hits the water., it triggers that 'involuntary hit' out of them..they hit it before thinking about what theyre doing..

They're like $7, 6 or 7, something like that.  They kill it.


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    #22353562 - 10/09/15 08:02 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

They look big. I may try em next time i go to lake Marion in santee. I live 20 min from the ocean, so that would be my best bet, or the marsh rivers. I haven't fished in the salt water yet. Probably should get on that


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: azur]
    #22357053 - 10/09/15 11:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I have 2 of those actually. I have everything u could imagine. I'm ashamed how much money I have invested into fishing gear. In my 4 poles and reels alone probably 800$ not including a huge UA storm backpack full of lures, a 3 ring 3in binder full of soft baits, trailers, yamamoto senkos being my favorite. My backpack is mainly hard baits. I love throwing hard baits especially top water. I have a 6in bullshad and that bastard was 50$ alone. I'm very invested in Bass fishing. Not really into any other kind much other than crappie. I've never caught a striped bass so that's goal next spring. Them bitches can get pretty massive. My biggest largemouth was pushing 7lbs. I carry a shit ton of bug spray the strongest i can get. I have sonar but I hate the fucking thing. I'd rather use my eyes,ears, and intuition. I don't really enjoy fishing for quanity, I prefer quality. I go after the big ones. I throw big baits to catch them big bass. There's pretty much nothing I dnt know about Bass fishing. I do it day,night,or sometimes both lol.


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    #22357093 - 10/09/15 11:40 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

My main lures are the whopper plopper (top water)that thing is a fucking beast. The yamamoto 5in swim senkos,and rattle baits. I do crank baits sometimes but never any luck with the really deep divers. That Little diver someone posted caught me a few big spawning girls. I use frogs sometimes as well. I probably got a cple tackle boxes full of lures I don't use much. Depends on where I fish and conditions. Not to fond of jigs yet. Never much luck with those either. I put in a shit ton of time into learning about the sport of bass fishing, and who the hell knows how many hours of fishing. It's just my thing... I dig it!


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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #22357174 - 10/10/15 12:12 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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How did you get over an ex??





time.





This.  And sometimes a Lot

I've been fucked over emotionally by more than one.  :sad:

Just have to keep picking yourself back up.  I was so broken when my family broke up and I had to see my kids live somewhere else for half the time

I then started to fall in love with someone else but she obviously didn't feel the same.  It was a "breakup" in many ways and that cut me pretty deep too.  It resurfaced everything I thought I was over

But, tis the nature of the beast.  Just keep pushing forward and be grateful for the good things in your life and don't focus on the negative


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