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Sketch Turner
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Once I got with this really hot polish girl on holiday and became rather depressed knowing i would never see her again when I returned. I then decided to smoke some cannabis which hit me hard as I'd been on a long break, I started thinking about how something 'major' had been affecting me, I remembered what it was and started laughing as the prospect of actually being with her in a relationship was fucking stupid; she could barely speak English much less understand my accent. Even though you still have feelings for him ignore them, wanting what we can't have is man business - 'Faint heart never won fair maid', and any other applicable out-dated rape themed adage. If all else fails then, yeah, heroin.
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koraks
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Prisoner#1]
#22344037 - 10/07/15 04:50 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Babydoll Zamnza said: How did you get over an ex??
time.
I was about to post the exact same thing.
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OhMrJohnson
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: koraks]
#22344092 - 10/07/15 05:47 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just because a dude has sex with a girl doesn't mean he actually gives a fuck about her
Most guys just wanna get their dick wet, don't be the foolish girl that gives them that opportunity for no reason other than trying to fill a void
I don't say this to be hurtful I say it because it's the truth
Fucking a bunch of dudes who don't truly care about you will not solve any of your emotional problems whatsoever
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#22344099 - 10/07/15 05:50 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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A lot of girls do it sadly.
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Sketch Turner
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#22344103 - 10/07/15 05:52 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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OhMrJohnson said: Fucking a bunch of dudes who don't truly care about you will not solve any of your emotional problems whatsoever
Someone should have told that to my first girlfriend... I guess she had fun at the time.
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OhMrJohnson
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I never said anything about it not being fun, no doubt it is
But at the end of it when all these dudes want is another piece of ass and they don't even look at her as someone with emotions I have to assume that can't be a good feeling
But what do I know I'm just a guy speculating
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Sketch Turner
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#22344123 - 10/07/15 06:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah I wasn't really being serious, although it did help me get over her.
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CookieCrumbs
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: mindbodysoul] 1
#22344139 - 10/07/15 06:27 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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qman said: Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it.
Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism. 
What exactly does this have to do with the OP?
Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: CookieCrumbs] 3
#22344199 - 10/07/15 07:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said:
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qman said: Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it.
Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism. 
What exactly does this have to do with the OP?
Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.
Ha ha. Sounds like you're being the defensive one. And no one has pushed any anti-feminism here. Don't be pissed at those guys cause you're probably a slut that can't figure out why you can't get a guy that actually gives a shit about you
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Babydoll Zamnza said: My ex broke up with me and the past two months have been failed attempt after failed attempt trying to get over him. Ive focused on working out, eating healthy, learning new skills, but it wasnt enough. So I started dating guys; fraternity guys, younger men, older men, guys Ive known since high school, but it didnt work. I have slept with 5 men trying to get over my ex. Nothing is working. I dont want him back, Im just mourning the relationship.
How did you get over an ex??
Did the reverse of your order.
Hooked up with a bunch of random chicks -- pity sex after a breakup is quite easy to get. One of them was on the rebound from a recent breakup of her own. The pillow talk with her was particularly illuminating.
Ultimately found the random hookups to provide little more than momentary distractions.
Turned all my attention to new hobbies, or hobbies that my ex had never taken interest in. Spent time becoming more familiar with myself again. Started dating someone new. Ended up in a better relationship than my old one. Realized that somewhere along the line my sense of loss had eased away in the meantime.
It has already been said in this thread, but really nothing is going to help more than time.
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1234go
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Babydoll Zamnza said: I have slept with 5 men trying to get over my ex. Nothing is working.
How did you get over an ex??
Try having sex with 5 more maybe?
Don't give up though, you'll be in another dude's bed not thinking about your ex in no time.
Just keep at it.
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: 1234go]
#22344302 - 10/07/15 08:06 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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1234go said: Try having sex with 5 more maybe?
Best advice here
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Working out and sex have always cured my relationship blues...
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: RobZombie68]
#22344325 - 10/07/15 08:21 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just make it a solid 10 to be safe. There's no problem with being an over achiever
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: CookieCrumbs] 1
#22344463 - 10/07/15 09:26 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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qman said: Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it.
Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism. 
What exactly does this have to do with the OP?
Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.
"What exactly does this have to do with the OP?"
She has the luxury of fucking away her issues from a broken relationship, the large majority don't have that same opportunity.
"Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit"
Sounds like you're getting defensive, I haven't stated anything that's untrue.
Here's the deal, there's a BIG double standard when it comes to the sexes leaving a serious relationship, I've seen it a thousand times.
The man is usually floored and devastated from the breakup, and can't even think of getting involved with other woman for a lengthy period of time. If he does start dating in short order, he's called every dirty name in the book.
A woman can rebound in a matter of days/weeks, I've seen the shock on the ex's face when he's told she's already fucking some other dude. For her, everyone thinks it's great that's she is moving on.
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman]
#22344986 - 10/07/15 11:52 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I mean I don't know what fantasy world you live it but it's equally devastating to find out your ex is fucking someone else. And plenty of other posters over have clearly mentioned that they fucked several women after their breakup. I don't know what kind of double standard you see around your neck of the woods but it goes both ways. Some people are more devastated after a break up and won't get into the game for a while, when others use sex as a way to cope. Regardless of gender. Women can be sluts and so can men.
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman]
#22348143 - 10/07/15 11:36 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said:
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mindbodysoul said:
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qman said: Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it.
Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism. 
What exactly does this have to do with the OP?
Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit everywhere every chance you get. Usually the most defensive ones are the ones that causes the problems.
"What exactly does this have to do with the OP?"
She has the luxury of fucking away her issues from a broken relationship, the large majority don't have that same opportunity.
"Stop pushing your anti-feminism shit"
Sounds like you're getting defensive, I haven't stated anything that's untrue.
Here's the deal, there's a BIG double standard when it comes to the sexes leaving a serious relationship, I've seen it a thousand times.
The man is usually floored and devastated from the breakup, and can't even think of getting involved with other woman for a lengthy period of time. If he does start dating in short order, he's called every dirty name in the book.
A woman can rebound in a matter of days/weeks, I've seen the shock on the ex's face when he's told she's already fucking some other dude. For her, everyone thinks it's great that's she is moving on.
This post is trash. You're using your jaded views to generalize an entire gender. Both genders actually.
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Sometimes intimate relationships fuck you up on a fundemental level. Seeing new people,forgetting the past. Imo that's the only way to conventionally get past an ex. Emotionally they will always be in your memory.
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So I guess it's finally been discovered, as well as settled... males, as well as females, depending on the particular person in the spotlight, can all fall into any varying section of the 'lifes options' spectrums... clearly..
Now...what does that spectum entail..and what are the varying differences that should be kept in mind when viewing our subjects...
For instance, if I were to be specifically looking for a fuck... would I be better off as a man, or a woman........man with money, woman with money...fat? All variables to consider..
The only constant I see is.. penis vagina. Looking across that spectrum, of lifes options..I see penis that will drill, without thought..and vagina, that will be drilled, without though..ok..the other end of the spectrum...penis that cant find anything that will let it drill..and vagina that cant find anything to drill it...ok
Seems there is a pretty well spread sectrum of 'life options' depending on who you are within that spectrum.. so
The only 'constant'..would be morals. What are you willing to do and why. What do your eyes seek. What did you come here to do. We've established that from a generalized perspective, males AND females are as equally fucked up, as they aren't.. so nobody can throw stones..
Op, how have your actions up to this point been a benifit, or a consequence? Looking at that, what do you think you need to adjust, in order to get where you're trying to be? Act on it... and then reevaluate, and act upon that.
If your morals are on base, you will be fine. If your morals are off base, you're fucked..
Go and live your jollies as well as your consequences.. after all, we all die alone. At the end of the day, it's all about which path you chose from that 'lifes spectrum' of options that's going to determine whether you finish 'happy or sad'... or 'content or discontent'...shit like that..
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
#22348447 - 10/08/15 01:54 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's an ex for a reason. Obviously something in the relationship was toxic enough to make it end. Perhaps your afraid to be alone cuz u were in a relationship so long. I was always told the best way to get over one guy,is to get under another... While it sounds "fuckin" great teehee.. The thought of stds just never gave me the desire to really whore it up. I do have whore-ish tendencies at times, I try to avoid them by pursuing more positive outlets like fishing, giving advice to strangers,or putting my desire to love something that's a bit stubborn,needy,picky...like a man, into growing cubes. When all else fails.. There's always masturbation!! Best way to love yourself and be std free.. Yay! Good luck & good vibes
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