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Babydoll Zamnza
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I miss him, but I shouldn't
#22343300 - 10/06/15 10:38 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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My ex broke up with me and the past two months have been failed attempt after failed attempt trying to get over him. Ive focused on working out, eating healthy, learning new skills, but it wasnt enough. So I started dating guys; fraternity guys, younger men, older men, guys Ive known since high school, but it didnt work. I have slept with 5 men trying to get over my ex. Nothing is working. I dont want him back, Im just mourning the relationship.
How did you get over an ex??
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OhMrJohnson
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You don't
It's been over 2 years and I still think about mine every day
She was so beautiful and I miss her dearly
But alas some things are just not meant to be and you must come to accept that if you truly want to find peace
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musiclover420
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#22343410 - 10/06/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I broke up with my ex around a year ago, I still think of her occasionally and even have dreams about her, to be fair I dream about a ton of random stuff.
I am not sad anymore really especially compared to a year ago right as we broke up, now I am more motivated to better myself and find someone more compatible 
Just try to focus on other things, my mom just broke up with her longtime boyfriend and has been an on and off mess. She already has many emotional issues though from her childhood and past relationships. All we can do is try to focus on the positive and move forward. I tend to distract myself from issues but thinking about them to work over left over emotions is much more healthy. Balance is important as with everything, I hope you manage to find it
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Uzziel
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So you've dated like 6 different types of guys and fucked like 5 different guys for fun over the course of 2 months?
Sounds like you've been busy. If that much isn't enough to get you over your ex, you're fucked
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#22343458 - 10/06/15 11:16 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
OhMrJohnson said: You don't
It's been over 2 years and I still think about mine every day
She was so beautiful and I miss her dearly
But alas some things are just not meant to be and you must come to accept that if you truly want to find peace
This.
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Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it.
Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism.
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mindbodysoul
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman]
#22343483 - 10/06/15 11:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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qman said: Must be nice to fuck away the stresses of a broken relationship like a female can and still bitch about it.
Many guys go through a depression that doesn't involved a fuckathon, yet women still complain about sexism. 
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: qman] 2
#22343485 - 10/06/15 11:27 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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speak for urself
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burningstar06
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You need to.take.time. to work on yourself you are jumping in bed with the first guy you see fit because you are trying to fill an empty spot.you now have. You need to stay out.of a.relationship and focus on you and all the good things you have in life without him take this time.to better your life wether it.be spiritually career wis hobby wise anything this is time.for.you to heal and when you do meet someone else that you really think you can see yourself with long term not just a fuck for.two weeks and then dip then you take it slow with this man. But only after you have taken care of yourself because nobody can get you through this but you. Stay strong and you will move on I don't know details but it just sounds like you two were.trying to push something that was not meant to be everything happens for a reason
Make yourself.your first priority stay strong and don't try to make something work that obviously is.not.going to
everything we be better with time
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azur
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Uzziel]
#22343559 - 10/06/15 11:49 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Uzziel said: So you've dated like 6 different types of guys and fucked like 5 different guys for fun over the course of 2 months?
Sounds like you've been busy. If that much isn't enough to get you over your ex, you're fucked 
Ha ha. Indeed. All it should have taken her is the one right guy to pound all the memories of her ex away.
OP, just work on you
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Quote:
Babydoll Zamnza said: How did you get over an ex??
time.
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Envix
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keep doin what you're doin'. the best way to kick a habit is to replace it with other habits and you seem to be doin' that already
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: azur]
#22343691 - 10/07/15 12:33 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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"Sounds like you've been busy. If that much isn't enough to get you ove Ha ha. Indeed. All it should have taken her is the one right guy to pound all the memories of her ex away." I've only slept with two guys ever I can say I just got out of a relationship myself about a month and a half ago and and well I should practice what I preach however you must have hoped in bed with with some.guys that were either selfish in bed or just plain bad
But I am in a new relationship and the sex is GREAT
"OP, just work on you" Just do it! Lol
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TheMovement
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Quote:
Babydoll Zamnza said:
How did you get over an ex??
Usually by going out and getting laid.
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: TheMovement]
#22343709 - 10/07/15 12:40 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Time heals. It's been 10 months since I broke it with my ex of seven years. Some days are good, some days you just cry all day. But the important thing to remember is that life goes on and you'll be fine. Smile about the good times and be aware of the reasons why you broke up as well, and be hopeful that something even better will come your way.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Damn I wish I could get laid that many times in a year but yea it's all about time. There's really no way to get over someone you loved but with the right amount of time it just gets easier to deal with and you begin to push it to the back of your mind. Don't let someone else run your life, you're in control!
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Amanita86
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It must be strange being incapable of walking around on your own without crying. You know, the whole 5 guys thing, yeah...5 guys who can't remember your name etc.. but the 'inside' thing...the inability to be alone being so..painful.. that you would subject yourself to that.. like, I get it, companionship but.. that's not what that was.
People are born different. I understand that mentality where you run yourself through, just because you cant stand being alone in the same room with yourself. It legitimatly makes me feel, some form, of the sadness people 'live' with on a constant.
I guess some people shoot smack, others eat, some thrillseek, some watch movies, read..some 'companionship'. Anything to escape being 'locked' in ther own head I suppose.. Thinking about that shit is kind of depressing..
I post on the Shroomery. I guess everyone has something they're running from..
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Amanita86
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
#22343982 - 10/07/15 04:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I just totally inflected man..
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: I miss him, but I shouldn't [Re: Amanita86]
#22343983 - 10/07/15 04:10 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Amanita86
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..so how bout those sports teams...doin' their thing out there and stuff..
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