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Picking Fights
#22341760 - 10/06/15 05:08 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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So I was sitting in the living room with my girlfriend. I had an oil radiator heater turned on really low so I could slightly room the warm. I had the window open just a little so that I could hear the neighborhood sounds, remove the stuffiness from the room, and let in some fresh air.
Eventually my girl noticed the heater was on and she asked me why I had the heat on and the window open at the same time. She flipped out and shouted some stuff and then slammed the door to her bedroom. Then she stomps back into the living room and tells me I need to get my priorities straight before the end of the week or she is leaving. She then stomps away and slams the door. Then moments later she stomps back in the living room and tells me that I don't even have a week and that she is leaving Friday.
Since we moved in together (it's been a month) she has threatened to leave about every 2-3 days.
This seems like a sign....
But I am not sure. What do you think?

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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 8
#22341771 - 10/06/15 05:11 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Stomp into the room, yell at her that she has till the end of the night to pack her things and leave, stomp out and slam the door.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 2
#22341774 - 10/06/15 05:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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wow what a bitch does she always flip out over nothing? I mean she does have a point bout the heater but come onnn. was this like cracked or wide open what? is money super tight over there or something? shes prob jus all stressed out bout ton of little things ur doing adding up to this one heater thing incident where she flipped out hence the threating to leave and all this
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 1
#22341789 - 10/06/15 05:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Don't escalate anything with her if you have anything illegal in the house/apartment. Crazy significant others are number one reason people get busted. Call her out and tell her to GTFO once everything illegal and incriminating is taken care of.
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everyones prob over reacting here he cant jus kick her out on the street if shes living there
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 2
#22341812 - 10/06/15 05:24 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How exactly does one room a warm?
I say call her bluff. Win-win. Either she gets the fuck out and you don't have to hear that bullshit or be held hostage by an emotional terrorist, or she learns that shit doesn't do her any good and stops.
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Tell her to kick rocks man.
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Women think you wont hit them, so they use emotional leverage much harder then a small man would. I see women being terrible to men alot, one to=ime sombad that I regretted consoling her after she got hit when I didnt know the context of what started stuff
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22341830 - 10/06/15 05:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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walk in there and hate fuck the shit out of her, nothing like a good hate fuck to set an ornery bitch straight.
let that dick teach her a lesson she will never forget.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Lucis]
#22341839 - 10/06/15 05:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah this relationship is already over. Let her go. I'm with pslyke too. You don't wanna risk yourself, and flipping out is never as satisfying as you imagine it would be. She's gonna think what she's gonna think. She doesn't sound very logical.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: pslyke]
#22341841 - 10/06/15 05:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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pslyke said: Don't escalate anything with her if you have anything illegal in the house/apartment. Crazy significant others are number one reason people get busted. Call her out and tell her to GTFO once everything illegal and incriminating is taken care of.
Definitely in agreement with getting the illegal shit out. But from the OP it sounds like she's mad you don't have your "priorities straight". If she really means that because of the heater/window deal she is nuts, if she means that because you're sitting on the couch with a heater going, window open, and out of a job maybe then it makes sense. IDK, I think we need some more info, aka gossip, on the situation please.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22341850 - 10/06/15 05:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: so I could slightly room the warm.
Well that's your problem! You're supposed to warm the room, not room the warm!
Gosh! Let her know you fixed your priorities!
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Lucis] 1
#22341868 - 10/06/15 05:34 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yea, she does this shyte pretty regularly.
I used to have a friend who was a girl. The girl was my manager at work and I was using her for a reference for promotion. She flipped out about that too. She said I wasn't allowed to have other women's numbers in my phone.
Yes, I heat one room with a small electric oil radiator. The window was 1/4 open.
She truly is an emotional terrorist. I used to give in. I used to get mad and even say sorry. Today I just sat here and let her do her thing. She asked me what I thought about her leaving and I just said I wasn't in the mood to fight. Then she said, "See, that's what I mean. You always pull this dumb shit."
I tried to use logic with this woman, but I don't think she responds to it. It's as if she is oppositionally defiant.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 1
#22341878 - 10/06/15 05:36 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: She said I wasn't allowed to have other women's numbers in my phone.
You definitely don't want to be with someone who has such serious trust issues, you have no relationship without trust, fuck her.
There are so many ladies out there, get out there and find ya another one who doesn't give a fuck if you room the warm.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 2
#22341893 - 10/06/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: "See, that's what I mean. You always pull this dumb shit."
And what she meant was "I wanna be a bitch and fight, so fucking argue with me, I look crazy just sitting here yelling at you non-stop for no reason."
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Lucis] 1
#22341909 - 10/06/15 05:41 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If you want her to stay tell her you want her to leave. Crazies tend to do the opposite of what you want.
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Run to the hills.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: pslyke]
#22341957 - 10/06/15 05:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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pslyke said: Don't escalate anything with her if you have anything illegal in the house/apartment. Crazy significant others are number one reason people get busted. Call her out and tell her to GTFO once everything illegal and incriminating is taken care of.
ALSO THIS.
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Heh heh. Indeed.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 1
#22341985 - 10/06/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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And it has only been a month... Shit is only going to get worse bro.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22341986 - 10/06/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Don't stick your dick in crazy.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: 404] 2
#22342016 - 10/06/15 06:05 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sticking your dick in crazy is okay, just don't let it follow you home.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22342032 - 10/06/15 06:08 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Run away.
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Bigfeely123 said: Run to the hills.

After you DSHSB though, just for one last good ol time...
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: jammin]
#22342264 - 10/06/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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The only option you really have here is to purpose to her, take her hand in marriage.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 1
#22342279 - 10/06/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Seems like she was just trying to get angry and used that as an excuse. Its too bad it has to be this wayw dude but she might abandon you eventually, I wouldn't trust her. If anythying you should make the first move and get out before anything bad happens or she tries to crush your integrity before you go.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: drkkenny]
#22342289 - 10/06/15 07:18 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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drkkenny said: Seems like she was just trying to get angry and used that as an excuse. Its too bad it has to be this wayw dude but she might abandon you eventually, I wouldn't trust her. If anythying you should make the first move and get out before anything bad happens or she tries to crush your integrity before you go.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Atreyu] 1
#22342296 - 10/06/15 07:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Marry her
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Atreyu]
#22342299 - 10/06/15 07:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Been gone almost a year.
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xbloodwhipx said: Marry her
That's almost as bad as saying "get her pregnant"
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I know, I was kidding
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Tell her to get the fuck out now before you call the cops and have her arrested for trespassing. Assuming you have nothing illegal.
But obviously dont really call the cops.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Atreyu]
#22342322 - 10/06/15 07:23 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah I've been away from the shroomery for along time now. My posts used to be alot more warped I see and wandering idk what happended to me. Kind of nice being back here though! I'll try to slip in every now and then and make a post if ya'll want em(doubt it!).
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cum in her hair and then tell her to gtfo now
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: drkkenny]
#22342332 - 10/06/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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drkkenny said: Yeah I've been away from the shroomery for along time now. My posts used to be alot more warped I see and wandering idk what happended to me. Kind of nice being back here though! I'll try to slip in every now and then and make a post if ya'll want em(doubt it!).
Fuck that, make a thread; I would love to know more about you.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: drkkenny]
#22342334 - 10/06/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I really can't remember if I found them annoying or comical and -esque.
Give a shot and we'll find out.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: drkkenny]
#22342369 - 10/06/15 07:33 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I definitely want to see you post more often.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: PLURAL]
#22342432 - 10/06/15 07:47 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You know what's really fucked?
She has been living here for a month with me. We both signed a year lease. She doesn't want to pay her half of the rent.
So what happens when one person exits the lease?
Gahh...
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22342486 - 10/06/15 07:54 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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react exactly like this
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Niffla]
#22342492 - 10/06/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Niffla said: react exactly like this


Hell yes.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22342501 - 10/06/15 07:56 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Talk to your landlord. It's in their best interest to resolve the situation somehow. People who live together but fight and get in arguments all the time, isn't good for their business. As one example, a couple constantly yelling and fighting and getting the cops called out, is going to disturb other residents and they will start getting constant complaints over it. Then stuff like this usually escalates and that's when the apartment gets damaged.
It really is just in their best interest to find some kind of solution, whether it's letting you both break the lease and find a new place, or coming to an agreement on which of you have to go, or whatever. My grandmother used to manage apartments, and eventually even owned some. Constantly fighting couples, are a headache for the landlord.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22342551 - 10/06/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: I used to have a friend who was a girl. The girl was my manager at work and I was using her for a reference for promotion. She flipped out about that too. She said I wasn't allowed to have other women's numbers in my phone.
this girl isnt you girlfriend, she's your murderer.
you need to tell her immediately and you need to state it exactly like this
"pack your shit and get the fuck out you psychotic cunt"
or, if you want to make this shit work for what ever retarded reason
"you flip your shit on me one more time over nothing and you need to pack you shit and go you psycho cunt"
seriously, ditch the bitch
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xbloodwhipx said: Marry her
great idea. that way she can bitch at him and stop giving up the pussy
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Quote:
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xbloodwhipx said: Marry her
great idea. that way she can bitch at him and stop giving up the pussy
/sarcasm
Can be kinda hard to convey with posts though.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22342713 - 10/06/15 08:39 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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What is your locality's requirement under the law to terminate a lease early? In OR it is 30 days notice and then 1/2 extra month I think - pretty cheap to break a lease IMO.
Definitely get away from her, fast, and protect yourself from the crazy. Good job avoiding escalation; you could find yourself getting a ride downtown for doing absolutely nothing so keep it cool until you can escape.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22343022 - 10/06/15 09:42 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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she's fucking someone else bro..
or wants to..
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