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XUL
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Picking Fights
#22341760 - 10/06/15 05:08 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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So I was sitting in the living room with my girlfriend. I had an oil radiator heater turned on really low so I could slightly room the warm. I had the window open just a little so that I could hear the neighborhood sounds, remove the stuffiness from the room, and let in some fresh air.
Eventually my girl noticed the heater was on and she asked me why I had the heat on and the window open at the same time. She flipped out and shouted some stuff and then slammed the door to her bedroom. Then she stomps back into the living room and tells me I need to get my priorities straight before the end of the week or she is leaving. She then stomps away and slams the door. Then moments later she stomps back in the living room and tells me that I don't even have a week and that she is leaving Friday.
Since we moved in together (it's been a month) she has threatened to leave about every 2-3 days.
This seems like a sign....
But I am not sure. What do you think?

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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 8
#22341771 - 10/06/15 05:11 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Stomp into the room, yell at her that she has till the end of the night to pack her things and leave, stomp out and slam the door.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 2
#22341774 - 10/06/15 05:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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wow what a bitch does she always flip out over nothing? I mean she does have a point bout the heater but come onnn. was this like cracked or wide open what? is money super tight over there or something? shes prob jus all stressed out bout ton of little things ur doing adding up to this one heater thing incident where she flipped out hence the threating to leave and all this
Edited by CHeifM4sterDiezL (10/06/15 05:13 PM)
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 1
#22341789 - 10/06/15 05:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Don't escalate anything with her if you have anything illegal in the house/apartment. Crazy significant others are number one reason people get busted. Call her out and tell her to GTFO once everything illegal and incriminating is taken care of.
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Shut the front door on the way out!
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everyones prob over reacting here he cant jus kick her out on the street if shes living there
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 2
#22341812 - 10/06/15 05:24 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How exactly does one room a warm?
I say call her bluff. Win-win. Either she gets the fuck out and you don't have to hear that bullshit or be held hostage by an emotional terrorist, or she learns that shit doesn't do her any good and stops.
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Tell her to kick rocks man.
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Women think you wont hit them, so they use emotional leverage much harder then a small man would. I see women being terrible to men alot, one to=ime sombad that I regretted consoling her after she got hit when I didnt know the context of what started stuff
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22341830 - 10/06/15 05:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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walk in there and hate fuck the shit out of her, nothing like a good hate fuck to set an ornery bitch straight.
let that dick teach her a lesson she will never forget.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Lucis]
#22341839 - 10/06/15 05:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah this relationship is already over. Let her go. I'm with pslyke too. You don't wanna risk yourself, and flipping out is never as satisfying as you imagine it would be. She's gonna think what she's gonna think. She doesn't sound very logical.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: pslyke]
#22341841 - 10/06/15 05:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
pslyke said: Don't escalate anything with her if you have anything illegal in the house/apartment. Crazy significant others are number one reason people get busted. Call her out and tell her to GTFO once everything illegal and incriminating is taken care of.
Definitely in agreement with getting the illegal shit out. But from the OP it sounds like she's mad you don't have your "priorities straight". If she really means that because of the heater/window deal she is nuts, if she means that because you're sitting on the couch with a heater going, window open, and out of a job maybe then it makes sense. IDK, I think we need some more info, aka gossip, on the situation please.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL]
#22341850 - 10/06/15 05:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: so I could slightly room the warm.
Well that's your problem! You're supposed to warm the room, not room the warm!
Gosh! Let her know you fixed your priorities!
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Lucis] 1
#22341868 - 10/06/15 05:34 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yea, she does this shyte pretty regularly.
I used to have a friend who was a girl. The girl was my manager at work and I was using her for a reference for promotion. She flipped out about that too. She said I wasn't allowed to have other women's numbers in my phone.
Yes, I heat one room with a small electric oil radiator. The window was 1/4 open.
She truly is an emotional terrorist. I used to give in. I used to get mad and even say sorry. Today I just sat here and let her do her thing. She asked me what I thought about her leaving and I just said I wasn't in the mood to fight. Then she said, "See, that's what I mean. You always pull this dumb shit."
I tried to use logic with this woman, but I don't think she responds to it. It's as if she is oppositionally defiant.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 1
#22341878 - 10/06/15 05:36 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: She said I wasn't allowed to have other women's numbers in my phone.
You definitely don't want to be with someone who has such serious trust issues, you have no relationship without trust, fuck her.
There are so many ladies out there, get out there and find ya another one who doesn't give a fuck if you room the warm.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: XUL] 2
#22341893 - 10/06/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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XUL said: "See, that's what I mean. You always pull this dumb shit."
And what she meant was "I wanna be a bitch and fight, so fucking argue with me, I look crazy just sitting here yelling at you non-stop for no reason."
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: Lucis] 1
#22341909 - 10/06/15 05:41 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If you want her to stay tell her you want her to leave. Crazies tend to do the opposite of what you want.
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Run to the hills.
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Re: Picking Fights [Re: pslyke]
#22341957 - 10/06/15 05:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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pslyke said: Don't escalate anything with her if you have anything illegal in the house/apartment. Crazy significant others are number one reason people get busted. Call her out and tell her to GTFO once everything illegal and incriminating is taken care of.
ALSO THIS.
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Heh heh. Indeed.
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