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Anonymous #1
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I might have found true love.
#22330693 - 10/03/15 10:44 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I am a male age 20 and I know I'm young, but I have never been interested in "banging out as many broads as I can before i die" and well I believe i have found the love of my life. Now I do not know if me and her will be together forever, but I am so happy I have her in my life now.
A little over a year ago we met on omegle while I was searching for "fun" chicks to play with so i could just get off and well the moment we saw each other, it was surreal and it was sort of like what people say when they say love at first sight. We just get each other and it honestly feels like we were meant to be together. Shes so down to earth and we can talk forever or just enjoy each others silence.
We did sort of fall out for awhile because she is 17 and so she didn't/doesn't really know what she wants. It was really hard when I lost her. It tore me up inside but also helped make me a better person and more understand. I ended up slowly working past losing her and came to this point where all I wanted was for her to be happy. All i wanted was for her to be happy.
I sort of started talking to a girl and it felt kind of forced. This girl only liked drugs and drinking and partying. The girl I think I am in love with doesn't do that stuff at all and shes everything i could want in a girl. Right before i was about to pursue the new girl i was talking to, The girl of my dreams came back into my life in such a way that makes me feel like this is true love.
She, I guess, went crazy for me. she could not stop thinking about me, just like i could not stop thinking about her. Every little thing would remind us of each other and she sent letters to my old work trying to find me so we could work things out. she eventually messaged my sister on FB which i dont have and got ahold of me. Ever since then things have been okay.
I actually bought a plane ticket to go see her Halloween weekend for the first time and I am really happy. im not worried about the money i have spent if she were to want to end things before Halloween or after, i would still just want her to be happy i would not ever be upset. I love this girl like i never knew was possible before we had met.
I am posting this here because well, i used to post about how sad i was i lost her and how i needed help/advice for getting her off my mind. I want you guys to know things do work out in the end and don't ever give up on love. things look promising and like i said I think i have found the love of my life.
discuss if you must and leave hate at the gate, peace
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Sheekle
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22331106 - 10/04/15 01:13 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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haha u never met her nd shit
i hope it goes well tho man ive had a few internet love affairs in my day back when i was a young whippersnapper
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Sheekle]
#22331119 - 10/04/15 01:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well im not oblivious to the fact many people/if not almost everyone has had this type of thing before but i also have met people in the same position and it has worked.
every relationship is different as everyone is different.
also i mean all there is differently in person is the physical looks in person aspect and being able to do stuff together like dates and sex but we talk ALL the time and we have GREAT chemistry. its very hard to explain how much she has meant to me just being a part of my life because its a personal thing yknow.
like i said i dont know if this will be forever but we are happy we have each other now. we arent like most young relationships that blindly say "we will be together forever" i mean we hope we will but you dont count your chickens before they hatch right?
we are in love though im pretty sure about that and thank you man for the support im sure you have had your fair share of love in your life
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22331126 - 10/04/15 01:32 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think the fact that you decided you only want her to be happy says that you have moved past codependence and into real love. Who cares about what could go wrong, go for it. The worst that can happen is that you'll end up losing her at some point, but how would that be worse than losing her right now?
You're doing it right. Living life, going for it. Fuck yeah man, fuck yeah.
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Srirachi]
#22331149 - 10/04/15 01:46 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah before her i was cheated on by many girls that were very promiscuous and not the best kind of girls that i said i loved just for the idea of wanting to love someone.
i actually feel like being with this girl who is not promiscuous at all and VERY smart has helped me grow as a person to this point im at with her where all i want is for her to be happy she is such a good person.
i used to be very afraid to be cheated on and left to the point i stopped trying to be with anyone but when she came into my life i knew she was something special.
having her in my life has made me so much better of a person. she is not controlling at all i should mention this first, but she doesnt do drugs and doesnt have an interest in them. she always said she would prefer i didnt do them but she would always say "just do you yknow" i know she loves me for me because she has looked past the fact im a high school drop out and that when we met i had a bad smoking habit with cigs and also used cannabis heavily daily. she looked past all that and never tried to change me. having her in my life i have been able to quit cigs and weed and im not against weed or anything to each their own and all that but i feel better than i ever have. she has just made me a better person just being their for me.
Thank you Srirachi for the support and i wish you find the same type of love i have, if you havent already
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Atrium
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22332300 - 10/04/15 11:34 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Put your head on straight and don't throw words around like love for a girl you've never met. You'll be fine. But just don't think everything is going to be perfect all the time if at all.
The chick that runs the main counter at my probation office, she's that girl. See because I've only seen her, but I love her. I like making up stories to show that I'm in love. Or do I?
Get what I'm saying? Don't fall too hard for somebody you really don't know yet.
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Atrium]
#22332319 - 10/04/15 11:39 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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i know her a alot more than any one she knows in person and vice versa. I dont really think you read this thread through, maybe you should try before responding. im not trying to be any sort of way but you should really know what you are talking about before you respond.
honestly though i have no idea what you are trying to say about your probation office receptionist?
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also im not attacking you just letting you know that what youre saying comes off irrelevant to me.
you may just not understand though yknow its okay.
Edited by Anonymous (10/04/15 11:41 AM)
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Srirachi]
#22332364 - 10/04/15 11:52 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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That was experience talking OP, Atrium wasn't attacking you in any way.
It doesn't matter how much you skype, meeting someone in person will be different. I'm not suggesting you should think twice about going. I am not predicting disappointment.
Just like Atrium, I am familiar with the way I have had built up images of perfection of girls I never met or briefly met. It's easy to put someone up on a pedestal if you aren't actually around them. That is what Atrium does with his probation office receptionist.
It doesn't have to be what you are doing. But it could be.
Anyways, you should definitely go because it's a great adventure and you'd regret it forever if you didn't.
Also, this is very true:
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Srirachi said: Who cares about what could go wrong, go for it. The worst that can happen is that you'll end up losing her at some point, but how would that be worse than losing her right now?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: GoldenEye]
#22332410 - 10/04/15 12:05 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I understand completely he was not attacking me i was just making sure he wouldnt think i was attacking him beacuase it seems like some people, not saying him, on this site are very sensitive and easily think they are being attacked.
i mean i know nothing is perfect and i do believe i have my head on straight and that i do love this girl. just because the medium that we have communicated with has been through phone, skype, etc. doesnt mean i cant know her and love her yknow?
i mentioned in this thread i dont think "we will be together forever" but we can hope to be in each others lives forever or a long time.
and i get where you guys are coming from with the whole experience thing but that is your experience and its obviously affecting how my situation is viewed by people who have been "disappointed" or what ever by a similar situation..
if Atrium talked to the receptionist all the time and has had many, many deep conversations with her then i guess he would love her and know who she is on the inside.
idk it seems like he was comparing apples to oranges IMO.
i respect his input i just felt like he didnt read the thread through and was overly biased based on his own experience.
thanks to both of you for your inputs though
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Atrium
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22332546 - 10/04/15 12:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Alright how about this? When I got arrested/broken up with this girl from my old highschool added me on Facebook saying she felt she needed to help me out at that time. It was strange considering I was broken up with the next week or so.
I grew close with this girl talking/texting pretty often. I actually stayed pretty clear of trouble for a minute until I fucked up recently. Told her about this and instead of being supportive I was dropped.
Let's put this in perspective. Because I don't want to completely remove my credibility here, but she helped me through a FUCKTON and if she didn't answer immediately, she'd call me back within the hour. I'd have so many deep conversations with her though she'd prefer in person and I'd always say that this is the situation we're in. And she'd submit and it'd go on.
Like I said, just about 10 days ago she dropped me from my new mistake. And it's ok. I'm not exactly fucked by any means, just having to work a little harder to get further is all, with somebody else.
And why do I say with somebody else instead of with a girl I have rapport with? Because I found out through time that we're two completely different people. She wants somebody opposite of her, like me. I want somebody who is educated on all of my subjects and has the ability to challenge, or accept, my ideas. My ex (for an example. Fuck her in reality. I know I was in the wrong plenty but she screwed me solidly. I respect her, ain't no fuck boy).
Look if you take anything from what I'm saying, go back to the probation office receptionist. This girl just seems so pure from her natural beauty. It's not even close to a "hot". It's like her whole demeanor says I've never done anything wrong in my life. But then again, I've just made all of that up. Dude for all I know she's a porn actress who uses meth every night and has just never been caught.
Do you understand now?
And I don't have thick skin, and I'm no pussy. I'm here to educate, and be educated. Either takes back and forth, remember that. You won't be taught or teach unless you ask questions or have some sort of rebuttal.
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22332600 - 10/04/15 12:57 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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OP's girl might smell really bad Probably not. But I just want to tell a smell related story.
Haha, I once fell in love with a girl I never paid any attention to. Only because I hugged her and she was pretty sweaty... That smell was just Instant turn on. Love at first whiff. From then on, all the things about her that put me off were overturned and I started adoring every little thing she did.
Made me feel like an animal.
Anyhow, I think I should go dating in the dark, it must be super reliable
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Atrium]
#22332617 - 10/04/15 01:02 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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i hear you atrium and i got you man. but IMO sounds like you and that girl that helped you a fuckton had love. just because you are not with someone forever doesnt mean you never loved them or still dont yknow.
i used to feel jaded towards love and such ideas and i just want to tell people not to give up on love and stuff like that. i REALLY appreciate all of the input in this thread thank you guys alot alot its just i believe i love this girl and came here to share because i filled this site in the past with negative ideas about love and i believe now that since i have a completely different view on that idea of love that i have it with this girl whether or not we have met in physical person, i still know her as much as you could know someone in person.
Thanks again guys for sharing and all that you guys are very informative and just plain awesome 
also Golden eye that some primal shit right there haha thats nice though, love is great man.
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Atrium
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22332717 - 10/04/15 01:22 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nah I had love for this girl that helped me through for sure. I just had a stronger connection with this other girl. This new one was a night and day difference. Imagine any problem you could think of and reverse it. So for example, old girl was a little bigger and not so great without makeup. This one was the opposite. Everything I liked, physically.
But mentally, she'd laugh at the ideas I would bring up from time to time. Occasionally I'd bring up stuff like that somebody thought I was a burnout. She'd reply with "Well are you?" Instead of being able to realize that I'm not. High school educated girl who's a waitress trying to outsmart a college educated kid.
First in my probation office to have an AA and be working on my BS. From the outside however, I look different to normal people. Longish hair (not hit my shoulders yet but pretty close) Big ass white perscription wooden glasses. I wear so many different types of clothing that I'm pretty sure people don't know where to place me.
So in actuality, I am pretty much opposite to this girl. She's just been with more guys than I have and always talks to me about a new one. Drawing jealousy out, I get that. That's why I don't exactly help out.
I've most likely hit more girls than she has dudes but still, it grosses me out when a girl hits those numbers "Unless I like her energy then mother fuck the body count" (Alex Wiley).
It's all a growing process man. I hope in the first couple days there you find out she's either amazing for you or is the worst girl for you in actuality. Either way, you know where to go from there. Anything between that most likely is a lie.
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Re: I might have found true love. [Re: Atrium]
#22332797 - 10/04/15 01:43 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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im sorry if i offend you but you do seem sort a jaded when it comes to love and the fact that the girl that was bigger and all that is not all that attractive to you physically and that was actually a thing for you is sad to me but i get it.
i had a best friend who was a chick and i loved her in a different way than i love the girl i talk to now. i still love her yknow just i didnt want to be with her in that way at all. the chick that was my best friend was bigger and i just wasnt attracted to her on that level and i know it seems shallow but i just could not see myself staying interested in a big girl and thats just a personal thing of mine i dont think thinner is better just more of my taste.
i know life and love is a growing process and knowing the girl i talk to now had made me grow ALOT and made me a better person and has restored my faith in love. i have had some pretty bad relationships like i dated the school whore in highschool so i know for a fact this girl i am talking to now wouldnt be the worst girl for me, but at this time in mine and her lives we feel very happy to have each other and we do believe we are in love. which for both of us is big to us because shes an intellectual tyoe very smart and all that, and im not dumb i have just made some bad choices in my life and she knows this.
idk i used to try and say to her "i want to be with you forever" but she made me see how saying stuff like that is ignorant and that we should just be happy we love each other now yknow.
but Atrium i seriously hope you find love in the same way i have. that no matter what happens like litterally no matter what it is, you just want that person to be happy in their lifel and if she feels the same things will work out yknow.
but yeah man i wish you the best and hope you can find what you call in your own life and experiences as LOVE.
Its an amazing complex thing and i am very happy i have it in my life now.
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