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Anonymous #1
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Remember girls?
#22324804 - 10/02/15 05:28 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I remember girls. I think I remember them smelling nice, often going barefoot, being oddly insightful/helpful. I hardly even talk to them any more, and its not like any of them are available. Pretty much the only girls my age I ever talk to are my friends girlfriends. Its one the dumbest things to be sad about, but its making me surprisingly sad. First time I've cried in a while and I'm just sitting here wondering why this is apparently such a big deal to me.
On one side its that I just really want to get my rocks off, but the other side misses the special emotional connections that are possible with women. Lately I don't like being around my male friends, I have trouble connecting with them deeply.
Being social is so hard. At the rate I'm going I'll be friendless in 10 years for sure. This has turned into a mere venting thread but give advice if you feel like it.
edit: just read this thread. it was ssoo helpful http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/18538301/fpart/3/vc/1#18538301
Edited by Anonymous (10/02/15 06:11 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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bump
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Anonymous #2
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Show them your penis
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Anonymous #3
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Sounds like he already solved it. I'm sure there were plenty of women in his town...
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #2 said: Show them your penis
I was like that too man for sure. Had no female contact for years until I stopped giving a fuck what people thought of me and started putting myself out there. It's like if things don't work out you're never going to see that person again big fucking deal
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Anonymous #3
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Post pics of the new woman's boobs!!
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Anonymous #1
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I know you guys are just kidding around but its incredibly disappointing to pour your heart out into a thread expecting helpful/caring advice and get this in return.
A friendly fuck you to everyone involved so far
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Anonymous #4
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Well fuck you too bro. Have fun being alone with your porn
Edited by Anonymous (10/07/15 04:03 AM)
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Anonymous #1
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apparently making incredibly lame jokes is more important to you than being helpful to your fellow humans.
I remember when I first started using the internet.
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Anonymous #5
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I sincerely like your attitude anon 1. Are there no girls where you work or something? Go do stuff with other people and you'll meet girls and maybe get friendly with a few of them. I'm in a girl-less place in life right now too, but it'll pass .
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Anonymous #3
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Anonymous #1 said: I know you guys are just kidding around but its incredibly disappointing to pour your heart out into a thread expecting helpful/caring advice and get this in return.
A friendly fuck you to everyone involved so far 
I already gave the only advice I know to give. What's so disappointing about a joke, after that?
You can find women easily if you actually go looking. Bars exist. Other towns exist. Don't you have any friends?
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Anonymous #1
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ooooh you guys. You should have been there. Magical, magical love making. Possibly some of the best sex I've ever had. I don't even know how long it lasted. Longest I've ever had by a longshot. All that tantric masturbation really paid off.
I don't know if any of you have read siddhartha, but it was very much like the sex scenes with kamala. I feel like I learned more about sex in an hour than I did with an entire two years with my ex. She would keep doing all of these weird hip motions that I couldn't make heads or tails of at first. I would try one thing in response, then another, often failing, some of them took several tries, but then then she would gradually guide me to the right motion with her body. Magical. Very educational. She is my kamala
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Anonymous #6
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by she, you mean youre hand right?
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Anonymous #1
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you saw right through me. I can just imagine somebody jerkin it on a psychedelic and thinking they had kamala esque sex with somebody. like their hand is an independent intelligent entity
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Anonymous #7
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Welcome to the Lonely club; you are now a life time member. Girls and positive encounters with them are a thing of the past, the most you'll ever be in the eyes of any girl is either a customer or some stranger forever melded into the background and never to be remembered.
Feel the song of loneliness and know its power.
This is your life now, welcome home brother.
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Anonymous #6
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Seriously though, since it seems no one else has given you a productive response in this thread, here's my advice:
Do something good for yourself. Seriously, just forget about woman for the time being and focus on yourself. The more you love yourself, become successful, become interesting, etc, the more woman will like you. It's a confidence thing too.
What good things you ask? Highly dependent on you. Maybe you want to start lifting weights, going hiking, and go back to school to finish that degree you gave up on years ago.
The direct benefit is everything I listed above, the indirect benefit is you may just possibly meet woman doing these activities.
You got this.
-danielx
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Anonymous #8
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this man knows.
love yourself man, life's a journey, peace.
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Anonymous #9
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I remember girls. I think I remember them smelling nice, often going barefoot, being oddly insightful/helpful. I hardly even talk to them any more, and its not like any of them are available. Pretty much the only girls my age I ever talk to are my friends girlfriends. Its one the dumbest things to be sad about, but its making me surprisingly sad. First time I've cried in a while and I'm just sitting here wondering why this is apparently such a big deal to me.
On one side its that I just really want to get my rocks off, but the other side misses the special emotional connections that are possible with women. Lately I don't like being around my male friends, I have trouble connecting with them deeply.
Being social is so hard. At the rate I'm going I'll be friendless in 10 years for sure. This has turned into a mere venting thread but give advice if you feel like it.
edit: just read this thread. it was ssoo helpful http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/18538301/fpart/3/vc/1#18538301
I know how you feel man, i went through a similar experience awhile ago. I had been in and out of relationships since primary school, and by the time i was 23 i had been in a 4yr relationship (in love, soulmates forever etc. Etc.) After she slept with my best mate then left me i withdrew from everybody for awhile and pretty much lost all of my social skills/confidence and had been years since i had chatted up girls. I would always think back to the old days when there was always girls around and loads of friends, but now it seemed like it was just me left. Just over a year after the breakup i realised it had been the longest time iv spent single since i was 14 and i got pretty depressed and lonely, until i finally stopped caring. I started just focusing on myself, started exercising and doing things that i actually wanted to do. I really got to know myself, especially after experimenting with lsd, mdma and dmt (usually by myself). What i noticed was that the happier i was with myself, the more confidence i had to go out and do more things. I started making new friends and meeting some very interesting ladies, usually when i wasnt expecting it. These days i believe that the more you love yourself, the more the world seems to love you back.
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