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OfflinePsychedelicGinge
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Dating People that You Work With
    #22305661 - 09/28/15 10:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Hey y'all.

I've always been in a relationship with someone outside of my job while I've been working but I recently started at a new place and am single now. There's a really awesome girl that I work with and I want to take her on dates and shit but I really don't know if that would be such a good idea. We honestly rarely work with each other which is the only reason why I think I should go ahead and go for it.

What do y'all think? I'd like to hear some experiences of people that have dated coworkers and how that went. If you broke up, was it weird at all? I don't usually end relationships on bad notes but I do tend to talk some shit sometimes.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #22313106 - 09/30/15 09:20 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm dating a coworker right now and we are having such an awesome time together. We genuinely match well. It was a long time coming as we flirted back and forth for months. This is one of the most comfortable and happy relationships I've had thus far. We work in a small retail location with about 50 workers staffed at one time and about 100 total. I don't see her constantly but I see her a couple times out of the day.

I've dated a few coworkers over the years. Mixed bag. It all chalked up to compatibility in the end. The first 2 were bad, but it didn't make work uncomfortable after we stopped seeing each other. The 3rd was great, but it just didn't work out for reasons outside of our relationship. Now this 4th one is right on the money.

I'm mid-20's and do not work at anything I would consider a career or professional.

edit: I forgot. There was one right before the one I am seeing now. We got along well and I thought she was fine as hell. We hung out a few times, and one night we went out partying with another coworker. I took her home. We had been drinking, rolling, smoking, dancing all night. Made a move and she shot me down saying she didn't date coworkers. She really lead me on but we talked about it and it was fine working with her after.

If you're unsure and lacking confidence about asking someone out for fear or making your work environment awkward just stop worrying. Unless you have bad people skills then things can be resolved as in my cases. Otherwise just get close with the right people at work and they will probably have gossip. Befriend girls...they talk to each other.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #22313140 - 09/30/15 09:30 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Damn that sucks that that one girl was like "I don't date coworkers" after all of that lol. Thanks for the insight though, that's cool that y'all knew each other for a while before you started dating.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #22313190 - 09/30/15 09:50 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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PsychedelicGinge said:
Hey y'all.

I've always been in a relationship with someone outside of my job while I've been working but I recently started at a new place and am single now. There's a really awesome girl that I work with and I want to take her on dates and shit but I really don't know if that would be such a good idea. We honestly rarely work with each other which is the only reason why I think I should go ahead and go for it.

What do y'all think? I'd like to hear some experiences of people that have dated coworkers and how that went. If you broke up, was it weird at all? I don't usually end relationships on bad notes but I do tend to talk some shit sometimes.



I'm dating someone I used to work with now and its definitely the best relationship I've ever been in. Granted, it was a serving job so there wasn't a lot of backlash or workplace conflict like there would be in a more corporate environment but If its someone you really click with I don't see the issue.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #22313215 - 09/30/15 09:58 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm serving too  :zaphod:


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #22313256 - 09/30/15 10:14 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Dated some girl at my work and we broke up two months later which made work hell. If you can, find women else where. But it's fun while it lasts


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #22315943 - 09/30/15 07:35 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm currently sleeping with a girl from work, things are okay because she knows that the two need to be separate (it's my career). When we argue, it never makes it out at work.

The last girl at work I tried to see would freak out and run around work talking shit if she felt wronged (even if she wasn't... she was just crazy). It really all depends who they are. Try to get a good idea of who she is first, and try to keep the two as separate as possible if you can.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #22315997 - 09/30/15 07:47 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

There's this girl at my work that I would totally fuck, and I mean like fuck hard man, she's got a great little ass, god I would do unspeakable acts to her vag.  :awetongue:


With that said, I couldn't imagine being in a serious relationship and having to work with the person you're in the relationship with, seems like it would be very awkward if you were having a bad day.  There's a couple at my work who seem like they were disagreeing a lot there for a minute, you can feel the tension after they fight, it sucks sometimes.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: Lucis]
    #22316751 - 09/30/15 10:56 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Fennario said:
There's this girl at my work that I would totally fuck, and I mean like fuck hard man, she's got a great little ass, god I would do unspeakable acts to her vag.  :awetongue:


With that said, I couldn't imagine being in a serious relationship and having to work with the person you're in the relationship with, seems like it would be very awkward if you were having a bad day.  There's a couple at my work who seem like they were disagreeing a lot there for a minute, you can feel the tension after they fight, it sucks sometimes.




I'm beginning to think that working with her wouldn't be that bad simply because there'd have to be some shitty luck for one of us or both of us having a bad day at work together as we rarely do work together. But lol at your comment, this girl is like a fuckin goddess but I honestly think her personality made me find her way more attractive. We're always in good moods and smiling n shit around each other and one day when I was on my lunch break she came and chilled with me and asked me if I knew anyone with acid. Naturally, I was all like  :pedrophile: as I realized that I liked her personality even more than I did before.


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Re: Dating People that You Work With [Re: Lucis]
    #22317533 - 10/01/15 06:05 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Fennario said:
There's this girl at my work that I would totally fuck, and I mean like fuck hard man, she's got a great little ass, god I would do unspeakable acts to her vag.  :awetongue:


With that said, I couldn't imagine being in a serious relationship and having to work with the person you're in the relationship with, seems like it would be very awkward if you were having a bad day.  There's a couple at my work who seem like they were disagreeing a lot there for a minute, you can feel the tension after they fight, it sucks sometimes.




Basically this.  I've hooked up with 2 girls from my work but would never seriously date them. One still works there and we dont feel the need to mention the hot ass sex we had. And were still homies. These 2 people i work with are dating. And you can feel the tension when they're fighting and it makes the work place uncomfortable.  So for a good lay avbsolutely if the bitch isn't crazy and can manage it.


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