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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts]
    #22311989 - 09/30/15 01:00 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

to alan watts' girlfriend...

YOU'RE BEING CONTROLLING/MANIPULATIVE.

did you ever think that the reason he wants to get high all the time is because he's being constantly condemned/chastised by someone who supposedly cares about him?

get off your high-horse and stop telling people what to do. stop acting like you're better and start accepting people for who they are. and maybe start being SUPPORTIVE/ENCOURAGING instead of downright mean & critical.

we all have our vices, perhaps some are worse than others, yea? perhaps smoking weed is not as bad as being an intolerant/condescending dick


(my ex was the same way.. we no longer talk)


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts]
    #22311993 - 09/30/15 01:02 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Alan Watts said:
I know I have issues, but don't we all?



"We all have issues. That's just the way I am" is a terrible attitude to have. No one in a healthy relationship has your particular issue. No one.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts]
    #22312073 - 09/30/15 01:23 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

you thing his possible regular weed use might hurt your relationship? :horly:  thats a good reason to act neurotic & flip out on him


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts] * 1
    #22312077 - 09/30/15 01:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

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Alan Watts said:
This is OPs girlfriend, he's letting me post here on his profile.

He showed me the post and the responses, and I do see credit in what everyone's saying. However, he left off quite a major detail that I believe accounts for some of my behavior.

For the last 5 or 6 semester breaks, I have asked him to promise not to smoke weed just for the break. This was to see if he could go for two weeks at home without getting high so I can know that he's not still psychologically 'addicted' to it. Every single time he has broken his promise. Sometimes he tries to lie to me about it. This has really shattered my trust.

He says he just has a rebellious tendency, but he also says that he forgets about the promise in the moment. (He tells me that he felt pressured to make the promise, even if he is being truly sincere about it at the time of making the promise (he wrote this bit).) While busy at university he has many times gone longer than a month or two without touching alcohol or weed (e.g I have a drug test coming up for holiday work, so he has respected my wishes and hasn't smoked weed for about 3 weeks now), but I think he should be able to go for just one holiday break without getting high, even if he thinks it's pointless or controlling.

I'm worried about him, and I'm scared that he will go back to regular weed use and/or alcohol use in the future like he has done in his past. I blow up at him so he will fully understand how important it is to me that he does not become a regular user of any substance (I think it might have a negative impact on both of our lives.)

I like him to do those substances only with me so I can see how much he's using, and maybe to deter him from using them on his own.

I know this is a bit controlling, but once he can show me he can use weed and alcohol occasionally and responsibly, and keep a promise to me for at least one semester break, I will let up a bit and let him be himself.

I know I have issues, but don't we all?





sup gurl  :heytheresexy:


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Psychedelics yummy]
    #22312082 - 09/30/15 01:26 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

At this point I'm not even convinced this was an honest thread. I don't like being the first person to go calling bullshit, but I get that feeling from this thread, at least now that the GF is responding as well.


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I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Shroomslip]
    #22312084 - 09/30/15 01:26 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I hate that I can't smoke weed anymore. Go figure life isn't the same.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Gorlax]
    #22312093 - 09/30/15 01:29 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

i really hope so :lol: i started getting that vibe once his gf got into the equation. typing equally long paragraphs....


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Shroomslip] * 1
    #22312100 - 09/30/15 01:31 AM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

Shroomslip said:
At this point I'm not even convinced this was an honest thread. I don't like being the first person to go calling bullshit, but I get that feeling from this thread, at least now that the GF is responding as well.




I had the suspicion as well, but calling every new member on here a troll is retrogressive to the community.
If this user is a troll, he is a very boring and unsuccessful troll.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts] * 2
    #22314466 - 09/30/15 02:33 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

I'm getting the vibe this is a troll thread, but if not:

Quote:

Alan Watts said:
I know I have issues, but don't we all?




We do, and part of being a decent human being is working on those issues, not just throwing your hands up in the air and saying fuck it I have these issues live with them. Nothing you said sounds healthy, but then again relationships are rarely healthy in your teenage years so, have fun kids :thumbup:


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: danielx]
    #22315556 - 09/30/15 06:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

danielx said:
Look man, I could break this all down for you and tell you the likely reasons for everything im about to say, but to make things easy ill just say this- your girlfriend is crazy and this won't end well.

I know this isn't what you wanted to hear. Maybe you didn't want to hear anything and just wanted to vent. You probably won't listen to me and you'll figure this out the hard way for yourself. Maybe its even worth it right now putting up with her shit, but sooner or later she will make you miserable. Good luck, friend.

PS-

Quote:

nicechrisman said:
TLDR DSHSB








For what it's worth, i've been with, and seen girls like this. Got burned. Don't do it. Just walk away. She even told you to walk away.

Maybe in 50 years time she'll have got her shit together. I doubt it though, I know some very dumb 60 year olds who still make the same mistakes and act like children with temper tantrums.


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