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Acaterpillar
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Webster10]
#22303959 - 09/28/15 04:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're not a monster, you're a child for lacking respect for another human being who has committed no affront to your being.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22303971 - 09/28/15 04:53 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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@Acata - observing and stating is childlike?
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Acaterpillar] 3
#22303976 - 09/28/15 04:53 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Are you his dad or something? I'm sure enjoywho can defend himself
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Acaterpillar
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22303984 - 09/28/15 04:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Acaterpillar]
#22304060 - 09/28/15 05:12 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't care i just share my stories. Nothing more nothing less.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho]
#22304106 - 09/28/15 05:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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RUN!!
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Boomer The Great]
#22304132 - 09/28/15 05:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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At the end of the day she was ops girls age. I'm 24. Pushed me down a flight of stair, hit me with a log square in my temple. Very emotionally and physically abusive. Its sad that i actually miss her when we dated for 2 months.
Op all i have to add is get the fuck out of that
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho]
#22304160 - 09/28/15 05:35 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Damn dude, you failed to mention that part
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Acaterpillar]
#22304304 - 09/28/15 06:09 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ya man it was all bad. She lives 3 blocks away. I didnt mention any of it as I'm sad over it. Whatever fuck her. Ive been alon . Time who cares. The one time ive felt a little less alone took 2 years. Oh well is what it is
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#22304384 - 09/28/15 06:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I only hate it when my girlfriend smokes all my weed. My fix, stash a spare bag in the house
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: tealeaf] 1
#22304496 - 09/28/15 06:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anyway this thread is not about you, Enjoywho, so let's get back to OP and his bizarre girlfriend.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: nicechrisman]
#22304520 - 09/28/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
nicechrisman said: TLDR DSHSB
You beat me to the DSHSB -.-
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Demonic_Chronic]
#22304830 - 09/28/15 07:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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you say your relationship is perfect. then you go on to describing your issues with the relationship.
this is backwards thinking, sir
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Envix]
#22304844 - 09/28/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's a textbook case of a first relationship. People always say that when they don't know any better.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Envix] 2
#22304872 - 09/28/15 08:01 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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woah, OP, if I were you, I'd be setting some shit straight. Either you're okay with this, or you're not - me personally? I wouldn't be okay with someone who wouldn't want me to smoke or drink unless they were there to hold my hand - nor would I want someone in my life that looked down on the behavior every other time except for when they're doing it. I understand that relationships bring new obligations and you don't have the luxury of being selfish(which is not a bad luxury to have and definitely one I value a lot) as much as you did prior to sharing your life with someone else - this just would be too much for me.
And the fact that she gets pissed and stews for days and days without really saying why she's bothered by it or how to fix it, or anything remotely mature, that is also a big ass red flag. Y'all need to have a little sit down and actually communicate with one another and figure out what both of you want. If she wants you to only do drugs and alcohol with her, she needs to step the fuck up and say it, so that you can either agree and live with it or try to compromise with her. If she doesn't know how to compromise and totally refuses to discuss it, then I would personally be saying adios because that's an essential skill someone has to have for me to be with them and not want to punch them in the face 24/7.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: pirate-blues]
#22305160 - 09/28/15 08:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Didn't realize this girl was so young. OP, you could tell her that in real relationships people have to adjust and compromise and that as partners you should both inspire each other to be better people. Maybe you drink too much or party to hard, or she is insecure that you'll get wasted and cheat on her, find out what really is the deal, ask pointed questions with yes or no answers, not just "what's wrong?"
Maybe she'll be willing to give you more latitude if you're not just getting wasted all the time, maybe she is just a selfish entitled little moron. Who knows? Bottom line is that you need to learn to put your foot down and protect your boundaries and that may mean dumping a shitty girlfriend from time to time and having unpleasant conversations. You should tell her that her behavior is childish and annoying and you won't stand for it, and that if she has a problem she can talk about it, and maybe you can reach a compromise, but the sulking bitchy behavior has got to stop, or you're gone.
Most women will ask you to drink less, smoke less, trip less blah blah blah, it's what women do, especially when they start thinking about kids. Guys in relationships get to party less than bachelors and guys that are married and with kids get to party even less. That's life. If she's willing to chill out, give you some room to be yourself if you don't just party 24/7 and if you make sure that she knows you won't be doing anything that would hurt her feelings while you party, then that's cool. If she can't compromise on this little thing though, good fucking luck later on in the relationship.
One of the hardest things in relationships is learning to stand up for yourself while being respectful, it may be that the two of you just shouldn't be together, she'd probably be a lot happier with a straight edge guy that does whatever she says and treats her like a princess and you'd probably be happier with a chill woman who likes to party and is confident enough to not care if you like to chill with your friends. Maybe you can find a middle ground, if not then fuck it man, there are other fish in the sea.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: pirate-blues]
#22305161 - 09/28/15 08:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Agreed.
And i want my other half to do whatever the fuck she wants. I always love hearing stories of how she got so fucked up she's puking out of her friends car. All i do is laugh and shake my head. Alright silly girl ill cook today. I want to be with people that are whole i don't own them i just have to trust them.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho]
#22305287 - 09/28/15 09:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP forget your GF and your a pussy if youre controlled by her
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts]
#22306206 - 09/29/15 01:17 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alan Watts said: Something else she does, is when she gets moody, it's like she isn't even herself anymore...She will not care about anyone's feelings (except in social situations she puts an act on to look happy) and generally be all round angry and say things to hurt people (only to the people she is close to, like myself and her close family). Then all of a sudden she will be back to her normal self, kind of playful and silly in a childish way...and she will apologize to me and say things like "I don't know why I do this".
That tells me she's in a certain amount of control if she can avoid the behaviors in public. So she chooses when and when to not act the ways she does. But she says she can't control it?
She says she wants to be in the same state of mind as you but how can that ever be the case, really? Let's say you want to get high because you're bored, but now she wants to get high so she won't feel jealousy. Not even feeding the same desire. See what I mean?
And this "getting even" shit you typed, man IDK dude I've seen that type of shit before and I think there will be a time when she "gets even" because of a perceived sleight or something she thinks you have done but haven't, e.g., she thinks you're cheating so she goes out to get even by fucking other dudes when you haven't touched another woman at all.
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: abltsandwich]
#22306233 - 09/29/15 01:26 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude, read this thoroughly and make sure it isn't your girl. People with BPD are undatable, and will make your life a living hell. I have two friends that dated women like that and ended up with major PTSD from all the abuse they suffered. It's no fucking joke.
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