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OfflineShiVersblood
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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts] * 1
    #22303451 - 09/28/15 03:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anyway, I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now (she's 19 y/o and i'm 21, i'm her first and she's my first with regards to girlfriend/boyfriend and losing our virginity)




That would mean she was 17 and you were 19. Thats sex with an under aged girl.

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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: ShiVersblood]
    #22303456 - 09/28/15 03:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Except OP didn't tell you where hes from, so it quite possibly was perfectly legal

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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts]
    #22303468 - 09/28/15 03:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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...She will intentionally try to hurt me emotionally, because I have hurt her by smoking without her and she "has to get back at me to make things even". ...




She will intentionally try to hurt you emotionally for smoking or drinking without her?

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It's all the same with alcohol...shes happy to drink with me but if I drink on my own or with friends (which I barely ever do anyway, maybe two or three times a year). She has only drunk alcohol three or four times without me...only with close friends or family. All of those times she got decently drunk and she knows that I don't mind at all. She tends to look down on people who smoke or drink (she's very judgmental about it) she thinks it's disgusting yet she will indulge herself with me or on those rare occasions I just mentioned previously.
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She's finds drugs and alcohol disgusting, but uses them herself?

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It's really weird, because when we talk about it she acknowledges that her behavior is completely irrational and controlling, and she tells me that she cannot control the way she behaves and she has no idea why she does this. In the end she just ends up telling me that this is what I have to put up with if I want to be with her.
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Is she in counseling or anything?

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Just want to warn you, this is a very long post. And I apologize if I have posted into the wrong forum.

Anyway, I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now (she's 19 y/o and i'm 21, i'm her first and she's my first with regards to girlfriend/boyfriend and losing our virginity). ...

...Just today she tried to break up with me because she said I deserve someone better, she said that she will just end up holding me back from experiences and controlling me for the rest of my life and I don't deserve that.




She may be right.
Or, you may be able to solve your issue by simply not doing them without her and treating them as shared experiences.

You can choose who you date and what you do with your body though. :shrug:


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Tantrika]
    #22303612 - 09/28/15 04:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Women are weird. Her behaviour clearly defies any logic so it must be something emotional. Most likely some sort of fear. Fear of what exactly? Well, that's for you to find out.

Maybe she is trying to make you feel guilty for using it without her because she is afraid you might end up using it too often if you felt fine about doing so? That's all I can come up with.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: GoldenEye]
    #22303679 - 09/28/15 04:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You didn't need that long post. I can tell you what your problem is just from the title alone. You're letting you GF boss you around and run your life. Don't let anyone do that to you. Its time to act like a man and make your own decisions. Women like it better when you don't let them boss you around too.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: OliverJames]
    #22303685 - 09/28/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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She says that if i'm going to do it without her I MUST text her to let her know before I do it...and if she can she will drink or smoke alone at the same time (this applies when we're in different towns about 3 hours apart during holidays).

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No offense man, but this girl sounds like shes crazy. This part right here had me convinced. Sounds like this is less about the fact that its a drug, and more about some weird ass neurotic tendency she has. It'd be one thing if she just didn't want you do it alone, but the fact that she can justify it to herself only if she does it with you is very strange. I'd get outta there while you can




I have to agree with this. My ex knew i was an alcoholic as i told her starting out. My best friend callled me crying a kitten i gave her got ran over. Thankfully it was ok.r But her friend asked your ok with him having girl friends? She handled it perfectly. And if she did have a problem fuck that. She's been there for me far more than the 2 months we dated.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho]
    #22303690 - 09/28/15 04:14 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

if she is an ex then she has NO RIGHT to be mad if u have girlfriends or not. if she ended it then she has no right to say anything about it.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Alan Watts] * 5
    #22303703 - 09/28/15 04:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

ur girlfriend is a stupid retard bro


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: ShiVersblood]
    #22303721 - 09/28/15 04:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Stealth1Vampire said:
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Alan Watts said:

Anyway, I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now (she's 19 y/o and i'm 21, i'm her first and she's my first with regards to girlfriend/boyfriend and losing our virginity)




That would mean she was 17 and you were 19. Thats sex with an under aged girl.

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I'm from New Zealand...the legal age to have sex is 16. And why do you assume we had sex at that age anyway? I don't recall saying anything about when we first had sex.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: ShiVersblood]
    #22303841 - 09/28/15 04:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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if she is an ex then she has NO RIGHT to be mad if u have girlfriends or not. if she ended it then she has no right to say anything about it.




She had no problem to begin with. I was surprised how she handled it. No that's his best friend. She never even met her. We're not together i have no idea why but was one of the coolest things ive witnessed. I hate the fact i have to wal . By her house every day. Makes me realy sad,


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho] * 1
    #22303855 - 09/28/15 04:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Aren't you the guy that constantly brags about how many girls you bang? Now you're suddenly super depressed that your boyfriend broke up with you?


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Webster10]
    #22303864 - 09/28/15 04:34 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Jesus christ, what an incredibly shitty thing to say to someone.
You have the character of an insecure manchild.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Webster10]
    #22303879 - 09/28/15 04:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I brag sure. Im just story telling. All my stories are truth, i live an interesting life.  And yes i am sad my "boyfriend" and i broke up. Well honestly i miss her cooking more than her.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Acaterpillar] * 3
    #22303898 - 09/28/15 04:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Jesus christ, what an incredibly shitty thing to say to someone.
You have the character of an insecure manchild.



Just something ironic I noticed. I'm not being rude, just making an observation. Maybe if I was lying it'd be rude.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Enjoywho]
    #22303902 - 09/28/15 04:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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I brag sure. Im just story telling. All my stories are truth, i live an interesting life.  And yes i am sad my "boyfriend" and i broke up. Well honestly i miss her cooking more than her.



You should just bang some more girls since you're such a player.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Webster10]
    #22303915 - 09/28/15 04:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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I'm not being rude, just making an observation. Maybe if I was lying it'd be rude.




This sounds similar to the dribble coming out of Christian mouths as they bash on gays.


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #22303918 - 09/28/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Jesus christ, what an incredibly shitty thing to say to someone.
You have the character of an insecure manchild.




Im sad as fuck i walk by her house everyday and it makes me sad. Im not from here i cry all the time. I know a ton of people but i mostly just sit here. Yes it is quite east to get pretty girls to slide through you jello dog?


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Webster10]
    #22303923 - 09/28/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Aren't you the guy that constantly brags about how many girls you bang? Now you're suddenly super depressed that your boyfriend broke up with you?



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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #22303943 - 09/28/15 04:48 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Ayy:fuckinawesome:


@acata - thinking badly of gays is an opinion. Observing something and explaining what you observed is fact. Sure its subject to bias but basically everyone knows and agrees with what I just said. Am I really such a monster for pointing out the elephant in the room


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Re: My girlfriend HATES it when I smoke weed without her. Advice needed! [Re: Webster10]
    #22303954 - 09/28/15 04:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Yeah I'm not sure why acatepillar is so mad either :lol:


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