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topdog82
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Bad idea?
#22296531 - 09/26/15 11:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know this girl in my class who is giving me BLATANT signals that she wants to fuck, or at least get to know me better. However, I met her in a class that is part 1 of a 3 part series required for our major. Basically; no matter what, she will be staying in my class for the next year
Is there anyway to jump on this oppurtunity without rsiking an awkward breakup/split?
She is gorgeous, 10/10, classy, and european. Its an oppurtunity I am struggling to drop. But generally, dating/hooking up with someone from work or class seems like it could go bad real fast
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nicechrisman
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Who gives a fuck about an awkward breakup? That's not something you need to be worrying about. A year is not such a long time. If it was someone you worked with I might give different advice.
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topdog82
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nicechrisman said: Who gives a fuck about an awkward breakup? That's not something you need to be worrying about. A year is not such a long time. If it was someone you worked with I might give different advice.
Well I go to a fairly small school
And an awkward breakup is something I am definately going to think about. You are saying I should just jump on the oppurtunity? and worry about the consequences later?
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MajickMuffin
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Id go for it dude. Youll regret it later. The consequences will be better than the regret. Get her on that BC
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Demonic_Chronic
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nicechrisman said: Who gives a fuck about an awkward breakup? That's not something you need to be worrying about. A year is not such a long time. If it was someone you worked with I might give different advice.
Fok Julle Naaiers bro, Just go for it. What's life without risks and regrets? pretty damn boring if I do say so myself. Dont waste your time wandering what could happen, spend time in making what should happen, happen.
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topdog82
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MajickMuffin said: Id go for it dude. Youll regret it later. The consequences will be better than the regret. Get her on that BC
what is a BC?
But I guess I will basically just go for it
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It all depends on how you view the relationship and how she is...
If she and you both are looking for something physical, why would it be awkward in the future? Neither of you will get attached. If you are both looking at long term and it doesn't work out, yeah, it'll be awkward, but you'll move past it.
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Birth Control
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topdog82
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nicechrisman said: Who gives a fuck about an awkward breakup? That's not something you need to be worrying about. A year is not such a long time. If it was someone you worked with I might give different advice.
Fok Julle Naaiers bro, Just go for it. What's life without risks and regrets? pretty damn boring if I do say so myself. Dont waste your time wandering what could happen, spend time in making what should happen, happen.
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Ya fair enough. If you put it that way, its a no brainer. I will make a move and hope she isn't a slut, or crazy. Basically, just a background check. Then you best bet I will smash it!
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topdog82 said:
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nicechrisman said: Who gives a fuck about an awkward breakup? That's not something you need to be worrying about. A year is not such a long time. If it was someone you worked with I might give different advice.
Fok Julle Naaiers bro, Just go for it. What's life without risks and regrets? pretty damn boring if I do say so myself. Dont waste your time wandering what could happen, spend time in making what should happen, happen.
DC
Ya fair enough. If you put it that way, its a no brainer. I will make a move and hope she isn't a slut, or crazy. Basically, just a background check. Then you best bet I will smash it!
Bro, if shes a 10/10 like you say she is. She is 99% most likely straight BATSHIT but you cant have your cake and eat it too.
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Update: I will ask her to study for our midterm next week and then maybe grab food after. Keep it casual. If all is well and there are no red flags I will proceed
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MajickMuffin said: Birth Control
Is it bad i assumed it meant black cock?
And OP, fucking go for it, you will regret it if you dont.
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topdog82 said: Update: I will ask her to study for our midterm next week and then maybe grab food after. Keep it casual. If all is well and there are no red flags I will proceed
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Shouldn't this be in the "Sexuality and Relationships" section?
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topdog82
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topdog82 said:
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nicechrisman said: Who gives a fuck about an awkward breakup? That's not something you need to be worrying about. A year is not such a long time. If it was someone you worked with I might give different advice.
Fok Julle Naaiers bro, Just go for it. What's life without risks and regrets? pretty damn boring if I do say so myself. Dont waste your time wandering what could happen, spend time in making what should happen, happen.
DC
Ya fair enough. If you put it that way, its a no brainer. I will make a move and hope she isn't a slut, or crazy. Basically, just a background check. Then you best bet I will smash it!
Bro, if shes a 10/10 like you say she is. She is 99% most likely straight BATSHIT but you cant have your cake and eat it too.
DC
I dont mean 10/10 in the classic "bombshell" sense. I mean it in the gayer sense that she has a "presence". She comes off as organized and not really trashy. I go to a school where bratty white girl is the norm. 10/10 in the body but I cant develop any real connection. this girl in my class has a nice ass and small breasts, but a really pretty face and an aura of classiness that I just don't find in the average american woman. Maybe this is just the standard for european women and I am just getting used to it
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Will you be useing a condom or at least practicing coitus interruptus?
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Yeah when I visited Europe the women were totally different than american women, that's def. true.
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Re: Bad idea? [Re: Rocket]
#22296599 - 09/26/15 11:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Rocket said: Will you be useing a condom or at least practicing coitus interruptus?
Well I get the vibe that she is simply "interested" in me as a person. This would normally be read as "she wants to fuck" from an american. But I really don't know how european women work. 
Either way she has given me BLATANT signs to talk to me
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Demonic_Chronic said: Yeah when I visited Europe the women were totally different than american women, that's def. true.
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europe may be >>> america. I like california for the weather and maybe the drugs. But the women? Europe by farrr
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topdog82 said:
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Rocket said: Will you be useing a condom or at least practicing coitus interruptus?
Well I get the vibe that she is simply "interested" in me as a person. This would normally be read as "she wants to fuck" from an american. But I really don't know how european women work. 
Either way she has given me BLATANT signs to talk to me
Than DO IT! whats the worst that could happen? Like I said, take chances. Life is boring without risks and regrets. Some of the things I regret the most in my life, were essential building blocks to my character and who I am today.
DC
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