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i just realized something
#22285602 - 09/24/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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i avoid serious relationships because i'm afraid of getting hurt help?
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micro
bunbun has a gungun



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stop avoiding them would be the way to change that
you have will power; you can do it :v
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Anonymous #1
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but it's not as easy as that..at least it doesn't seem that way it's like I'm almost programmed to avoid attachment, opening up. Wasn't always this way
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GoldenEye
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So if it wasn't always this way, what started it?
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r.lutece
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Re: i just realized something [Re: GoldenEye]
#22288204 - 09/25/15 12:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Let me know when you find the answer, OP, because I have the same problem.
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Chakra Shock
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What kind of relationships? Are these all relationships, or just particularly intimate ones?
To begin at the beginning, and not at the end, you must meet yourself exactly where you are.
One more question, if you don't mind: are you also afraid of getting to know yourself more deeply?
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Anonymous #1
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pretty much any effing relationship ive betrayed and have been betrayed both by close ones ones who should trust now i feel broken its like the bridge that leads to "being open" is under construction and i'm stuck on the other side
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micro
bunbun has a gungun



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Quote:
Anonymous said: but it's not as easy as that..at least it doesn't seem that way it's like I'm almost programmed to avoid attachment, opening up. Wasn't always this way
You are in control of your actions but yeah, doesn't mean it is easy.
It is possible to make yourself do it though.
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