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Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? 1
#22276821 - 09/22/15 10:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I was scrolling through Facebook tonight and saw a post that my brother's girlfriend had been tagged in. It was about a wedding invitation that she had mailed out to her sister.
So i found out via Facebook that my brother is getting married. They've obviously been planning this for a little while if they already sent out an invitation. I went over to his apartment just tgis past Saturday and he didn't mention shit about it. Would you be upset if you found out something that personal via Facebook instead of directly from your sibling? It just kinda makes me feel like wtf, why didn't you have the decency to tell me when I saw you the other day?
Idk, maybe I'm just being silly.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22276925 - 09/22/15 11:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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People have no fucking class these days. 
I'd be pissed in an unfocused general way, more at the decline of common decency than at my sibling in particular.
I found out I got a girl pregnant through Myspace once. Well, actually I told her to go get fucked and apparently she did, and I saw that on Myspace. Kinda the same.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22277488 - 09/23/15 05:22 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think it depends on your relationship with your sibling. Do you visit regularly? Are you close? Do you share personal things with him? If so, then I'd say yeah, his behavior was inappropriate. Otherwise, maybe you're expecting too much from a person you're really not all that close to.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: sun_spots]
#22277738 - 09/23/15 08:00 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Better than finding out he already got married on facebook, I guess.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: sun_spots]
#22278337 - 09/23/15 11:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
sun_spots said: I think it depends on your relationship with your sibling. Do you visit regularly? Are you close? Do you share personal things with him? If so, then I'd say yeah, his behavior was inappropriate. Otherwise, maybe you're expecting too much from a person you're really not all that close to.
This. How often do you discuss personal things with your brother?
I have a brother and he is cool, but I don't really discuss things like that with him. So I would not be at all surprised if I was to find something like that out via Facebook.
If you talk to your brother all the time and discuss relationships frequently, and then you find out this way, then yea, that is odd. Not a big deal, but odd.
But at the end of the day, just congratulate him. He is probably doing a ton of things and has little time to worry about who he should tell first, second, third, etc.
It's also possible that she is more into the marriage thing than he is, so while she broadcasts things to the world, he might be a bit more quiet about it.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: midnightmaraude] 2
#22279185 - 09/23/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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midnightmaraude said: Better than finding out he already got married on facebook, I guess.
Not true. Now he has to go the fucking wedding
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: zappaisgod]
#22279864 - 09/23/15 05:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Is your brother a dope? Maybe he just forgot. Some people are to wrapped up in their own heads to remember to tell certain people thing like this. Usually I just assume their minds are somewhere else.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22289229 - 09/25/15 04:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would have screamed at him if this happened to me, no joke. Especially the whole him keeping it to himself when you just saw him.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: ShiVersblood]
#22289368 - 09/25/15 05:12 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Maybe he's ashamed that he's getting married?
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: empty space]
#22300685 - 09/27/15 09:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Id be pissed and I'd let them know I'm pissed. Facebook is pathetic and to even think that it is an appropriate way to send out invitations as serious as weddings is ridiculous.
Fuck facebook
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: DOBAS]
#22301496 - 09/28/15 06:36 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Haha, somebody's butt is seriously hurt by Facebook.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: sun_spots]
#22301751 - 09/28/15 08:28 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I wouldn't be pissed. Yeah it's kind of lame that he didn't tell you when he saw you and I'd initially be a little hurt but cmon, his marriage is about him and his lady, not about you. Like someone else said, he probably has a bunch of things going on. I think it would be pretty selfish to make a big deal about it.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: empty space]
#22302089 - 09/28/15 10:20 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not getting angry makes people think you don't care. That's cowardly.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: ShiVersblood] 1
#22302771 - 09/28/15 01:01 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Youre talking about screaming.. Sounds extremely childish. Why not express how you feel without being a dick about it?
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: empty space]
#22306255 - 09/29/15 01:32 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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This is the problem with social media and why I don't have Facebook anymore. People in my generation "millenials" and the younger generations have completely lost how to be personable with each other. People only want to talk through facebook or texts, you have to find everything out through facebook. And people dont really communicate in person anymore unless they have to.
It used to be that if you haven't spoken to someone in a while and are wondering how they're doing you'd give them a call or visit them. Nowadays just check facebook and you don't have to say a word to that person. That's why I'm not on facebook anymore. If someone doesn't care enough to contact me to see how I'm doing than they're not worth my friendship. I had many facebook friends but since I stopped almost 2 years ago I only still talk to a few. Its like all these other people just forgot about me, well I probably should forget them too. Out of sight out of mind.
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Re: Would you be mad if you found out that your brother is getting married via Facebook? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#22309199 - 09/29/15 03:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
It used to be that if you haven't spoken to someone in a while and are wondering how they're doing you'd give them a call or visit them. Nowadays just check facebook and you don't have to say a word to that person.
Stuff like that makes me angry because i would feel like Im being stalked if someone looked at my facebook and didnt saying anything to me. But i dont post things on facebook so they wouldnt see anything anyway.
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