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Telling her You Trip
#22276559 - 09/22/15 09:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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A lot of posts about dating today... maybe because it's fall and everyone is going through breakups so we're either all single or there's just more meat on the market.
Anyway, here's my question about it because it applies to SWIM's life.
When do you tell a girl who you're dating that you trip? I know that it depends on her experience with it, but let's say that she's a normal human being and not one of "us" who are super open and into tripping. Maybe she had an experience with mushrooms way back in the day or maybe she's smoked weed a few times but it's not really her normal thing these days. When do you say, "hey, so the most meaningful experience of my life has been under the influence of DMT/Mushrooms."?
I learned the hard way that it's not a first-date kinda' thing, but if the relationship develops, then I feel kind of obligated to talk about it at some point. Otherwise it would be like never disclosing your religion... doesn't that sort of matter?
I'm curious to hear y'all's thoughts.
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Who the fuck is swim?
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It kind of is a first date kind of thing though. What's the point of a relationship if you can't be open?
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Psychedelics and drug use is conversation best saved for the 3rd date.
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It usually comes up in the first couple of conversations for me. I guess it's a large part of who I am though.
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Ive messed up here. I am the person I am today because of psychedelics and I feel like its something worth talking about but definitely not a first date kind of thing.
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I never push it in conversation, but somehow it always ends up coming up. I'm not someone who is evangelical about my psychedelic use, but I guess I am passionate about it.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
#22276601 - 09/22/15 09:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Detached said: Psychedelics and drug use is conversation best saved for the 3rd date.
lmao this shit had me rollin'
For real though, busting out psychedelic chit chat on the first date...probably not the best idea
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nicechrisman said: I never push it in conversation, but somehow it always ends up coming up. I'm not someone who is evangelical about my psychedelic use, but I guess I am passionate about it.
I don't want to be defined by other people as a "drug user" due to the topic coming up in idle introductory chit chat and ultimately, if that is one of the first things you talk about, that's how you'll be perceived by others.
OP, if you wanna get a better understanding on your date's perception of drug use, start with a more neutral topic like going to festivals or maybe marijuana legalization...
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached] 3
#22276703 - 09/22/15 10:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Jesus christ did drugs forum go down and they are flooding into the pub? We dont use SWIM HERE! OK? Is that so hard to comprehend? Do you see anyone else saying "swim smoked cra..." NAW man we say I... I, not swim, smoked crack.
We are fucking men, our cats dont smoke the crack. We smoke the fucking crack, comprende? UNDERSTAND? I swear to god. Dont let your pets smoke crack. Cats dont hunt for mushrooms as some users here would have us believe, or try to persuade us into believing using trickery and foolery. If you have a mushroom hunting cat, by all means send him my way. Id love to have a cat hunt some shrooms for me. It would be great. We could even smoke a joint and talk about the weather, or some cat related politics.
So, is it clear as a pillow? Chime as a dolphin? Squeaky as a rooster? We smoke the crack around here, NOT. THE. FUCKING. CATS.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
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We are fucking men, our cats dont smoke the crack. We smoke the fucking crack, comprende? UNDERSTAND? I swear to god. Dont let your pets smoke crack. Cats dont hunt for mushrooms as some users here would have us believe, or try to persuade us into believing using trickery and foolery. If you have a mushroom hunting cat, by all means send him my way. Id love to have a cat hunt some shrooms for me. It would be great. We could even smoke a joint and talk about the weather, or some cat related politics.
So, is it clear as a pillow? Chime as a dolphin? Squeaky as a rooster? We smoke the crack around here, NOT. THE. FUCKING. CATS.
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Since I've started coming back around, I have been suspecting for awhile that we may have a higher demographic of underage drinkers in this here pub.
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My last ex tried to stop me from growing so I told her I would and would only grow oyster mushrooms but then she looked up what oysters looked like and my cover was blown but yea once you feel comfortable and you guys joke around and it's no longer nervous to be around her and she's like a good friend just be like "I have something important to tell you but try and be understanding"
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OP would use trickery to have us BELIEVE hes talking about someone else. I SEE the TRUTH in your lies, "Thescientificmethod". Or is that really your username, or more tricker? You may blind some, but i REFUSE to be a victim!
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xbloodwhipx said: Jesus christ did drugs forum go down and they are flooding into the pub? We dont use SWIM HERE! OK? Is that so hard to comprehend? Do you see anyone else saying "swim smoked cra..." NAW man we say I... I, not swim, smoked crack.
We are fucking men, our cats dont smoke the crack. We smoke the fucking crack, comprende? UNDERSTAND? I swear to god. Dont let your pets smoke crack. Cats dont hunt for mushrooms as some users here would have us believe, or try to persuade us into believing using trickery and foolery. If you have a mushroom hunting cat, by all means send him my way. Id love to have a cat hunt some shrooms for me. It would be great. We could even smoke a joint and talk about the weather, or some cat related politics.
So, is it clear as a pillow? Chime as a dolphin? Squeaky as a rooster? We smoke the crack around here, NOT. THE. FUCKING. CATS.
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Since I've started coming back around, I have been suspecting for awhile that we may have a higher demographic of underage drinkers in this here pub. 
I think, in my case, it stems more from heavy drug use and mental illness than anyt
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
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TheScientificMethod said: When do you tell a girl who you're dating that you trip? I know that it depends on her experience with it, but let's say that she's a normal human being and not one of "us" who are super open and into tripping.
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I wouldn't want to date a girl if the first thing we talked about was her enthusiasm for drugs... just like I wouldn't want to date a girl if god / religion / jesus was the first thing she brought up.. passionate or not.
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Don't the ever ask you what you like to do in your spare time? Are you gonna lie? You shouldn't have to lie.
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I enjoy masturbating in my free time... doesn't mean I'm going to share with her how much I revel in my lonely, solitary play time during our first date.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
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What do you even talk about then?
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Awkward silence, nervous small talk.
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Sorry. I forgot to tell you that I legally changed my real name to Swim since my absence. But I'll go to the city office right now and change it back to my birth name.
I guess I've been absent from the Shroomery for too long. Forgive me.
You have successfully made me feel like an asshole tonight. Sorry about that again.
Sorry.
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... and the reasons why women's suffrage was one of the biggest travesties of this century
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TheScientificMethod said: Sorry. I forgot to tell you that I legally changed my real name to Swim since my absence. But I'll go to the city office right now and change it back to my birth name.
I guess I've been absent from the Shroomery for too long. Forgive me.
You have successfully made me feel like an asshole tonight. Sorry about that again.
Sorry.
Sorry.
I was just messing with you, that stuff seemed funny but now that ive come down a little its pretty stupid lol
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You know you could hide his sig right?
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Rebelutionsssss said: "So what kind of food do you like? By the way I eat LSD weekly"
Yeah, I tried that once before, but with DMT and it was when I was doing a little experiment with trying it daily... that one didn't go far--the relationship I mean. The DMT and I are still good friends.
Girl I'm talking to now "smoked weed once." I'm sort of worried about that because it means that something that's really important to me (tattooed on my fucking body even) is completely foreign to her.
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Perfect opportunity to "Jesus/Manson" her.
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 I think it had been in there like a year and a half now.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
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SWIM would be Someone Who Isn't Me it's a very basic cover so to say it isn't you the information doesn't apply to you, but ou can just about guarantee SWIM is exactly the person writing the post. Can almost guarantee law enforcement see past this and know its them, in other words in a waste of time you may as well say its you, SWIM doesn't fool anybody
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Cops would just laugh in your face and say "well come on swim lets go to prison"
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SWIM would be Someone Who Isn't Me it's a very basic cover so to say it isn't you the information doesn't apply to you, but ou can just about guarantee SWIM is exactly the person writing the post. Can almost guarantee law enforcement see past this and know its them, in other words in a waste of time you may as well say its you, SWIM doesn't fool anybody
We all know what SWIM means, he was just being facetious because we don't do that stupid shit here.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Shiithead]
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Dude she won't care if you trip unless she is some super prude religious conservative girl or something. The last thing I ever have to worry about with my friends or girlfriends is them caring if I do drugs.
It might have something to do with me mostly hanging out with hippies and raver kids but even if I didn't hang out with mostly those kinds of people and hung out with what you would consider "normal" people they still wouldn't care.
There is no way she would care if you trip or not unless like I said she is a prude. No young people want to appear prude to anyone, let alone girls to their boyfriends. I'm sure she will either not care at all or be into it.
Also about disclosing your religion to your girlfriend? Ummm no. I would probably never talk about religion to my girlfriend mostly because I don't have one and because religious affiliation is an extremely personal matter that I have no interest in disclosing to anyone nor have any interest in knowing or being familiar with another persons religious beliefs. I would never even ask my girlfriend that and I haven't ever asked her up until this day. I have no idea what she believes and I don't care because it's none of my business. She probably believes the same shit as me as in the universe and machine elves and all that shit.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Janky Tits]
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psychedelics pretty much are my religion
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Exactly what I was trying to get at in my post regarding religion.
As for this chick being a prude, it may very well be... I haven't been able to fish that out yet. But when I asked her about her experience with drugs, that's when she told me that she "smoked pot once" when she was younger. Then she went on to tell me that her dad and grandfather were both police officers. I guess that they're retired now and her dad is actually a MMJ patient in the state, so she picks weed up for him sometimes and she knows that he smokes pretty regularly, but she's only done it once. She said that she grew up with lots of terrible drug stories being that her dad was on the force, and that was enough to make her not want to use them.
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I wouldn't even date a girl who wasn't cool with psychedelics
I don't care if she doesn't like to take them herself or whatever that's fine but if she's one of those numbskulls who believes all the propaganda then she can either let me screw her head on right or she can go find some dipshit who will agree with her ignorant opinions
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I know it sounds shallow but I doubt id date a girl who doesn't do drugs like me.
It's just a big part of who I am. I usually just hang around hippy and raver chicks who do that kind of shit and I've gotten so well with them and have always seamlessly clicked with them that I can't see myself with any other type of girl or see myself clicking as well with a girl who wouldn't be into the things I'm into 
I mean I wouldn't NOT date a girl just because she doesn't do drugs but i wouldn't seek one out either or be to thrilled to date one unless she had something about her that I really liked. That's why I kind of just seek out and hang mostly with hippy chicks and raver girls I guess
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It all depends on what you want out of this relationship, doesn't it?
Do you want a hot girl that is really very distant when it comes to sharing personal stuff. Or do you want a hot girl that is also your best and most trusted friend. I've only ever wanted the last option, so tell soon and tell all.
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That could be a problem....
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Hanz]
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As you leave your younger years though it gets harder to find people that trip often. Or maybe just for me
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This is why i prefer imaginary girlfriends 
A dick in the hand is worth one in the puss.
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Yes...I am lucky...I was 53 and found someone that enjoys a trip here and there. That is very unlikely.
OP...It's very simple...No relationship can be amazing when you hold secrets and have to lie about what you've been doing, who you were with, or where you've been....I know...I tried it...you may pull it off, but resentments will build. The sooner you come clean with your secrets...the sooner you can have a love that is free and effortless. And THAT breeds peace of mind where a love can grow beyond anything you could imagine.Otherwise, she may fall in love with someone that you want her to see...not the real you.
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TheScientificMethod
Psychonautic Explorer & Writer



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Rebelutionsssss said:
OP...It's very simple...No relationship can be amazing when you hold secrets and have to lie about what you've been doing, who you were with, or where you've been....I know...I tried it...you may pull it off, but resentments will build.
See, I totally agree with this. That's why my question was NOT "Should I tell her that I trip" but rather "WHEN do I tell her I trip?" I don't think (from my personal experience) that it's a good idea to shake hands, say "Hello, my name is so-and-so. Also, I shmoalk a lot of DMT, used to trip acid weekly, and mushrooms are one of the most important aspects of my life." I think that it's necessary to get all of those things out on the table, and probably sooner than later, but there also seems to exist a need to lay some groundwork. I feel like we need to establish other commonalities--which in my case we have--but I worry that too soon and she doesn't have the understanding to know where I"m coming from and that I *might* just be a sane human being who happens to have this one element to his life that doesn't fit into her paradigm of what a normal human being does with their time. But if I wait too long then it feels like I'm presenting a lie. For example if a year into the relationship I say, "Oh, and by the way..." then it seems like I kept that important piece of who I am a secret and if that does end up being a deal breaker for her then what a fucking waste of time that year was.
I honestly sort of like the answer that someone gave earlier in this thread about the third date kinda thing.
Anyways, I've appreciated everyone's responses. It's been nice to know I"m not the only one pondering this issue.
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DiscoBiscuitsTrip


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When your a hippie dude like me girls kinda assume I take psychedelics. All the girls, except one, I've been with post psychedelic use were psychedelic/drug users.
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