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TheScientificMethod
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Telling her You Trip
#22276559 - 09/22/15 09:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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A lot of posts about dating today... maybe because it's fall and everyone is going through breakups so we're either all single or there's just more meat on the market.
Anyway, here's my question about it because it applies to SWIM's life.
When do you tell a girl who you're dating that you trip? I know that it depends on her experience with it, but let's say that she's a normal human being and not one of "us" who are super open and into tripping. Maybe she had an experience with mushrooms way back in the day or maybe she's smoked weed a few times but it's not really her normal thing these days. When do you say, "hey, so the most meaningful experience of my life has been under the influence of DMT/Mushrooms."?
I learned the hard way that it's not a first-date kinda' thing, but if the relationship develops, then I feel kind of obligated to talk about it at some point. Otherwise it would be like never disclosing your religion... doesn't that sort of matter?
I'm curious to hear y'all's thoughts.
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Who the fuck is swim?
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goldcaphunter
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It kind of is a first date kind of thing though. What's the point of a relationship if you can't be open?
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Psychedelics and drug use is conversation best saved for the 3rd date.
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nicechrisman
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It usually comes up in the first couple of conversations for me. I guess it's a large part of who I am though.
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Ive messed up here. I am the person I am today because of psychedelics and I feel like its something worth talking about but definitely not a first date kind of thing.
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nicechrisman
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I never push it in conversation, but somehow it always ends up coming up. I'm not someone who is evangelical about my psychedelic use, but I guess I am passionate about it.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
#22276601 - 09/22/15 09:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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lmao this shit had me rollin'
For real though, busting out psychedelic chit chat on the first date...probably not the best idea
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nicechrisman said: I never push it in conversation, but somehow it always ends up coming up. I'm not someone who is evangelical about my psychedelic use, but I guess I am passionate about it.
I don't want to be defined by other people as a "drug user" due to the topic coming up in idle introductory chit chat and ultimately, if that is one of the first things you talk about, that's how you'll be perceived by others.
OP, if you wanna get a better understanding on your date's perception of drug use, start with a more neutral topic like going to festivals or maybe marijuana legalization...
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
#22276642 - 09/22/15 10:06 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
#22276648 - 09/22/15 10:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't be a bitch?
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SWIY should cram lsd in their peehole and let it shoot out into her when you ejaculate the first time you have sex. Then tell her about how you love tripping and how much she's about to, and how if she gets pregnant she'll always remember this day.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached] 3
#22276703 - 09/22/15 10:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Jesus christ did drugs forum go down and they are flooding into the pub? We dont use SWIM HERE! OK? Is that so hard to comprehend? Do you see anyone else saying "swim smoked cra..." NAW man we say I... I, not swim, smoked crack.
We are fucking men, our cats dont smoke the crack. We smoke the fucking crack, comprende? UNDERSTAND? I swear to god. Dont let your pets smoke crack. Cats dont hunt for mushrooms as some users here would have us believe, or try to persuade us into believing using trickery and foolery. If you have a mushroom hunting cat, by all means send him my way. Id love to have a cat hunt some shrooms for me. It would be great. We could even smoke a joint and talk about the weather, or some cat related politics.
So, is it clear as a pillow? Chime as a dolphin? Squeaky as a rooster? We smoke the crack around here, NOT. THE. FUCKING. CATS.
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Re: Telling her You Trip [Re: Detached]
#22276717 - 09/22/15 10:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
xbloodwhipx said: Jesus christ did drugs forum go down and they are flooding into the pub? We dont use SWIM HERE! OK? Is that so hard to comprehend? Do you see anyone else saying "swim smoked cra..." NAW man we say I... I, not swim, smoked crack.
We are fucking men, our cats dont smoke the crack. We smoke the fucking crack, comprende? UNDERSTAND? I swear to god. Dont let your pets smoke crack. Cats dont hunt for mushrooms as some users here would have us believe, or try to persuade us into believing using trickery and foolery. If you have a mushroom hunting cat, by all means send him my way. Id love to have a cat hunt some shrooms for me. It would be great. We could even smoke a joint and talk about the weather, or some cat related politics.
So, is it clear as a pillow? Chime as a dolphin? Squeaky as a rooster? We smoke the crack around here, NOT. THE. FUCKING. CATS.
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Since I've started coming back around, I have been suspecting for awhile that we may have a higher demographic of underage drinkers in this here pub.
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My last ex tried to stop me from growing so I told her I would and would only grow oyster mushrooms but then she looked up what oysters looked like and my cover was blown but yea once you feel comfortable and you guys joke around and it's no longer nervous to be around her and she's like a good friend just be like "I have something important to tell you but try and be understanding"
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OP would use trickery to have us BELIEVE hes talking about someone else. I SEE the TRUTH in your lies, "Thescientificmethod". Or is that really your username, or more tricker? You may blind some, but i REFUSE to be a victim!
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