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Getting to know girls in classes
#22275913 - 09/22/15 07:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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How do you go about approaching a girl in one of your classes (general ed, college) who you're just a stranger to?
In all of my classes you just sit down, get lectured, get up and leave.
Is it too creeper to just sit down next to the girl you wanna talk to one day and try to start conversation? Feels like coming on too strong to me for some reason.
There's couple cute brown girls I'd wanna get with if I could but I have no clue what the fuck to do because I'm a loser
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22275935 - 09/22/15 07:36 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Wing it? "Hey Im blah blah, wanna go grab some food?"
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: YaMoonSun]
#22275976 - 09/22/15 07:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would say approach the more ugly ones at first without being noticed by the cute ones. This should boost your confidence in some way. In my experience its better to just get into the swing of communicating effectively with people and being confident than having any one approach.
I mean you could try this with the hotties but if you don't have your game very tight and aren't confident to begin with I think its smarter to at least become comfortable around most females.
And yea it is fine to just sit next to them in class.
And to be honest saying things like I'm a loser wreaks of low self esteem, and that's pretty much the thing women hate the most. They would rather have someone who is abusive than someone with low self esteem most the time... Maybe you should try and figure out why you think your a loser and start working on that while doing what I said in the first place.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: YaMoonSun] 1
#22275983 - 09/22/15 07:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Starting a friendly conversation is not creepy...
Just don't talk about creepy things?
"Hello" generally works as an icebreaker :V
Honestly, you might get nervous and end up sounding like a dork the first few times, but the more you try the more you'll get used to it and you'll get more comfortable and not sound like a dork any more.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: micro]
#22276541 - 09/22/15 09:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just stand in front of them and smile. When they notice you, smile bigger, and say something like "Hi, I'm {name} and when I noticed you, I just had to introduce myself."
If she pepper sprays you, work on your smile in front of a mirror before trying again.
Be prepared for a conversation though before you do this. If she says "Oh? And why is that?" or "Does that line ever work for you?" or "Can you please never talk to me again?" know what you'll say. Work on articulating what attracts you to her - like "Your eyes are captivating. They literally stopped me in my tracks." etc. etc.
Preparedness is key. It'll keep you from being nervous. Also don't be afraid to fail. Laugh about it, and remember that most guys are too backwards to even approach her in the first place.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Srirachi]
#22280005 - 09/23/15 06:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just ask about the hw and shit you do in class.. Maybe we could study together sometime? Here, take my number so we can meet up and talk about the lecture
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22281745 - 09/23/15 11:31 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Just ask about the hw and shit you do in class.. Maybe we could study together sometime? Here, take my number so we can meet up and talk about the lecture
Honestly just do this... haha its too easy.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Rainman420] 1
#22284218 - 09/24/15 02:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you can pull of the study together thing go for that. But genuinely you need to build rapport with someone before straight up asking to hang out after class. Especially if class has been going on for a while and you've never so much as hinted as being interested.
More often then not if you talk to everyone. And I mean everyone, teacher, students, old dude, young guys, old lady that smiles at everyone l. The girl will notice and will smile at you. This is when you smile back and the best part is you don't even have to approach them right away or sometimes at all. They will find a way to talk to you. Provided you talk care of your body and hygiene and look sharp.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#22291412 - 09/26/15 01:01 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just stroll into class, with your portable speakers or cell phone blasting some Skinny Puppy, approach the nearest, attractive girl, throw yourself down into the chair next to her, swing your feet up on the table, completely ignore her, light a cigarette in the middle of class and then slowly roll your gaze, sideways, to look into her eyes and say, "wanna grab a bite?". Works every time.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Chakra Shock]
#22310477 - 09/29/15 07:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Chakra Shock said: Just stroll into class, with your portable speakers or cell phone blasting some Skinny Puppy, approach the nearest, attractive girl, throw yourself down into the chair next to her, swing your feet up on the table, completely ignore her, light a cigarette in the middle of class and then slowly roll your gaze, sideways, to look into her eyes and say, "wanna grab a bite?". Works every time. 
Thanks.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: LackToast]
#22310492 - 09/29/15 07:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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LackToast said: If you can pull of the study together thing go for that. But genuinely you need to build rapport with someone before straight up asking to hang out after class. Especially if class has been going on for a while and you've never so much as hinted as being interested.
More often then not if you talk to everyone. And I mean everyone, teacher, students, old dude, young guys, old lady that smiles at everyone l. The girl will notice and will smile at you. This is when you smile back and the best part is you don't even have to approach them right away or sometimes at all. They will find a way to talk to you. Provided you talk care of your body and hygiene and look sharp.
JK I'm gonna do this
Tried the other approach, not so forward but definitely not opaque in my intent... glad I haven't done that to every one of them yet haha thanks for real
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22310508 - 09/29/15 07:35 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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except she sits in the back near the door and is up and out like asap... I really don't see how I'll ever get a chance to talk with her if I just don't sit down next to her one day
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22310551 - 09/29/15 07:46 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How about you don't overthink it?
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#22312545 - 09/30/15 05:57 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dude you're like one step away from "Missed Connections" on Craigslist being your legit best option if you don't act soon. Some other cat is going to do something you wish you'd have done and after you've built this thing up to a mountain in your mind, you'll wind up watching him and her stroll out of class together and you'll want to die because you didn't act sooner.
Now listen to me man. You need to do something TODAY.
Regret for never having tried hurts longer than rejection. I doubt anyone who looks back on their life ever thinks "Gee, I wish I hadn't gotten rejected" but
they damn sure wish they'd have risked more and tried more things.
DAMNIT MAN, CLAIM HER VAGINA AND PLANT A FLAG! Do it for her. Do it for you. Do it for creepy old fuckers like me who live vicariously through young men like yourself.
I want a report back today, and I want you to have her 'gina juice on your fingers when you type. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? How is that worse than how it feels to have never tried?
Do this, and a whole world you never knew existed will open up before you, a world in which you can ask any girl you want to go out with you without fear. A world in which the self-confidence you begin to build will translate into happiness. A world in which you never again have to feel awkward or out of your element. Isn't it worth pushing yourself out of your comfort zone in order to find genuine happiness?
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Srirachi]
#22313131 - 09/30/15 09:28 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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ya
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22314005 - 09/30/15 01:02 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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im 26 at college and i just twiddle my thumbs lol i peaked at 15 im like a weirdo right now without a job too...
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Srirachi]
#22314072 - 09/30/15 01:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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alright dude this girl I started talking to last weak said for sure when I said we should hang out because she seems cool
put my # in her phone
what now (she's busy this weekend)
what would be a good thing to do when/if we meet up?
I'm like 9 years older than her lol I don't think she knows
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#22314098 - 09/30/15 01:21 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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netflix n chill
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#22314117 - 09/30/15 01:29 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ghetto blaster on one shoulder, skateboard on the other. Snapback hats, sunglasses and a leather jacket. If that doesnt get their attention nothing will.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #3]
#22314651 - 09/30/15 03:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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lol idk about that...
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22315199 - 09/30/15 04:57 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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YESSS! All you other guys who have been laid fewer times than most eggs I know take note. This guy took action and is about to get some. 
From my understanding of the female mind, "busy this weekend" but took your number means she's thinking you might be someone she'd date, but she's unwilling to commit to an actual date until she gets to know you better. This is good, because she's probably not nuts if she's taking it slow. The sex won't be as good if she's not insane, but the relationship overall will be better.
I think you need to go to lunch with her and get to know her / let her get to know you so she can decide to do an actual weekend date. Maybe coffee or something... or, something with a definite end time so she knows that if it doesn't work for her it'll only be awkward for a while. Like say, "hey, I have a class I gotta be at by 2 today, but if you don't mind me being rude and leaving right at 1:30, I'll buy lunch if you wanna eat and hang out for an hour on Tuesday."
That's low pressure for her, and she can determine that you're not a murderer who wants to roofie her and stuff parts of her body in mailboxes all across the tri-state area.
From here man it's all you. If you really want to make a good impression I'd think about what makes you, You, and think about how to talk about that in an interesting way. Like I print t-shirts. I can tell a chick all the details about how to select the proper screen mesh to run a process color job on dark shirts but that's boring as fuck. Telling her about the time I did shirts for Rikishi and he took me out to BW3 after he did an exhibition match is more interesting. So think about how to talk about you without it being boring.
Then, don't talk about you until she asks, and as a general rule: when you think you've said enough, you have talked for 2 minutes too long. Give her a little info, wait to see if she asks questions. If not, you said enough. If she does, then you're on an interesting subject for her.
Spend most of the time getting her to talk about herself and listen for cues about what kinds of things are important to her.
Above all man just try not to overthink it. The hard part is over, you've gotten to talk with her and even given her your number. Now all you have to do is see if you two like each other. If not, no big deal - because the next time you do this it'll be easier.
DAMN MAN YOU MADE MY DAY. You just... went and did it. If you weren't anon I'd +5 ya.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Srirachi]
#22315269 - 09/30/15 05:15 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Maybe without the leather jacket, if u did all of that and acted silly enough you probably actually would pull some cuties.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: empty space]
#22317198 - 10/01/15 01:52 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wear shit like that minus the sun glasses and the ghetto blaster. Have this super fly long board though. I get approached and across the room smiles and stares from most girls but I dress in multiple ways. I also attract the intelligent girls or at the very least who find that attractive when I speak up.
Physically I'm probably just above average or so. I just am very passionate about things. More often than not I don't go after them though. For the most part I have a problem with unintelligent, unattractive girls.
And I have a pretty interesting spectrum on what attractive is. They just need to have their passions be powerful and be like a 5 and don't be so judgemental about how I go from snapbacks to bandanas.
I'll tell you OP, know what kind of girl you're going for. If she's interested enough she will even come after you. There's this one in literally every one of my classes that I find fucking titillating and I catch her staring at me in most classes. I'll find a way to fuck up, don't worry
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Atrium]
#22317292 - 10/01/15 02:45 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Awesome OP, well done.
One little tip though: next time take her number instead of giving her yours.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Srirachi]
#22321333 - 10/01/15 09:34 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Talk to her, Atrium. Don't make me go Shia on you.
Goldeneye: I did ask for hers and she said okay but gave me her phone and I didn't want to be pushy about it since I'll keep seeing her
. . .
Alright, I approached another girl and found out she has a boyfriend. She sits in a part of the class that I don't like to sit at because I have to keep my head turned to look at the instructor as well as it's the side of the room that the fluorescent lights are left on and the shit fucks up my eyes
but damn that athletic body though...
Like, 
What can I do?
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22321373 - 10/01/15 09:47 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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What i did in college was purposely forget a writing utencil. Sit next to the cutest girl who had a seat open next to her and ask if ahe had an extra one i can borrow. Girls generally do. Then from there id introduce myself and its all banter from there. Its a great ice breaker and gives you a reason to break it in the first place. Try it out.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22322292 - 10/02/15 06:19 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Get involved with some kind of social activities on campus. That way you can meet people and still pay attention to your professors.
Seriously, the #1 mistake most traditional age college students make is focusing too much on the social aspects of campus life and fucking off on the academic side of things. If you're not doing your absolute best in college, you're wasting enormous amounts of time and money. Take it from someone who took 11 years to finally nail down a degree: Don't fuck around! It's not worth it when you're 30 years old making less than people five years younger than you.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: sun_spots]
#22322619 - 10/02/15 08:38 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Goldeneye: I did ask for hers and she said okay but gave me her phone and I didn't want to be pushy about it since I'll keep seeing her.
Makes sense. But that is also when you dial your own number and let it ring a couple of times.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: sun_spots]
#22322637 - 10/02/15 08:46 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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sun_spots said: Get involved with some kind of social activities on campus. That way you can meet people and still pay attention to your professors.
Seriously, the #1 mistake most traditional age college students make is focusing too much on the social aspects of campus life and fucking off on the academic side of things. If you're not doing your absolute best in college, you're wasting enormous amounts of time and money. Take it from someone who took 11 years to finally nail down a degree: Don't fuck around! It's not worth it when you're 30 years old making less than people five years younger than you.
11 years? WTF? You better have a degree in fucking aerospace engineering or something similar
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
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That is a long ass time in college. I'm taking 5 to get a BS in Psychology though that's mostly from moving so much that I had to wait a year to get in state residency and financial aid.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Atrium]
#22322866 - 10/02/15 10:02 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thats a long time to just end up delivering pizzas.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22323114 - 10/02/15 11:12 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Thats a long time to just end up delivering pizzas.
Wow I actually agree with you.
Yeah every friend that I have who majored in psychology or philosophy now works a service job and is wondering what the fuck they are doing with their lives.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: empty space]
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I'm actually working on music with multiple producers around the country and use my knowledge from the classroom to go deeper into my music. It's very heavily influenced by Psychology/Philosophy/Religion/Spirituality. I'd understand nearly every other person's experience but remember some of us weren't meant to be you in the end anyways.
I don't know if you've done any time before but I will be going in for a bit, about 30 days. Nothing too rough, but it will be a huge setback when my college goes by quarters and so I'll basically fail 3 classes. I look at it this way though. Somebody in there needs my help, even if it's myself.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22325427 - 10/02/15 07:32 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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What are you gonna do about it? I'll smash that chick just for you now.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Enjoywho]
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Enjoywho said: What i did in college was purposely forget a writing utencil. Sit next to the cutest girl who had a seat open next to her and ask if ahe had an extra one i can borrow. Girls generally do. Then from there id introduce myself and its all banter from there. Its a great ice breaker and gives you a reason to break it in the first place. Try it out.
Im going to quote myself here as it seems to have blown over theconversation. im tellin you op try it. What else do you have to lose you have to ask the internet how to be social. And damn it works good. Unless your a pussy and all and cant take the challenge.
Recently we were short on people in my department. I grabbed 2 people and trained them. One was this chill guy but he's a hard worker and knew he'd handle shit. The other was this really pretty girl. Now i had a reason to break the ice. When itold the my department boss why i chose her she said i know exactly what your doing. Laughing as were smoking on break. turns out she's dating the head bosses step son. Fuck. Ah well we're good homies now. I like talking to pretty girls who cares if we dont hook up can never have too many friends.
Pretty girls generally know other pretty girls.
Talk to them op grow a pair. Theyre not another species and there's a lot of chill as fuck people of both genders. Who cares just do it.
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#22327452 - 10/03/15 10:04 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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But I did :P
I went up to her before the seats started filling in and asked some bullshit question then made small talk and asked if it was cool if I could sit by her (the fit chick)
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: empty space]
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Thats a long time to just end up delivering pizzas.
Wow I actually agree with you.
Yeah every friend that I have who majored in psychology or philosophy now works a service job and is wondering what the fuck they are doing with their lives.
Haha see man I'm not so bad
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Atrium]
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Atrium said: I'm actually working on music with multiple producers around the country and use my knowledge from the classroom to go deeper into my music. It's very heavily influenced by Psychology/Philosophy/Religion/Spirituality. I'd understand nearly every other person's experience but remember some of us weren't meant to be you in the end anyways.
I don't know if you've done any time before but I will be going in for a bit, about 30 days. Nothing too rough, but it will be a huge setback when my college goes by quarters and so I'll basically fail 3 classes. I look at it this way though. Somebody in there needs my help, even if it's myself.
Something tells me in 5 years you'll be broke and homeless, wishing you'd gotten a better degree. Could be totally wrong though. Why are you wasting time and money in college when you're so successful in music?
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22327987 - 10/03/15 12:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hmm well this may not apply to atrium but I am a well connected musician and I'm going back to school. Why? I got a grant. I'm going to get paid to go to school and although it does take time, its a lot less time than I was spending working with people that I don't want to work with on jobs that I don't want to work. Almost all of my friends who are incredibly successful made a fuck ton of music when the gov/their parents were paying for their rent and then gradually moved into getting paid to play around the world. They're living the dream while I'm struggling with drug addiction-- looks like I shoulda listened to mom a long time ago.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: empty space]
#22328108 - 10/03/15 01:02 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Because it was a promise to my father that I'd be the first in our family to get a Bachelor's before he died of cancer a few years ago. His eldest dying three days before that. I'm his youngest.
I've already received my AA this year and am now in an accelerated program to be done basically once I'm done with probation, on the understanding I literally don't fuck up again, this one I just did is going to haunt me more so than my Felony charges.
But yeah, I also was getting paid to get my AA, about $2,000 a semester. I'm going to a free university (through all my grants) but otherwise, I'm sort of fucked for a real job.
Not that I ever had much interest in a lot of this stuff in the first place but I've learned a lot of myself and met some amazing people.
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22328298 - 10/03/15 01:32 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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deleted post. sorry wrong forum
Edited by Anonymous (10/03/15 02:07 PM)
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: empty space]
#22328627 - 10/03/15 02:33 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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empty space said: Hmm well this may not apply to atrium but I am a well connected musician and I'm going back to school. Why? I got a grant. I'm going to get paid to go to school and although it does take time, its a lot less time than I was spending working with people that I don't want to work with on jobs that I don't want to work. Almost all of my friends who are incredibly successful made a fuck ton of music when the gov/their parents were paying for their rent and then gradually moved into getting paid to play around the world. They're living the dream while I'm struggling with drug addiction-- looks like I shoulda listened to mom a long time ago. 
What do you play?
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Re: Getting to know girls in classes [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22329180 - 10/03/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: But I did :P
I went up to her before the seats started filling in and asked some bullshit question then made small talk and asked if it was cool if I could sit by her (the fit chick)
There ya go man anything to get the banter rolling. Breaking the ice is the hardest part but its like anything else in life. Practice. I was a timid kid in hs. I had a small group of friends from many of the cliques. But not apart of the group. Mostly kept to myself and slept through it. While taking honors and calculus. Somehow i graduated with honors 
After i got out i realized fuck this shit I'm awesome. And started talking to everyone. Now i cant walk around town without someone asking me how I've been. Half i don't even recognize but they all call me by my name. I just say ah whatsup my friend how ya been. And chit chat.
In todays world nobody talks to eachother anymore. Im always talking to people and laughing. If someone can make me laugh i will instantly like them. And i return the favor im actually pretty fucking funny.
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