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Would you date a chick who had a kid?
    #22275875 - 09/22/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Generally speaking...if you learn that a girl has a young blood, would it turn you off or negatively affect your decision to proceed with an intimate relationship?



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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22275886 - 09/22/15 07:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

have you guys ever noticed all the ladies with the hottest bodies have kids? Either the pregnancy does wonders, or they got pregnant because they were so attractive.

that pregnancy fat


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #22275888 - 09/22/15 07:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

oops I miss voted. I meant to say 'yes'. I have forever tainted your polel


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22275897 - 09/22/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I've done it. Dating a chick with a kid really kills the relationship quickly. I avoid it now but I'm getting to that age where all the single women are divorced with offspring. Nothing sucks the potential out of a relationship like a shitty little brat.

One of the many reasons I'm single. :sad:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Ezuma] * 1
    #22275902 - 09/22/15 07:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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oops I miss voted. I meant to say 'yup'. I have forever tainted your polel



fixed that for yah :douchewink:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #22275904 - 09/22/15 07:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I did the same thing lol.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Gorlax]
    #22275963 - 09/22/15 07:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Ya'll r duckin up

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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Gorlax]
    #22276001 - 09/22/15 07:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

gonna adjust this for my own needs, but I wouldn't date someone with a kid right now - I mean, I never say never and if it feels right then I can be flexible - but seriously not in any way shape or form at the stage of life where I'm ready to even fathom having any kind of maternal relationship, and if I was dating someone with a kid I'd want them to be present and apart of the whole relationship, not ostracized  - especially because I think it'd be hard as a kid to feel like your parent's attention was shifting to a random stranger to begin with.


also, I'm am enjoying the ability to be selfish too much right now to sacrifice that.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: MichAnon.ael] * 2
    #22276043 - 09/22/15 07:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I did this 6 years ago. We are still together.  I love her son, who is 7 now, he calls me dad I call him mine and we have a 1 year old who I love more then anything else in this world.

I had to give up a lot for my kids.  And I wouldn't change it for nothing.  I ll pay Amy amount of money, work much more then I  want too, do whatever it takes to make my kids smile.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB] * 1
    #22276068 - 09/22/15 08:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Hit it and quit it. Im a terrible person... :shrug:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB]
    #22276069 - 09/22/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

It probably wouldn't bug me as much if life was different
nowadays it's like you, you're wife and her child
surrounded by strange men
you're neighbors might as well be living in another country
speaking another language:rolleyes:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB] * 3
    #22276072 - 09/22/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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I did this 6 years ago. We are still together.  I love her son, who is 7 now, he calls me dad I call him mine and we have a 1 year old who I love more then anything else in this world.

I had to give up a lot for my kids.  And I wouldn't change it for nothing.  I ll pay Amy amount of money, work much more then I  want too, do whatever it takes to make my kids smile.





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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy] * 1
    #22276090 - 09/22/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

yes i would. but then again, i wouldn't because *empties out pockets...bugs crawl out*


because i've got bugs.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: akira_akuma] * 1
    #22276098 - 09/22/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You have bugs ? :awedisgust:
Thats not contageous is it?


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: akira_akuma] * 1
    #22276102 - 09/22/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: xbloodwhipx]
    #22276103 - 09/22/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I think that it depends on your age and it depends on her age. I used to think that it was a 100% deal breaker. Then last year I dated a chick who had two kids. I actually learned that it was kind of nice being with someone who had a completely different perspective on the world than anything that I'd ever been around before. I'm not saying that there weren't any disadvantages, but it was certainly a lot better than I expected it would be. We were both about 30 years old at that point.

If I were still in my early 20s it might make things a little bit different.

I'm currently seeing a girl now who has one kid. It was funny when we first started to get to know one another because I told her all of this and that if we'd met maybe even a year earlier that I probably would have not been interested because of the kid, but that since I'd had the experience with the other chick, it was kind of... "turn on" isn't the right turn... but... well, it's hard to explain really. But like I said before, it changes the way that you see things.

I still don't think that I want kids myself, but it's nice to date someone who has a different perspective on the world.

I think that it also depends on the kind of mom she is. If she's a shit-mom and doesn't take care of or love her kids, that would be a big turn off, but if she's a chill chick and can raise her kid(s) well, then it's worth the investment.

My advice is that if you're over 25, give it a try. The worst that could happen would be that you're not into it and you learn that about yourself.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Ezuma] * 1
    #22276109 - 09/22/15 08:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: akira_akuma]
    #22276113 - 09/22/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

2 years ago, no fucking way..

Now? If I had to? Yeah, probably.. Be hypocritical if I said no since I have my own show-ty.

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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: TheScientificMethod]
    #22276121 - 09/22/15 08:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I feel like if I'm having sex the kid is going to run up behind me and tickle my balls or the girl will constantly leave the room and act like I'm not there the entire time while staring into a void thinking about her child.

i mean it would be easier just to have sex right next to the kid, wouldnt it?


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Konyap] * 1
    #22276125 - 09/22/15 08:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

"suck ya momma's titties!"


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22276136 - 09/22/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

If I really liked her, sure I would.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Konyap]
    #22276137 - 09/22/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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I feel like if I'm having sex the kid is going to run up behind me and tickle my balls or the girl will constantly leave the room and act like I'm not there the entire time while staring into a void thinking about her child.

i mean it would be easier just to have sex right next to the kid, wouldnt it?

maybe even jiz on the bed so he can play with it



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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22276139 - 09/22/15 08:14 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

don't make no difference to me if she has some youngins, ill still smash it and treat her all sophisticated like


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Lucis]
    #22276148 - 09/22/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Um... is the kid in the house while you're fucking? That seems like it'd be weird. Get a fucking babysitter dude.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Konyap]
    #22276150 - 09/22/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

If it felt right then I'd go for it, she'd have to be pretty fucking special though.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: goldcaphunter] * 1
    #22276168 - 09/22/15 08:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Anyone who sees someone having a kid as a problem is prob jus casually dating and not all that interested n a serious relationship anyway which i dont understand at all.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: CHeifM4sterDiezL]
    #22276178 - 09/22/15 08:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I wouldn't want to take care of another man's child. So no I wouldn't date a woman with a kid. Absolutely not.

Fuck, yes. Date, no.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: CHeifM4sterDiezL]
    #22276180 - 09/22/15 08:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Casual dating is how most serious relationships start...


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Detached]
    #22276198 - 09/22/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Detached said:
I've done it. Dating a chick with a kid really kills the relationship quickly. I avoid it now but I'm getting to that age where all the single women are divorced with offspring. Nothing sucks the potential out of a relationship like a shitty little brat.

One of the many reasons I'm single. :sad:



You guys are so old. I feel so young.

I guess that's kinda good because I'm reading about all the mistakes and situations you guys get into as older people and I look at myself and am like "It's a good thing I'm still just 18 and can learn from these peoples experience and not end up like them".

I'm not talking about you in particular Detached but your comment made me think about how good it feels to be 18 and not have to worry about being at that age in my life. It also made me think how a lot of members have a lot of problems I would not want to be dealing with at that age which makes me want to have my shit together by that age and not end up like them.


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    #22276203 - 09/22/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

dating how alot of serious relationships start. casual dating is where your basically use the other person for ur own sexual and emotional needs rather than actually caring on a deep level it usually starts a long sequence of horrible bullshit drama and ends horribly :cookiemonster:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: CHeifM4sterDiezL]
    #22276216 - 09/22/15 08:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

No.  Way too complicated.  As a 29 year old, I'm entering the zone where everyone has kids.  All the same, no, I would not do that. To me, kids are a scarlet letter.  Way too much.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: CHeifM4sterDiezL]
    #22276226 - 09/22/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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dating how alot of serious relationships start. casual dating is where your basically use the other person for ur own sexual and emotional needs rather than actually caring on a deep level it usually starts a long sequence of horrible bullshit drama and ends horribly :cookiemonster:



I was recently in a situation like this. I was dating this girl who I had very strong feelings for, love you could say, yes that's it, I loved her with all my heart. She ended it last week because she was "stressed out" in short.
I don't under how someone can leave another who they told they loved over and over like they were nothing. I don't know if she just wasn't as mature as I thought she was (she's only 19) or she just was never looking for a relationship. People can be so cruel :lol:
But yeah relationships shouldn't be casual, that's what hookers are for.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Janky Tits]
    #22276240 - 09/22/15 08:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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I'm not talking about you in particular Detached but your comment made me think about how good it feels to be 18 and not have to worry about being at that age in my life. It also made me think how a lot of members have a lot of problems I would not want to be dealing with at that age which makes me want to have my shit together by that age and not end up like them.




You got your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy it within reason and do the best you can to make your later years comfortable. But sometimes life just happens unexpectedly and catches you off guard.

With that being said, I wouldn't want to be 18 again. I had a lot more fun my mid 20s


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Janky Tits]
    #22276296 - 09/22/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Quote:

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I've done it. Dating a chick with a kid really kills the relationship quickly. I avoid it now but I'm getting to that age where all the single women are divorced with offspring. Nothing sucks the potential out of a relationship like a shitty little brat.

One of the many reasons I'm single. :sad:



You guys are so old. I feel so young.

I guess that's kinda good because I'm reading about all the mistakes and situations you guys get into as older people and I look at myself and am like "It's a good thing I'm still just 18 and can learn from these peoples experience and not end up like them".

I'm not talking about you in particular Detached but your comment made me think about how good it feels to be 18 and not have to worry about being at that age in my life. It also made me think how a lot of members have a lot of problems I would not want to be dealing with at that age which makes me want to have my shit together by that age and not end up like them.





you definitely have to worry about spawning and stuff like that, and there's no shortage of young single moms but no one's forcing you into a relationship with one. I think teenage girls are probably riskier to just rely on birth control, because that shit can and does fail, and it takes a long time to really know your body when you've got a uterus and all those tubes and blood to deal with and things don't really settle into a groove until you're past adolescence. I don't want to get into ovulation and shit like that, but a lot of women are extremely aware to the point where they can feel the actual process, and while accidents happen and BC fails - I'd put much more faith in grown women as far as being more likely to realize something's up sooner and want to rule it out, follow up with an obgyn, and probably more likely to spend 70 bucks on plan B within the time frame required.

I can't imagine being a dude having to leave the possibility of pregnancy in the hands of another person's diligence about preventing it, especially ongoing relationships where bc is the only protection. If I were y'all I'd be hunting down that male birth control as soon as it comes out for peace of mind.


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    #22276309 - 09/22/15 08:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

haha "spawning"


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Sheekle]
    #22276779 - 09/22/15 10:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

It's one of those things that require tons of thought before you make you decision, on being with a women with kids, first findout how tolerable the kids are, lol.


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    #22276786 - 09/22/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

That is a valid point.

If you ever wanted to know what it is like to have kids, have a relationship with a single mother.

You'll realize why they are single.  :haha:

Then you can walk away and never worry about child support, alimony or anything more than being a distant memory to a developing young mind.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy] * 1
    #22276792 - 09/22/15 10:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I don't know if I'd date her, but I'd pay a babysitter to watch her kid and invite her into the bedroom. The closer to post pregnancy the better.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Detached] * 1
    #22276795 - 09/22/15 10:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

fuck a chick with sex trophies sure..

but the whole damned turn key family thing just fucking is off the wall bat shit to me.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: rackem]
    #22276798 - 09/22/15 10:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22277757 - 09/23/15 08:11 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I'm gay, so my would be partner having children is far less likely. If he did however, no problem. I am 42 years old, I'm looking for a long term relationship to commit to, if I'm that serious and hes that serious, becoming a second dad to his kid(s) would be an awesome and welcome challenge.

I'm of the age that goes well with being a dad, too.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22277784 - 09/23/15 08:22 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Doesn't turn me off, but I really doubt I'd put myself in that situation. Pretty much every relationship I've ever personally witnessed where the chick had a kid already, has ended in total disaster. The only two people who have ever broken that mold, was my Mom and my Grandma, and even then, shit wasn't just smooth as silk. Plenty of drama involved with both. They never seem to be relationships based on love. They seem to be more or less driven by nessecity. Dude needs someon to fuck and the chick needs help with the situation they're in (single mother struggling to keep a roof over their heads and put food on the table).

I know this won't be true for everyone, it's just what I've witnessed.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB]
    #22277804 - 09/23/15 08:35 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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I did this 6 years ago. We are still together.  I love her son, who is 7 now, he calls me dad I call him mine and we have a 1 year old who I love more then anything else in this world.

I had to give up a lot for my kids.  And I wouldn't change it for nothing.  I ll pay Amy amount of money, work much more then I  want too, do whatever it takes to make my kids smile.



You're a proper man. Well done. :thumbup:

My brother is in the same situation, except they have two kids together. Her son, we all love as if he were blood.

I would have no problems dating a woman with a kid, and have done. The only caveat is that I want my own kids one day, so if she didn't want more, it would be an issue.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: spookman]
    #22277857 - 09/23/15 08:57 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

What kind of question is this lol.  Of course I would date a lady who has a kid kids are awesome.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22277925 - 09/23/15 09:19 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Every time I see a hot mom I think to myself "No wonder they came inside of her!"


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22277963 - 09/23/15 09:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I have before. It's nice being sent off in the morning with some fruit roll ups and granola bars. Maybe a juice drink too if you're lucky.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22278078 - 09/23/15 10:09 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Such a baller.
Bang the mom, steal from the kid :cookiemonster: BAM!, you little shit!

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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shLong]
    #22278086 - 09/23/15 10:11 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

like me some milf


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
    #22278102 - 09/23/15 10:14 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I almost did, she worked at a heritage by my work and I go in everyday like 2 or 3 times. I wanted to ask her out so bad until I found out she had 2 kids, even though she was a fucking dime. She used to write notes on my breakfast sandwiches and after a few weeks of talking back and forth with her she wrote on it "so when are you going to ask for my number?"

Ended up asking for it later that day because I felt obligated to at that point, tried taking her out like 3 times but she ended up getting back with the baby daddy who hits her all the time. She was so fucking cool and sexy as fuck too :sad:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: SirShroomsAlott] * 1
    #22278183 - 09/23/15 10:40 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

That question coincides with your level of maturity and knowing what you want in life, what you think of kids in general, and how desperate you are for a relationship.

I love kids and had my own at a very early age...so..it was kind of a mutual dating point...taking her kids and mine places and doing kid friendly stuff with. I think kids keep a person younger...at least small ones....and..you get to play with toys again....Like fly a kite...you forget how cool it is to fly a kite.

Also, by cutting out moms from the dating pool...you are really limiting your prospects..and chances of finding someone that you can really dig....I think the way a woman cares for her kids tells alot about her...same for a dude.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #22473780 - 11/03/15 10:25 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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That question coincides with your level of maturity and knowing what you want in life, what you think of kids in general, and how desperate you are for a relationship.

I love kids and had my own at a very early age...so..it was kind of a mutual dating point...taking her kids and mine places and doing kid friendly stuff with. I think kids keep a person younger...at least small ones....and..you get to play with toys again....Like fly a kite...you forget how cool it is to fly a kite.

Also, by cutting out moms from the dating pool...you are really limiting your prospects..and chances of finding someone that you can really dig....I think the way a woman cares for her kids tells alot about her...same for a dude.




that was beautiful

me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years now and she has a 5 year old who i met when he was 3, im 20 and shes 27 and we all get along just fine. weve all taught and learned from each other in ways indescribable. plus like thay said, being a kid again is great and patience is something you take for granted in the information age but will literally go insane without when having children :wink:


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Inextinctus]
    #22473881 - 11/03/15 10:50 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

It instantly disqualifies a chick for me because would never tell a woman I'd take care of her and her kid just to fuck her. Maybe later on in life it'd be perfect for me but not at this point in my life,I'm only 21.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
    #22478013 - 11/04/15 07:34 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

My gf has kids and I'm happy. Her kids look up to me and I treat them as my own. They really don't have much of a father figure and even though they are not my biological children, they are my kids too.


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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: TheScientificMethod]
    #22478140 - 11/04/15 08:06 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

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Um... is the kid in the house while you're fucking? That seems like it'd be weird. Get a fucking babysitter dude.




I think as I was sexing her up I would just slap the walls really loud and scream "mommas makin pancakes in the mornin" over and over.


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