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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22277757 - 09/23/15 08:11 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm gay, so my would be partner having children is far less likely. If he did however, no problem. I am 42 years old, I'm looking for a long term relationship to commit to, if I'm that serious and hes that serious, becoming a second dad to his kid(s) would be an awesome and welcome challenge.
I'm of the age that goes well with being a dad, too.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22277784 - 09/23/15 08:22 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Doesn't turn me off, but I really doubt I'd put myself in that situation. Pretty much every relationship I've ever personally witnessed where the chick had a kid already, has ended in total disaster. The only two people who have ever broken that mold, was my Mom and my Grandma, and even then, shit wasn't just smooth as silk. Plenty of drama involved with both. They never seem to be relationships based on love. They seem to be more or less driven by nessecity. Dude needs someon to fuck and the chick needs help with the situation they're in (single mother struggling to keep a roof over their heads and put food on the table).
I know this won't be true for everyone, it's just what I've witnessed.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22277804 - 09/23/15 08:35 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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DTCharlieB said: I did this 6 years ago. We are still together. I love her son, who is 7 now, he calls me dad I call him mine and we have a 1 year old who I love more then anything else in this world.
I had to give up a lot for my kids. And I wouldn't change it for nothing. I ll pay Amy amount of money, work much more then I want too, do whatever it takes to make my kids smile.
You're a proper man. Well done. 
My brother is in the same situation, except they have two kids together. Her son, we all love as if he were blood.
I would have no problems dating a woman with a kid, and have done. The only caveat is that I want my own kids one day, so if she didn't want more, it would be an issue.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: spookman]
#22277857 - 09/23/15 08:57 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What kind of question is this lol. Of course I would date a lady who has a kid kids are awesome.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22277925 - 09/23/15 09:19 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22277963 - 09/23/15 09:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have before. It's nice being sent off in the morning with some fruit roll ups and granola bars. Maybe a juice drink too if you're lucky.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: nicechrisman]
#22278078 - 09/23/15 10:09 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Such a baller. Bang the mom, steal from the kid BAM!, you little shit!
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shLong]
#22278086 - 09/23/15 10:11 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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like me some milf
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22278102 - 09/23/15 10:14 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I almost did, she worked at a heritage by my work and I go in everyday like 2 or 3 times. I wanted to ask her out so bad until I found out she had 2 kids, even though she was a fucking dime. She used to write notes on my breakfast sandwiches and after a few weeks of talking back and forth with her she wrote on it "so when are you going to ask for my number?"
Ended up asking for it later that day because I felt obligated to at that point, tried taking her out like 3 times but she ended up getting back with the baby daddy who hits her all the time. She was so fucking cool and sexy as fuck too
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That question coincides with your level of maturity and knowing what you want in life, what you think of kids in general, and how desperate you are for a relationship.
I love kids and had my own at a very early age...so..it was kind of a mutual dating point...taking her kids and mine places and doing kid friendly stuff with. I think kids keep a person younger...at least small ones....and..you get to play with toys again....Like fly a kite...you forget how cool it is to fly a kite.
Also, by cutting out moms from the dating pool...you are really limiting your prospects..and chances of finding someone that you can really dig....I think the way a woman cares for her kids tells alot about her...same for a dude.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Thayendanegea]
#22473780 - 11/03/15 10:25 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thayendanegea said: That question coincides with your level of maturity and knowing what you want in life, what you think of kids in general, and how desperate you are for a relationship.
I love kids and had my own at a very early age...so..it was kind of a mutual dating point...taking her kids and mine places and doing kid friendly stuff with. I think kids keep a person younger...at least small ones....and..you get to play with toys again....Like fly a kite...you forget how cool it is to fly a kite.
Also, by cutting out moms from the dating pool...you are really limiting your prospects..and chances of finding someone that you can really dig....I think the way a woman cares for her kids tells alot about her...same for a dude.
that was beautiful
me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years now and she has a 5 year old who i met when he was 3, im 20 and shes 27 and we all get along just fine. weve all taught and learned from each other in ways indescribable. plus like thay said, being a kid again is great and patience is something you take for granted in the information age but will literally go insane without when having children
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Inextinctus]
#22473881 - 11/03/15 10:50 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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It instantly disqualifies a chick for me because would never tell a woman I'd take care of her and her kid just to fuck her. Maybe later on in life it'd be perfect for me but not at this point in my life,I'm only 21.
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My gf has kids and I'm happy. Her kids look up to me and I treat them as my own. They really don't have much of a father figure and even though they are not my biological children, they are my kids too.
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TheScientificMethod said: Um... is the kid in the house while you're fucking? That seems like it'd be weird. Get a fucking babysitter dude.
I think as I was sexing her up I would just slap the walls really loud and scream "mommas makin pancakes in the mornin" over and over.
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