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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22276136 - 09/22/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If I really liked her, sure I would.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Konyap]
#22276137 - 09/22/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Konyap said: I feel like if I'm having sex the kid is going to run up behind me and tickle my balls or the girl will constantly leave the room and act like I'm not there the entire time while staring into a void thinking about her child.
i mean it would be easier just to have sex right next to the kid, wouldnt it?
maybe even jiz on the bed so he can play with it
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Konyap said: "suck ya momma's titties!"
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22276139 - 09/22/15 08:14 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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don't make no difference to me if she has some youngins, ill still smash it and treat her all sophisticated like
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Lucis]
#22276148 - 09/22/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Um... is the kid in the house while you're fucking? That seems like it'd be weird. Get a fucking babysitter dude.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Konyap]
#22276150 - 09/22/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If it felt right then I'd go for it, she'd have to be pretty fucking special though.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: goldcaphunter] 1
#22276168 - 09/22/15 08:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anyone who sees someone having a kid as a problem is prob jus casually dating and not all that interested n a serious relationship anyway which i dont understand at all.
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I wouldn't want to take care of another man's child. So no I wouldn't date a woman with a kid. Absolutely not.
Fuck, yes. Date, no.
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Casual dating is how most serious relationships start...
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Detached]
#22276198 - 09/22/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Detached said: I've done it. Dating a chick with a kid really kills the relationship quickly. I avoid it now but I'm getting to that age where all the single women are divorced with offspring. Nothing sucks the potential out of a relationship like a shitty little brat.
One of the many reasons I'm single. 
You guys are so old. I feel so young.
I guess that's kinda good because I'm reading about all the mistakes and situations you guys get into as older people and I look at myself and am like "It's a good thing I'm still just 18 and can learn from these peoples experience and not end up like them".
I'm not talking about you in particular Detached but your comment made me think about how good it feels to be 18 and not have to worry about being at that age in my life. It also made me think how a lot of members have a lot of problems I would not want to be dealing with at that age which makes me want to have my shit together by that age and not end up like them.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Detached] 2
#22276203 - 09/22/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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dating how alot of serious relationships start. casual dating is where your basically use the other person for ur own sexual and emotional needs rather than actually caring on a deep level it usually starts a long sequence of horrible bullshit drama and ends horribly
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No. Way too complicated. As a 29 year old, I'm entering the zone where everyone has kids. All the same, no, I would not do that. To me, kids are a scarlet letter. Way too much.
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I was recently in a situation like this. I was dating this girl who I had very strong feelings for, love you could say, yes that's it, I loved her with all my heart. She ended it last week because she was "stressed out" in short. I don't under how someone can leave another who they told they loved over and over like they were nothing. I don't know if she just wasn't as mature as I thought she was (she's only 19) or she just was never looking for a relationship. People can be so cruel But yeah relationships shouldn't be casual, that's what hookers are for.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Janky Tits]
#22276240 - 09/22/15 08:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Janky Tits said: I'm not talking about you in particular Detached but your comment made me think about how good it feels to be 18 and not have to worry about being at that age in my life. It also made me think how a lot of members have a lot of problems I would not want to be dealing with at that age which makes me want to have my shit together by that age and not end up like them.
You got your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy it within reason and do the best you can to make your later years comfortable. But sometimes life just happens unexpectedly and catches you off guard.
With that being said, I wouldn't want to be 18 again. I had a lot more fun my mid 20s
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Janky Tits]
#22276296 - 09/22/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Detached said: I've done it. Dating a chick with a kid really kills the relationship quickly. I avoid it now but I'm getting to that age where all the single women are divorced with offspring. Nothing sucks the potential out of a relationship like a shitty little brat.
One of the many reasons I'm single. 
You guys are so old. I feel so young.
I guess that's kinda good because I'm reading about all the mistakes and situations you guys get into as older people and I look at myself and am like "It's a good thing I'm still just 18 and can learn from these peoples experience and not end up like them".
I'm not talking about you in particular Detached but your comment made me think about how good it feels to be 18 and not have to worry about being at that age in my life. It also made me think how a lot of members have a lot of problems I would not want to be dealing with at that age which makes me want to have my shit together by that age and not end up like them.
you definitely have to worry about spawning and stuff like that, and there's no shortage of young single moms but no one's forcing you into a relationship with one. I think teenage girls are probably riskier to just rely on birth control, because that shit can and does fail, and it takes a long time to really know your body when you've got a uterus and all those tubes and blood to deal with and things don't really settle into a groove until you're past adolescence. I don't want to get into ovulation and shit like that, but a lot of women are extremely aware to the point where they can feel the actual process, and while accidents happen and BC fails - I'd put much more faith in grown women as far as being more likely to realize something's up sooner and want to rule it out, follow up with an obgyn, and probably more likely to spend 70 bucks on plan B within the time frame required.
I can't imagine being a dude having to leave the possibility of pregnancy in the hands of another person's diligence about preventing it, especially ongoing relationships where bc is the only protection. If I were y'all I'd be hunting down that male birth control as soon as it comes out for peace of mind.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: pirate-blues] 1
#22276309 - 09/22/15 08:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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haha "spawning"
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Sheekle]
#22276779 - 09/22/15 10:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's one of those things that require tons of thought before you make you decision, on being with a women with kids, first findout how tolerable the kids are, lol.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: ByTheBooks]
#22276786 - 09/22/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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That is a valid point.
If you ever wanted to know what it is like to have kids, have a relationship with a single mother.
You'll realize why they are single. 
Then you can walk away and never worry about child support, alimony or anything more than being a distant memory to a developing young mind.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22276792 - 09/22/15 10:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't know if I'd date her, but I'd pay a babysitter to watch her kid and invite her into the bedroom. The closer to post pregnancy the better.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Detached] 1
#22276795 - 09/22/15 10:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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fuck a chick with sex trophies sure..
but the whole damned turn key family thing just fucking is off the wall bat shit to me.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: rackem]
#22276798 - 09/22/15 10:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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