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shadyy
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Would you date a chick who had a kid?
#22275875 - 09/22/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Generally speaking...if you learn that a girl has a young blood, would it turn you off or negatively affect your decision to proceed with an intimate relationship?
Remember, your vote is anonymous.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22275886 - 09/22/15 07:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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have you guys ever noticed all the ladies with the hottest bodies have kids? Either the pregnancy does wonders, or they got pregnant because they were so attractive.
that pregnancy fat
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22275888 - 09/22/15 07:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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oops I miss voted. I meant to say 'yes'. I have forever tainted your polel
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy]
#22275897 - 09/22/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I've done it. Dating a chick with a kid really kills the relationship quickly. I avoid it now but I'm getting to that age where all the single women are divorced with offspring. Nothing sucks the potential out of a relationship like a shitty little brat.
One of the many reasons I'm single.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Ezuma] 1
#22275902 - 09/22/15 07:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Ezuma said: oops I miss voted. I meant to say 'yup'. I have forever tainted your polel
fixed that for yah
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22275904 - 09/22/15 07:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I did the same thing lol.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Gorlax]
#22275963 - 09/22/15 07:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ya'll r duckin up
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Gorlax]
#22276001 - 09/22/15 07:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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gonna adjust this for my own needs, but I wouldn't date someone with a kid right now - I mean, I never say never and if it feels right then I can be flexible - but seriously not in any way shape or form at the stage of life where I'm ready to even fathom having any kind of maternal relationship, and if I was dating someone with a kid I'd want them to be present and apart of the whole relationship, not ostracized - especially because I think it'd be hard as a kid to feel like your parent's attention was shifting to a random stranger to begin with.
also, I'm am enjoying the ability to be selfish too much right now to sacrifice that.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: MichAnon.ael] 2
#22276043 - 09/22/15 07:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I did this 6 years ago. We are still together. I love her son, who is 7 now, he calls me dad I call him mine and we have a 1 year old who I love more then anything else in this world.
I had to give up a lot for my kids. And I wouldn't change it for nothing. I ll pay Amy amount of money, work much more then I want too, do whatever it takes to make my kids smile.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB] 1
#22276068 - 09/22/15 08:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hit it and quit it. Im a terrible person...
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22276069 - 09/22/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It probably wouldn't bug me as much if life was different nowadays it's like you, you're wife and her child surrounded by strange men you're neighbors might as well be living in another country speaking another language
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: DTCharlieB] 3
#22276072 - 09/22/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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DTCharlieB said: I did this 6 years ago. We are still together. I love her son, who is 7 now, he calls me dad I call him mine and we have a 1 year old who I love more then anything else in this world.
I had to give up a lot for my kids. And I wouldn't change it for nothing. I ll pay Amy amount of money, work much more then I want too, do whatever it takes to make my kids smile.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22276090 - 09/22/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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yes i would. but then again, i wouldn't because *empties out pockets...bugs crawl out*
because i've got bugs.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: akira_akuma] 1
#22276098 - 09/22/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You have bugs ?  Thats not contageous is it?
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: akira_akuma] 1
#22276102 - 09/22/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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kids like bugs
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: xbloodwhipx]
#22276103 - 09/22/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think that it depends on your age and it depends on her age. I used to think that it was a 100% deal breaker. Then last year I dated a chick who had two kids. I actually learned that it was kind of nice being with someone who had a completely different perspective on the world than anything that I'd ever been around before. I'm not saying that there weren't any disadvantages, but it was certainly a lot better than I expected it would be. We were both about 30 years old at that point.
If I were still in my early 20s it might make things a little bit different.
I'm currently seeing a girl now who has one kid. It was funny when we first started to get to know one another because I told her all of this and that if we'd met maybe even a year earlier that I probably would have not been interested because of the kid, but that since I'd had the experience with the other chick, it was kind of... "turn on" isn't the right turn... but... well, it's hard to explain really. But like I said before, it changes the way that you see things.
I still don't think that I want kids myself, but it's nice to date someone who has a different perspective on the world.
I think that it also depends on the kind of mom she is. If she's a shit-mom and doesn't take care of or love her kids, that would be a big turn off, but if she's a chill chick and can raise her kid(s) well, then it's worth the investment.
My advice is that if you're over 25, give it a try. The worst that could happen would be that you're not into it and you learn that about yourself.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Ezuma] 1
#22276109 - 09/22/15 08:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Ezuma said: I have forever tainted your pole
That's what she said.
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: akira_akuma]
#22276113 - 09/22/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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2 years ago, no fucking way..
Now? If I had to? Yeah, probably.. Be hypocritical if I said no since I have my own show-ty.
Plus, it's like shopping the bargain bin at Walmart killer deals to be had
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Konyap

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I feel like if I'm having sex the kid is going to run up behind me and tickle my balls or the girl will constantly leave the room and act like I'm not there the entire time while staring into a void thinking about her child.
i mean it would be easier just to have sex right next to the kid, wouldnt it?
Edited by Konyap (09/22/15 08:13 PM)
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Re: Would you date a chick who had a kid? [Re: Konyap] 1
#22276125 - 09/22/15 08:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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"suck ya momma's titties!"
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