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Havent been able to find anyone
#22271370 - 09/21/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Of interest, is it possible i could be doing something wrong or does this happen to people some times? I have several options to pick from as girlfriends but i don't feel connected to any of them on a deeper level. Or just interested enough really.
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: 404]
#22271531 - 09/21/15 08:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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eh... always best not to rush this stuff
just be around people so you can meet other people
the more you do that the faster you'll end up connecting with someone
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: micro]
#22296982 - 09/27/15 03:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm having trouble finding a girl despite having lost heaps of weight, shaped up my life and sorta look good now, still get depressed occasionally and that's really unattractive though. I get attention and smiles but I seriously don't know what I'm doing, I don't know where to begin in conversation or even how to approach. Stupid mental health issues delayed my interactions with the opposite sex for years. I'm 28 and although I've been laid, I'm pretty much clueless.
Maybe if I continue my winning streak against my mental health and get happy and involved in things, it'll all fall into place.
Might have an anxiety disorder still...
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: 404]
#22297252 - 09/27/15 07:34 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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404 said: Of interest, is it possible i could be doing something wrong or does this happen to people some times? I have several options to pick from as girlfriends but i don't feel connected to any of them on a deeper level. Or just interested enough really.
It isn't because your have several options to pick from that you have to pick one. You always have the option to do nothing.
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: 404]
#22306988 - 09/29/15 07:57 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Neither can i
Im social n confident anymore, i think its my area. but im sure ill with someone in the future
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: SunnyD]
#22307307 - 09/29/15 09:49 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Theres two girlfriends that you havent considered.
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I'm pretty sure that's just one hand looking at itself in the mirror, which is a pretty self-absorbed thing for a hand to do so I'd still keep looking for a better hand at least.
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22307361 - 09/29/15 10:05 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you sit on your hand long enough, it feels like someone elses hand
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I am having a hard time trying to find someone too. When I tell black people about it, they just tell me to date a fat girl. In theory perhaps I could but I don't want someone who is that big. Why is a normal size girl so god damn much to ask for?
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22312433 - 09/30/15 04:46 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Because most girls are lazy and don't exercise or they have kids and never cared about looking good again after giving birth.
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Re: Havent been able to find anyone [Re: Anonymous #2]
#22312473 - 09/30/15 05:10 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Haha.. I just blacked out or something and found myself reading these last four posts backwards. We're all fucked.
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