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zappaisgod
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: wigglewak]
#22270791 - 09/21/15 06:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think he wants more than just a fuck
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270792 - 09/21/15 06:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's understandable, but if you place all of your energy into one aspect of your life, the lack of balance is going to keep you swinging dramatically from one extreme to another. If you want to increase your contentment with life in general, you've got to distribute your emotional energy more evenly and judiciously.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270796 - 09/21/15 06:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: When you've been alone for a long time plus weaning off of multiple substances at once you tend to not enjoy your situation. Relationships have always been really important to me and made me feel whole when I'm in them so it's been a touchy subject for me my whole life
Indeed, took me awhile to get over my ex and I still think about her time to time almost a year later 
Just stay positive though man, I know it sounds like hippy mumbo jumbo but the universe really picks up on it. Them positive "vibes" man 
Take some time to think about what you want and or really need to be happy and try to manifest it.
-------------------- Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: zappaisgod]
#22270805 - 09/21/15 06:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude please, like any good long relationship isn't built on solid sex.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270812 - 09/21/15 06:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'll be fine, you've already received some pretty sound advice. My 2c would be to take the initiative with the chick, girls like a man who will take the reins, just don't pass out on her like a jerk next time she comes over to visit, because frankly, that's counter productive and an arsehole move.
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musiclover420
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: wigglewak]
#22270819 - 09/21/15 06:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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wigglewak said: Dude please, like any good long relationship isn't built on solid sex.
I dated my last girlfriend for almost a year before we had sex Our relationship was pretty good and lasted almost another whole year.
Not bad considering there was a pretty decent age difference too, which I think is the main reason we waited so long. I was the younger one btw.
-------------------- Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: wigglewak]
#22270835 - 09/21/15 06:34 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I hear your having girl problems i feel bad for ya son......
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: musiclover420]
#22270843 - 09/21/15 06:36 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I try and balance my life so that I'm content with everything I do whether I'm alone or not but having someone care for you like that just gives me a feeling that I'm accepted. i need to trip this weekend and meditate isn't it normal to get a text back within over a day of your last message like she dosent work with me anymore so that's the only way I can talk to her. I've always fucked up the balance of not caring enough and caring too much. I've fucked up so many promising relationships like that which is why I stress over this shit so much
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zappaisgod
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 1
#22270854 - 09/21/15 06:38 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Stop fucking texting and call her.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270861 - 09/21/15 06:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Do a solo trip and tune into your intuition. You probably know more than you think about what is best for you.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#22270874 - 09/21/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks for all the kind words guys it really means a lot to me Quote:
zappaisgod said: Stop fucking texting and call her.
And I am this weekend to see if she wants to hang out.
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zappaisgod
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270879 - 09/21/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Good.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270884 - 09/21/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I remember tripping with a friend years ago who was having girl troubles.
I think his issue though was choosing between two girls he was interested in.
Tripping could definitely help you re evaluate your priorities and motivate you to work towards whatever seems best though.
-------------------- Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free
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zappaisgod
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: musiclover420]
#22270886 - 09/21/15 06:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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No.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: musiclover420]
#22270901 - 09/21/15 06:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sorry if I'm whining too much guys. I feel like I've fucked up a lot of past relationships by caring too much and wearing my heart on my sleeve rather than playing the "well we can go out if you want too or not, it's whatever" type method that some women tend to fall for for some stupid fucking reason
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: zappaisgod]
#22270917 - 09/21/15 06:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: No.
No to tripping?
Of course tripping when you are feeling depressed or mentally unstable is not the smartest but it can really help one sort out their issues when used properly.
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zappaisgod
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22270930 - 09/21/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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There is a middle ground. Find it. Don't be too all in immediately and conversely do not be blase. Exhibit interest without appearing obsessed.
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zappaisgod
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: musiclover420]
#22270938 - 09/21/15 06:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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musiclover420 said:
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zappaisgod said: No.
No to tripping?
Of course tripping when you are feeling depressed or mentally unstable is not the smartest but it can really help one sort out their issues when used properly.
I have never found tripping to be of any value for self reflection. I do that enough. I trip for laughs.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: zappaisgod]
#22270954 - 09/21/15 06:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I've tripped alone exactly once, and it was a tremendously helpful experience for me. I think the outcome depends a lot on the mindset going into it, but that's no surprise to anyone. I hope.
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Re: You guys remeber how I loved life yesterday so much [Re: sun_spots]
#22271023 - 09/21/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I've eaten LSD in the midst of depression and it showed me my path I need to take. It felt like god patting me on the back and pushing me in the right direction
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