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Anahata


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Questions about getting help.
#22266286 - 09/20/15 06:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Stress, life, people
I feel like i could beneficent from help, but i dont know what i dont know. I work a full time job and live on my own, i have bills and cant take to long off without needing someone to pay bills for me unless i sell everything. My family loves me and would do anything they could to help and i them but in the past ive turned to them and they are just not mentally strng enough to either give me advice or relate or know how to help. I dont need rehab, but like a tranquil place to relax and unwind and let go of the crazy time in my head. Are there places like this? Im afriad if i do i will be institutionalized like in a home or on constant watch, restricted, and that worries me. I dont want to labeled a case either.
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micro
bunbun has a gungun



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Re: Questions about getting help. [Re: Anahata]
#22266334 - 09/20/15 06:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It sounds like you're spending a very large portion of your income on bills...
Is there any way you could lower the amount you spend?
If not, is there a way you could make more money?
Maybe with a different job, for example.
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Anahata


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Re: Questions about getting help. [Re: micro]
#22266737 - 09/20/15 08:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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i smirked, your so right, bills bills bills
i would love a differnt job, i make 14.75 and the work is fairly easy its the horrid ass hole people i have to take, and i have to work with them daily always together in group, and a women that pouts and gets anything she wants, and rules that punish people for speaking up...worst part is whenever i bring up this im labeled a pussy. thus the cycle worsens.
im in my 30s barely made it out of high school no college no trade. im willing to take a cut in pay like 10 an hr but there is no work around here. thus more stress.
but lets say i do have money, what do you recommend?
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micro
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Re: Questions about getting help. [Re: Anahata]
#22266875 - 09/20/15 08:34 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would say give it a good 6 months since it's a new job but then take some time off.
Maybe travel, get a nice hotel, room service >.>
Or I dunno, whatever you've been wanting to do but couldn't.
Just learn programming and move to the SF Bay area =P
Many people I know just did that and are now making 6 figures...
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Re: Questions about getting help. [Re: micro]
#22272533 - 09/22/15 03:34 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like more of a meditation retreat thing you're looking for, but AFAIK that is rich-people stuff.
I just spend time in the woods. There's nothing like it to me. Just moving around in a place where there is no people (well very few at least) does the trick. I'd say take up hiking. If there are no jobs in your area, there must be nature
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Re: Questions about getting help. [Re: Anahata]
#22274677 - 09/22/15 03:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You have to see this: YOU are choosing to carry on this shitty lifestyle you leading, the getting up every morning to do that job with the other people you hate and is driving you mad. I understand how difficult it seems, but at the end of the day you DO have choices. You can STOP it!! What's maybe keeping you from stopping it is 'better the devil you know than the devil you don't'? IE you are fearful of taking a change and going into the unknown--which could mean going on benefits for a while, or just trying some other way other then what you doing
I speak from experience as I did this awful factory job, and after wasting years doing it, when it ended--THANKS GOD!!-- I was full of resentment UNTIL I realized it was me making that choice to do it, get up every morning and choose that hell. NO one was forcing. I was just scared of stopping because as bad as it was, it was 'better the devil...'etc. The relief when I got out!
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