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Janky Tits

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No longer care so much about physical appearance
#22263855 - 09/20/15 08:56 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I tripped Friday and came to a number of conclusions during it. I was conversing with the mushrooms and I was coming to conclusions and one of the conclusions was particularly interesting. I noticed that in the past and up until now I have been choosing my romantic interests almost exclusively based on looks. I would crush on girls almost exclusively because they were tall, or blonde, if they had big tits, a nice ass and were perfectly skinny or had a perfect symmetrical face.
To be honest I wouldn't consider personality much at all before I would jump straight into crushing on them without even knowing how they are like. I use to tell myself that I was in love with this sexy tall blonde named Rachel, she was almost this sexy flawless super model. I didn't know shit about her personality and when I did discover it... I found that she was a vapid and shallow athletic sporty girl who had nothing in common with me and I was disappointed but either way I continued to like her because I thought "holy shit this girl is fucking hot, there is no way I can pass the chance off to get a supermodel like that as my girlfriend".
So basically I realized that doing that is really not at all in my best interest. I've recently met someone who I really think I've fallen in love with. She is an amazing person in every sense of the word, me and her are so alike and click in every way, she is simply amazing and she makes me unbelievably happy when I'm around her. I have a very strong need to make her mine and to spend the rest of my life with her. This goes way past looks, she is far from being a sexy blonde super model. She is basically this brunette hippie chick who kind of has a chubby stomach and her face isn't supper model material at all and she can be kind of sloppy and ungraceful (she spits on the floor like a guy, she burps sometimes, and I've seen her puke after taking ecstasy). Regardless I'm in love with her and think she is flawless and beautiful, the time I've spent with her has been so beautiful and I've come to the conclusion that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. She is so amazing to me.
I have a girlfriend right now and she is awesome and we get along and click (not to mention she is closer to being the hot blonde super model I've always thought I wanted) but the mushrooms did teach me that I need to choose someone that makes me truly happy. I don't plan on breaking up with her soon and I love my gf but I personally don't think she makes me as happy as this girl I've met and we don't click or understand each other nearly as much as me and this other girl. I need to surround myself and be with the people who make me the most happy and need to choose people based of what they are like inside. Looks and physical appearance matter but what is really important at least for now is what people are like inside and how they make you feel.
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Weiliithinker
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22263872 - 09/20/15 09:02 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I say go with that hippy chick Looks don't matter when you're both 80 years old
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Weiliithinker]
#22263888 - 09/20/15 09:09 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I say be realistic. Looks matter to a certain degree with sexual attraction. No one wants to be with a slob. That being said you will meet the ugliest people if you go just off looks. I'm not picky, I've dated 5'11"-5' 100lbs to 160. But sexual attraction does play a role.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Weiliithinker]
#22263892 - 09/20/15 09:10 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Agreed man, I can imagine me marrying that shallow athletic sexy blonde and when she is young she is all hot and stuff but I can also imagine me dealing with her shitty personality when she is 80 and she won't have the looks or physical appearance to offset or make me want to deal with her shitty personality
Edited by Janky Tits (09/20/15 09:18 AM)
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits]
#22263896 - 09/20/15 09:12 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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that's when you go to African and shoot lions n shit to get away
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Janky Tits

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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Mescalean]
#22263906 - 09/20/15 09:17 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah I know. I find the hippy chick to be sexually and physically attractive. She can be ungraceful and act sloppy but she isn't a slob. She is really pretty and very physically appealing. All her imperfections like her somewhat chubby stomach are fixable. She is far from perfect but my point is before now I only cared about looks and not about personality. Now that I've met such an amazing girl who isn't my ideal super model girlfriend I've come to understand that personality is just as important if not more than looks. Obviously I won't date a slob but I also doubt I would get serious with a perfect Victoria's Secret model babe just because she is hot. I'm not sayin I wouldnt bang one or fool around I'm talking about people I'd get serious with romantically
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits]
#22264107 - 09/20/15 10:27 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Janky Tits said: So I tripped Friday and came to a number of conclusions during it. I was conversing with the mushrooms and I was coming to conclusions and one of the conclusions was particularly interesting. I noticed that in the past and up until now I have been choosing my romantic interests almost exclusively based on looks. I would crush on girls almost exclusively because they were tall, or blonde, if they had big tits, a nice ass and were perfectly skinny or had a perfect symmetrical face.
To be honest I wouldn't consider personality much at all before I would jump straight into crushing on them without even knowing how they are like. I use to tell myself that I was in love with this sexy tall blonde named Rachel, she was almost this sexy flawless super model. I didn't know shit about her personality and when I did discover it... I found that she was a vapid and shallow athletic sporty girl who had nothing in common with me and I was disappointed but either way I continued to like her because I thought "holy shit this girl is fucking hot, there is no way I can pass the chance off to get a supermodel like that as my girlfriend".
So basically I realized that doing that is really not at all in my best interest. I've recently met someone who I really think I've fallen in love with. She is an amazing person in every sense of the word, me and her are so alike and click in every way, she is simply amazing and she makes me unbelievably happy when I'm around her. I have a very strong need to make her mine and to spend the rest of my life with her. This goes way past looks, she is far from being a sexy blonde super model. She is basically this brunette hippie chick who kind of has a chubby stomach and her face isn't supper model material at all and she can be kind of sloppy and ungraceful (she spits on the floor like a guy, she burps sometimes, and I've seen her puke after taking ecstasy). Regardless I'm in love with her and think she is flawless and beautiful, the time I've spent with her has been so beautiful and I've come to the conclusion that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. She is so amazing to me.
I have a girlfriend right now and she is awesome and we get along and click (not to mention she is closer to being the hot blonde super model I've always thought I wanted) but the mushrooms did teach me that I need to choose someone that makes me truly happy. I don't plan on breaking up with her soon and I love my gf but I personally don't think she makes me as happy as this girl I've met and we don't click or understand each other nearly as much as me and this other girl. I need to surround myself and be with the people who make me the most happy and need to choose people based of what they are like inside. Looks and physical appearance matter but what is really important at least for now is what people are like inside and how they make you feel.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22264143 - 09/20/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits] 1
#22264429 - 09/20/15 11:44 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Janky Tits said: Yeah I know. I find the hippy chick to be sexually and physically attractive. She can be ungraceful and act sloppy but she isn't a slob. She is really pretty and very physically appealing. All her imperfections like her somewhat chubby stomach are fixable. She is far from perfect but my point is before now I only cared about looks and not about personality. Now that I've met such an amazing girl who isn't my ideal super model girlfriend I've come to understand that personality is just as important if not more than looks. Obviously I won't date a slob but I also doubt I would get serious with a perfect Victoria's Secret model babe just because she is hot. I'm not sayin I wouldnt bang one or fool around I'm talking about people I'd get serious with romantically
It seems to me that you're still hung up on physical appearance.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Fletcher] 1
#22264617 - 09/20/15 12:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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the mushrooms told you this is your soulmate
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Fletcher]
#22264629 - 09/20/15 12:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fletcher said:
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Janky Tits said: Yeah I know. I find the hippy chick to be sexually and physically attractive. She can be ungraceful and act sloppy but she isn't a slob. She is really pretty and very physically appealing. All her imperfections like her somewhat chubby stomach are fixable. She is far from perfect but my point is before now I only cared about looks and not about personality. Now that I've met such an amazing girl who isn't my ideal super model girlfriend I've come to understand that personality is just as important if not more than looks. Obviously I won't date a slob but I also doubt I would get serious with a perfect Victoria's Secret model babe just because she is hot. I'm not sayin I wouldnt bang one or fool around I'm talking about people I'd get serious with romantically
It seems to me that you're still hung up on physical appearance.
My thoughts exactly.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits]
#22264723 - 09/20/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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How long have you known this chick?
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Janky Tits

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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Blend] 1
#22264765 - 09/20/15 12:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I've known her for like 2 months. In those two months I have come to know just how beautiful of a human being she is and how much me and her are compatible.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits]
#22264786 - 09/20/15 12:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Janky Tits said: All her imperfections like her somewhat chubby stomach are fixable.
LOL. Good thing appearance doesn't matter to you!
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Janky Tits]
#22264792 - 09/20/15 12:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You seem pretty young, my advice, don't get too caught up on any one person. No matter how compatible, anyone can become annoying as fuck after knowing them long enough.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Fletcher] 2
#22264798 - 09/20/15 12:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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tl;dr I don't care if the person I have sex with has a dick, shrooms made me gay.
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Janky Tits

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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: The Moose]
#22264823 - 09/20/15 01:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah I don't care if she is chubby... she can be chubby for the rest of her life and I'll still love her...
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: thelanzii]
#22264828 - 09/20/15 01:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nemmies said:

the mushrooms told you this is your soulmate
I hope you have a fat ugly kid no one likes.
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#22264886 - 09/20/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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thanks
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Re: No longer care so much about physical appearance [Re: thelanzii]
#22264943 - 09/20/15 01:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Good for you, OP.
Although i thought this thread was about being married
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