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serious question 5
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why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
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#22262894 - 09/19/15 11:54 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh leave us alone.
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#22262896 - 09/19/15 11:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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um no. "Confucius viewed woman as a thoroughly irrational creatures, often difficult to deal with."
.....oh if only he could see them now. he'd be asking himself WTF happened?!?
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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women are no walk in the park either
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#22263007 - 09/20/15 12:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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50s men would have beat the shit out of you really badly.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles] 2
#22263024 - 09/20/15 12:36 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Too much stress in this life. This isn't how any of us were meant to live.
Just consider 'the straw that broke the camel's back' factor though.. it's probably a lot of shit building up to the one thing that makes them finally go BERSERK!
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles] 1
#22263040 - 09/20/15 12:41 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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When I posted basically this thought Tymo deleted it and said OTD was more the place for it
so THANK YOU SPRINKLES
for verifying what I've known all along. The hormones in the soy milk are giving men vaginas.
Frank Sinatra is truly the epitome of what a man should be. He could write and sing a sensitive love song that literally made women's leather chairs squeak, then belt some single malt with Dean Martin before asking Charlie Fischetti to kill somebody who fucked with him.
Damn, that's a man.
I'm sorry but all these "I saw a pretty girl and wet myself, how do I get her to notice me for something other than smelling like piss?" posts from people with a Y chromosome are disheartening.
MEN: Don't be so damned scared of rejection! Don't be so afraid PERIOD. Life is for the living. FAIL AND EMBRACE IT.
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Re: serious question [Re: Srirachi]
#22263048 - 09/20/15 12:43 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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There's that too. Perhaps I was mistaking anger for bitchassness..
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86] 2
#22263078 - 09/20/15 12:55 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I didn't see your post until I posted mine Amanita but I really think it all comes down to fear of failure and the perception that men have that they can't let anyone ever see them not be perfect. It's like the male version of a woman who is four pounds above her chart-determined optimum weight thinking she needs to diet.
The thing is we only learn from failures really. Nobody ever learned to do it better by saying "well that went exactly as I planned it." Men today get stuck in some prepubescent half-girl bitch mode because they feel so much pressure to not fail, that they never do anything they might remotely have the chance to fail at.
I do really well at laughing at myself, and I truly believe that being willing to fail and not feel like a failure for it has made me happy. Plus chicks dig it when a guy isn't an uptight cunt.
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Srirachi said: Men today get stuck in some prepubescent half-girl bitch mode
fucking exactly. like 12 year olds a week before their period. UGH. I blame feminists personally. these stupid fucking women having children out of wedlock. now boys get to pick their gender and most of them even look like girls. Fucking women are ruining this country, making males effeminate. Makes me sick.
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86] 2
#22263217 - 09/20/15 01:50 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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giving a baby soy milk is equivalent to giving it 5 birth control pills. soy mimics estrogen.
Soy has many negative affects on people and animals. FUCK SOY. Fuck single mothers having kids out of marriage. fuck everybody to death. thanks.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22263229 - 09/20/15 01:53 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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sprinkles said: now boys get to pick their gender and most of them even look like girls.
Hmm... I might be okay with that >.>
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that's fine. I just stay away.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22263282 - 09/20/15 02:17 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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well, i should qualify that
take away the trangsty emo crap
but apart from that i think effeminate guys are cute... sometimes
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Re: serious question [Re: micro] 2
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um no.
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#22263299 - 09/20/15 02:23 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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good
more for me *nods*
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Re: serious question [Re: micro] 2
#22263856 - 09/20/15 08:56 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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The touchy feely bullshit that has overtaken schools and demonized boys being boys and not keeping score in competitions and awarding trophies for participation is creating a culture of weenies. You do not teach self esteem. You earn it. I feel sorry for women today because the latest generation of males are much more likely to be metrosexual wimps than any generation before.
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By the time I'm your age being a "standard" heterosexual man will probably be punishable in a court of law.
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I'm confused about what the hell you're all talking about. This thread sounds like a bunch of old people ranting about what they see on TV. Gender roles haven't changed all that much from an emotional standpoint as far as I can tell. Guys have always been emotional and butthurt about stupid shit, and girls have always been just as emotional and butthurt about similarly stupid shit. You are all living in a nostalgic fantasy land.
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Mr.GuessWork said: I'm confused about what the hell you're all talking about. This thread sounds like a bunch of old people ranting about what they see on TV. Gender roles haven't changed all that much from an emotional standpoint as far as I can tell. Guys have always been emotional and butthurt about stupid shit, and girls have always been just as emotional and butthurt about similarly stupid shit. You are all living in a nostalgic fantasy land.
I dunno...
Maybe it's just the people I've hung around but I've noticed this for several years now.
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86]
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Amanita86 said: By the time I'm your age being a "standard" heterosexual man will probably be punishable in a court of law.
It certainly is in Kollege Kampus Kangaroo Kourt
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all that is true. But like it or not gender rolls have changed. Look at Caitlyn Jenner, or whatever the fuck its name is. Where were those years ago? There wasnt any, now society has made it so they are cramming this gender bullshit down our throats so we accept it as the new normal. Sorry, but no. I understand people being unhappy with what they were born with, Im no different. I wish I had different genetic traits about myself but I have to accept what i am. What choice do I have? I guess if you have enough money you can alter yourself however you want these days. Now people look like fucking aliens or some shit. Its sick.
... it used to be that a man could earn enough income to support a family. Now it takes two incomes to support a household. Why? Because women are stupid and think they can work and have kids, and take on the role of a father and mother. A woman can not fill the role of dad. Sorry, but that is just stupid.
Where were all the cailtlyn jenners years ago?
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sprinkles said: why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
i agree more men need to be men now a days
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Honestly I think 85% of this view though comes from the internet. Most of the guys around these parts are weird as fuck.
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i dont go on the internet. my post was relating to men i associate with in real life. except for that jenner weirdo.
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Mr.GuessWork said: You are all living in a nostalgic fantasy land.
Nope, I disagree completely on this.
First of all, I'm 45, and the shit a 20 year old will say to me in a day is shit that when I was 20, I'd have been embarrassed as hell to be so maladjusted as to even think it. I'd never ever have said it.
The Middle East is a great example of what I'm thinking of. Today, when some sick violent sociopathic a-rab decides to fly a plane into a building, the liberal news is full of metrosexuals telling us it is OUR fault, and trying to figure out what we could and should hae done differently to prevent it from happening.
Does anyone think you can reason with a gang member who kicked in your front door demanding money? Is that the time to try and rationalize this into being YOUR fault?
Thank God we had GW Bush in office then, considering that the alternative would have been Alphonse Gore. Gore would have refused to fight back because the ecological damage from bombing Iraq and Afghanistan into the stone age would have been unthinkable.
(By now any metrosexual reading this will be thinking 'OMG he's actually still going to bring up 9/11 get over it,' but will not hesitate to dredge up memories of Bush if I talk about how Obama and his ragtag bunch of amateurs fucked the economy up even worse than the speculation bankers)
I blame the television commercials geared towards pandering to women:
WHAT THE FUCK is up with this? The male-child in the commercial has to ask mommy for permission to look in the refrigerator? IF he was a man, and was a breadwinner, that would be HIS refrigerator HE bought to let HER keep the food in that she had damned well better have on the table for him when he gets home from work.
OR this one:
Stick your $25 check in my face and say SILENCE one more time, you stubby, trite little bitter bitch, and you won't see me for two days, and on the third day, you'll only be able to see me through the left eye if you pull it open with your fingers.
Men are being trained by marketing people to not be men, and women are being trained to act like the men are supposed to act. This is because women are emotionally guided, and it's easier to sell them shit they don't need.
If that last sentence seems sexist to you, take a marketing course, and realize that even the layout of the grocery store you shop in is guided by this simple truth.
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Re: serious question [Re: Srirachi]
#22264922 - 09/20/15 01:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know now why men get pissed for no apparent reason now...
I was talking to my roommate (an active, intelligent man of 68 years who's on his way to referee a soccer game) and I was telling him that my weed guy has not gotten back to me in a couple of days. I was saying that was unusual, and I wondered if he is mad at me or something...
my much wiser roommate says "you know how men are. if you dont do what they want you to do they get angry."
well there you go. That is why men get all bent out of shape and butthurt when nothings wrong and you havent even done anything.
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#22264945 - 09/20/15 01:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dealers are notoriously unreliable.
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haha that commerical is so funny. Women are horrible drivers. especially the young ones. omg.
Some fucking idiot will be right on my ass or driving like a dumb fuck and I'll say "ooh, must be a girl whos a teen or in their early 20's" sure enough 9-10 times it is.
Or some metrosexual with a lowered piece of shit that the modifications are worth more than the value of the vehicle... Or some pushy fucker that thinks because he drives a tall jacked up truck that people will go faster. Whatever. I just pull over and let ppl pass me. Before I would pretend and when they get beside me I'd smoke em' and REALLY make them rage. I am much nicer now than I used to be.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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Good. You are lucky you still have a license at all.
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not mine. this one hasnt until the last month and a half or so.
Luckily I have always had good ones who have been there when I need them, male or female.
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I dont.
I retake the test this week though. I should have it back by the end of the month.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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I may not have a license right now but i DO have insurance. There is no way in hell someone like me who gets in accidents like i do is not going to have it. It would be my luck to hit and severely injure or kill somebody and have no way to pay for their medical care. Then be sued for everything I don't have and everything I will ever have.
Anyway, yeah. I have to be able to work and get to a job in order to pay the money I owe the state to get the damn license re-instated.
The justice system and the people they decide to screw over are the ones who actually TRY to work and live a decent life. Where as other people who really dont give a fuck get let off the hook with nothing, and will never see a day jail because they're fucking sick of them being there (the rest of my family).
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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I don't have my license either. Im 18 though so it's different. I drove without one and got caught and I haven't been allowed to get one until now and now that I can get one I keep failing my test and finding a MOTHER FUCKING APPOINTMENT IS IMPOSSIBLE FUCK. I FUCKING HATE THE MVA, THEY WILL BE THE DEATH OF ME FUCKKKKKKK.
Sorry about that but having no license as an 18 year old in college is stressful and trying to find an exam date and passing that fucking exam is so stressful
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You want a guy like this sprinkles?
A dominant and emotionally stoic man who takes what he wants. He never shows weakness or vulnerability, nothing phases him.
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i take it tuesday. I failed it the first time. its gonna be ok
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why? because people are on the fence nowadays about spreading and believing bullshit, so people are more confused these days then ever.
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Janky Tits said: I don't have my license either. Im 18 though so it's different. I drove without one and got caught and I haven't been allowed to get one until now and now that I can get one I keep failing my test and finding a MOTHER FUCKING APPOINTMENT IS IMPOSSIBLE FUCK. I FUCKING HATE THE MVA, THEY WILL BE THE DEATH OF ME FUCKKKKKKK.
Sorry about that but having no license as an 18 year old in college is stressful and trying to find an exam date and passing that fucking exam is so stressful
I ddin't get my license until I was 23. I didn't need it since there was no way I could have afforded a car
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i dunno, considering both men and women have parts of their brains that are devoted to emotional regulation and at certain points in either gender's life that regulation gets disrupted and is something that pretty everyone goes through.
maybe my view is skewed since i've been exposed to manly women and womanly men and pretty much any trait can be pinned to either gender depending on the individual. why not just accept it as an individual trait considering your question doesn't address the fact that not all men are equal in emotional stability, just as it is with women?
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Re: serious question [Re: 404]
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Lately I've started to notice a lot more emotion in the men I've been spending time around, and it's not because they're showing it any more than they did before. I've definitely gotten better at recognizing it, though. 404's right about all genders having emotional instability represented at one point or another. It's all in how the person was trained to deal with emotion. Personally, I had a weird childhood and I kind of struggle with emotional connections, or putting emotion into words. My brother on the other hand has no issue with this. He's probably one of the more masculine people I know, and yet he expresses feelings like they were sports figures. They're usually angry feelings, admittedly.
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sprinkles said: Where were all the cailtlyn jenners years ago?
In the closet.
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Why is it called the closet? What reason was it that the term "in the closet" took root?
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As I said before, it isn't that men have or show emotion. Example Frank Sinatra. He was great at showing emotion.
He just wasn't a whiny little cunt about it. That's what has changed. Just look at all the threads in here from males who can't face another day because some woman who was clearly never into them in the first place has been acting emotionally distant, and now, their whole world is crashing down because they can't face the fact that she was only with them until something better came along anyway.
Men have become codependent little cunts. Life hurts. Get over it. You're not a cunt because it hurts; you're a cunt because you refuse to face reality and just whine instead.
At some point men need to find self-worth exclusive of some woman's attention.
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sprinkles said: why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
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I'm sincerely liking the unfocused anger in this thread. The fact of the matter is that the world is a fucked up place; It's more fucked up than it was a few decades ago, and we don't really know why, and all we can do is blame it on bullshit. I wish we understood the problem in a way that gave us power to fix it.
Maybe men don't want to be men anymore because it doesn't work and never really did work. Turning into a bunch of whiny bitches seems like a pretty immature bit of rebellion, but part of being a man is taking stupid risks when life sucks. I think there's some value in all this whining (I hate it too though) and in the tampering with people's identities and gender roles and such. For example, I'm glad I didn't get married out of highschool and that I can sleep around a bit without getting committed to a relationship. The last generation's whiny-bitching rebellious phase pretty much made that possible for me, and I've dodged what would otherwise be some serious life-altering fuck-ups as a result. Thanks for shirking some of your imposed responsibilities old guys. It's made my life better in some ways.
It sounds like you guys all want men to be more stoic again. Personally, I hate any kind of suffering, and I'm willing to compromise my manhood a bit if I can get rid of some of that suffering in a reasonably productive way. Stoicism has it's place for sure, but it shouldn't be used to permit unnecessary suffering. The really sad part about all this whiny bitching is that it's an act of desperation. If people knew how to stop suffering, then they could do something besides bitching about it. And that's what really makes all the whining so irritating. It a cry for help from the helpless, and that's almost entirely just frustration without a solution. It definitely feels contrary to the manly ideal of solving problems, but so what? We'll man up and do something about it eventually, mostly because we sure as hell aren't going to stop bitching about it anytime soon.
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What gets me is the attitude that many males seem to have, that life owes them something better. The only thing life owes you is death.
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Agreed. I'm glad we've decided to shirk the idea that life owes you taxes though. I always that that bit was a sham.
Lots of people, including girls, have this nasty sense of entitlement for some reason, and I also find it offensive and laughably inaccurate. I hear lots of people complain about that problem with younger people, so I'm guessing it's become a culture norm to some extent. There might even be some real research into the root of that problem. I might try to read up on it later.
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sprinkles, you live in Washington, the emo capital of the country. Doesnt help that your next to portland which is a whole nother story.
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Mr.GuessWork said: I'm sincerely liking the unfocused anger in this thread. The fact of the matter is that the world is a fucked up place; It's more fucked up than it was a few decades ago, and we don't really know why, and all we can do is blame it on bullshit. I wish we understood the problem in a way that gave us power to fix it.
Maybe men don't want to be men anymore because it doesn't work and never really did work. Turning into a bunch of whiny bitches seems like a pretty immature bit of rebellion, but part of being a man is taking stupid risks when life sucks. I think there's some value in all this whining (I hate it too though) and in the tampering with people's identities and gender roles and such. For example, I'm glad I didn't get married out of highschool and that I can sleep around a bit without getting committed to a relationship. The last generation's whiny-bitching rebellious phase pretty much made that possible for me, and I've dodged what would otherwise be some serious life-altering fuck-ups as a result. Thanks for shirking some of your imposed responsibilities old guys. It's made my life better in some ways.
It sounds like you guys all want men to be more stoic again. Personally, I hate any kind of suffering, and I'm willing to compromise my manhood a bit if I can get rid of some of that suffering in a reasonably productive way. Stoicism has it's place for sure, but it shouldn't be used to permit unnecessary suffering. The really sad part about all this whiny bitching is that it's an act of desperation. If people knew how to stop suffering, then they could do something besides bitching about it. And that's what really makes all the whining so irritating. It a cry for help from the helpless, and that's almost entirely just frustration without a solution. It definitely feels contrary to the manly ideal of solving problems, but so what? We'll man up and do something about it eventually, mostly because we sure as hell aren't going to stop bitching about it anytime soon.
Really well said sir
I agree that the reality of life is that there is like a base-line level of fucked-up thats almost impossible to negotiate in any way
You realize how fucking easy it was to be a 50's housewife? I mean, what a life. You have no real responsibilities, no real worries other than the ones you make up in your own head, and you've got oodles of free time. Men, on the other hand, had to go work grueling jobs they fucking hated, drink themselves to death just to deal with how shitty their jobs were, and have the weight of the world on their shoulders because they were the only breadwinners.
Conversely, women had nearly zero rights, they had no power over their own lives as their birthright was to be a baby factory, they could easily be victimized by abusive husbands and as long as he didn't leave obvious marks, and if a man had any name for himself in a town he could rape any woman who didn't have a name for herself (or, more accurately, her husband didn't have a name for himself). Men, on the other hand, had complete control over their destinies, could make a living wage with no education and no experience, and had an entire gender to dominate and have do their bidding.
I mean, whos to say where, why, and how feminism turned from fighting for equal wage, to having complete equality in all things, except men have to still be stoic breadwinners with big dicks and hearts just soft enough to love but not so soft that hes a wimp? Maybe the reason the system worked in the first place was that men were stoic partly because they constantly felt power over women. Will we reach some sort of equilibrium, where men are slightly more stoic then women but are allowed to feel, and women are slightly more emotional but are asked to contribute to a household equally? Is that even what anyone really wants?
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nature vs. nurture
i doubt anyone knows for sure but i would think it is at least part genetic
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I definitely know what you mean. Teenage angst.
maybe its all the estrogen they're pumping into our steak/chicken/eggs/milk
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I have this theory...
Old family saying, "squeal the pig, ruin the meat".. you have to kill it before it realizes what's happening. Now days animals are raised so shitty, you know their adrenaline gland is on overload. You ingest that shit, boom...a possible theory to this widespread anxiety thing.
Everything is out of balance, and it shows..
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this thread makes me feel better since two of my ex-boyfriends are now girls :v
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Lotta people in this thread seem to function on what they've been taught on how gender roles should be from society, it's evident in many posts.
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This thread bloooooooows.
Post wall woman angry about her shitty life choices places blame on other people. Namely men, because all you know how to do is get men to solve your problems. (and obviously because your unhappy, then men are the problem)
Have you tried sprinkles, instead of using female rhetoric and shame tactics, maybe oh i dont know, not being a dick?
And to the other chick who questions why men are so afraid of rejection... Have you been living under a rock? Women dont want their attention anyways, what the fuck is the point of approaching a woman, to make her feel better? who fucking cares, men dont exist just to validate women.
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404 said: Lotta people in this thread seem to function on what they've been taught on how gender roles should be from society, it's evident in many posts.
Some is society and conditioning for sure, but isn't some of it also hormones and genetics ???
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Just to add LOL how fucking vain are you anyways?
You claim youd rather live alone then deal with todays men. lol "if i cant have what i want, ill just call it sour grapes and live all by myself". you sound like an asshole. Your vagina is not a gift to the world, and infact the flbbier it gets the less a "real" man would want you anyways. I mean seriously this is what your saying "how stupid are men, dont they know i dont have emotions, why cant they lessen their life experience just for a whiff of my pussy, god their not even men anymore".
nature has a way of weeding out the pointless, which is you, by your own admission, because youre greedy. Congratulations
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In all fairness, no one should have to settle for something they don't want. Even if what they want is ridiculously unattainable, in which case maybe it's a good thing that they realize , and are comfortable with, the likelihood of them being forever alone.
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sun_spots said: In all fairness, no one should have to settle for something they don't want. Even if what they want is ridiculously unattainable, in which case maybe it's a good thing that they realize , and are comfortable with, the likelihood of them being forever alone.
You've just described my entire romantic history.
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I don't think it's asking that much 
There are still plenty of guys who act like guys, though.
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It's great knowing exactly who I am and exactly what to do.
Guys just man the fuck up and see if life isn't better. When you accept that life is hard and hurts a little, and stop thinking that you have cornered the market on your unique brand of suffering and the unknowable pain that is your life is an excuse for failing, IOW when you own your life instead of thinking it happened to you... it's easy to be content.
Again I'm not saying you can't have emotions - I'm just saying that you need to realize that emotions are not the most important trait you have. They shouldn't define you or your actions.
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Are men supposed to not experience depression? Cause that's what it sounds like from a lot of posts here. Granted, depression affects a lot of people and can bena pretty serious problem and should be corrected. It just seems like it's kind of dehumanizing in a sense. Idk i've been drinking again
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No man, not at all. Like I said before, IMO Frank Sinatra personified the Ideal Man. He had a sensitive side but wasn't controlled by it. It was controlled by him.
When you're depressed, that's okay. You just can't stop going to work or taking care of yourself, your family, and your responsibilities. When you're working hard and taking care of business it's hard to be depressed because you realize that life is a bitch, but you're out there slappin that bitch every day and making a life for yourself and your family in spite of it all. You start feeling pretty damned good about that, and realizing you're a force of fucking nature, a MAN. Possibilities you never saw before open up because you believe in yourself and you eat obstacles and shit gold bricks.
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I'll act the way I want, I dont care about what you think. Too bad for you
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Srirachi said: When you're depressed, that's okay. You just can't stop going to work or taking care of yourself, your family, and your responsibilities. When you're working hard and taking care of business it's hard to be depressed because you realize that life is a bitch, but you're out there slappin that bitch every day and making a life for yourself and your family in spite of it all. You start feeling pretty damned good about that, and realizing you're a force of fucking nature, a MAN. Possibilities you never saw before open up because you believe in yourself and you eat obstacles and shit gold bricks.
This is just so damned encouraging. Like, I want to make this a motivational poster.
I'm going to make this a motivational poster.
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Srirachi said: No man, not at all. Like I said before, IMO Frank Sinatra personified the Ideal Man. He had a sensitive side but wasn't controlled by it. It was controlled by him.
When you're depressed, that's okay. You just can't stop going to work or taking care of yourself, your family, and your responsibilities. When you're working hard and taking care of business it's hard to be depressed because you realize that life is a bitch, but you're out there slappin that bitch every day and making a life for yourself and your family in spite of it all. You start feeling pretty damned good about that, and realizing you're a force of fucking nature, a MAN. Possibilities you never saw before open up because you believe in yourself and you eat obstacles and shit gold bricks.
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LackToast said: This thread bloooooooows.
Post wall woman angry about her shitty life choices places blame on other people. Namely men, because all you know how to do is get men to solve your problems. (and obviously because your unhappy, then men are the problem)
Have you tried sprinkles, instead of using female rhetoric and shame tactics, maybe oh i dont know, not being a dick?
And to the other chick who questions why men are so afraid of rejection... Have you been living under a rock? Women dont want their attention anyways, what the fuck is the point of approaching a woman, to make her feel better? who fucking cares, men dont exist just to validate women.
you make a good point, thank you for your post. I assume your following post was meant for me also but you forgot to "reply." It's not necessary to call me names though, it makes me think you're mad or something.
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Srirachi said: It's great knowing exactly who I am and exactly what to do.
that is very attractive. A man who knows he is and stands by what he believes at whatever cost. A man with conviction in his character.
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Srirachi said: emotions are not the most important trait you have. They shouldn't define you or your actions.
this is how men are now a days. Women and society have told them it is ok to have emotions, and that's true. But they've made it so emotions are the governing force. FEELINGS LIE. They arent facts. Emotions get in the way of what men are really valued for.. LOGIC. FUCK.
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So heres my real problem with your attitude about this whole thing sprinkles. The reality is, men who think they "shit gold bricks" are fucking assholes. You just can't have one without the other in 99% of cases. High confidence and low emotion combined equals asshole.
Basically you are just bitching about life being unfair. Yea, it sucks that most girls who are really, really pretty are either obnoxious bitches, really dumb, or both. You try growing up having everyone fawn over you, tell you how are great and beautiful you are, and somehow turn out a deep, respectful, well-rounded human being. It just doesn't happen most of the time.
When you say you want a "real man" or whatever, you don't actually mean that. A "real man" tells his wife/gf to shut her cunt yap when hes with his friends. A "real man" does whatever he wants, regardless of the opinions and feelings of his wife/gf.
And if you'd be willing to put up with that, go find some smart guy who grew up in the south. I'm sure they're not in short supply
Edit: I'm aware that most men would consider you quite ideal physically and its likely you had men complimenting you your whole life. I meant it more in the general sense, most women don't turn out that way
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that's a sociopath...
i don't think such extremes were ever implied
not being whiny and otherwise emotional =/= telling yur wife to shut her cunt yap
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Srirachi said: emotions are not the most important trait you have. They shouldn't define you or your actions.
this is how men are now a days. Women and society have told them it is ok to have emotions, and that's true. But they've made it so emotions are the governing force. FEELINGS LIE. They arent facts. Emotions get in the way of what men are really valued for.. LOGIC. FUCK.
I think you spend too much time on this forum if you think thats how modern men are.
By the way, this is a Sexuality & Relationship forum... are you the least bit surprised that many of the threads are emotional, not logical?
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bloodsheen said: A "real man" tells his wife/gf to shut her cunt yap when hes with his friends. A "real man" does whatever he wants, regardless of the opinions and feelings of his wife/gf

You're being obtuse as fuck. Go whine and fail and tell yourself you're great because you don't smack women. Or stop equating rap music videos to being a man.
A real man opens the door for his woman, and she likes it not because she can't do it herself, but because the man is acknowledging that she is something exquisite, worthy of being treasured.
A real man doesn't tell his wife he lost his job until he's found another one, leaving the house as early or earlier than he did when he had a job and looking all day every day until he finds one (about three days in a bad economy). Not because he wants to lie to her but because he doesn't want her to worry, and "Honey I got fired last week, but I start a new job Monday" is a lot better than "I got fired today I don't know what we're gonna do, we may have to sell the pink Prius".
Real men are more concerned about whether they've taken care of their responsibilities than whether or not it is "fair".
If my kids have my headstone engraved:
Here lies Srirachi, Loving Husband and Dedicated Father
I will consider my life to have been more successful than I dared to dream in my wildest of dreams. Who cares if it was "fair".
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Basically you are just bitching about life being unfair. Yea, it sucks that most girls who are really, really pretty are either obnoxious bitches, really dumb, or both. You try growing up having everyone fawn over you, tell you how are great and beautiful you are, and somehow turn out a deep, respectful, well-rounded human being. It just doesn't happen most of the time.
When you say you want a "real man" or whatever, you don't actually mean that. A "real man" tells his wife/gf to shut her cunt yap when hes with his friends. A "real man" does whatever he wants, regardless of the opinions and feelings of his wife/gf.
And if you'd be willing to put up with that, go find some smart guy who grew up in the south. I'm sure they're not in short supply
Edit: I'm aware that most men would consider you quite ideal physically and its likely you had men complimenting you your whole life. I meant it more in the general sense, most women don't turn out that way
I love assholes. They just cant be an asshole to waitresses or innocent people that dont have it coming. I dont think any man would have the want or need to hit me. I know how to shut up. Women who get hit, usually dont. I think a lot of women do it on purpose. they anticipate and know how a man is going to react to an arguement. Then proceed to yell and scream in their face while not letting them leave. Then never shutting up. Women are crazy. and fucking stupid.
The biggest reason why no man would hit me would be because he loves me and wouldnt dream of doing that. Also because it wouldnt be worth it. I'd fuck him up mentally and emotionally. If he pissed me off bad enough I'd fuck him up the second he was vulnerable, or have someone else do it. I'd probably just leave.
Any male who hits me is fucked. Ask my ex. They'd be better off just killing themselves honestly. Cause they are going to want to when its over anyways.
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haha, same here
actually, i hate it when people are too nice. it creeps me out
it is obviously fake and i know you're not that happy
get the hell away from me :v
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Re: serious question [Re: Srirachi]
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where were you 10 years ago? can you grow a full beard? do you have chest full of hair?
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Tampa. I think...
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sprinkles said: can you grow a full beard? do you have chest full of hair?
Hah! Nope.
I'm 34 too, end of next month.
I still get carded for cigarettes
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Re: serious question [Re: micro]
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A lot of men are acting like little teenage girls nowadays, I've seen it too. Women aren't any better, though.
Personally I blame the television, especially reality TV. I see how teenagers react to that shit, they internalize it, like it's real or something. We've got a whole new generation, people, and they're narcisistic as hell! The camera's are always on them, they are always the reasonable one doing the interview, or whatever, and when they're sad, that same obnoxious "sad" melody that every TV programme uses nowadays plays in their head.
I don't know if that's really the case, but.. I don't think it is helping. We men, we need a good role model growing up. But a lot of fathers from people my age aren't like that at all, they don't teach their kids even basic things, like shaving or fixing small apliances!
Fathers that spend barely any time with their sons, instead opting to buy their love with expensive toys. so you turn on the TV, and the rolemodels you see there are even worse. Have you guys ever watched any form of reality TV? it is fucking atrocious! Everybody is always as much of a bitch as possible, and I swear the men in those shows sound girlier then the women do!
So, no rolemodels at home, no rolemodels on TV, and certainly no rolemodels at school, because the elementary schools have turned into all girl scools which begrudgingly allows boys! Shit you can't even play tag anymore, you know? In my time we played a game called "death-kicker". What you did was, when you kicked a ball trough somebody's legs, everybody could kick the crap out of that guy until he reached the safe spot. That was fun, until it got banned eve though nobody ever got seriously hurt!
It's society, man. Boys aren't allowed anymore, and real men are seen as old fashioned by the trendy bitches. Look at TV! Look at the magazines! Our culture is utterly fucked on so many levels, and that is why I think there are so few men around anymore.
EDIT: Maybe it's that "forever young" shit that people buy into. I see men and women in their 40's dress like they're 16 year olds, I mean god damn it man, have some dignity in aging!
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Nothing wrong with dressing the way you want =P
Maybe I don't want to look like old people.
But other than that, it makes sense.
I'm glad I don't have a TV or I could have been sucked in, too :V
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I have a TV and choose not to watch stupid bullshit shows on it. Parents can do that for their kids. Teenagers can do that, too. They're just in a weird place where they want to be individuals, but not too much so that they don't end up friendless. They're going to do what their friends are doing. There are definitely idiot kids, but there are also some really smart ones who aren't afraid to think for themselves. Bottom line is that TV shows reflect the society that produces them, so if we're going to blame someone for the way society is, the only sensible option is to blame ourselves.
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if i don't consider myself part of society does that mean i'm exonerated? :v
seriously though, maybe you are right
maybe this is some fad and kids trying to rebel by being like everyone else
you know, to express their individuality
see, i thought like this back in junior high and high school as well
i was never one of the "trendy" kids and had no desire to be
still, a bunch of people looked up to me probably because i said and did what i want
also, being friends with all the drug addicts in a public school in Worcester, MA didn't hurt
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you are right, thats why I say feminism ruined this country.
you have boys being raised by single women. they have no role models. They're defective unless they have the desire to seek help or teach themselves skills and things dudes know.
I'd limit my kids screen time to one hour a day. Go play outside in the rain and break a leg or something. Haha that reminds me, sometimes my folks would have to yell for me at the top of their lungs. I'd be floating a mile off the shore with no life jacket at rough high tides. You dont get the hypothermias when you're a kid. Now my toe hits the water and my body temp drops 20 degrees. I almost died when I flipped an inner tube while floating down a river in arlington. I froze for hours and by the time I floated to where my car was I couldnt think or walk.
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sun_spots said: I have a TV and choose not to watch stupid bullshit shows on it. Parents can do that for their kids. Teenagers can do that, too.
They can, but they don't. That's a critical difference. I'm not saying TV is the root of all evil, but I also don't think you should underestimate the power media holds over people's imagination, especially young people's imagination. If they get bombarded with the same shit again and again, they'll think that THAT is normal, instead of the height of grotesque decadence as reality TV often is.
And I am also wondering about the influence of videogames on people. I mean, they make you feel like a badass, what if you internalise that badassery, making you subconciously believe yourself to be a badass, while all you did was sit on your ass playing a game? This would go a long way to explain young people on hiking trips: all talk and bravado until it starts to get tough. Maybe they only did cool stuff in videogames instead of in real life like we used to do when we where kids?
Look, I'm just thinking out loud here, I do not have any answers. Neither does anybody else in this thread, for that matter. What happens is we see a cultural phenomenom, and we all try to figure out why it is happening. It is probably a combination of a lot of things, but I will stress that we should not discount the influence of the media, when it comes to these things.
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its has been proven boys who spend 3hrs a day or more playing video games have poor self control and emotional control.
and they're more likely to be obese. I am making that up but im sure its atleast somewhat accurate. Americans are just lazy fucks. We dont want to fucking move or do nothing unless we have to.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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I'd be interested in reading about the correlation between video games and poor impulse control if you have a link. Was there a variation between different types of video games?
@Turtletotem, I wonder if part of that bravado and thinking they could do better outdoors than they can has to do with an increasing number of young people growing up in the city where the opportunities for hiking, camping, etc. are somewhat limited. I had the good fortune of growing up in the country, so for all the time I spent playing video games, I also spent quite a bit of time roaming our land, climbing things and moving big rocks for no reason. We lived right next to train tracks as well; I had a solid sense of balance when I was a kid.
Were I a parent, I would make an effort to kick my kids out of the house for the same number of hours that they spent in front of a screen. Oh you wanna play four hours of Fallout? That's cool; now you get to go outside and pretend raiders are real for four hours. That way I can spend four hours playing Fallout. Now, who's to say I won't be charged with parental negligence for that? I guess that's an argument for living in a small town instead of a big city.
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Turtletotem said: And I am also wondering about the influence of videogames on people. I mean, they make you feel like a badass, what if you internalise that badassery, making you subconciously believe yourself to be a badass, while all you did was sit on your ass playing a game?
It's called getting your ass beat :V
It is a ritual in our society meant to keep people like this in check before their head explodes.
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sprinkles said: its has been proven boys who spend 3hrs a day or more playing video games have poor self control and emotional control.
Im curious about this. Would love to see where you heard/read this.
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Re: serious question [Re: micro]
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This kind of thinking can be extrapolated to so many scenarios though
What did the adults of the 30's, 40's and 50's think of all the young generation of the 60's and onwards, getting lost and obsessed in music? "Plugged" into their stereos and vinyl records and 8 track tapes? It became an obsession. Music can carry similar influence as video games, which explains the explosion of hippies and Woodstock and shite
I think all this shit is trivial by products of the real problem. I blame radical feminism of not only the pussification of men but the world in general
But if we had a time machine and were able to go back in time to one single point in history to stop this unhealthy dynamic many of us in this thread recognize, where and what would it be?
Obviously something fueled the radical feminism that caused this pussification
Could it be traced back to a single male or female or event?
It's so complex
Can it be a combination of that and the horrid shit in our diets and environments that fucks with our brain chemistry and hormones?
And now we pass these shit traits on genetically (see epigenetics).
Genetically, I was doomed to be a giant, emotional pussy
One can rise against their genetics only so far
I think that's why there is so much inner turbulence inside myself. Deep Inside is a caged, wild silver back gorilla and my cage is made of a mix of one part genetic shortcomings, one part perverted cultural conditioning and one part environmental toxicity
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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I'm thoroughly enjoying watching people ask Sprinkles for a cite on the fact THAT SHE ADMITTED IN THE NEXT LINE WAS MADE UP.

It's especially amusing considering the topic of this thread. Attention span, ftw.
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sprinkles said: its has been proven boys who spend 3hrs a day or more playing video games have poor self control and emotional control.
and they're more likely to be obese. I am making that up but im sure its atleast somewhat accurate. Americans are just lazy fucks. We dont want to fucking move or do nothing unless we have to.
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Srirachi said: I'm thoroughly enjoying watching people ask Sprinkles for a cite on the fact THAT SHE ADMITTED IN THE NEXT LINE WAS MADE UP.

It's especially amusing considering the topic of this thread. Attention span, ftw.
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sprinkles said: its has been proven boys who spend 3hrs a day or more playing video games have poor self control and emotional control.
and they're more likely to be obese. I am making that up but im sure its atleast somewhat accurate. Americans are just lazy fucks. We dont want to fucking move or do nothing unless we have to.

That's awesome!
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Srirachi said: I'm thoroughly enjoying watching people ask Sprinkles for a cite on the fact THAT SHE ADMITTED IN THE NEXT LINE WAS MADE UP.

It's especially amusing considering the topic of this thread. Attention span, ftw.
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sprinkles said: its has been proven boys who spend 3hrs a day or more playing video games have poor self control and emotional control.
and they're more likely to be obese. I am making that up but im sure its atleast somewhat accurate. Americans are just lazy fucks. We dont want to fucking move or do nothing unless we have to.

That's awesome!
I was under the impression that the bit about obesity was made up, but that the preceding line was based on something she'd read.
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r.lutece said: I was under the impression that the bit about obesity was made up, but that the preceding line was based on something she'd read.
yep thats how I saw it too. but whatever, any chance you can to take a jab at people who play video games.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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sprinkles said: why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
You should have been alive in the 50's? Where you were kept in a kitchen in an apron and were pretty much property? Where rape wasn't rape unless there was a black eye, and even then you probably had it coming? You wish you were around for the complete chaotic mess a mans world created?
No you are part of the feminist culture where everyone has equal rights not, where you are expected to pull your own weight, and guys are allowed to show emotions. Cowboys are long and gone, and right fully so.
How dare a man confide in a woman he trusts.
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Re: serious question [Re: vandago]
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sure, I'd wear an apron and have dinner on the table. No problem. Id love to be a housewife.
TheSE days they are expected to do take care of domestic chores and expected to work. that is fucking insanity.
I wanna work 10 hours a day. Leave my kids with strangers at daycare, because I want strangers raising them. Then I want to come home and cook for the entire family. then do dishes and laundry. oh please can I? you spoil me.
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sprinkles said: sure, I'd wear an apron and have dinner on the table. No problem. Id love to be a housewife.
TheSE days they are expected to do take care of domestic chores and expected to work. that is fucking insanity.
I wanna work 10 hours a day. Leave my kids with strangers at daycare, because I want strangers raising them. Then I want to come home and cook for the entire family. then do dishes and laundry. oh please can I? you spoil me.
Marry me. You can stay home and take care of the house & kids,but you do need to produce additional children every other year.
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Id have to be attracted to you. you have to have a sense of humor. be a good significant other and co-parent. And make a decent living wage. Enough to support a family and live comfortably.
Thats not too hard is it?>
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Friendzoned again! Imma make sad memes about this on my twitter you slut.

Nah Sprinkles, you are not asking a lot in my opinion, that all seems very reasonable.
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Read that as meaning she'll bail if you ever fall on hard times..
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Nah Sprinkles, you are not asking a lot in my opinion, that all seems very reasonable.
I think so. I'm low maintenance, dont require much.
Amanita my folks have been unhappily married for 35 years, and together even longer. Marriage means being miserable and stuck. If I get married that poor lucky bastard will be STUCK with me. His only escape is death. He'll be there through everything, no matter what terrible things I do. And I'll be there for him too. Till he leaves the toilet seat up.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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So Turtletotem sould remove the toilet seat ASAP...got it.
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I can't, it's a real nice wooden seat that is never too cold in winter  I need it for my buttcheecks.
EDIT: Hey Sprinkles, after our inevitable divorce, you'll be taking at least 10+ of the kids with you, right?
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I have quite a few family members who lived during the 50's and not one of them ever beat their wife....
Not to take away from your point, but that 50's man beating a bitch don't fly...
There's chicks getting their face smeared around with a palm right now...right now.. 2015 guys are all shit?..is that what you're saying?
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I'm sure it was much more prevalent then
You have no idea what your "friends" who were married in the 50s were doing behind closed doors.
I like sirachis views on all this. The whole frank Sinatra outlook towards life and women
Sadly, it isn't me Tho. While I have my manly side, I'm sensitive guy with some extreme maternal instincts for my children. I let a woman walk all over me for years because of it.
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In fact for you feminists out there, I bet there's some cop getting called to some house, somewhere, because some butch lesbo, is beating some submissive...right now.... and that's just the one that had a call on them..
Generalizations are generally horseshit..
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Srirachi said: When I posted basically this thought Tymo deleted it and said OTD was more the place for it
so THANK YOU SPRINKLES
for verifying what I've known all along. The hormones in the soy milk are giving men vaginas.
Frank Sinatra is truly the epitome of what a man should be. He could write and sing a sensitive love song that literally made women's leather chairs squeak, then belt some single malt with Dean Martin before asking Charlie Fischetti to kill somebody who fucked with him.
Damn, that's a man.
I'm sorry but all these "I saw a pretty girl and wet myself, how do I get her to notice me for something other than smelling like piss?" posts from people with a Y chromosome are disheartening.
MEN: Don't be so damned scared of rejection! Don't be so afraid PERIOD. Life is for the living. FAIL AND EMBRACE IT.
Ya those posts are annoying. Uhh i dunno maybe you.should talk. To her? Ive been rejected a lot in life but now im comfortable.talking to anybody. No? Ok have a wonderful day. Out of 10 girls i only need one to say yes. Then its all aboard for pound town.
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Re: serious question [Re: Enjoywho]
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I did not read all the posts, so in reference to the topic...
I would agree the men are more emotional now a days.
But I guess that is the feminists fault, we castrated mens purpose on the planet by being the provider, what boosted their ego and desire to protect and serve.
How did that happen? By saying women are equal to men and vice versa. I am 100% all about having equal rights. But I am a firm believer in gender roles that are gender specific in order to help progression.
A man cannot breastfeed, can he? A man cannot carry a baby. A woman cannot make a baby without a man. Etc. It goes down to our programming in our DNA.
Also, women are rather selfish now. They expect to be provided for, pampered, spoiled, but can still dress like a slut and go out "drinking with the girls". No wonder they are emotional and so worried! We have in a sense, switched places.
There is no mutual respect or dignity and worth for the human being in general because of this herd mentality that is being followed.
Tell me why a man should be proud if he is being told a woman should be paid as much as him when he is lifting 400 lbs of whatever at a factory and the woman can only lift 50 lbs? If I was the man, I would be whining and complaining too! That is slave driving in my opinion...
Especially when a woman can get $30,000, all medical expenses paid, and whatever else is in the contract for being a surrogate mother... which is something men cannot do! Doesn't seem very fair in that perspective, eh?
There is not proper balance and boundaries being established for sexes and genders. Also, it doesn't help that our food is pumped full of hormones, especially milk which affects the biology of both sexes as well. There are so many things going wrong, that our natural state is literally being changed.
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Re: serious question [Re: Hefferina]
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Men have always been emotional, the stoic head of the household is pretty much a myth. Look at literature throughout the ages, you´ll find that men have had hooman emotions pretty much always.
Now if you´d have said men have become whiny fucks, then yeah, I guess. Friendzoned again, men going their own way, take the red pill, women who don´t sleep with me are sluts... yeah that shit is crazy.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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sprinkles said: sure, I'd wear an apron and have dinner on the table. No problem. Id love to be a housewife.
TheSE days they are expected to do take care of domestic chores and expected to work. that is fucking insanity.
I wanna work 10 hours a day. Leave my kids with strangers at daycare, because I want strangers raising them. Then I want to come home and cook for the entire family. then do dishes and laundry. oh please can I? you spoil me.
I actually totally agree with you here, but thats because we are still in our growing period as far as equality goes. Slavery ended 150 years ago and we are still working out racial equality kinks, it takes time
But what about men also working 10 hours a day, then coming home and mowing the lawn, cleaning the gutters, having to worry about essentially every single machine in the house (especially the car) because women weren't shown how to do anything growing up? How is that not the same thing?
We are still raising children (subconsciously or otherwise) to buy into gender norms, just like for half a dozen generations people were teaching their children racism. Even that little look of fear in your mommy's eyes when shes gonna be stuck in an elevator with a black man teaches children racism, and we are doing the same thing with gender equality.
You were born out of your time sprinkles, its as simple as that. Don't be the old man thats all "Back in the old days things were better!"
Yea, for middle-class white men things used to be better. For basically everyone else it was worse, even if it seems romantic to be a housewife to you I know if you actually lived it you'd hate it
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Men have always been more emotional, This is what makes inspiring leaders who lead other men to recognize their own greatness. the greatest of inventors who shaped our society were probably the most emotional of men. Dont forget the philosophers, the artist, the musicians, poets and writers, the physicians, the blacksmiths, the warriors, the explorers, etc. Virtually all male pursuits deal with a great amount of emotion, because men have a much greater passion to shape and form our universe then women ever did. Women never sent rockets into outer space.
What is the problem now-a-days? Some say feminists, and will point to the growing trend of single mothers, and the current dating trends that have blown up in womens favor, and the emasulation of men which lead to "beta" "boys", men removing themselves from society, and a still largely unnoticed trend in the amount of men killing themselves off this planet.
Other men will point to gameness, and competition anxiety, which men are no longer equipped to deal with rationally because so many other men have lost repect for one another, will blacknight and whitenight each other, and worse beat and kill each other over a chance to get with women. These are because of that same society which has produced nil role models, and the shaming of masculinity, men dont know fuck all but will do anything for a slice of the pie.
My thought is the internet really exposed the hatred humanity has for the common male and common female. Womens psychology has been figured out, and they are found to be lacking. The average woman has no capacity for anything other than herself, the world revolves around her, she cares nothing for the opinions of any man, despite the fact that her natural provisioning and protection literally depends on a strong man, what a catch 22.
And men, if you are not a walking dildo (read player cad), if you are struggling in anyway, especially financially, in a shitty economy, or perhaps you are just an average joe. Your virtually fucked. You are a loser, at least to society, and to women. And who can blame them, you have after all, no worth.
Essentially little boys are exposed to the harsh realities of the game we play at an age where they are not mentally equipped to deal with it(i say little boys because i doubt women go looking for answers when society tells them theyre great and are deserving of the world), and they cant turn to their parents, the masses of individuals who are self centered and were never themselves properly guided into raising and providing mental stimuli that a child is more capable of understanding then their own festered minds. They grow up to be idiot bastards and entitled bitches, and further disintegrate the collective consciousness with hatred and biterness. THEY HAVE NOWHERE TO TURN, EMOTIONS ARE BOUND TO POUR OUT
Nobodies happy, society tells girls their worthy because they have a vagina , and tell little boys they can be rockstars and actors and heroes. one day we wake up to the fact that none of that is real, and then people settle, they cash in their chips when its too late and get stuck in unhappy relationship, or pump out kids when they cant even raise them properly.
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Re: serious question [Re: LackToast]
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Women are raised now being told that they deserve just as much success as men, but for a long time they skipped out on telling them they would have to work hard as well. Men are raised being told that emotions are fine, but no one thought to also tell them that whining is not an emotion: it's a tactic, and it's pathetic.
I'm firm believer in nurture over nature. These quirks we're seeing in the attitudes of both sexes are a product of their parentage. I'm starting to see more and more kids that act much more adult than many of the individuals of my generation, and I suspect it's because rather than doing the bare minimum of parenting, adults now are starting to look around and go, "Oh wow, these kids are shit." And so we review the reasons we all turned into entitled cunts and try to change that for the next generation. The problem is that many of the traits that make you successful as an adult also make you a bad parent that doesn't know how to pass those traits on to their kids. Some of the best parents I know in this generation aren't particularly successful in the traditional sense. They're hard workers who adjust their sense of success appropriately to their field and the things that they actually need in life. Practicality, accountability, and sensibility are three of the most important traits they can pass on to their kids, and successful parents model those traits daily.
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Re: serious question [Re: r.lutece]
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I like you sprinkles. I agree that men are really sensitive. I didn't think it was that way so much.
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Re: serious question [Re: vandago]
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vandago said: You should have been alive in the 50's? Where you were kept in a kitchen in an apron and were pretty much property? Where rape wasn't rape unless there was a black eye, and even then you probably had it coming? You wish you were around for the complete chaotic mess a mans world created?
No you are part of the feminist culture where everyone has equal rights not, where you are expected to pull your own weight, and guys are allowed to show emotions. Cowboys are long and gone, and right fully so.
How dare a man confide in a woman he trusts.
I'm not on this forum that much, but are you a troll? Serious Question.
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This thread has now officially lost it's mojo... I blame new age man..
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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it starts with family.. Today kids have no role models. The young males who have fathers, a lot of times do not respect them.
Women (especially teenage females) have self esteem issues. Girls who dont have fathers look for a males love anywhere they can get it. Or they'll have a baby.
Women seem to need something to depend them, in order to feel they are loved. So a woman who is middle age. often times if she doesnt have a husband she'll have dogs. Ugh.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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The 'Eve' complex..
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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Spunkle, you're bitching about the same shit older generations have bitched about for millennia. As that dirty hippie Bob Dylan said, "Your old road is rapidly aging. Please get out of the new one if you can't lend a hand, for the times, they are a-changin'."
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Idk LackToast... I agree with you to a certain extent but some of what you are saying is just misogyny. You're definitely putting blame on women in the same fashion that sprinkles is putting the blame on men.
I will say that I completely agree with you about the whole "you have to be successful or a walking dildo" thing. Ive actually though on many occasions that I wish I was more successful mostly because I want to attract more women. Its completely bullshit that women are allowed to have equal rights in society (if not in the job market) but still expect men to be breadwinners. When I talk to a woman the only reason Id ask what she does is because it makes good conversation (and because most people love to talk about themselves). Unless shes a cop or serially unemployed I really couldn't care less what she does, but I constantly feel judged for having a regular joe job.
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Re: serious question [Re: LackToast]
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LackToast said: Men have always been more emotional, This is what makes inspiring leaders who lead other men to recognize their own greatness. the greatest of inventors who shaped our society were probably the most emotional of men. Dont forget the philosophers, the artist, the musicians, poets and writers, the physicians, the blacksmiths, the warriors, the explorers, etc. Virtually all male pursuits deal with a great amount of emotion, because men have a much greater passion to shape and form our universe then women ever did. Women never sent rockets into outer space.
What is the problem now-a-days? Some say feminists, and will point to the growing trend of single mothers, and the current dating trends that have blown up in womens favor, and the emasulation of men which lead to "beta" "boys", men removing themselves from society, and a still largely unnoticed trend in the amount of men killing themselves off this planet.
Other men will point to gameness, and competition anxiety, which men are no longer equipped to deal with rationally because so many other men have lost repect for one another, will blacknight and whitenight each other, and worse beat and kill each other over a chance to get with women. These are because of that same society which has produced nil role models, and the shaming of masculinity, men dont know fuck all but will do anything for a slice of the pie.
My thought is the internet really exposed the hatred humanity has for the common male and common female. Womens psychology has been figured out, and they are found to be lacking. The average woman has no capacity for anything other than herself, the world revolves around her, she cares nothing for the opinions of any man, despite the fact that her natural provisioning and protection literally depends on a strong man, what a catch 22.
And men, if you are not a walking dildo (read player cad), if you are struggling in anyway, especially financially, in a shitty economy, or perhaps you are just an average joe. Your virtually fucked. You are a loser, at least to society, and to women. And who can blame them, you have after all, no worth.
Essentially little boys are exposed to the harsh realities of the game we play at an age where they are not mentally equipped to deal with it(i say little boys because i doubt women go looking for answers when society tells them theyre great and are deserving of the world), and they cant turn to their parents, the masses of individuals who are self centered and were never themselves properly guided into raising and providing mental stimuli that a child is more capable of understanding then their own festered minds. They grow up to be idiot bastards and entitled bitches, and further disintegrate the collective consciousness with hatred and biterness. THEY HAVE NOWHERE TO TURN, EMOTIONS ARE BOUND TO POUR OUT
Nobodies happy, society tells girls their worthy because they have a vagina , and tell little boys they can be rockstars and actors and heroes. one day we wake up to the fact that none of that is real, and then people settle, they cash in their chips when its too late and get stuck in unhappy relationship, or pump out kids when they cant even raise them properly.
Man has nowhere to turn and so he hides away, then woman cant find man.
you obviously don't understand history lol, enjoy your delusions in that bubble of yours 
and about that comment "Women never sent rockets into outer space"
"Margaret Heafield Hamilton (born August 17, 1936) is a computer scientist, systems engineer, and business owner. She was Director of the Software Engineering Division of the MIT Instrumentation Laboratory, which developed on-board flight software for the Apollo space program."
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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sprinkles said: Women (especially teenage females) have self esteem issues. Girls who dont have fathers look for a males love anywhere they can get it. Or they'll have a baby.
I feel these ones also have lots of male friends.
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you obviously don't understand history lol, enjoy your delusions in that bubble of yours 
and about that comment "Women never sent rockets into outer space"
"Margaret Heafield Hamilton (born August 17, 1936) is a computer scientist, systems engineer, and business owner. She was Director of the Software Engineering Division of the MIT Instrumentation Laboratory, which developed on-board flight software for the Apollo space program."
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bloodsheen said: Idk LackToast... I agree with you to a certain extent but some of what you are saying is just misogyny. You're definitely putting blame on women in the same fashion that sprinkles is putting the blame on men.
I will say that I completely agree with you about the whole "you have to be successful or a walking dildo" thing. Ive actually though on many occasions that I wish I was more successful mostly because I want to attract more women. Its completely bullshit that women are allowed to have equal rights in society (if not in the job market) but still expect men to be breadwinners. When I talk to a woman the only reason Id ask what she does is because it makes good conversation (and because most people love to talk about themselves). Unless shes a cop or serially unemployed I really couldn't care less what she does, but I constantly feel judged for having a regular joe job.
you could call me a misogynist, as i dont care much for women, take what you will of my opinions, its nothing more anyways.
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you obviously don't understand history lol, enjoy your delusions in that bubble of yours 
and about that comment "Women never sent rockets into outer space"
"Margaret Heafield Hamilton (born August 17, 1936) is a computer scientist, systems engineer, and business owner. She was Director of the Software Engineering Division of the MIT Instrumentation Laboratory, which developed on-board flight software for the Apollo space program."
gtfo dude 
Am i delusional solely for having an opinion different from yours?
can you explain which part of history im not getting? Considering i was dealing with social and gender issues. Im not sure i brought up any history, unless you mean to say im wrong that men never were leaders and explorers?
And about Miss Hamilton, actually i have been made aware of this a few times now, ill be honest i never cared to look up if they were right, nor did i care if they were, i will however admit i was wrong. Its outside and missing of the original intent i was making but, you cant please everyone, thats what i always say.
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sprinkles said: Women (especially teenage females) have self esteem issues. Girls who dont have fathers look for a males love anywhere they can get it. Or they'll have a baby.
I feel these ones also have lots of male friends.
As a girl who grew up without a primary father figure, can confirm. I have mostly male friends. They're mostly gay theatre guys, though, does that make a difference?
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Re: serious question [Re: r.lutece]
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Depends on how flamboyant they are. From an outsider's perspective it might not seem that way and could chase away potential prospects, if that's your concern.
For me personally, I look at it as a red flag. I've known many girls like this, and their reasoning was because "all girls are bitches and we don't get along", which kind of says something about her character.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
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sprinkles said: why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
Shut your lame ass up. Maturity relates to age for most but not all. Grow up and this will no longer be a worry.
I'm probably younger than you too, just to spray my unstable jizz all on your parade.
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philopian_tube said: Depends on how flamboyant they are. From an outsider's perspective it might not seem that way and could chase away potential prospects, if that's your concern.
For me personally, I look at it as a red flag. I've known many girls like this, and their reasoning was because "all girls are bitches and we don't get along", which kind of says something about her character.
Having heard it so often, I tend to ask the same question. After all, who's the common denominator?
I think I get along with guys better than girls for the most part, not because all girls are bitches, but I typically don't have a lot to chat about with them. I was raised primarily by my grandmother, a rural Kansan farmer who grew up in the Dust Bowl. Needless to say, she was less than concerned with cosmetics and hair, and that rubbed off on me a bit. I had a lot more fun playing with mud and rocks than dolls, and as it turns out, there was not a wealth of girls who wanted to play in the mud with me, which is a bummer because it was a blast.
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philopian_tube said: Depends on how flamboyant they are. From an outsider's perspective it might not seem that way and could chase away potential prospects, if that's your concern.
For me personally, I look at it as a red flag. I've known many girls like this, and their reasoning was because "all girls are bitches and we don't get along", which kind of says something about her character.
Having heard it so often, I tend to ask the same question. After all, who's the common denominator?
I think I get along with guys better than girls for the most part, not because all girls are bitches, but I typically don't have a lot to chat about with them. I was raised primarily by my grandmother, a rural Kansan farmer who grew up in the Dust Bowl. Needless to say, she was less than concerned with cosmetics and hair, and that rubbed off on me a bit. I had a lot more fun playing with mud and rocks than dolls, and as it turns out, there was not a wealth of girls who wanted to play in the mud with me, which is a bummer because it was a blast.
The same could be said for myself. I grew up with a single mother, but despite her best parenting efforts, it wasn't healthy for me. I pretty much had to reprogram my behaviors and learn on my own how to do things that fathers should've taught their sons growing up.
It may have been fun playing in the mud, but understand that it is not innate behavior for a young girl. If you had grown up with parents who had a healthy polarity, you would have most likely turned out differently. Masculine attracts Feminine, regardless of gender, and you yourself said that you have many gay male friends.
It's never too late to change yourself though, if you want to that is.
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philopian_tube said: Depends on how flamboyant they are. From an outsider's perspective it might not seem that way and could chase away potential prospects, if that's your concern.
For me personally, I look at it as a red flag. I've known many girls like this, and their reasoning was because "all girls are bitches and we don't get along", which kind of says something about her character.
Having heard it so often, I tend to ask the same question. After all, who's the common denominator?
I think I get along with guys better than girls for the most part, not because all girls are bitches, but I typically don't have a lot to chat about with them. I was raised primarily by my grandmother, a rural Kansan farmer who grew up in the Dust Bowl. Needless to say, she was less than concerned with cosmetics and hair, and that rubbed off on me a bit. I had a lot more fun playing with mud and rocks than dolls, and as it turns out, there was not a wealth of girls who wanted to play in the mud with me, which is a bummer because it was a blast.
The same could be said for myself. I grew up with a single mother, but despite her best parenting efforts, it wasn't healthy for me. I pretty much had to reprogram my behaviors and learn on my own how to do things that fathers should've taught their sons growing up.
It may have been fun playing in the mud, but understand that it is not innate behavior for a young girl. If you had grown up with parents who had a healthy polarity, you would have most likely turned out differently. Masculine attracts Feminine, regardless of gender, and you yourself said that you have many gay male friends.
It's never too late to change yourself though, if you want to that is.
I wish a lack of gender polarity in my parentage had been the least worrying thing in my childhood. 
There are a few things here and there I'm actively changing (figuring out makeup was actually really fun, mostly have theatre to thank for that); a decade ago I was mostly androgynous and had no interest in dating, but it didn't take long to realize that if I wanted a manly man, I'd have to "girl up." I've had a lot of maternal figures in my life, but exactly zero of them taught me how to be a lady. Gardening, sure. Woodworking, you betcha. But the lady part, I'm figuring that out as I go. It's kinda fun, but I'd still rather keep the company of men.
(Besides, then I have a veritable gallery of handsomeness to enjoy.)
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You'd be a hit in survivalist communities. Women with skills are like gold there, and gold is even bigger than gold regularly is with them so that's saying something.
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I turned out pretty masculine. Father was as masculine as they come. Went from bouncer to running his own club, and ditched that shit to start a collection agency. How he raised us was "don't be such a pussy" or "dont be a fag" for small shit. Was heavier when I was little so his nickname for me was pillow. Serious offenses growing up were met with corporal punishment. That ended as I got older and got to about the same size.
Can't say I have many regrets from it. Not a lot of shit fucks with me in life. Although I do stop and find myself saying "dont be such a pussy" in my head when people especially men start getting all emotional or feminine. The I start to question if they're just that, a giant pooty. Or if I'm just calloused as fucking hell.
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Re: serious question [Re: Srirachi]
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Fuck yeah practical life skills.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22331022 - 10/04/15 12:28 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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sprinkles said: why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
Nowadays I think women have been empowered, and men have been told it's OK to be sensitive.
But take the 50's for example, women were treated in such a way that if they were treated that way today, well the public would be in an uproar about it. Or how men were in the 50's, they were "mans man" you know what I mean, they had to turn off their emotional side because it was not considered manly to show feelings other than the normal manly feelings, anger for example showed how masculine a man was.
This is just how the world is nowadays, get used to it.
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Re: serious question [Re: Mescalean]
#22332095 - 10/04/15 10:32 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm more feminine physically, than my oldest brother. That doesn't mean I'm not more masculine than most guys.
What are true masculine traits? The desire to play sports? Or is it the desire to follow your dreams and tell everyone to fuck off that doesn't appreciate it?
My oldest brother was the first example. Homecoming king and such. Huge fucker, 6'3" 240lbs or so. Basically ran college as a freshman.
At that age I was doing it in a different way.
I think there's a spectrum of being manly still. See cus at funerals for example, about 3 tears drop, even for that brother and my close friend recently. And when I was broken up with.
But then the booze comes out and I get too drunk, I'll fucking weep.
Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough.
That's just me, from my beliefs. Plenty of people probably think of me as strange. Just certain people's beliefs. Can't much change them.
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Re: serious question [Re: Atrium]
#22332118 - 10/04/15 10:38 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Atrium said: I'm more feminine physically, than my oldest brother. That doesn't mean I'm not more masculine than most guys.
What are true masculine traits? The desire to play sports? Or is it the desire to follow your dreams and tell everyone to fuck off that doesn't appreciate it?
My oldest brother was the first example. Homecoming king and such. Huge fucker, 6'3" 240lbs or so. Basically ran college as a freshman.
At that age I was doing it in a different way.
I think there's a spectrum of being manly still. See cus at funerals for example, about 3 tears drop, even for that brother and my close friend recently. And when I was broken up with.
But then the booze comes out and I get too drunk, I'll fucking weep.
Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough.
That's just me, from my beliefs. Plenty of people probably think of me as strange. Just certain people's beliefs. Can't much change them.
While when I do think masculine I do think large build emotionally not numb but withdrawn. take charge, which is why I loved this this right here, this right here got you huge fucking dude knows whats up points.
"Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough." This. This gentlemen, this.
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Re: serious question [Re: Mescalean]
#22333509 - 10/04/15 04:37 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mescalean said:
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Atrium said: I'm more feminine physically, than my oldest brother. That doesn't mean I'm not more masculine than most guys.
What are true masculine traits? The desire to play sports? Or is it the desire to follow your dreams and tell everyone to fuck off that doesn't appreciate it?
My oldest brother was the first example. Homecoming king and such. Huge fucker, 6'3" 240lbs or so. Basically ran college as a freshman.
At that age I was doing it in a different way.
I think there's a spectrum of being manly still. See cus at funerals for example, about 3 tears drop, even for that brother and my close friend recently. And when I was broken up with.
But then the booze comes out and I get too drunk, I'll fucking weep.
Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough.
That's just me, from my beliefs. Plenty of people probably think of me as strange. Just certain people's beliefs. Can't much change them.
While when I do think masculine I do think large build emotionally not numb but withdrawn. take charge, which is why I loved this this right here, this right here got you huge fucking dude knows whats up points.
"Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough." This. This gentlemen, this.
Then you got kids that are so fucked up they allow pussy they're NOT smashing to rule their life. And some pussy that's so masculine they know how to control feminine guys without a sack (OP posted this.
Just so happens that ex went with the opposite of me right after which was a fucking burn to me. Had to start questioning myself to wonder how she'd go and fuck this kid that was so small he probably couldn't even lift her off of him.
Then I realized I was in that category of dudes who are letting pussy control them and I went and fucked like 4 virgin girls and a few hoes and dated in a year.
Then I quit that shit and now I'm back to being the non-hurt soul ready to be a man again, and not just a pussy hunter. That was wrong in my eyes.
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Re: serious question [Re: Atrium] 1
#22334364 - 10/04/15 07:37 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Omfg will you idiots stop talking about "smashing pussies" as if that's something anyone wants to hear? You sound like a bunch of 12-year-old virgins trying to sound hard while flexing for each other and checking each other out. Just stop.
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Anonymous said: Omfg will you idiots stop talking about "smashing pussies" as if that's something anyone wants to hear? You sound like a bunch of 12-year-old virgins trying to sound hard while flexing for each other and checking each other out. Just stop.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22334511 - 10/04/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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A mixture of many things over the years that have slowly led to a lack of boundaries and Integrity. Ego mainly stems from lack of self esteem and is manifested as "douchebag" and "lack of balls". It's all in what we believe! and most Men these days believe incorrectly. And us who believe correctly are viewed as incompetent and/or weak. The world/society is backwards and only traveling farther away. Much more to be said on the subject but that would be much too long a post. A real Man loses himself to gain Himself. Women are the other half of His heart.
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Anonymous said: Omfg will you idiots stop talking about "smashing pussies" as if that's something anyone wants to hear? You sound like a bunch of 12-year-old virgins trying to sound hard while flexing for each other and checking each other out. Just stop.

sup? my name's chad
i drink light beer, wear trucker hats while pump'n dump'n sluts
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Is that the kind of dude TheRedPill basically idolizes?
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Re: serious question [Re: Atrium]
#22334918 - 10/04/15 09:43 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Atrium said: Is that the kind of dude TheRedPill basically idolizes?
I was going for more of an ashton kutcher punk'd circa 2005
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Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86]
#22335052 - 10/04/15 10:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
It's actually Rob Gronkowski from the Patriots, he's one hell of a TE.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22335072 - 10/04/15 10:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I will read this thread later and respond when I have the time meanwhile some relevant gifs 





I know a bit trolly but I will talk to you soon sprinkles just need a bit for me Also
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Amanita86 said: Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
It's actually Rob Gronkowski from the Patriots, he's one hell of a TE.
Word.. you see that look in her eyes? I hope he played his cards right that night..
Devils in disguise..
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86]
#22335157 - 10/04/15 10:53 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said:
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Amanita86 said: Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
It's actually Rob Gronkowski from the Patriots, he's one hell of a TE.
Word.. you see that look in her eyes? I hope he played his cards right that night..
Devils in disguise..
Yeah if you look close enough, you can see the spawn of satan. Wouldn't doubt if she poked holes in the condom. His current girlfriend is extremely attractive though, and she's a cheerleader, go figure.
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