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philopian_tube said: Depends on how flamboyant they are. From an outsider's perspective it might not seem that way and could chase away potential prospects, if that's your concern.
For me personally, I look at it as a red flag. I've known many girls like this, and their reasoning was because "all girls are bitches and we don't get along", which kind of says something about her character.
Having heard it so often, I tend to ask the same question. After all, who's the common denominator?
I think I get along with guys better than girls for the most part, not because all girls are bitches, but I typically don't have a lot to chat about with them. I was raised primarily by my grandmother, a rural Kansan farmer who grew up in the Dust Bowl. Needless to say, she was less than concerned with cosmetics and hair, and that rubbed off on me a bit. I had a lot more fun playing with mud and rocks than dolls, and as it turns out, there was not a wealth of girls who wanted to play in the mud with me, which is a bummer because it was a blast.
The same could be said for myself. I grew up with a single mother, but despite her best parenting efforts, it wasn't healthy for me. I pretty much had to reprogram my behaviors and learn on my own how to do things that fathers should've taught their sons growing up.
It may have been fun playing in the mud, but understand that it is not innate behavior for a young girl. If you had grown up with parents who had a healthy polarity, you would have most likely turned out differently. Masculine attracts Feminine, regardless of gender, and you yourself said that you have many gay male friends.
It's never too late to change yourself though, if you want to that is.
I wish a lack of gender polarity in my parentage had been the least worrying thing in my childhood. 
There are a few things here and there I'm actively changing (figuring out makeup was actually really fun, mostly have theatre to thank for that); a decade ago I was mostly androgynous and had no interest in dating, but it didn't take long to realize that if I wanted a manly man, I'd have to "girl up." I've had a lot of maternal figures in my life, but exactly zero of them taught me how to be a lady. Gardening, sure. Woodworking, you betcha. But the lady part, I'm figuring that out as I go. It's kinda fun, but I'd still rather keep the company of men.
(Besides, then I have a veritable gallery of handsomeness to enjoy.)
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Re: serious question [Re: r.lutece]
#22330960 - 10/04/15 12:04 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You'd be a hit in survivalist communities. Women with skills are like gold there, and gold is even bigger than gold regularly is with them so that's saying something.
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Re: serious question [Re: Srirachi]
#22331009 - 10/04/15 12:24 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I turned out pretty masculine. Father was as masculine as they come. Went from bouncer to running his own club, and ditched that shit to start a collection agency. How he raised us was "don't be such a pussy" or "dont be a fag" for small shit. Was heavier when I was little so his nickname for me was pillow. Serious offenses growing up were met with corporal punishment. That ended as I got older and got to about the same size.
Can't say I have many regrets from it. Not a lot of shit fucks with me in life. Although I do stop and find myself saying "dont be such a pussy" in my head when people especially men start getting all emotional or feminine. The I start to question if they're just that, a giant pooty. Or if I'm just calloused as fucking hell.
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Re: serious question [Re: Srirachi]
#22331020 - 10/04/15 12:28 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck yeah practical life skills.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22331022 - 10/04/15 12:28 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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sprinkles said: why are men so emotional now? I swear to god they are so much more emotionally jacked up than women. They feel slighted over the dumbest shit. They get upset over imaginary stuff, it seems. Like something pops into their head out of thin air...or maybe something reminds them of something else that was unpleasant at some point. I dont know, but they are just weak and unstable. seems the world is turning upside down.
i should have been alive in the 50's when men were men and not ... whatever the hell they are now. they're so defective. I can't stand it.
LOL jesus christ I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than deal with this generation of emo fucktards. seriously.
Nowadays I think women have been empowered, and men have been told it's OK to be sensitive.
But take the 50's for example, women were treated in such a way that if they were treated that way today, well the public would be in an uproar about it. Or how men were in the 50's, they were "mans man" you know what I mean, they had to turn off their emotional side because it was not considered manly to show feelings other than the normal manly feelings, anger for example showed how masculine a man was.
This is just how the world is nowadays, get used to it.
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Re: serious question [Re: Mescalean]
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I'm more feminine physically, than my oldest brother. That doesn't mean I'm not more masculine than most guys.
What are true masculine traits? The desire to play sports? Or is it the desire to follow your dreams and tell everyone to fuck off that doesn't appreciate it?
My oldest brother was the first example. Homecoming king and such. Huge fucker, 6'3" 240lbs or so. Basically ran college as a freshman.
At that age I was doing it in a different way.
I think there's a spectrum of being manly still. See cus at funerals for example, about 3 tears drop, even for that brother and my close friend recently. And when I was broken up with.
But then the booze comes out and I get too drunk, I'll fucking weep.
Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough.
That's just me, from my beliefs. Plenty of people probably think of me as strange. Just certain people's beliefs. Can't much change them.
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Re: serious question [Re: Atrium]
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Atrium said: I'm more feminine physically, than my oldest brother. That doesn't mean I'm not more masculine than most guys.
What are true masculine traits? The desire to play sports? Or is it the desire to follow your dreams and tell everyone to fuck off that doesn't appreciate it?
My oldest brother was the first example. Homecoming king and such. Huge fucker, 6'3" 240lbs or so. Basically ran college as a freshman.
At that age I was doing it in a different way.
I think there's a spectrum of being manly still. See cus at funerals for example, about 3 tears drop, even for that brother and my close friend recently. And when I was broken up with.
But then the booze comes out and I get too drunk, I'll fucking weep.
Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough.
That's just me, from my beliefs. Plenty of people probably think of me as strange. Just certain people's beliefs. Can't much change them.
While when I do think masculine I do think large build emotionally not numb but withdrawn. take charge, which is why I loved this this right here, this right here got you huge fucking dude knows whats up points.
"Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough." This. This gentlemen, this.
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Re: serious question [Re: Mescalean]
#22333509 - 10/04/15 04:37 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Atrium said: I'm more feminine physically, than my oldest brother. That doesn't mean I'm not more masculine than most guys.
What are true masculine traits? The desire to play sports? Or is it the desire to follow your dreams and tell everyone to fuck off that doesn't appreciate it?
My oldest brother was the first example. Homecoming king and such. Huge fucker, 6'3" 240lbs or so. Basically ran college as a freshman.
At that age I was doing it in a different way.
I think there's a spectrum of being manly still. See cus at funerals for example, about 3 tears drop, even for that brother and my close friend recently. And when I was broken up with.
But then the booze comes out and I get too drunk, I'll fucking weep.
Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough.
That's just me, from my beliefs. Plenty of people probably think of me as strange. Just certain people's beliefs. Can't much change them.
While when I do think masculine I do think large build emotionally not numb but withdrawn. take charge, which is why I loved this this right here, this right here got you huge fucking dude knows whats up points.
"Shit as long as the pussy you're smashing isn't able to control your life, I'd say you're masculine enough." This. This gentlemen, this.
Then you got kids that are so fucked up they allow pussy they're NOT smashing to rule their life. And some pussy that's so masculine they know how to control feminine guys without a sack (OP posted this.
Just so happens that ex went with the opposite of me right after which was a fucking burn to me. Had to start questioning myself to wonder how she'd go and fuck this kid that was so small he probably couldn't even lift her off of him.
Then I realized I was in that category of dudes who are letting pussy control them and I went and fucked like 4 virgin girls and a few hoes and dated in a year.
Then I quit that shit and now I'm back to being the non-hurt soul ready to be a man again, and not just a pussy hunter. That was wrong in my eyes.
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Omfg will you idiots stop talking about "smashing pussies" as if that's something anyone wants to hear? You sound like a bunch of 12-year-old virgins trying to sound hard while flexing for each other and checking each other out. Just stop.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22334511 - 10/04/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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A mixture of many things over the years that have slowly led to a lack of boundaries and Integrity. Ego mainly stems from lack of self esteem and is manifested as "douchebag" and "lack of balls". It's all in what we believe! and most Men these days believe incorrectly. And us who believe correctly are viewed as incompetent and/or weak. The world/society is backwards and only traveling farther away. Much more to be said on the subject but that would be much too long a post. A real Man loses himself to gain Himself. Women are the other half of His heart.
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sup? my name's chad
i drink light beer, wear trucker hats while pump'n dump'n sluts
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Is that the kind of dude TheRedPill basically idolizes?
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Re: serious question [Re: Atrium]
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Atrium said: Is that the kind of dude TheRedPill basically idolizes?
I was going for more of an ashton kutcher punk'd circa 2005
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Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86]
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Amanita86 said: Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
It's actually Rob Gronkowski from the Patriots, he's one hell of a TE.
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Re: serious question [Re: sprinkles]
#22335072 - 10/04/15 10:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I will read this thread later and respond when I have the time meanwhile some relevant gifs 





I know a bit trolly but I will talk to you soon sprinkles just need a bit for me Also
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Amanita86 said: Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
It's actually Rob Gronkowski from the Patriots, he's one hell of a TE.
Word.. you see that look in her eyes? I hope he played his cards right that night..
Devils in disguise..
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Re: serious question [Re: Amanita86]
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Amanita86 said: Is that you in your sig? You look like you suffer from the same tongue afflicton Soulidarity was born with but instead of it effecting your tounge it effects your entire face. Your sister is pretty hot..
It's actually Rob Gronkowski from the Patriots, he's one hell of a TE.
Word.. you see that look in her eyes? I hope he played his cards right that night..
Devils in disguise..
Yeah if you look close enough, you can see the spawn of satan. Wouldn't doubt if she poked holes in the condom. His current girlfriend is extremely attractive though, and she's a cheerleader, go figure.
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