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Sterben



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#22248915 - 09/16/15 11:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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So i recently Acquired a Gf, the first week she was nice & helping me with rent & food. Since the first week she has told me she has been seeing guys behind my back. every time i try and kick them out they threaten to call the police on me. ( im growing a few things cough)..
they have called the cops on me once and the police took them away to thier mother house cause i didnt do anything. the next morning they came back and told me how sorry they were...so i let them back in. since then they have hit me several times and are verbally abusing me. threatening if i kick them out they will call the police on me...=(. I am bigger then she is and can knock her out in one punch but i plan on having a military career and dont want to mess up my future.
this person breaks stuff in my house and slam doors...and has broken some things...im scared for my safety, my future & the little things i own..i dont know what to do=(
Edited by Sterben (09/17/15 03:31 PM)
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Fletcher


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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben] 5
#22248919 - 09/16/15 11:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lose the bitch.
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#22248927 - 09/16/15 11:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Toss the grow, kick her out. Not much else you can do. As long as they have that leverage over you, you're not in a position to really do anything.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Sterben



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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Shroomslip]
#22248951 - 09/17/15 12:01 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: Toss the grow, kick her out. Not much else you can do. As long as they have that leverage over you, you're not in a position to really do anything.
Ok. That what ill do. nothing is worth this abuse..
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22248962 - 09/17/15 12:04 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dont understand, shes actually bringing people that shes fucking to your house...and letting them stay there?
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben] 2
#22248966 - 09/17/15 12:05 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If at all possible don't even let them know you've tossed it. Get it gone and out of your possession before they even know it's gone. Probably going to put 2 and 2 together if they see you throwing it out and may start with the bullshit then and there.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Shroomslip] 1
#22248985 - 09/17/15 12:11 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My ex pushed me down a flight of stairs, hit me, and hit me upside the head with a log that had a burning ember in the head. And I'm still sad we broke up. But I grew up with dv so maybe chaos made me feel at home. But I know it was all bad and starting to look for someone that will treat me right.
I always kept my hands behind my back. I used to watch my dad beat the shot out of my mom and I do not want to be that person. I can take it I grew up with it. Get out op.
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Shroomslip]
#22249011 - 09/17/15 12:20 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: Toss the grow, kick her out. Not much else you can do. As long as they have that leverage over you, you're not in a position to really do anything.
this x1000. trash it, and throw her the fuck out, get a personal protective order - these sound like absolutely terrible people and the only thing I can see working is washing your hands of her and whoever else completely and doing whatever it takes to see that through. good luck and take care of yourself.
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Enjoywho]
#22249012 - 09/17/15 12:20 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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How can you tell where the hand is?
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Fletcher


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#22249027 - 09/17/15 12:26 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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No, he just needs to man up and not be a cuckold.
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#22249031 - 09/17/15 12:26 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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lol fuck off.
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Konyap]
#22249038 - 09/17/15 12:29 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Where my hands are? I dunno because I have owned them for a while and whem shed start to get pushy I interlocked them. I wanted to defend myself instinctively. But none of it really hurt except for flying down 12 stairs as I was leaving and she just shoved me near the top. From behind
Trust me op get out it never changes I've been watching it my entire life with my parents.
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22249048 - 09/17/15 12:32 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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how can you guys still consider eachother in a relationship if she brings over guys in front of you
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: pirate-blues]
#22249051 - 09/17/15 12:34 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: lol fuck off.
It's solid advice. I sure as hell wouldn't stand for it.
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22249073 - 09/17/15 12:42 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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the girlfriend does? or her boyfriends hit you? i don't understand. either way, kick her the fuck out.
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22249080 - 09/17/15 12:47 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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how are u always getting urself into these situations, Sterben?..
u're too nice man. i know u're always talking about feeling lonely n shit, but i think u need to learn to be comfortable in ur own skin, in ur own presence. dont depend on others to make u happy. u are bound to suffer with this attitude.. or atleast wait a couple years till u know the people well before u decide to be committed to them. way too folks out there looking for nice peeps to take advantage of.
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Sterben



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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: 404]
#22249084 - 09/17/15 12:48 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She is not bringing guys over she leaves for hours and says she is going to the store. 4 Hours later she comes home and tells me she hung out with a guy but did not fuck him to do cocain something ive never done. i dont smoke or do drugs nothing wrong with drugs just trying to get a job so i dont have to rely on someone who abuses me for food or rent...
She hits me she breaks stuff in my house that is mine and she threatens to call the police on me for my grow.
so i sit here and take it...and keep my head down like a little bitch...and its truly pitiful...I need the money to eat & keep a roof over my head i have a interview on Monday i applied to 13 jobs just yesterday cause im sick & tired of this torment....i just need to be independent of this curse... im so tired of this shti
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Sterben



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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22249102 - 09/17/15 12:54 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Its not being alone that im worried about is just...its just...when ever i have something like a roof over my head i help the next person in line who may need help. she seemed like a kind person who had thier shit together cause they had a job & i just lost mine do to complication of them ripping me off. so i said i like you etc....it hurt cause every fucking time i think i find a kind honest person they fuck me over EVERY FUCKING time! and i just wont accept that people are Bad Not matter how MANY FUCKING TIMES THEY FUCKING HURT ME! OR SCREW ME OVER! CAUSE...Cause...cause...id rather help that one person and show them that the world isnt so bad...even if its just one person out their...T_T
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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22249108 - 09/17/15 12:55 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh i see... you have a grow. well that changes a lot. you need to tread lightly... better get rid of the grow first and then get rid of her.
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Sterben



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Re: i am a victum of domestic abuse [Re: Sterben]
#22249111 - 09/17/15 12:56 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It just hurts...im sorry for sharing this with you guys...i dont have anyone one else in my life accept you guys....no one else..im sorry. im not weak..i try not to be...im sorry
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