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Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me
#22241949 - 09/15/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I was talking to this girl after English the other day and I walked her to her next class only for her to text me 5 minutes later to tell me class was cancelled and that she was bored, so I told her to come back with me to my dorm room, so she did.
We sat and talked for an hour and she seemed all into me and was laughing and smiling etc, but then she just stopped texting me, ignored me in class today, and pretty much just dropped me.
Wtf happened? What did I do wrong?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242026 - 09/15/15 04:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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People have busy lives full of crazy stuff just don't even think about it
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242028 - 09/15/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Some chick told me we should go to some waterfall today so I texted her 5 hours ago, no response. YOLO, no skin off my back
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242073 - 09/15/15 04:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She probably wanted you to make a move.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242220 - 09/15/15 04:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242265 - 09/15/15 05:06 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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To make matters worse my friend texted me yesterday and asked how making friends in a new town is going and I sent a text saying that I had made a few but was honestly pretty lonely, and I accidentally sent it to this girl!!
Should I call her out after class tomorrow or should I just cut my loses and never talk to her again? I had a class with her today but really didn't feel like being in there with her so I just got up and left and went and got drunk lol
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242290 - 09/15/15 05:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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wtf, you left class because u didn't feel like being in there with her? jeez man it's not like u even knew her that long
i dunno man do whatevz, maybe never talk to her but maybe do
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242388 - 09/15/15 05:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
It makes a lot of sense. Women want a confident man and now she might have found he isn't that.
It could also be that she's simply busy and OP is overreacting.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22242432 - 09/15/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
It makes a lot of sense. Women want a confident man and now she might have found he isn't that.
It could also be that she's simply busy and OP is overreacting.
I don't think not making a move exhibits a lack of confidence. If anything I think it shows respect for the girl by not just assuming she wants to suck your dick
And yea i probably shouldn't have left but i kinda wanted to seem mysterious, like hmm where did he go that is so important? I don't know maybe I just really didn't want to be in that class so i came up with her as an excuse. It was kinda dumb but whatever can't go back now. I just don't know if I should call her out like "ayy bitch, why you come up to my room and then drop me like a hotpocket? Ok maybe not like that but you get the point
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22242458 - 09/15/15 05:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm going with sheekle on this one. He's got the right attitude. You should chill out and let stuff happen if it's going to happen. Laugh at all this stuff if it helps because you're overthinking it and worrying for no benefit. It's really all no big deal.
If you want to talk with her or hang out, then just start some small talk with her again about something relevant to the moment or whatever like you did before. And quit thinking into it so much. You don't have enough information to speculate like this, and it does matter anyway.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242482 - 09/15/15 05:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bruh a girl tells you shes bored, agrees to go back to your place " alone " and then you go on and talk for an hour ??? she prob thinks your fruity now.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Kinko]
#22242530 - 09/15/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think op is fin and will do fine in college..
But I mean c'mon she wants to hang in his dorm alone right after they met?! She wants the d dude!!
She doesn't want a date she had an opening in her schedule and she wanted a quickie at the very least. She doesn't want to take it slow and get coffee.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242537 - 09/15/15 06:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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But also: you definitely over reacted and sending that text her ruined you having a chance with her. Embarrassing, but yu must move on.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242587 - 09/15/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What do you guys think a girl would think about a guy saying he is lonely.
I know that in reality, feeling lonely after moving to a new place with unfamiliar people is normal, but I have a hard time believing a girl would consider that, I think she'd just assume I'm a pussy.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242616 - 09/15/15 06:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Probably, and that'd be insensitive of her. But you are in a social utopia. Tons of people your age who want to have fun, get fucked up, and fuck. You're not as much of a sheep as the rest so maybe you haven't blended in (I'm assuming). You'll find a group soon. Just don't let it get you down. Embrace the moment and have fun.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242628 - 09/15/15 06:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Most girls are people rather than walking sex machines. A dorm room is a good place to hang out and talk or do whatever. Not everything is about sex. I went back to girls' houses or dorms in college and talked to them for hours knowing they had boyfriends simply because I was enjoying the company and conversation. Believe it or not, that stuff actually happens... because life is not about the D.
Also, you're not chilling out, OP. Go smoke a joint or something and stop this self-absorbed madness. Your question about what she thinks about your text doesn't matter. Get over it and quit obsessing. It's not a big deal, and she was probably just confused about it for a few seconds and then got over it herself.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22243310 - 09/15/15 08:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ok, I've chilled out some but I have one more question. Should I talk to her tomorrow? I mean what do I have to lose at this point? Or you think it's too far gone?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22243352 - 09/15/15 08:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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just live large be fancy its luxury shit here in america
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22243403 - 09/15/15 09:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You could just say "Hi."
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Patchouli_Savage]
#22244043 - 09/16/15 12:02 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She probably just got bored and left..big deal. It's not like your not worthy of her or have some fault she couldn't stand.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22244285 - 09/16/15 02:13 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Ok, I've chilled out some but I have one more question. Should I talk to her tomorrow? I mean what do I have to lose at this point? Or you think it's too far gone?
Jesus dude, it's the second week of September. You're acting like the world is ending on Friday.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: koods]
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Ya, the apocalypse thing isn't supposed to be until September 23rd this year, so you've got a whole week left. You still have some more chilling out to do, OP. You're being neurotic. Talk to her when if you feel like it, the same way you talk to other people.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22244789 - 09/16/15 08:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alright I'm going to talk to her after class today and will keep you guys updated. Should I just initiate a conversation about whatever or should I just be straight up and ask her why she hasn't had much to say to me anytime I try to initiate conversation ever since Friday?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22245069 - 09/16/15 09:46 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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just shoot the shit with her
talk the jive
maybe bring it up, maybe dont. doesnt matter
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
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Sheekle said: just shoot the shit with her
talk the jive
maybe bring it up, maybe dont. doesnt matter
sheekle you're such a chill guy. Im just gonna play it cool. Smoke a little dope before class, and im gonna just be myself. If she turns me down she missed a hell of an opportunity because I'm a pretty good time lol thanks guys
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
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Sheekle said:
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
Guys think logically women think emotionally.
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You're such an enlightened fellow
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said: Alright I'm going to talk to her after class today and will keep you guys updated. Should I just initiate a conversation about whatever or should I just be straight up and ask her why she hasn't had much to say to me anytime I try to initiate conversation ever since Friday?
Do this and don't do this. If it were me and a girl that I barely knew asked why I'd stopped talking to her, I'd brush it off, tell her I have something to do, and bail -- probably to go hang out with a girl who doesn't ask me needy and pointless questions.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: empty space]
#22246611 - 09/16/15 03:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well i talked to her and asked if she wanted to hangout later in the week and she said she'd text me.
I threw my hail mary pass so now it's just a waiting game to see if i ever get a text
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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you wont man
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
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The Doobie Dude said: you wont man
Probably not but it took some balls to do regardless
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I mean yeah but no
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Yea it did.
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Instead of asking her to hangout, you shouldve just talked with her for a bit -- being friendly but also acting as disinterested as she is. Then you go do your own thing. That way you come off as friendly instead of desperate. But as you said you already threw your hail mary pass so forget about it and chill. She'll come to you if she wants to.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Patchouli_Savage]
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Edit: Fuck. Stoned. Didn't see the second page.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said: Well i talked to her and asked if she wanted to hangout later in the week and she said she'd text me.
I threw my hail mary pass so now it's just a waiting game to see if i ever get a text
In the meantime, find some more girls to talk with while you're waiting. You're at the perfect time in your life to play the field, so why not take some more chances while your confidence is up?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22256526 - 09/18/15 02:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She never texted back...oh well i guess
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22256551 - 09/18/15 02:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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on to the next
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Yeah you should've made a move in your dorm room, fucked her and then ignore her by flirting with a different girl in class the next day.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: philopian_tube]
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why should he have ignored her after
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
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why should he have ignored her after
People want what they cant have
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Sounds neglectful and inconsiderate
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22257614 - 09/18/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22257783 - 09/18/15 07:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's ok guys, I've been suppressing it with daily alcohol and pot consumption. I kinda think I could meet a girl more similar to me if I dropped out and just hitchhiked around Colorado, maybe get some kinda counter job at a dispensary or something. I've heard Denver is a great plsce to be homeless, and with a couple other young transients by my side, along wiyh heavy alcoholism and hallucinogenic drug use, i think it'll be a fun life
Just travel around to different festivals and shit. Get a couple cool tattoos. Life will be awesome
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22258681 - 09/19/15 12:11 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sound like a bad idea.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22258898 - 09/19/15 03:14 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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philopian_tube said: Yeah you should've made a move in your dorm room, fucked her and then ignore her by flirting with a different girl in class the next day.
why should he have ignored her after
People want what they cant have
No wonder you can't stop thinking about me.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Magenta]
#22261209 - 09/19/15 05:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well this girl clearly said she'd text me. What a blatant motherfucking lie. Should I text her and be like so much for texting me or should i just kill myself now??
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Sheekle
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22261238 - 09/19/15 05:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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you should not be so dramatic and just pick up some other, more loyal, hot chick
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22261242 - 09/19/15 05:38 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude...she doesn't want anything to do with you. She said that to be nice. Quit being a little bitch and get over it.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22261321 - 09/19/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not being a little bitch, it's just that ai have been rejected or stood up by the past 4 girls that I've gotten close to. And no, it's not because I'm being a little bitch, its bc of girls being fickle. One girl even invited me to a family wedding and stood me up after we went shopping and I spent $200 on an outfit.
This literally isn't normal luck. Suicide is looking like a real option at this point so please don't act like an insensitive bitch and call me a bitch for craving affection
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22261331 - 09/19/15 06:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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No need to kill yourself because bitches be cray yo
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22261353 - 09/19/15 06:09 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's not them being fickle, it's you acting desperate. Girls can smell that shit from a mile away. You blow your interactions with them up into this massive thing the second you start thinking about relationships. You need to learn to chill out.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#22261387 - 09/19/15 06:17 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: It's not them being fickle, it's you acting desperate. Girls can smell that shit from a mile away. You blow your interactions with them up into this massive thing the second you start thinking about relationships. You need to learn to chill out.
Spoken like someone who hasn't been in my shoes
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22261517 - 09/19/15 06:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I can tell by the way you word your interactions with any potential love interest. You think about simple things like a girl getting bored and peacing out way to hard.
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Shining Cosmos
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#22261877 - 09/19/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Op needs to learn how to stop thinking every interaction with a girl is the beginning of a relationship or a date. Just interact like normal people, have fun, live in the moment. Desperate is right.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22262223 - 09/19/15 09:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: No need to kill yourself because bitches be cray yo
Careful who you call a bitch
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philopian_tube
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22262252 - 09/19/15 09:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Not being a little bitch, it's just that ai have been rejected or stood up by the past 4 girls that I've gotten close to. And no, it's not because I'm being a little bitch, its bc of girls being fickle. One girl even invited me to a family wedding and stood me up after we went shopping and I spent $200 on an outfit.
You need to get some self respect. A girl invited you to a wedding, why would you even go? What has she done for you?
Sounds like an attempt to please her in order to get sex. Learn from your mistakes dude, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: philopian_tube]
#22262448 - 09/19/15 10:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Now I remember why I stopped coming to this section of the forum. You all (with the exception of Sheekle) think you're psychiatrists and call any guy who exhibits even an inkling of affection and love as a soft pussy who needs to grow a spine and stop being a desperate piece of shit.
Ah well, it was a good try.
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Sheekle
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: philopian_tube]
#22262548 - 09/19/15 10:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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philopian_tube said: You need to get some self respect. A girl invited you to a wedding, why would you even go? What has she done for you?
Have you ever been to a wedding before? They're fun as fuck, and have free food n shit
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22262627 - 09/19/15 10:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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philopian_tube said: You need to get some self respect. A girl invited you to a wedding, why would you even go? What has she done for you?
Have you ever been to a wedding before? They're fun as fuck, and have free food n shit
Exactly. At this point they are just grasping for reasons to blame all my recent demise with women on me lol
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle] 1
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You said this has happened with the past 4 girls you've tried to get with. Perhaps the problem isn't them, it's you.
You need to step back and re-evaluate yourself, put your ego aside. I'm just offering my two cents, but if you want this pattern to repeat itself then that's on you man. Sheekle is just telling you what you want to hear.
I've been in your position before, denial is a bitch.
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Sheekle
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: philopian_tube]
#22262728 - 09/19/15 11:01 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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philopian_tube said: Sheekle is just telling you what you want to hear.
That's such a thoughtless assumption
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22262796 - 09/19/15 11:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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philopian_tube said: You need to get some self respect. A girl invited you to a wedding, why would you even go? What has she done for you?
Have you ever been to a wedding before? They're fun as fuck, and have free food n shit
Exactly. At this point they are just grasping for reasons to blame all my recent demise with women on me lol
And you're assuming none of your rejections had anything to do with the way you act?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22262944 - 09/20/15 12:06 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP you're expecting way too much from these girls. Go with the flow a little more, dude. You're trying to force things to fit that don't.
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Mr.GuessWork
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22263779 - 09/20/15 08:23 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I see that you've digressed from your state of being chilled out since I last checked in, OP. All this other stuff is just further proof that bitches aren't the only crazy people. You're way too self-absorbed about all this, and you're being unfair and unreasonable, and your expectations are unrealistic and clearly unreciprocated. If other people don't want to hang out, then don't hang out with them. It's really that simple. None of these girls owe you any of their time, and your butthurt about that is unattractive. Quit obsessing about this shit and go enjoy doing something else.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22264620 - 09/20/15 12:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mr.GuessWork said: I see that you've digressed from your state of being chilled out since I last checked in, OP. All this other stuff is just further proof that bitches aren't the only crazy people. You're way too self-absorbed about all this, and you're being unfair and unreasonable, and your expectations are unrealistic and clearly unreciprocated. If other people don't want to hang out, then don't hang out with them. It's really that simple. None of these girls owe you any of their time, and your butthurt about that is unattractive. Quit obsessing about this shit and go enjoy doing something else.
Quite honestly these girls do owe me their time. Simply because I'm me. Plain and simple
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22264672 - 09/20/15 12:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP is Just for today.
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D.M.T
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#22265296 - 09/20/15 02:38 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP is wrong.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22265346 - 09/20/15 02:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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"If you allow someone else to bring you down, then you are faking it. You are pretending that out there is a force that operates inside you, This is nonsense."
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22265602 - 09/20/15 03:47 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Quite honestly these girls do owe me their time. Simply because I'm me. Plain and simple
If you saw yourself as such a prize, then you wouldn't be dwelling on these girls because it's their loss, right?
You're trying to come off as if you don't care, but it's pretty obvious that you do.
OP is beyond help.
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