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Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me
#22241949 - 09/15/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I was talking to this girl after English the other day and I walked her to her next class only for her to text me 5 minutes later to tell me class was cancelled and that she was bored, so I told her to come back with me to my dorm room, so she did.
We sat and talked for an hour and she seemed all into me and was laughing and smiling etc, but then she just stopped texting me, ignored me in class today, and pretty much just dropped me.
Wtf happened? What did I do wrong?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242026 - 09/15/15 04:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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People have busy lives full of crazy stuff just don't even think about it
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242028 - 09/15/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Some chick told me we should go to some waterfall today so I texted her 5 hours ago, no response. YOLO, no skin off my back
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242073 - 09/15/15 04:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She probably wanted you to make a move.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242220 - 09/15/15 04:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242265 - 09/15/15 05:06 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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To make matters worse my friend texted me yesterday and asked how making friends in a new town is going and I sent a text saying that I had made a few but was honestly pretty lonely, and I accidentally sent it to this girl!!
Should I call her out after class tomorrow or should I just cut my loses and never talk to her again? I had a class with her today but really didn't feel like being in there with her so I just got up and left and went and got drunk lol
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242290 - 09/15/15 05:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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wtf, you left class because u didn't feel like being in there with her? jeez man it's not like u even knew her that long
i dunno man do whatevz, maybe never talk to her but maybe do
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Sheekle]
#22242388 - 09/15/15 05:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
It makes a lot of sense. Women want a confident man and now she might have found he isn't that.
It could also be that she's simply busy and OP is overreacting.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22242432 - 09/15/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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D.M.T said:
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Sheekle said:
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Shining Cosmos said: She probably wanted you to make a move.
What kind of logic is that, though?
"Some guy didn't try to have sex with me when I wanted him to, so I'm going to flat-out ignore him altogether."
It makes a lot of sense. Women want a confident man and now she might have found he isn't that.
It could also be that she's simply busy and OP is overreacting.
I don't think not making a move exhibits a lack of confidence. If anything I think it shows respect for the girl by not just assuming she wants to suck your dick
And yea i probably shouldn't have left but i kinda wanted to seem mysterious, like hmm where did he go that is so important? I don't know maybe I just really didn't want to be in that class so i came up with her as an excuse. It was kinda dumb but whatever can't go back now. I just don't know if I should call her out like "ayy bitch, why you come up to my room and then drop me like a hotpocket? Ok maybe not like that but you get the point
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: D.M.T]
#22242458 - 09/15/15 05:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm going with sheekle on this one. He's got the right attitude. You should chill out and let stuff happen if it's going to happen. Laugh at all this stuff if it helps because you're overthinking it and worrying for no benefit. It's really all no big deal.
If you want to talk with her or hang out, then just start some small talk with her again about something relevant to the moment or whatever like you did before. And quit thinking into it so much. You don't have enough information to speculate like this, and it does matter anyway.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242482 - 09/15/15 05:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bruh a girl tells you shes bored, agrees to go back to your place " alone " and then you go on and talk for an hour ??? she prob thinks your fruity now.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Kinko]
#22242530 - 09/15/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think op is fin and will do fine in college..
But I mean c'mon she wants to hang in his dorm alone right after they met?! She wants the d dude!!
She doesn't want a date she had an opening in her schedule and she wanted a quickie at the very least. She doesn't want to take it slow and get coffee.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242537 - 09/15/15 06:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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But also: you definitely over reacted and sending that text her ruined you having a chance with her. Embarrassing, but yu must move on.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242587 - 09/15/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What do you guys think a girl would think about a guy saying he is lonely.
I know that in reality, feeling lonely after moving to a new place with unfamiliar people is normal, but I have a hard time believing a girl would consider that, I think she'd just assume I'm a pussy.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22242616 - 09/15/15 06:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Probably, and that'd be insensitive of her. But you are in a social utopia. Tons of people your age who want to have fun, get fucked up, and fuck. You're not as much of a sheep as the rest so maybe you haven't blended in (I'm assuming). You'll find a group soon. Just don't let it get you down. Embrace the moment and have fun.
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#22242628 - 09/15/15 06:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Most girls are people rather than walking sex machines. A dorm room is a good place to hang out and talk or do whatever. Not everything is about sex. I went back to girls' houses or dorms in college and talked to them for hours knowing they had boyfriends simply because I was enjoying the company and conversation. Believe it or not, that stuff actually happens... because life is not about the D.
Also, you're not chilling out, OP. Go smoke a joint or something and stop this self-absorbed madness. Your question about what she thinks about your text doesn't matter. Get over it and quit obsessing. It's not a big deal, and she was probably just confused about it for a few seconds and then got over it herself.
Edited by Mr.GuessWork (09/15/15 06:20 PM)
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22243310 - 09/15/15 08:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ok, I've chilled out some but I have one more question. Should I talk to her tomorrow? I mean what do I have to lose at this point? Or you think it's too far gone?
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22243352 - 09/15/15 08:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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just live large be fancy its luxury shit here in america
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22243403 - 09/15/15 09:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You could just say "Hi."
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Re: Girl came back to my room with me and then stopped talking to me [Re: Patchouli_Savage]
#22244043 - 09/16/15 12:02 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She probably just got bored and left..big deal. It's not like your not worthy of her or have some fault she couldn't stand.
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