Home | Community | Message Board


This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.


Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Shop: Original Sensible Seeds Feminized Cannabis Seeds   Kraken Kratom Red Vein Kratom

Jump to first unread post Pages: < Back | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 | 16 | 17 | Next >
InvisibleTheStallionMang
Do U know who yur fuckin with?
Male

Registered: 10/18/17
Posts: 4,533
Loc: Flag
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28564491 - 12/01/23 09:35 PM (1 month, 27 days ago)

Close enough?
How is it a man or real man and not any human?


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: TheStallionMang]
    #28564741 - 12/02/23 04:49 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

or grendel?


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePinkerton
Ultrasentient

Registered: 02/26/19
Posts: 3,131
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28564796 - 12/02/23 06:17 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

I am a 'person'.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
    #28564801 - 12/02/23 06:25 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

purr son


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePinkerton
Ultrasentient

Registered: 02/26/19
Posts: 3,131
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28564929 - 12/02/23 08:32 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

Are you beating around the bush?


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
    #28565073 - 12/02/23 10:44 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

what else should I do?
I like the bush,
sometimes it just bursts into flame without warning.
I'll stick around and see what happens.


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePinkerton
Ultrasentient

Registered: 02/26/19
Posts: 3,131
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28565079 - 12/02/23 10:47 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

what else should I do?

Help me out of this misery. :japsmile:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
    #28565121 - 12/02/23 11:11 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

yoga! :wink:

look these up

Five poses to get started with Hatha Yoga:

    Childs Pose. Focus on your third eye here. ...
    Cat Pose. Breath into your spine as you arch your back away from the floor. ...
    Down Dog. Focus on lengthening your heels into the floor and pushing your hips towards the back of the room.
    Forward Fold. Surrender into this pose. ...
    Savasana.


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePinkerton
Ultrasentient

Registered: 02/26/19
Posts: 3,131
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28565126 - 12/02/23 11:15 AM (1 month, 27 days ago)

Would you be pleased if I was going to marry one of your daughters? It is PT and me but I still wonder. :smile:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton] * 1
    #28565213 - 12/02/23 12:36 PM (1 month, 27 days ago)

that's a bizarre request.
my daughters are not MINE
people are individuals with their own PROBLEMS like you.


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePinkerton
Ultrasentient

Registered: 02/26/19
Posts: 3,131
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28565253 - 12/02/23 01:00 PM (1 month, 27 days ago)

I do not want to offend you, big bro. That question was unnecessary. My bad. :heart:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibledurian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/02/08
Posts: 16,689
Loc: Raccoon City
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28565626 - 12/02/23 05:39 PM (1 month, 26 days ago)

Quote:

redgreenvines said:
or grendel?




When Beowulf takes off his clothes/armor to fight.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibledurian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/02/08
Posts: 16,689
Loc: Raccoon City
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
    #28565653 - 12/02/23 05:55 PM (1 month, 26 days ago)

I might have gone out of my way, to make chivalrous displays, to win a lady over.

When I was asked how I would take care of her or where we were going, I always had a patriarchal attitude. I gave a proper handshake to the dad, I looked him in the eye, and had a thoughtful answer.

Usually, the daughters will like you, if you offend their dad.

There will be literal chemistry, if you piss him off to the point of adrenaline in the air.

Pop psychology should have some version of Oedipus Complex, in which the genders are reversed.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleloladoreen
 User Gallery

Registered: 05/25/20
Posts: 5,344
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #28566291 - 12/03/23 06:35 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

Just be yourself
I am a woman and I think its important that you recognize one person's opinion is not all women's opinion.
Im sure their version of "real man" is different than someone elses.
I can't say mine because I find it a ridiculous stereotype.
Honestly
Maybe the focus should be on character traits.
As opposed to "real man"
Its a broad term that has different meaning for each person saying it.
As a mother of three sons it irritates me to think they may be treated this way.
I hope they are valued by who they chose to be as a person.
I hope I am also regardless if my breasts are real or fake.
Good luck
Don't get caught up in that.
Try to recognize that they probably don't know what they want .
Probably trying to avoid making the same mistakes they made in their previous relationships.


--------------------
“One doesn’t have to operate with great malice to do great harm. The absence of empathy and understanding are sufficient.”


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: loladoreen] * 2
    #28566356 - 12/03/23 07:35 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

Only recruitment has a "real man" discrimination process
and each recruitment is looking for a different "real man"
usually it's a customer or mark (someone to take money from)
sometimes it's the army looking for front line bodies (real men to die in real war)
rarely it's a lonely woman looking for a specific type (nobody else is really a candidate)

real is relative, and many relatives suck


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibledurian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/02/08
Posts: 16,689
Loc: Raccoon City
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines]
    #28566396 - 12/03/23 08:08 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

I prefer to be gentlemanly but cannot get any attention without being mildly abrasive and daring. Although I would prefer the illusion of control, a man who is constantly smooth and never dirty gives the appearances of not being able to get things accomplished.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleloladoreen
 User Gallery

Registered: 05/25/20
Posts: 5,344
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: OrgoneConclusion] * 1
    #28566462 - 12/03/23 09:01 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

I'm always surprised gentlemen say they don't get a million women.
I love gentlemen, a good Guy. My friends also do.


--------------------
“One doesn’t have to operate with great malice to do great harm. The absence of empathy and understanding are sufficient.”


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibledurian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/02/08
Posts: 16,689
Loc: Raccoon City
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: loladoreen]
    #28566512 - 12/03/23 09:35 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

SWIM is gentle to the point of getting his wrist broken by her.

One partner or the other is being more assertive.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibleredgreenvines
irregular verb
 User Gallery

Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,539
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #28566600 - 12/03/23 11:02 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

some boundary problems and physical dominance issues, but also each enclave of humans has a different set of expectations.

I was astonished in 87 when my first marriage ended and I got a job downtown writing train telemetry software:
I was very clean but also had gotten many things done already (construcction and software wise). Luckily I was exposed to some interesting single females, one who latched on tightly - and stayed, but another at work was fascinating in other ways but not from a healthy enclave. In those days, cocaine was easy to score. hahaha.

ahh, well, memory...


--------------------
:confused: _ :brainfart:🧠  _ :finger:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleTheStallionMang
Do U know who yur fuckin with?
Male

Registered: 10/18/17
Posts: 4,533
Loc: Flag
Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: redgreenvines] * 2
    #28566617 - 12/03/23 11:20 AM (1 month, 26 days ago)

After this week of navigating life and trying to make the smartest moves I can make for those I'm responsible for, I have some thoughts on this.

A real man:
-does what he knows is right even if people he cares about are encouraging him to behave unwisely
-let's them be angry and upset and sticks to what he knows is best
-knows that being loving is always the same as being kind
-doesn't need outside validation
-knows people have to figure things out in their own time and let's it go at that


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: < Back | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 | 16 | 17 | Next >

Shop: Original Sensible Seeds Feminized Cannabis Seeds   Kraken Kratom Red Vein Kratom


Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* Reality isn't real
( 1 2 3 all )
ShroomismM 4,943 43 09/24/06 03:01 PM
by Telepylus
* A Real Buddhist Prophecy eve69 2,889 13 06/26/21 01:12 PM
by Lion
* Welcome... To The FIGHTING ARENA !!!
( 1 2 3 4 5 all )
Deiymiyan 4,913 92 05/18/03 03:42 PM
by Strumpling
* flowers question_for_joo 618 6 05/02/04 01:57 PM
by psyka
* The Buddha Holds Up A Flower Anonymous 822 8 12/15/02 07:10 AM
by 11polakie11
* gesture of greeting from a new soul neurorich 566 6 09/25/03 03:17 PM
by fireworks_god
* let's share some words!! neutrality welcomed :) kaiowas 762 9 09/05/03 09:22 AM
by Mystical_Craven
* The Flower Of Life ViBrAnT 800 6 06/19/03 04:48 PM
by In(di)go

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: Middleman, DividedQuantum
7,604 topic views. 2 members, 6 guests and 1 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2024 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.027 seconds spending 0.009 seconds on 15 queries.