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TheStallionMang
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Close enough? How is it a man or real man and not any human?
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redgreenvines
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or grendel?
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Pinkerton
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I am a 'person'.
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Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
#28564801 - 12/02/23 06:25 AM (1 month, 27 days ago) |
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purr son
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Pinkerton
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Are you beating around the bush?
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Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
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what else should I do? I like the bush, sometimes it just bursts into flame without warning. I'll stick around and see what happens.
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Pinkerton
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what else should I do?
Help me out of this misery.
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Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
#28565121 - 12/02/23 11:11 AM (1 month, 27 days ago) |
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yoga! 
look these up
Five poses to get started with Hatha Yoga:
Childs Pose. Focus on your third eye here. ... Cat Pose. Breath into your spine as you arch your back away from the floor. ... Down Dog. Focus on lengthening your heels into the floor and pushing your hips towards the back of the room. Forward Fold. Surrender into this pose. ... Savasana.
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Pinkerton
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Would you be pleased if I was going to marry one of your daughters? It is PT and me but I still wonder.
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#28565213 - 12/02/23 12:36 PM (1 month, 27 days ago) |
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that's a bizarre request. my daughters are not MINE people are individuals with their own PROBLEMS like you.
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Pinkerton
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I do not want to offend you, big bro. That question was unnecessary. My bad.
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durian_2008
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Quote:
redgreenvines said: or grendel?
When Beowulf takes off his clothes/armor to fight.
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Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: Pinkerton]
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I might have gone out of my way, to make chivalrous displays, to win a lady over.
When I was asked how I would take care of her or where we were going, I always had a patriarchal attitude. I gave a proper handshake to the dad, I looked him in the eye, and had a thoughtful answer.
Usually, the daughters will like you, if you offend their dad.
There will be literal chemistry, if you piss him off to the point of adrenaline in the air.
Pop psychology should have some version of Oedipus Complex, in which the genders are reversed.
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Just be yourself I am a woman and I think its important that you recognize one person's opinion is not all women's opinion. Im sure their version of "real man" is different than someone elses. I can't say mine because I find it a ridiculous stereotype. Honestly Maybe the focus should be on character traits. As opposed to "real man" Its a broad term that has different meaning for each person saying it. As a mother of three sons it irritates me to think they may be treated this way. I hope they are valued by who they chose to be as a person. I hope I am also regardless if my breasts are real or fake. Good luck Don't get caught up in that. Try to recognize that they probably don't know what they want . Probably trying to avoid making the same mistakes they made in their previous relationships.
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Only recruitment has a "real man" discrimination process and each recruitment is looking for a different "real man" usually it's a customer or mark (someone to take money from) sometimes it's the army looking for front line bodies (real men to die in real war) rarely it's a lonely woman looking for a specific type (nobody else is really a candidate)
real is relative, and many relatives suck
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I prefer to be gentlemanly but cannot get any attention without being mildly abrasive and daring. Although I would prefer the illusion of control, a man who is constantly smooth and never dirty gives the appearances of not being able to get things accomplished.
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loladoreen


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I'm always surprised gentlemen say they don't get a million women. I love gentlemen, a good Guy. My friends also do.
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Re: What is a "real" man? [Re: loladoreen]
#28566512 - 12/03/23 09:35 AM (1 month, 26 days ago) |
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SWIM is gentle to the point of getting his wrist broken by her.
One partner or the other is being more assertive.
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redgreenvines
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some boundary problems and physical dominance issues, but also each enclave of humans has a different set of expectations.
I was astonished in 87 when my first marriage ended and I got a job downtown writing train telemetry software: I was very clean but also had gotten many things done already (construcction and software wise). Luckily I was exposed to some interesting single females, one who latched on tightly - and stayed, but another at work was fascinating in other ways but not from a healthy enclave. In those days, cocaine was easy to score. hahaha.
ahh, well, memory...
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TheStallionMang
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After this week of navigating life and trying to make the smartest moves I can make for those I'm responsible for, I have some thoughts on this.
A real man: -does what he knows is right even if people he cares about are encouraging him to behave unwisely -let's them be angry and upset and sticks to what he knows is best -knows that being loving is always the same as being kind -doesn't need outside validation -knows people have to figure things out in their own time and let's it go at that
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