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i feel like being bad
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so I decided once and for all to break up with my 10 year LTR. I went as far as suspending my phone service so I cant be reached.
there is no one I know that i am physically attracted to. I am debating looking online for some young hottie (im 34). So how young is too young? What would be appropriate? I'm thinking 21 drawing the line, and this is pushing it. Anyone younger I would feel like a rapist, like im stealing some kids innocence. opinions? older men are no longer an option.
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koraks
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Good luck with your endeavors. Life can be a confusing trip sometimes.
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zappaisgod
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Mr.GuessWork
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: zappaisgod]
#22239878 - 09/15/15 06:43 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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21 is pretty young, but it could be fun if they're mature for their age or if you're looking for a fling.
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Anonymous said: so I decided once and for all to break up with my 10 year LTR. I went as far as suspending my phone service so I cant be reached.
there is no one I know that i am physically attracted to. I am debating looking online for some young hottie (im 34). So how young is too young? What would be appropriate? I'm thinking 21 drawing the line, and this is pushing it. Anyone younger I would feel like a rapist, like im stealing some kids innocence. opinions? older men are no longer an option.
A 21 year old sounds naughty in theory, but think of how disappointed you'll be when they nut within like 30 seconds.
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Black_Sunset
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: so I decided once and for all to break up with my 10 year LTR. I went as far as suspending my phone service so I cant be reached.
there is no one I know that i am physically attracted to. I am debating looking online for some young hottie (im 34). So how young is too young? What would be appropriate? I'm thinking 21 drawing the line, and this is pushing it. Anyone younger I would feel like a rapist, like im stealing some kids innocence. opinions? older men are no longer an option.
A 21 year old sounds naughty in theory, but think of how disappointed you'll be when they nut within like 30 seconds.
anon2: you must be bitter lol
OP: check out a milf website. I bet you will find quality guys on there for you. I think you'll find a lot of younger guys want to prove their sexual worth to an older woman.
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Anonymous said: So how young is too young? What would be appropriate? I'm thinking 21 drawing the line, and this is pushing it. Anyone younger I would feel like a rapist, like im stealing some kids innocence. opinions?
As long as they are legal age and you feel comfortable then there is no too young, at least if you are just looking for a fling. Sounds like you already know your number. If you are looking for something more serious I wouldn't drop below 28.
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Anonymous said: A 21 year old sounds naughty in theory, but think of how disappointed you'll be when they nut within like 30 seconds.
Sure, but they are usually ready to go again pretty quickly... at least I was at that age.
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: kykeion]
#22241451 - 09/15/15 01:38 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's true, I wouldn't go younger than 21 simply because of the limitations that imposes when it comes to alcohol and such. Personally, I'm a proponent of the "half your age plus seven" rule. So in this case, the socially acceptable answer to that would be 24. That said, if you're down and he's down, nevermind what society says. Break the rules!
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: r.lutece]
#22245138 - 09/16/15 10:02 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm 34, and just due to fairly normal every day life dealings seeming to be hard to navigate with younger people, I've decided I can't deal with anyone under 30 on a work level.... Its painful to even think it, but GEEZ, wtf is wrong with the vast majority of these kids??!!?!?!? Sorry, I'm sure some of "you kids" are around here, just had to throw that out...
Nah, but really, some of you guys people are just off their nut. I know every generation had some, but this generation has some a sizable population of folks that weren't ever wired right.
And in case one of you is reading this and wants to completely put me in my place, whats up with wearing beanies, gloves and scarves in over 100 degree weather?!?!!? These are you're people! They do this!
Now I sound old.
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: GeoDMT]
#22246768 - 09/16/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I hear ya. Dating someone who was 24 when I was 30 was a struggle.
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: GeoDMT]
#22246895 - 09/16/15 04:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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GeoDMT said: I'm 34, and just due to fairly normal every day life dealings seeming to be hard to navigate with younger people, I've decided I can't deal with anyone under 30 on a work level.... Its painful to even think it, but GEEZ, wtf is wrong with the vast majority of these kids??!!?!?!? Sorry, I'm sure some of "you kids" are around here, just had to throw that out...
Nah, but really, some of you guys people are just off their nut. I know every generation had some, but this generation has some a sizable population of folks that weren't ever wired right.
And in case one of you is reading this and wants to completely put me in my place, whats up with wearing beanies, gloves and scarves in over 100 degree weather?!?!!? These are you're people! They do this!
Now I sound old.
Lol....wait till you're 55.
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Sade
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Go crazy and try a transsexual....?
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Black_Sunset
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: Sade]
#22248918 - 09/16/15 11:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I love when a good looking woman in her 30's flirts or even smiles at me. I think you could find a good 20-something that is mature for their age and is more like you but there will always be some gap.
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european
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how long you want go from one to another?
what do you have against LTR?
there is no perfect partner!
acccept that you cannot have always high-feelings.
you can have fun with an 21 aged girl, and then, how long should this go? and what should go after that?
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Re: i feel like being bad [Re: european]
#22330769 - 10/03/15 11:10 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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My mom met her previous boyfriend when he was 17 and she was 31 or some shit , they were together until he got killed by the police (he was not black). Somebody in my families circle wouldve killed the dude if it hadn't been the police becsuse he put the cum in scum.
The guy she recently had a son with is unknown to our family . shit he could be 15 ..lol I'm just kidding. He's Probually atleast 30 and my moms now 39 , she jus has an attraction for younger men.
I told her about a lady inviting me to her apartment for dinner after we met 25 minutes earlier in the apt. pool . The woman , after finding out I was 21 and instead of having sex .. She gave me a back rub. It was cool because getting flirted with gave me confidence. I felt and saw the ladies silicone boobs and lost my horniness. Its Good to have self control. I heard all her slave stories lol
Basically my mom said that woman would be her , always wanting to be with younger guys.
I've got a college counselor- assistant, whom I want to have relations with . I basically have to check in the first of the month for bus passes , but I missed it on the first and came on the second , i asked her "if I can slide in today" since I missed yesterday. Then she called me cute , maybe she caught my attempt to flirt in a sexual "home base" way. My sister doubts it though.
She gives me chips , I asked for an extra bag and she wishes she could say yeah , but told me to come back everyday instead. These office ladies are always talking about me in a good way - I want to fuck all of them for a student-teacher award.
It seems like after one girl flirts with me , a bunch begin to follow her and I have to chose who to be with .. Maybe all of them , Probually not
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