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Bitter Cactus
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The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it 1
#22239059 - 09/14/15 10:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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In our society, we are making great leaps with the acceptance of transgender people. I personally have met a few trans people in my life and actually got to touch the tits of one over the shirt (they were fake) and it was an enjoyable experience.
However, would you be comfortable having a sexual relationship with a transgender despite what other people might think?
I think the whole trans thing is one of the whole parts of sexuality I don't completely understand. When you see a transgender person do you pass any judgments or are you completely open minded and accepting? I think I am open minded and accepting but would not consider a full blown relationship unless the person was really down to earth and cool. What about you?
Discuss.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22239066 - 09/14/15 10:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Oh you..
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22239070 - 09/14/15 10:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Nobler Hino] 2
#22239645 - 09/15/15 03:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm sure I'm as prejudiced as the next person, although I don't try to be. Let's be honest here: prejudice is inherent to the human mind and it takes conscious control and conditioning to lose it. Having said that, I believe that transgender people are just people and in essence no different than you or me. They have their own struggles, but so have many people. Nevertheless, I would not consider a sexual relationship with a Transgender. I'm 100% straight and the thought of my woman having been physically a man previously is off putting to me. The social stigma has little or nothing to do with this, it's purely a physical thing. Obviously, I would have no issues associating with Transgenders and I'd be interested in what they want to share about their situation, but wouldn't treat them differently than any of my other friends.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: koraks]
#22239659 - 09/15/15 03:37 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I say do whatever you want. But just know that nature is a cruel mistress and she gets the second to last word.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22239669 - 09/15/15 03:45 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My buddy went to Thailand like four times in one year. Everyone started whispering that they thought he was there for child sex tourism. So he just came out and admitted he's going to see his ladyboy GF. I'm just glad he's not pedophile. If he likes chicks with dicks that's cool by me. Some of them are pretty hot. I don't care what other people think, I would insist on an STD test though as trannies have AIDS in epidemic numbers.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: my3rdeye]
#22239697 - 09/15/15 04:05 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My ex gf was trams. Could give a duck less. The only thing I don't like is I have to walk by her house every day and it bums me out as we broke up over the stupidest most pointless shit
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Enjoywho]
#22239706 - 09/15/15 04:10 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My dad is incredibly homophobic. I told him to go fuck himself when he tried to say something rude as fuck.
All my good friends And family I told. She was a cool ass chick and fuck do I miss her cooking.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Enjoywho]
#22239712 - 09/15/15 04:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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But no I was never ashamed. I honestly miss her we had so much fun this Summer. But what ya gonna do. Just wish I didn't have to walk by her house every day lives like 3 blocks away. Bums me out.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22239728 - 09/15/15 04:25 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I can't really explain my answer without coming off as a condescending asshole. It basically boils down to if they were truly a 10/10 and I couldn't tell they used to be a dude, it wouldn't really bother me. I'm not attracted to females because their chromosomes. So if that is all that set them apart, I don't imagine it'd really bother me.
In a general sense, I don't even have a problem with trans people, I only have a problem with those who have to constantly throw it in everyone's face, and that's not even about the trans part. I hate vegans/vegetarians for the same exact reason.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Shroomslip]
#22239994 - 09/15/15 07:39 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mine still had the Dick. Pretty much feminine in every Single aspect of the word. Obviously had been transitioning for a while. I thought she was beautiful the way she was. She was always talking about the surgeries she was going to have done.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Enjoywho] 2
#22240019 - 09/15/15 07:47 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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we will be fucking robots soon is this really an issue the brave lil toaster bout to take this dick
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: shroominated]
#22240079 - 09/15/15 08:01 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shroominated said: we will be fucking robots soon is this really an issue the brave lil toaster bout to take this dick
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Bitter Cactus
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: JvF]
#22240709 - 09/15/15 10:40 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you were transsexual and still had the dick that would suck if you got an accidently semi or full boner in public.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22241137 - 09/15/15 12:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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all the trans people i know are pretty chill people
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
#22241155 - 09/15/15 12:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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ReposadoXochipilli said: all the trans people i know are pretty chill people
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Bitter Cactus
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Achillita]
#22241191 - 09/15/15 12:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Trans people have to overcome a lot that's for sure. They probs are really down to earth.
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22241208 - 09/15/15 12:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bitter Cactus said: In our society, we are making great leaps with the acceptance of transgender people. I personally have met a few trans people in my life and actually got to touch the tits of one over the shirt (they were fake) and it was an enjoyable experience.
However, would you be comfortable having a sexual relationship with a transgender despite what other people might think?
I think the whole trans thing is one of the whole parts of sexuality I don't completely understand. When you see a transgender person do you pass any judgments or are you completely open minded and accepting? I think I am open minded and accepting but would not consider a full blown relationship unless the person was really down to earth and cool. What about you?
Discuss.
I'm shocked you support this. Most people that are so controlling with in their beliefs towards drugs, also ar strict in other areas such as this. How would you feel if I said being a "trans-gender" should be illegal in this nation?
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#22241222 - 09/15/15 12:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: My ex gf was trams. Could give a duck less. The only thing I don't like is I have to walk by her house every day and it bums me out as we broke up over the stupidest most pointless shit
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Enjoywho said: My dad is incredibly homophobic. I told him to go fuck himself when he tried to say something rude as fuck.
All my good friends And family I told. She was a cool ass chick and fuck do I miss her cooking.
I have a lot of respect for your openness about this.
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Bitter Cactus
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Re: The stigma about transgender people and how you feel about it [Re: Dr.Wongburger]
#22241239 - 09/15/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dr.Wongburger said:
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Bitter Cactus said: In our society, we are making great leaps with the acceptance of transgender people. I personally have met a few trans people in my life and actually got to touch the tits of one over the shirt (they were fake) and it was an enjoyable experience.
However, would you be comfortable having a sexual relationship with a transgender despite what other people might think?
I think the whole trans thing is one of the whole parts of sexuality I don't completely understand. When you see a transgender person do you pass any judgments or are you completely open minded and accepting? I think I am open minded and accepting but would not consider a full blown relationship unless the person was really down to earth and cool. What about you?
Discuss.
I'm shocked you support this. Most people that are so controlling with in their beliefs towards drugs, also ar strict in other areas such as this. How would you feel if I said being a "trans-gender" should be illegal in this nation?
Transgenders are not hurting people.
Drugs hurt people, and making one's that are already tough to find be more accessible is counter intuitive to me.
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