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Babylon
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: azramb]
#26500862 - 02/24/20 03:11 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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I may be misreading this, but it looks to me like the OP desparately, like heroin addict level desparate, wants a woman who will put him in his place. He's playing all macho and patriarchal, in such an over the top way that it reads to me as someone who is actually submissive, but needs someone else to bring that out in them and show them their actual place.
For reference I am involved in kink, and have been my entire adulthood, I am dominant, and I am a man, and I prefer dominating women. I don't think men or women are any more naturally dominant, some men are dominant, some are submissive, some switch, and some do best in an equal relationship, same applies to women and to nonbinary folks.
I've seen people acting the way the OP acts, and what they are usually called is brats, they want someone to call them on their bullshit and put them in line.
I may be wrong, and I'm not who he is looking for anyways as he clearly wants a woman to put him in line.
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azramb
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Babylon]
#26500865 - 02/24/20 03:17 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Who knows, he just doing what he b doing lol.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Babylon]
#26547831 - 03/20/20 11:52 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Babylon said: I may be misreading this, but it looks to me like the OP desparately, like heroin addict level desparate, wants a woman who will put him in his place. He's playing all macho and patriarchal, in such an over the top way that it reads to me as someone who is actually submissive, but needs someone else to bring that out in them and show them their actual place.
For reference I am involved in kink, and have been my entire adulthood, I am dominant, and I am a man, and I prefer dominating women. I don't think men or women are any more naturally dominant, some men are dominant, some are submissive, some switch, and some do best in an equal relationship, same applies to women and to nonbinary folks.
I've seen people acting the way the OP acts, and what they are usually called is brats, they want someone to call them on their bullshit and put them in line.
I may be wrong, and I'm not who he is looking for anyways as he clearly wants a woman to put him in line.
No.
I am a sadomasochist. I like electricity, both giving and receiving pain.
-------------------- I base my morality on physical nature; and my personal philosophy is based in power.
Edited by Mr. Material (03/28/20 02:04 AM)
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Mr. Material
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: moonrockmushy]
#26547838 - 03/20/20 11:56 PM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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moonrockmushy said: It's still a weird thing to me to consider a relationship where seduction and violence are the first things that come to mind. What about dignity, loyalty, and respect? Where do those fit in to your world view?
dignity
dig·ni·ty | \ ˈdig-nə-tē \ plural dignities Definition of dignity 1: formal reserve or seriousness of manner, appearance, or language 2: the quality or state of being worthy, honored, or esteemed 3a: high rank, office, or position b: a legal title of nobility or honor
There is no dignity between men and women. That is my opinion.
Loyalty = is simply compromise.
Respect = a reflection of shared values.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: pirate-blues]
#26547860 - 03/21/20 12:12 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: How do you get things you want with a foundation of violence? What things? I have no idea how to unpack this because I don't really understand what you're saying and how it applies to the world we live in. What kind of savage life are you living here?
I'm an American.
Food? When you cut into a steak - didn't that cow have to die?
Or maybe you are vegan - someone else had to work really hard, for very shitty pay, to pick those fruits or veggies.
I'm taking that away. If you didn't have the nice things civilized society gave you and were forced to start from rock bottom, how would you do?
I think that modern man is just going along to get along; following socially engineered trends that dictate his mannerisms, ideals, beliefs and even how he dresses.
Whoever reading this might look up from there screen and just think - nobody is influencing my thoughts/actions/beliefs - but that is just another layer of conditioning.
In my opinion every man is an animal under Russian Doll like layers of societal conditioning and charades.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Amanita86]
#26547867 - 03/21/20 12:20 AM (3 years, 10 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: Hello new person I’ve never met before. How are you?
I am well, thank you.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Babylon]
#26559854 - 03/26/20 07:23 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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Babylon said: I may be misreading this, but it looks to me like the OP desparately, like heroin addict level desparate, wants a woman who will put him in his place. He's playing all macho and patriarchal, in such an over the top way that it reads to me as someone who is actually submissive, but needs someone else to bring that out in them and show them their actual place.
No response?
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Asante
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Mr. Material] 1
#26559933 - 03/26/20 07:57 PM (3 years, 9 months ago) |
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An example of the Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic:
We all know a couple like this.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Mr. Material]
#27392693 - 07/18/21 04:58 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've learned a lot about myself since this original post.
In the BDSM world I'm a PRIMAL HUNTER and I no longer care about power exchange at all. I'm only after a deeper connection. That is all.
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Amanita86]
#27392696 - 07/18/21 05:01 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: What kind of savage life are you living here?
Exactly. 
Exactly.Quote:
Amanita86 said: Hello new person I’ve never met before. How are you?
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twighead
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Mr. Material] 1
#27395879 - 07/20/21 10:51 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: twighead] 3
#27395897 - 07/20/21 11:10 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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They were spot on!
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chopstick
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: PatrickKn]
#27396196 - 07/21/21 07:35 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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what in the flying fuck is this thread
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Crazy_Horse
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: chopstick] 1
#27396218 - 07/21/21 07:58 AM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Asante
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Mr. Material]
#27396585 - 07/21/21 12:48 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mr. Material said:
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Re: Total Power Exchange = Natural Human Male/Female Dynamic [Re: Asante]
#27397290 - 07/21/21 10:02 PM (2 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mr Material is a house cat with dreams of being a tiger.
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