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Anonymous #1
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Need to Be Friends with Them
#22226146 - 09/12/15 08:36 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I need some serious real advice right now. I met these girls recently at a event. Basically we all got high on drugs and had a hell of a time and it was amazing. The first day of the event ended and we all hugged and said we would meet each other for day 2. I'm unbelievably excited that I met these girl, what could possibly be better then befriending an entire group of cute single girls who are basically into the same things I'm into?
So I met this girl in line for the event, let's call her "J". We talked, laughed, and conversed and we automatically clicked and we agreed that once we got into the event we would hang out and do drugs together. We got in, I sold her drugs and she gave me a finger dip and I met her friends. We all had an amazing time and J had given me her number and we hadn't necessarily 100% agreed to meet for Day 2 but we had pretty much said "let's meet up tomorrow."
So day 2 comes around and I receive mixed signals from J via texts. I tell her I'm going to show up at around 3 and she tells me she is going to show up a bit earlier because her friends want to. She then tells me that she probably won't have any service so she might not be able to call or text me and says that she hopes we can run into each other... this is basically hinting at that she thinks we probably aren't going to meet. I start becoming worried because I've grown emotionally attached to these girls and want to desperately see them.
So basically I get there and I call and text them a bunch of times and I don't get any responses. She Texts me back once replying to my "were r u guys?" Text with "Chilling in the shade right before Snails". So me and my friends go to snails and we basically can't find them so I basically just give up and try to enjoy the remainder of the event without them. And I did because I had my friends and girlfriend there so it ended being good without J and her friends.
After the event is over I text J this "Hey it sucks that we didn't get to see each other today Hopefully we can go to some *insert event name* soon and roll and chill together."
She replied "Yeah sorry we didn't end up being able to meet up, but yes *insert event name* foresure! It was nice meeting you man"
I replied "Yeah it was nice meeting you too, you made *insert event name* pretty awesome for me so thanks. Hope we can see each soon at some *insert venue name* shows.
She replied "It was a good time, had a lot of fun
EDIT: She gave me her number.... that is supposed to mean she is somewhat attached to me right? I'm not saying she is in love with me because I'm not looking to date J but if she gave me her number it must mean she could be looking to do more than just hang out for one day at a Fest. It basically means she might want to be friends right? I didn't even ask her for her #.
Edited by Anonymous (09/12/15 08:40 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22231455 - 09/13/15 12:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Aahhhhhh I don't know how much I would read into a girl giving you her number. It's almost like handing out your mailing address at state fairs. It's fun in the moment, but if it doesn't lead to anything else, we're not too upset by it.
Obviously she did enjoy spending time with you, but it could be that she's the type to kind of not really worry about holding on to long distance relationships. I have to admit, I fall into this category. If I don't see a person on a day to day basis, or out of the convenience of work, school, etc., I don't usually make a hardcore effort to stay in touch. It's not that I don't like them, but it's much easier for me to show my appreciation for those who I'm physically close to. Sort of an "out of sight, out of mind" phenomenon.
I guess the bottom line here is that you might put a lot of work into hanging out with this girl again and not necessarily have it pan out. I think if you bump into each other, she'll probably be down to hang out and will enjoy your company, but if it conflicts with plans she makes with friends she attends the events with, she might let those override others.
-lutece
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#22234801 - 09/13/15 10:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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forget it dude, sorry .
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #3]
#22234806 - 09/13/15 10:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nah ur wrong
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22235028 - 09/13/15 11:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I mean, its a start... but dont get ahead of yourself padawan
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #4]
#22235870 - 09/14/15 10:09 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Giving out her number just means she wants to stay in contact, maybe for some other events or for drugs. It does not mean she wants to date you.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #5]
#22235928 - 09/14/15 10:24 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I already have a girlfriend bro.
I only want to be her friend and hang out with her. I have no interest in dating her to be honest. She is cute and super sweet but I want her as a friend. She is literally one of the coolest girls I have ever met in my entire life and I would love to have that person around as a friend for many years to come
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22236115 - 09/14/15 11:12 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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then just see how it goes if there's no ulterior motive then I doubt she'd object to doing more of the same stuff... I mean its not that challenging really
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #3]
#22238735 - 09/14/15 09:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: forget it dude, sorry .
You should have had your girlfriend bring them into your circle. How does she feel about you getting emotionally attached to the idea of having hot single girls that you just met as friends?
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #6]
#22239287 - 09/14/15 11:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like she just wanted ur drugs.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #7]
#22260950 - 09/19/15 04:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I figured out how to do it.
I Shroomed yesterday and mushrooms taught me what I needed to know and how to make her my friend
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22260970 - 09/19/15 04:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ok.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #7]
#22261034 - 09/19/15 04:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds weird but the mushrooms taught me that the girl im currently with is not the girl I want to be with. The girl I want to be with is J. J is the one, me and her click and understand each other.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22261237 - 09/19/15 05:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Oh ok.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #7]
#22263188 - 09/20/15 01:43 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #6]
#22264366 - 09/20/15 11:29 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Make sure you're serious, and aren't doing something you're gonna regret
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Need to Be Friends with Them [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22267974 - 09/21/15 03:04 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I already have a girlfriend bro.
I only want to be her friend and hang out with her. I have no interest in dating her to be honest. She is cute and super sweet but I want her as a friend. She is literally one of the coolest girls I have ever met in my entire life and I would love to have that person around as a friend for many years to come
You're freaking out wayyyyy to hard over this bro haha I've seen it a million times. You roll with someone and have the time of your life and you become so attached to that person because of how strong a bond MDMA makes that it almost becomes borderline obsessive. You just gotta let it go and realize you were on the love drug my dude
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