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InvisibleSwami
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Have a nice day! (winter rerun)
    #2221126 - 01/05/04 07:04 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

What is this "social nicety" about? A command, a wish or what?

Well what if I want to have a miserable day? What if I want to grump about snarling at small children and old ladies? What if I want to have my own private pity-party? AM I NOT ALLOWED?

Does wishing someone a nice day rain gifts down on them, bring them luck, get them a new job or even a new attitude?

Swami: *Gak!*

Nosey bystander: "God bless you!" *glows with pride for being the first respondent*

Swami: It was a cough, not a sneeze.

Nosey bystander: Oh, I'm sorry.

Swami: You are sorry for blessing me and NOW YOU WANT TO TAKE IT BACK?


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221145 - 01/05/04 07:11 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Fuck off then!  :mad:





















Just kidding!  :lol:


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: ]
    #2221148 - 01/05/04 07:12 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

your presence is cordially requested in OTD :grin:


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: ]
    #2221153 - 01/05/04 07:14 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Well, what if I want to have a wonderful day? What if I want to smile at small children and old ladies? What if I want to dance in the streets and have a celebration and invite all my friends? AM I NOT ALLOWED?


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221163 - 01/05/04 07:19 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Have a day...


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221164 - 01/05/04 07:19 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Quit yer bitchin'!  Oh, and have a nice day. :grin:


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221179 - 01/05/04 07:26 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Seriously?

I suppose everyone is entitled to so whatever they want as long as it doesn't harm someone else. And there should be a strict definition for what 'harm' is.

Is a person's well wishing harming you?

I seriously doubt it.

I reserve statements such as the ones you mention to people close to me. I don't randomly 'bless' anyone. How do I know they aren't an axe murderer? I really don't want an axe murderer to have a nice day.

I'm small that way.


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221442 - 01/05/04 09:31 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Yes, Swami, I give you permission to have whatever kind of day you want to have, within the bounds of reason and good etiquette. What's that, you want to have a day outside the bounds of reason and etiquette? Nope, sorry, not allowed. 'Cause I said so, kid.


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221455 - 01/05/04 09:36 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

geez swami, you're acting as if the definition of the word "nice" has some kind of objective meaning which is an eternal postulate :smile:


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221583 - 01/05/04 10:46 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Common courtesy....I like it when someone extends that courtesy in return or otherwise. It shows respect, and I value respect highly in others--respect for themselves, and respect for others. They may not genuinely mean it, but it's still a nice gesture...it shows that at least they're trying, and cares about what other people think and so on.


Edit: OH, and Have a nice fuckin day! :grin:


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Edited by SkorpivoMusterion (01/05/04 10:47 PM)


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: ]
    #2221595 - 01/05/04 10:49 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Is a person's well wishing harming you?

No, but I seriously doubt the checkout clerk gives a damn about my day just because I shopped at Pik & Flik. It is the robotic insincerity which I find tiresome.

As I stated in my first post, "I wish everyone now and for all future generations a nice life." Now I don't ever have to say that stupid and meaningless "nicety" ever again. Yup - even axe murderers else this "blessing" would take thousands of pages so I am making it all inclusive.

Thank you. (Oops - there is another trite social nicety!)

How about when someone wishes you a "good morning" checks their watch and notices that it is now 12:03 PM and then apologizes for wishing you a "good morning" and takes it back? It is my "good morning" now, you jerk-off, and NO you can't have it back!

Hey - I am starting to feel better...


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: SkorpivoMusterion]
    #2221597 - 01/05/04 10:51 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

On this thread, I'll agree with you, Skorpivo.

I had to force myself to learn to use social amenities. I felt like they were a waste of time. I didn't have patience for them. Then someone explained to me that they are a form of decorum in which we have to engage, sort of like showing your hands to show I have no weapons. To show you care about people.

So, I make myself slow down, and say "how are you?", and schitt like that, before I get down to business.


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: lucid]
    #2221599 - 01/05/04 10:52 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I'll take a case wrap them in years


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: SkorpivoMusterion]
    #2221602 - 01/05/04 10:53 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

OH, and Have a nice fuckin day!

Well, that IS different. Now at least, you are wishing me some sexual pleasure.


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221607 - 01/05/04 10:56 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I work a job where I end up in the position of saying "have a nice ___" to a lot of people.  I have quit doing this for days at a time in the past, sort of as a sociological experiment.  I noticed that the vast majority of people were negatively effected by this, or at least thats what I got from their mannerisms/ facial expressions. 

I guess "have a nice day" is pretty meaningless, but it effects most people positively, even if only a little, so I do it anyway. 

"have a nice day" has even effected you positively, SWAMI- its given you this wonderful issue to turn over in your mind, which you gave back to the world in the form of this asskickin thread.  Have a nice day, indeed. :smile:


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Frog]
    #2221611 - 01/05/04 10:59 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

sort of like showing your hands to show I have no weapons
Do you shop in the ghetto?

So, I make myself slow down, and say "how are you?", and schitt like that, before I get down to business.
Don't get me started on foreplay...


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221629 - 01/05/04 11:08 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

  :grin:



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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Frog]
    #2221651 - 01/05/04 11:15 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

No fair. You have a stock of cool emoticons and I don't. *pouts*


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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Swami]
    #2221668 - 01/05/04 11:22 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)



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Re: Have a nice day! (winter rerun) [Re: Frog]
    #2221754 - 01/05/04 11:58 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Thanks - that really made my day.  :wink:


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