Home | Community | Message Board


This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.


Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Shop: Bridgetown Botanicals Bridgetown Botanicals   Kraken Kratom Red Vein Kratom   Left Coast Kratom Buy Kratom Extract   Mushroom-Hut Mono Tub Substrate   North Spore North Spore Mushroom Grow Kits & Cultivation Supplies   Original Sensible Seeds Autoflowering Cannabis Seeds

Jump to first unread post Pages: 1
OfflineMarc11
drugs


Registered: 01/10/13
Posts: 280
Last seen: 1 year, 9 months
Drugs vs. Relationship
    #22206454 - 09/08/15 09:59 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

So recently I've been doubting my relationship quite a bit. I've also stopped using drugs not entirely but I've been doing nothing compared to what I used to. I used to do xanax sooo much but I haven't done a bar in like 3 weeks which fucking sucks it's probably the longest I've gone in a long time but I still don't stop thinking about drugs and most of the times when I am using I keep myself under control but that is harder to when you're in a relationship. Most of my drug connections are gone now because I spend most of my time with my girl now and I hardly have time to go anywhere and cop some drugs before my gf is wondering where I am.

I really can't see my friends either because my girlfriend disapproves of them. Some of them are just kind of weird and not even drug users or bad influences but anyway I feel trapped I hate being without pills for more than a couple weeks my acid reflex gets really bad.

And I just feel like benzos everyonce in a whileand being able to chill with your friends and being able to fuck other girls is better than just being trapped in a relationship where I rarely get to drugs we do them sometime but I'm never able to get good connects and I knew I would if I was hanging around with people and spending less time with my gf.

Sometimes I don't feel love for her but sometimes I do it's so confusing I don't really know what I want. Sometimes she's rude to me and shows a complete lack of respect that really sinks my soul. I just want to be free but I'm not sure if that's what's best for me.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflinePed
Interested In Your Brain
 User Gallery

Folding@home Statistics
Registered: 08/30/99
Posts: 5,494
Loc: Canada
Last seen: 7 years, 1 month
Re: Drugs vs. Relationship [Re: Marc11] * 2
    #22208279 - 09/08/15 05:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Well, it seems unlikely that many people look back on their lives and think "I sure regret choosing that relationship over the drugs."  The opposite sentiment, however, is so common as to be cliché.  Be that as it may, it sure sounds like the relationship suffers from some significant blocks, and that perhaps these blocks are generating nostalgia for a time when drug use was an effortless decision with abundant resources behind it.

In any case, from this angle it appears the relationship requires some examination.  If it is not fulfilling for you, and if it's causing you to fantasize about past fulfilments--especially those drug-related--it probably means that the relationship either requires effort to revitalize, or a reconsideration of its parameters.  In other words, if drug use and casual sex are appearing more valuable and more meaningful than the relationship, it means the relationship needs to be evaluated for its potential improvement.


--------------------


:poison: Dark Triangles - New Psychedelic Techno Single - Listen on Soundcloud :poison:
Gyroscope full album available SoundCloud or MySpace


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineHamHead
Hard Ass Motherfucker
Male


Registered: 03/17/15
Posts: 6,107
Loc: Galactic sector ZZ9 Plura...
Last seen: 2 years, 8 months
Re: Drugs vs. Relationship [Re: Ped]
    #22229957 - 09/13/15 04:48 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I'm in a similar situation though I've only quit cannabis and psilocybin mushroom because of a girlfriend. She is Buddhist and feels that all drugs are bad and people only take them for a false sense of happiness. She is much younger than I am and has never tripped on mushroom so I feel that she will never understand where I'm coming from when I talk about tripping. It's been about 2 months since my last trip and about five weeks since I last smoked any cannabis.

I feel fine and all but I find myself thinking of getting stoned or tripping from time to time, though I never do in fear of pissing her off. We spend a lot of time together mainly because we work together with the same schedule so we carpool almost every day as well as sleep at each others homes. I may only get a day to myself once a week or so and even though she says it's ok for me to smoke, I still don't because I don't want to upset her.

Tripping is pretty much out of the question though we do talk about it from time to time, she says to be my self but I still can't get past the feeling of upsetting her because I want to trip or smoke.

I'm ok with being sober but fuck, tripping is so much fun, I can't help but want to dive down the rabbit hole every once in a while.


--------------------
The Italian researchers’ findings, published by the INT’s scientific magazine Tumori Journal, show 11.6% of 959 healthy volunteers enrolled in a lung cancer screening trial between September 2019 and March 2020 had developed coronavirus antibodies well before February.

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-health-coronavirus-italy-timing-idUSKBN27V0KF

This online first version has been peer-reviewed, accepted and edited,  but not formatted and finalized with corrections from authors and proofreaders

https://www.icandecide.org/


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineMarc11
drugs


Registered: 01/10/13
Posts: 280
Last seen: 1 year, 9 months
Re: Drugs vs. Relationship [Re: HamHead]
    #22230094 - 09/13/15 06:41 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

HamHead said:
I'm in a similar situation though I've only quit cannabis and psilocybin mushroom because of a girlfriend. She is Buddhist and feels that all drugs are bad and people only take them for a false sense of happiness. She is much younger than I am and has never tripped on mushroom so I feel that she will never understand where I'm coming from when I talk about tripping. It's been about 2 months since my last trip and about five weeks since I last smoked any cannabis.

I feel fine and all but I find myself thinking of getting stoned or tripping from time to time, though I never do in fear of pissing her off. We spend a lot of time together mainly because we work together with the same schedule so we carpool almost every day as well as sleep at each others homes. I may only get a day to myself once a week or so and even though she says it's ok for me to smoke, I still don't because I don't want to upset her.

Tripping is pretty much out of the question though we do talk about it from time to time, she says to be my self but I still can't get past the feeling of upsetting her because I want to trip or smoke.

I'm ok with being sober but fuck, tripping is so much fun, I can't help but want to dive down the rabbit hole every once in a while.




I decided to stay with my girlfriend wow that sucks dude you can't even smoke because of your girl my girlfriend will smoke with me everyday and doing hard drugs/psychadelics are alright with her as long as we do them together and not that often. We talked about a lot of things and our relationship is great now. I regret wanting to break up with her. I could not be with a girl that wouldn't let me smoke weed that's some bullshit.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: 1

Shop: Bridgetown Botanicals Bridgetown Botanicals   Kraken Kratom Red Vein Kratom   Left Coast Kratom Buy Kratom Extract   Mushroom-Hut Mono Tub Substrate   North Spore North Spore Mushroom Grow Kits & Cultivation Supplies   Original Sensible Seeds Autoflowering Cannabis Seeds


Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* Ex-Girlfriend back in my life...
( 1 2 all )
Psilozero 5,663 22 12/06/03 03:39 PM
by psikooz
* Relationship and psychedelics? *update* Toolman 2,266 17 04/11/04 02:22 PM
by Gus
* Rant: relationships Anonymous 1,355 6 11/03/04 07:54 PM
by Anonymous
* An email to my girlfriend
( 1 2 3 all )
Meph 8,519 54 06/20/03 10:13 PM
by Meph
* from friend to girlfriend Anonymous 1,268 4 10/28/03 07:43 PM
by daba
* Getting over girlfriend kroum 1,194 7 04/07/04 03:24 PM
by Anonymous
* Why wont my Girlfriend talk to me? doesnt she love me? *DELETED*
( 1 2 3 4 5 6 all )
Yeti_009 17,194 106 08/07/03 03:19 PM
by neutralizer
* I'm wrecking my relationship with my girlfriend. Tasty_Smurf_House 1,076 8 09/02/04 04:02 PM
by Northernsoul

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: CherryBom, Rose, mndfreeze, yogabunny, feevers, CookieCrumbs, Northerner
405 topic views. 0 members, 2 guests and 4 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2024 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.027 seconds spending 0.01 seconds on 15 queries.