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Low-sex Drive
    #22206244 - 09/08/15 08:55 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Recently, my sex drive has been lowered dramatically.  I am only 22 years old and consider myself a sexual creature so this is very upsetting to me.  It's been affecting my relationship with my girlfriend as well, she says its alright and is very supportive, but she is just trying to be nice about it.  I'm getting sick of saying "Not tonight honey.."

Even when I am horny and want to fuck, half the time I am having a hard time getting hard and/or maintaining an erection.  This is the worst part about all of this, getting her all riled up and then being unable to perform the deed.  I am insanely attracted to her, so that's not the problem.  This is really stressing me out as I am really into this girl and want to be able to please her.

This is the first time I've ever had this problem.  We just started dating about 2 months ago, she ended up living with me for the summer.  But for the 6 months prior to that, I was boozin' and womanizing and had NO problems with this.  I recently quit the booze and am working on quitting cigarettes.  Trying to get back into exercising more as well.

What can I do to boost my libido back up?  Has anyone else had similar problems?  I thought this was a problem mostly older men suffered from..


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22206264 - 09/08/15 09:00 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Shit man that sucks there must be something on your mind...

maybe do foreplay for 30mins get in the mood at let everything else go.

Maybe stress at work or quitting the alcohol must be something bothering you.

get some pills for your dick make it stand tall man an give your girl
that hard fuck she deserves.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22206290 - 09/08/15 09:08 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Firstly, Go see a doctor. If everything checks out physically, go on the dark net markets and pick up some cialis. Start with a normal dose and slowly reduce it over time until you get to zero.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Cujllickduo]
    #22206300 - 09/08/15 09:12 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

JustAnotherFreak said:
Maybe stress at work or quitting the alcohol must be something bothering you.




Stress or depression is a common cause indeed. OP, is anything bothering you?
Also keep in mind that the problem can make itself worse if you keep stressing over this. It may help to realize that libido is generally something that comes and goes; nearly nobody is permanently horny. Most of us go through phases of higher and lower sex drive. This is normal and is not a problem. Be confident that your sex drive will return. Also keep in mind that sex is like a muscle and needs to be exercised. Even if you don't really feel very horny, it's important to engage in sexual acts regularly if you're in a relationship, as it promotes bonding and also influences your hormone levels, making it easier to work up a sexual appetite.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: koraks]
    #22206345 - 09/08/15 09:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

:whathesaid:


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Cujllickduo]
    #22208687 - 09/08/15 06:35 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

JustAnotherFreak said:
give your girl that hard fuck she deserves.




yeah, or somebody else will.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Lucis]
    #22208739 - 09/08/15 06:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I am 25 and have this problem at times as well. I think it may have been the alcohol. I was pretty much a borderline alcoholic but wouldn't get hard often. I have now slown down the drinking considerably and now just smoke mostly and get hard more often.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Sade]
    #22216351 - 09/10/15 10:51 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Did you used to drink a lot of beer?


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #22218001 - 09/10/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
Did you used to drink a lot of beer?



yes.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: TheMovement]
    #22218439 - 09/10/15 07:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Do you get enough physical activity throughout the day?
Sometimes this helps regulate hormones.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: mindfckery]
    #22219055 - 09/10/15 09:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You need to get out and do things. I just went and got a full time job at an oyster farm. That was a huge uplifter. Getting outside is even a must. Sorry didn't read earlier but I'm 25 and was suffering the same way. So I meant to change it. Staying in a room couped up is jot the answer. Set goals and accomplish one after another.


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Re: Low-sex Drive [Re: Sade]
    #22227276 - 09/12/15 02:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You will cycle up and down with how horny you are. Take into consideration your mood, do you like your job, are you stressed by finances - not just drugs, food, water and exercise. Also the more you think about it the worse it gets. I've battled with erection problems my entire sex life and honestly the biggest thing that helps is to talk to her about it. Talk about it like it's no big deal and that you're just feeling strange and need to take it slow or whatever you really need. Be honestly and be diminutive about how you talk about the issue. This give you control over the issue and doesn't make you feel helpless which is an important step to overcome the problem.

For example "oh I'm just feeling low-energy and it's affecting me" or "I'm stressed from _____ and not feeling right so let's just take things slow tonight" Say what you need to and give yourself some room to forgive yourself and be okay with the fact that this is happening. Don't just say "on not tonight, baby" because that doesn't tell her what's actually going on. She will start to wonder why you won't have sex and speaking from experience most people will assume it's something THEY have done to turn you off of them. You want her to know you find her sexy as hell which you do. Giving yourself a little buffer from your anxiety about the situation and commnicating the issue with your partner will allow you space to move around and get over this.

If I was having a night like this and having anxiety about the situation I would say something. Then either cuddle and talk about something besides sex. Anything. Eventually I would feel better and maybe we would be laughing and petting or kissing a little. Going down on someone or giving a massage usually turns me on even when I am not feeling horny. Just focusing my attention on her makes me feel good. Then if you're still not rock hard by then just grab her and make her go down on you until you are. put it in and bam you're having sex. problem solved

Try things. Try not masturbating to give you more sexual energy. Find out what makes you attracted to her and focus on it. Do you like skirts? Certain tops? Tell her you think she is sexy when she wears that and get her to wear it. Go out and do something fun and new. Touch her a lot. Feel her up, especially in public or where you're not supposed to if that works for you. I use the entire day as foreplay when I know I'm going to see my girl. That means texting, touching on the date, the things you say...it gets you both riled up and excited for what comes later.

Go do something fun just for yourself or do something you're proud of. Finish a project or do something awesome. Uplift your spirits.

Just know that this is just a short phase and hard work and a change in something will move you past this.


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