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Anonymous #15
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #12]
#22297424 - 09/27/15 08:51 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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sounds like something a child molester would say.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #15]
#22297431 - 09/27/15 08:52 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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"Here, have some 2nd degree burns, and while you're at it, lemme see that vagina!"
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Anonymous #13
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #12]
#22298388 - 09/27/15 12:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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dude, you sound totally creepy. I can't believe this even went through your head.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #13]
#22348562 - 10/08/15 03:21 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like a fucking pedo insest dad. Did you find anything out yet?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #16]
#22348568 - 10/08/15 03:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If nothing has been done yet, I think this is a troll post. I know I was advocating not just blindly accusing him, but there's a limit. If you haven't be able to find places to find credible evidence, it's time to make the call. If you were gonna be able to it, would've by now. Time the shit is dealt with.
Edited by Anonymous (10/08/15 03:44 AM)
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Anonymous #16
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #2]
#22348573 - 10/08/15 03:27 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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What if they're just a weird happy family and you sit their asking if their dad ever raped them and they seriously pissed off
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Anonymous #17
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #16] 1
#22348589 - 10/08/15 03:42 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I really hope op did something about this. That doll, those markings, those specific words, that is a clear red flag!!!holy shit how could you pass up that. That is NOT normal behavior for a seven year old to look over. Please, thus is not something to forget about you could be saving someone's life.
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Anonymous #18
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #9]
#22474785 - 11/04/15 07:23 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #9 said: This is taking too long. OP, Call child protective services. Now! If you wish to remain anonymous you can but you need to tell them everything you know. What's most important is getting them away from the abuser. I understand others arguments that are against or hesitant in moving forward with this action but this situation is dire and needs to be taken care of. I'm not a fan of CPS but this needs to be done in this situation. Don't call the police let the CPS handle such things. Calling the police first may elongate the process and give him time to do more damage. If they wish to speak to you in person, tell them you want to be granted immunity first, take no exceptions.
Terrible fucking advice.
Have you ever actually called CPS? I have, and it is a BIG MISTAKE unless you are fairly sure they will find something right away.
All CPS does is take down your report, then they do a home visit. However, they will CALL the father first, and SET UP A DATE FOR THE VISIT. This gives the father EVERY CHANCE IN THE WORLD to hide anything out of the norm, and scare the living crap out of the girls if they talk.
Don't think the CPS person is likely to see signs of abuse , and everything will be exposed. You are FAR, FAR more likely to witness the Dad act perfectly normal, the kids not say much, and the CPS person come and go, with no follow up.
I'm saying this based on actual EXPERIENCE. I also have a friend who works for CPS, and she notices this day in and day out.
Please, wait before you call CPS....you could end up causing the Dad to cover his tracks, and then he will likely figure out the possible people who might have called (you) and remove you from the families life.
Be smart. Start snooping first, but DONT get caught. Start talking to the girls....and bring a recorder with you in case they start to open up.
You need to have evidence before you go to CPS, NOT a suspicion, or nothing will get done.
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Anonymous #19
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #18]
#22484666 - 11/06/15 07:09 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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This really sounds like a molester to me.
Update?
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Anonymous #20
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #19]
#22484776 - 11/06/15 07:50 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP, just get back under your bridge !!!!
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Anonymous #9
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #18]
#22544235 - 11/18/15 09:39 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nothing you said was helpful. I've worked with an agency quite similar to CPS. CPS does not set a date up with the accuser for a serious accusation... that's illogical, laughable, and it endangers the child. Just because it's subjective at this point does not mean it won't be taken super seriously. It's been over 2 months, it's time.
OP: I hope guilt is around your neck like a noose... because at this point, you're enabling it.
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Anonymous #21
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #4]
#22546504 - 11/19/15 12:06 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #4 said:
There is no telling what he might do if he feels his back is to the wall.
Do be careful yourself as you are dealing with an issue that has been known to end in violence and in death. If what you suspect is true then the perp could be a very dangerous person.
I'd be tempted to talk to both a cop and a social worker just to get advice without letting on who you are to begin with. There are also organizations that exist to help deal with these things. Get some professional help and advice, and that dosen't include a bunch of comments on a mushroom site (as good as some of those comments actually are). This is too serious an issue to approach it with nothing but strangers' advice.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: need some serious advice regarding possibly sexual abuse [Re: Anonymous #21]
#22546517 - 11/19/15 12:09 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP, update please?
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