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sanchothestoner
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weird vibes from my ex
#22200536 - 09/07/15 03:17 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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sooo i just got back from hanging out with my ex.... we went into the town it totally felt like we were a couple. she was holding onto my arm while we were walking and when we got to her place we were laying together on her bed, pretty much spooning. then we went back into town for pizza, and it totally felt like a date. we spent the past like 10 hours together. and for the past like 4 hours we've been cuddling in her bed. idk even though i really enjoyed that, i'm damn confused now....
we dated for like a year and a half and we really loved each other, but i was really fucked up on drugs so she bounced. we both got accepted to humboldt and now we're here, living down the hall from each other. i definitely still have feelings for her because i can be myself around her and she's really awesome. i felt a connection between us tonight but idk what to do. part of me wants to talk to her, part of me just wants to keep quite and play it cool.
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I'm guessing she broke up with you.
So here's what you do: Don't blow it. Maybe she sees a change in you and wants to give it another go. All you have to do is simply not get strung out on shit like you have in the past. Up to you, what's more important to you? Her, or constantly getting shitfaced?
Whatever is going on or why, it would seem like she's wanting to rekindle things. Take it slow, but show definite interest. If she left you because of drug use, she's going to be wary and isn't going to want just rush into things. If this type of shit keeps up for a week or two, maybe it's time to broach the subject of where this is heading.
I dunno how long the two of you have been to school together. It's entirely possible she's just in an unfamiliar environment and you act as sort of a comfort blanket. It could be it all means nothing and she's just grasping onto something she knows for security.
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sanchothestoner
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Re: weird vibes from my ex [Re: Shroomslip]
#22200544 - 09/07/15 03:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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i have thought of everything you just said. i've been clean for a while and i'm really clear headed now, it's awesome. i don't think she's using me for comfort like you said cause her roommate is from the same area as us. all 3 of us are really good friends, plus my ex isn't really the type to get anxious or anything. she loves it up here.
i think i'm just gonna chill out. i'm gonna see her tomorrow so we'll see how that goes. not gonna make any moves or anything, just gonna hang out with her like nothing happened.
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sanchothestoner said: i have thought of everything you just said. i've been clean for a while and i'm really clear headed now, it's awesome. i don't think she's using me for comfort like you said cause her roommate is from the same area as us. all 3 of us are really good friends, plus my ex isn't really the type to get anxious or anything. she loves it up here.
i think i'm just gonna chill out. i'm gonna see her tomorrow so we'll see how that goes. not gonna make any moves or anything, just gonna hang out with her like nothing happened.
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Prisoner#1 said: dont live a life filled with regrets
seriously. think about this
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u spooned for 4 hours and couldn't get an erection? im sure she has gf's she can cuddle with, im almost positive if a girl spoons with you it means either she wants you to hit it or she wants to put a strapon on and hit you. it really depends on how u were cuddling, was she the top or bottom?
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Lots of spooning. No forking.
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Re: weird vibes from my ex [Re: koods] 1
#22200758 - 09/07/15 06:59 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You should totally give it another shot.
Ask her what's up and say you are a new man and that last night made you feel a strong connection to her that has given him new insight on the relationship you both share. Be like "hey I really miss spending time with you and being together and last night was awesome and I wanna be a together again and make it work this time".
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Re: weird vibes from my ex [Re: Janky Tits]
#22201406 - 09/07/15 10:41 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: u spooned for 4 hours and couldn't get an erection? im sure she has gf's she can cuddle with, im almost positive if a girl spoons with you it means either she wants you to hit it or she wants to put a strapon on and hit you. it really depends on how u were cuddling, was she the top or bottom?
i wasn't trying to get an erection. i did try to kiss her but she said something like "not now this is just a cuddle sesh," and she had a big smile on her face but her like.... i know that smile, it means she's happy. and we cuddled a few different ways.... don't really know what you mean by top or bottom though....
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Xplicit RelapzZ said: You should totally give it another shot.
Ask her what's up and say you are a new man and that last night made you feel a strong connection to her that has given him new insight on the relationship you both share. Be like "hey I really miss spending time with you and being together and last night was awesome and I wanna be a together again and make it work this time".
this is precisely what i was gonna do. she can see that i've changed, i've seen it. the only thing is.... i've tried to get her back before but i was fucked up on drugs and really out of it, mentally. so i'm kind of hesitant to go for it again, but like it totally seems she's down or something. one of my friends said that he feels that whatever we had isn't over yet
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thats how it is with exes. until you completely move on and don't hang out ever again there will always be that physical pull, that inclination to touch, hold, bang. never dies, the desire never leaves.
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Hang out, have fun, hook up
DO NOT bring up being in a relationship. That's not your job, it's hers. And she was ready for sex but you were too beta to go for it.
Read 3% man dude. You're going to fuck it up I can already tell
Don't contact her constantly. Set a date with her once a week and leave it at that. If you constantly contact/ text her she's going to see that as needy behavior and dump you again.
Go about your life and your purpose and she will come to you if she's interested.
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RanOutOfWeed said: Hang out, have fun, hook up
DO NOT bring up being in a relationship. That's not your job, it's hers. And she was ready for sex but you were too beta to go for it.
Read 3% man dude. You're going to fuck it up I can already tell
Don't contact her constantly. Set a date with her once a week and leave it at that. If you constantly contact/ text her she's going to see that as needy behavior and dump you again.
Go about your life and your purpose and she will come to you if she's interested.
 I just came from another thread where I jokingly said you sound like a redpiller. Damn you're the gift that keeps on giving!
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RanOutOfWeed said: Hang out, have fun, hook up
DO NOT bring up being in a relationship. That's not your job, it's hers. And she was ready for sex but you were too beta to go for it.
Read 3% man dude. You're going to fuck it up I can already tell
no she was not ready for sex. she was on her period and i was leaning in for a kiss and she didn't want to.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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dude if she said not now this is just a cuddle sesh with a big smile on her face, that's a dead giveaway. Ride the wave man, u both know it's happening, and I guarantee you she's excited to be on the beginning of a long slow wave of love....but beware the waves all end up in the same place...called a relationship one way or another lol...but maybe yall will find some middle ground this time around
and by ride the wave I don't mean verbalize anything about it to her. That's what crashes the wave prematurely
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Bullshit dude. You just acted weak. You gota warm chicks up. 2 steps forward one step back. Rub her leg/ tits, whatever and if she stops you then just stop for a bit, talk, and then go back to it. Eventually she'll be gushing like a waterfall and you'll be deep inside her sugar walls
Chicks will fuck you on their period if it doesn't bother you it won't bother them. Red wings brah
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Re: weird vibes from my ex [Re: berdinwall]
#22201558 - 09/07/15 11:26 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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How do you spoon her for four hours?
That's longer then a baseball game lol
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Do you not realize that OP and this girl have history?
And since when is it weak to respect a woman's desires and not force yourself upon her like a brute?
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Where did i say force yourself on her? Jesus christ you mangina types make me laugh on a daily.
Women have to be WARMED UP. If she says no but is still laying there then it means she's not ready YET, but if you keep WARMING HER UP she will be in no time.
It's basic stuff dude
Seen it work in my own life time and time again
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OhMrJohnson said: Do you not realize that OP and this girl have history?
And since when is it weak to respect a woman's desires and not force yourself upon her like a brute?
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She gave him a chance to fuck her for hours, but was too weak to go for it. OP missed out on some poon tang
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