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Anonymous #1

I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now
    #22195388 - 09/06/15 12:58 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

My friend has a kid with this girl and he's been selling cannabis for an extra income.

One of his customers is a girl that his girlfriend just..for some reason..doesn't like. She thinks she wants him or he wants her or they're fucking for some reason. My friend knows when I'm comfy with people I start to open up and talk a lot, but he asked me to bring a little bit of weed out from their apartment since he didn't want his girlfriend knowing he's selling to her.

So I chatted with this girl for about 45 minutes and my friend comes out, knocks on the door because I was taking too long, and his girlfriend followed him out unbeknownst to him. She recognized the car and got all pissed, threatened she was throwing all his stuff out and was going to call the police on him when he left. I remarked, 'Dude why do you put up with this? How is she gonna think this girl wants you when I'm the one sitting in the car with her for 45 minutes?' in front of his girlfriend in a hope-she-heard-that kind of way, we got my charger and immediately left.

On the way my friend never really said much. I kept apologizing and trying to get him to open up to me, but all he could really say is he's depressed, tired and just gonna go to bed. I asked him what he thinks is gonna happen between him and his girlfriend, he said he didn't care. I could kinda see some tears brewing in his eyes but he just hides all his emotions and wouldn't really say much other than that.

In the meantime his girlfriend called him on the phone and said she reported a car matching his car's description swerving all over the road. We got a little paranoid about cops but I dismissed this as bluff and suggested there is no way she could have actually done that, because that would mean she would have to lie to officers and say she also was driving to give a location where this all was occurring; there was no possible way she could know the route we were taking or know how far we'd made it.

But yeah this is all stuff that's happened before. She just explodes like this.. a lot.. and he's been my best friend since we were 11.. all the friends I've had in the meantime have fucked me over or we lost touch. I'd hate to not be friends with him over this shit. He doesn't act mad at me.. I just can't be sure. He didn't really say much of anything at all.. he just doesn't ever open up

and I don't know this is really just all my fault because I wanted to talk to a girl since I never really have any opportunitites to, I knew shes crazy and she was there with her friend. I just figured since she was with her friend that it wouldn't go down like that, but instead her friend took her side and acted like my friend must be up to something since I was outside for so long.. this is my life.. just me being me in my everyday, I have a way with fucking things up, and I'm a shitty friend


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Anonymous #1

Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22195406 - 09/06/15 01:07 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

By the way, I'm not sure if it's relevant but if anyone is curious, she told me she isn't interested in my friend. They probably don't have anything going on - his girlfriend is just paranoid.

No idea if the girl is interested in me either. She told me a lot about her life, more than I'd expected, but the few times I hit on her I'm not sure what she thought about it.

We didn't exchange any contact information, not that she couldn't find me on Facebook, and I'm not sure if we would have or not if my friend didn't show up. She was about to leave though right around the time he knocked on the door.


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Anonymous #2

Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22195430 - 09/06/15 01:19 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Sounds like your friends girl is a psycho.  No wonder hes depressed, on the verge of tears and does his best to hide his emotions.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #22196199 - 09/06/15 08:49 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

What's happening is entirely your friend's fault. He gave her to much power in the relationship and now she's has gotten used to be the boss. If you give a huge aquarium to a turtle, you'll end up with a huge turtle.

So tip to your friend. When she blows out like that, he has to put his foot down and tell her that he will not tolerate that shit anymore, that he is his own man and that he can do whatever he wants especially when it's completely innocent. Sure, he won't get fucked for a while, so just tell him to rub one out. It's the champagne of victory.

You have to give and take in a relationship and he gave too much for too long. It's time he takes back a little.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #22196349 - 09/06/15 09:37 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

This sounds like a story a 14-year old would tell.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #22196575 - 09/06/15 10:29 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Whoa your friend's girl is crazy as heck. This isn't your fault. You seem like a good friend to him. He seems like a good friend to you.

She's the problem. He either needs to do what Patlal says and buck up, or he needs to drop her.

Man, it bothers me when guys cry. Feels me with rage for some reason. Like maternally...


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Anonymous #4

Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #22196693 - 09/06/15 11:00 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
This sounds like a story a 14-year old would tell.




Yeah, I don't get what is happening here.  OP sounds like he's either really lonely, really dramatic, or both. 

OP, if you know that you're a "shitty friend" as you conclude your first post, maybe stop fucking with these people's lives?  They have a kid.  You recognize and admit to being "shitty", so maybe take your shittiness elsewhere and butt out of their family dynamic?  It seems precarious enough without you hanging around.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #22197072 - 09/06/15 12:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
Sounds like your friends girl is a psycho.  No wonder hes depressed, on the verge of tears and does his best to hide his emotions.



The first time I met her she got drunk off of one Mike's Hard Lemonade, started crying getting all emotional, opened up the car door at 15MPH, scraped her hand on the ground, then when my friend stopped the car she got out and ran off into an abandoned barn for him to chase her down and console her for 15 minutes while I waited in the car completely stunned about the whole situation.

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What's happening is entirely your friend's fault. He gave her to much power in the relationship and now she's has gotten used to be the boss. If you give a huge aquarium to a turtle, you'll end up with a huge turtle.

So tip to your friend. When she blows out like that, he has to put his foot down and tell her that he will not tolerate that shit anymore, that he is his own man and that he can do whatever he wants especially when it's completely innocent. Sure, he won't get fucked for a while, so just tell him to rub one out. It's the champagne of victory.

You have to give and take in a relationship and he gave too much for too long. It's time he takes back a little.



Definitely. If I were my friend I'd have left her 2 years ago...pretty much as soon as the relationship began. See anecdote above. This isn't even close to the first time she has taken something completely innocent and went psychotic about it. I've told him to put his foot down before, but he continues to let her 'ruin his life', as he put it earlier in the evening when we were going to grab some things at the store. They switch from 'Engaged' to 'Single' on Facebook based on whatever mood she's in at the time.

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This sounds like a story a 14-year old would tell.



No it doesn't. 14-year-olds typically don't have their own apartment they pay rent for, a girl they have a kid with, or a car they legally drive.

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Whoa your friend's girl is crazy as heck. This isn't your fault. You seem like a good friend to him. He seems like a good friend to you.

She's the problem. He either needs to do what Patlal says and buck up, or he needs to drop her.

Man, it bothers me when guys cry. Feels me with rage for some reason. Like maternally...



Yeah it really isn't my fault, I was just drunk last night when I wrote this and felt shitty because if I'd have just been in and out maybe this all could have been avoided. But she would just find something else to be psycho about later in the night, I'm sure.

For a while I quit hanging around him if she's around because shit is just easier that way, but then she settled down and hasn't been like this for about 6 months, so I let my guard down last night.

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Yeah, I don't get what is happening here.



I was drunk when I posted and I posted as soon as this all happened, so it isn't my best work.

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OP sounds like he's either really lonely, really dramatic, or both.



Is this meant to be some sort of cheeky insult? Everyone gets lonely it's a part of human nature, and yes if I weren't lonely I probably wouldn't have spent so long talking to a girl, but I liked the attention. Most of my friends are dudes and I'm too busy to have very many opportunities at talking to single girls. Dramatic? Sure, I'm not as dramatic as the psycho girl though, I just care a lot about my friend and didn't want him to be upset with me because of his psycho girlfriend. He's the only good friend I even have.

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OP, if you know that you're a "shitty friend" as you conclude your first post, maybe stop fucking with these people's lives?  They have a kid.  You recognize and admit to being "shitty", so maybe take your shittiness elsewhere and butt out of their family dynamic?  It seems precarious enough without you hanging around.



So what are you saying? I shouldn't be friends with him?


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Anonymous #3

Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22197284 - 09/06/15 01:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

This sounds like a story a [24-year old, with a mentality of a] 14-year old would tell.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #22197304 - 09/06/15 01:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
This sounds like a story a [24-year old, with a mentality of a] 14-year old would tell.



No, it doesn't. I'm not the one who went psycho like a 14-year-old in their first relationship would. The mentality of the storyteller from what you have to read is actually pretty ageless. No one would want a friend they've had since childhood to be mad at them in any age range.. The storyteller is in fact the most rational one in the entire write up.. besides maybe the girl he talked to which didn't play any part in the friend's girlfriend's meltdown besides existing.

If you don't have anything to contribute why even reply? Especially when you don't even know what you're talking about.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22197363 - 09/06/15 01:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Having dealt with my fair share of emotionally/mentally unstable chicks, he needs to get a better gf. From what you said he doesn't seem happy and maybe being single would be better than dealing with a crazy person. FUCK that on and off bullshit. Is he afraid that if he leaves her she'll rat or something? Or does he actually want to be with her even though she's nuts? What patlal said is spot on, he needs to stand his ground. At the very least say something like,"look blah blah, money is money. Whether it comes from a woman, man, black, white, asian, etc. It shouldn't matter ..."


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22197400 - 09/06/15 02:09 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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No, it doesn't.




Yes, it does.


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Anonymous #4

Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22197402 - 09/06/15 02:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Maybe your friend's girlfriend is stressed out because she lives with a drug dealer who has people she doesn't like coming to their home (even if just outside of it) and then when she expresses displeasure at this, he leaves her to go stay at your place, you being a person who is asking him in front of her how long he's going to put up with his child's mother.  And then she's stuck taking care of their child by herself because this guy can't just apologize for doing something that makes her uncomfortable.

You nail it when you confess to being a "shitty friend", you definitely are, but your friend sounds equally shitty.  And the girlfriend sounds spastic and shitty.  Bunch of shitty people doing shitty stuff.  It sucks most for their kid.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: newshroomer123]
    #22197580 - 09/06/15 02:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Having dealt with my fair share of emotionally/mentally unstable chicks, he needs to get a better gf. From what you said he doesn't seem happy and maybe being single would be better than dealing with a crazy person. FUCK that on and off bullshit. Is he afraid that if he leaves her she'll rat or something? Or does he actually want to be with her even though she's nuts? What patlal said is spot on, he needs to stand his ground. At the very least say something like,"look blah blah, money is money. Whether it comes from a woman, man, black, white, asian, etc. It shouldn't matter ..."




I'm not sure why they are together really. Out of all the time I've known him, she's the only actual girlfriend he's ever had that I can recall. He's really shy and doesn't have an easy time meeting girls or getting close with them, so I think this has a lot to do with it.

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Maybe your friend's girlfriend is stressed out because she lives with a drug dealer who has people she doesn't like coming to their home (even if just outside of it) and then when she expresses displeasure at this, he leaves her to go stay at your place, you being a person who is asking him in front of her how long he's going to put up with his child's mother.  And then she's stuck taking care of their child by herself because this guy can't just apologize for doing something that makes her uncomfortable.

You nail it when you confess to being a "shitty friend", you definitely are, but your friend sounds equally shitty.  And the girlfriend sounds spastic and shitty.  Bunch of shitty people doing shitty stuff.  It sucks most for their kid.



Are you saying we shouldn't have left? Well, I can agree with that. He's just had to deal with so much from her I don't really blame him. He's apologized to her left and right for things she should be apologizing to him for. He picked me up earlier in the evening so unless I wanted to be a part of the fight you think I should have shut my mouth in, then he had to take me home anyway. The kid wasn't there, but one of her friends was.

There is no logical reason for her not to like this girl other than she's controlling and insecure because she's better looking, and she doesn't care about anyone he sells weed to but this girl. He barely hangs out with anyone but me, while she goes to the club with a big group of her friends and stays out all night so he can watch the kid.

If you think I'm a shitty friend for saying he shouldn't put up with it well so be it, but all I see is a one-way relationship where she does what she wants and makes him her bitch. That isn't how relationships are supposed to go. He watches the kid more than her, makes more money than her, and gets treated like shit when he does nothing wrong. This is literally the worst thing he's done to her and in a healthy, normal relationship it wouldn't have even been an issue.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22197698 - 09/06/15 03:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I just don't see why you're so upset about what your friend has chosen for himself.  Like, it has nothing to do with you.  If their relationship is such a tinderbox, you'd be a good friend to stay out of it entirely.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22197709 - 09/06/15 03:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Get your own boy/girlfriend.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #22197738 - 09/06/15 03:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
Get your own boy/girlfriend.



I was trying to. That's what caused this whole thing to become what it did.

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I just don't see why you're so upset about what your friend has chosen for himself.  Like, it has nothing to do with you.  If their relationship is such a tinderbox, you'd be a good friend to stay out of it entirely.



That's why he brought me home, which you suggested he shouldn't have done.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22198095 - 09/06/15 04:23 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Wow. It's like people are mad at OP because of his friend's jerks girl. So apparently her friends can butt into the relationship but OP can't be an innocent standby?

if I'm not mistaken you were OUTSIDE ALONE WITH THE GIRL in the car and your friend came out bc you guys were too loud? Then jerks gf came out screaming for no reason about something she perceives to be some cheating conspiracy. Her friend is on her side. OP'S friend walks away and takes OP home.

Jesus Christ man... what does anon 3 & 4 not get?  It sounds like his gf is crazy and has a mental illness and takes it out on her boyfriend. If anything I would have thought shroomery members would be all over this defending OP'S friend from crazy female.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #22198241 - 09/06/15 04:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

OP needs to get a life seperate from other peoples' lives.

You can be an innocent standby - but that includes keeping your mouth shut.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #22199016 - 09/06/15 07:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Wow. It's like people are mad at OP because of his friend's jerks girl. So apparently her friends can butt into the relationship but OP can't be an innocent standby?

if I'm not mistaken you were OUTSIDE ALONE WITH THE GIRL in the car and your friend came out bc you guys were too loud? Then jerks gf came out screaming for no reason about something she perceives to be some cheating conspiracy. Her friend is on her side. OP'S friend walks away and takes OP home.

Jesus Christ man... what does anon 3 & 4 not get?  It sounds like his gf is crazy and has a mental illness and takes it out on her boyfriend. If anything I would have thought shroomery members would be all over this defending OP'S friend from crazy female.



Yep that's a good summary, except we weren't being loud, my friend just came out to check on me because I had been gone for so long. Me and the girl were inside the car and my friend was standing outside of the passenger window when his girl and her friend came out yelling at both of us. They followed him out because they were suspicious of me being gone so long. His girlfriend is naturally paranoid and automatically assumes the worst.

I wouldn't have said anything at all, which I guess now that's what #3 is complaining about, but she came out being all accusatory yelling at me and her boyfriend..plus I had been drinking. I literally made that one remark and that was it. I bet they'd do the same thing.

To me it seems like #3 and 4 didn't really read the story very closely and are filling the parts they don't understand with what they think happened. The more sober I get, the more I realize I didn't do a thing wrong.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #22199046 - 09/06/15 07:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
OP needs to get a life seperate from other peoples' lives.

You can be an innocent standby - but that includes keeping your mouth shut.



I stood up for him because I'm not a shitty friend and he didn't do anything wrong. Sorry to hear you would let your friends get walked all over. Good thing we aren't friends.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22199075 - 09/06/15 07:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You stood up for him because you're a nosey ninny.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Arctic W. Fox]
    #22199107 - 09/06/15 07:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

oh well so be it, that's how it goes when it literally involves me.....


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22199128 - 09/06/15 07:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

nosey people talk when they are uninvolved. I was directly involved in the incident.... so if youre gonna use words and have an opinion, it would probably help if you knew what they meant


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22199160 - 09/06/15 07:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

cant believe I read most of page one.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: abductee]
    #22199166 - 09/06/15 07:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

can't believe you posted just to say that


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22199219 - 09/06/15 08:06 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

when in rome


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: abductee]
    #22199235 - 09/06/15 08:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

hope it works out for tho, he didn't have to come outside if you were good friends. not your fault.


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Re: I just caused a shitstorm and I hope my friend doesn't hate me now [Re: abductee]
    #22199238 - 09/06/15 08:12 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

actually sounds like he was trying to cock block dude.lol


Edited by abductee (09/06/15 08:12 PM)


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